Is it true cancers will wait til yr ready to move

....on before trying to snag you? And WHY??!

Huh..so they'll get you thinking they're super into you and then risk losing you out of laziness? Seems priorities might be a bit outta whack here..interesting nonetheless, thanks.

Because we're cruel and selfish. If you're a sure thing we hit it then on to the next one. Or you're probably boring.

I don't know. You seem like a sweet fish. Tell this guy to jump off a bridge.

I am, thx. Not too worried about dude anymore, just curious about the motives behind what clearly seems like mindfuckery. I would say cruel and selfish but hey, thatd be cruel.

It could be a case of "dont know what you've got till it's gone." I've done it and have gone through it. I think the males go through this more than the females.

You can say that again! Hahaaa quite the opposite..

Yea seems the men are constantly dwelling on what could e been with someone else, when they're with someone new. Frustrating..

Depends on the man, at some point they will realize it is a waste of time to dwell at that point there is some learning and the maturity level goes up

I'm a cancer and I've done this twice, but not knowing they actually met someone new. In both situations I wasn't fully ready and I asked us to take it slow and they took it as I didn't want them, but when I felt them trying to leave I straightened up to fly right :/

Good to know rabid..and also ssasy!

Really wish i could speed up the dwelling process! And the processing process...any tips on how to get em to see the light?

Because they are feeling you out and like rabbid said they let things fall where fate let's them and they like people to love them for them and not their body or money or brains or niceness so they rarely do the chasing. But don't get me wrong these crabs can be blunt and in your face when they really see a urge to.

Yea, you know my sitch tho starchild, I'm at max capacity here for what I can take or wait around for..mixed messages..yawn...tiresome.

O. Take it to the max and do the first thing that you feel you should do. This is the time only your intuition can help you. He's a cancer so he'll get it. First tell him your intuition told you to do it then do it. He might laugh then start feeling for you again,

You've never steared me wrong

Lol don't make me responsible. Like I said I just answer based on what my old friends advice and thoughts was and other cancers I know. But romantic things like that with someone they love makes them want to have babies.

Haha! I told him I missed him, he said he missed me too...that be all..

^^^ I thought he was MIA... (am i mixing stories—) so it means he is talking to you again!

Good! Don't leave it there now hit hard and have a straight up talk. You need to do it now before his mind goes somewhere else them your going to have to build the communication back up again and wait. Don't prolong it

No fullwater hes been back and forth..and back again..last development y'all...he told me he loved me again and again (but was drunk) and still managed to talk abt his fucking ex!!! He also cried..this is a tad bit confusing...i love him very much but didn't tell him cuz I was afraid he didn't mean it.. Then he seemed to backtrack...so there's THAT.

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I am, thx. Not too worried about dude anymore, just curious about the motives behind what clearly seems like mindfuckery. I would say cruel and selfish but hey, thatd be cruel.

If it feels like a game then it is. Good for you. Wishing you happiness.

Definitely feels like he's playin games with my heart. Yes..