Can't seem to get it right!

Any cancers out there feel like they unconsciously sabotage their happiness?

I've dated an Aqua and now a Sag and I feel fully responsible for these relationships failing. Both of these two were good to me....
Currently feeling like shit _ ? all over again.

Posted by beautifuldiaster
Why are you responsible?

Well I tend to get a bit controlling and compulsive and also not appreciative of what I have until it's gone.

Read my previous post about sag I think that's completely over she's gone very cold on me

Posted by beautifuldiaster
Oh yeah.

Que sera.

Find something to inspire you.

A movie. A song. Play the saddest thing you know loud, take a bath and maybe get good and drunk. Think. Write. Call your best friend. Laugh really hard until you cry. Go run until you think you'll die.

Do anything you can to feel alive and figure out who you are because you are beautiful and human and deserving of love.

Do these or do something crazy! The time calls for it.

Thank you!

Are you in the same place ?

Hello everyone, I hope you don't mind me posting in the Cancer Forum. In the past I have only come here to read everyone's post (doing the old Aqua observant thingy); however, this is my first time ever posting.

I'm sorry to hear that you all are or have had such a hard time in your relationships. I think sometimes people can give so much of themselves that the other party involved seems to take their love for granted.

Loving relationships are based on two people who love and respect one another. So having said that, just know that you were not the only one involved in the relationship; neither should you shoulder all the blame. There's nothing wrong with the way you love, you just need someone who can handle your all consuming type of love and return the same to you.

Dont mind at all, Welcome AquaCancerMoon 🙂

Best foot forward when in love. Give it all you've got so if it doesn't work you won't regret it.

I totally feel this. I am a Cancer and for sometime I had been into an aqua, we had this great thing going but i think I began to over think things, having peoples opinions in my head and at the weekend I snapped, told him how i felt about us and how i felt about him in the hope that he would finally help clear up all the questions i had etc. But he just seemed to shut down on me. He has been quiet for the past three days and I just feel an emotional wreck. I keep thinking that for all that we had over the past 6/7months and he just disappears no word nothing. I mean wouldnt it have been better to have just said i dont feel the same way or just say what he wanted to say rather than just keeping quiet. Its the silence that is killing me more. arrrgggghhhh. I keep thinking i should have kept quiet about everything but on the other hand that would not have been fair to me either. I really just dont know what to do. Now all my insecurities from previous relationships are all coming right out!!!

Posted by AquaCancerMoon
Hello everyone, I hope you don't mind me posting in the Cancer Forum. In the past I have only come here to read everyone's post (doing the old Aqua observant thingy); however, this is my first time ever posting.

I'm sorry to hear that you all are or have had such a hard time in your relationships. I think sometimes people can give so much of themselves that the other party involved seems to take their love for granted.

Loving relationships are based on two people who love and respect one another. So having said that, just know that you were not the only one involved in the relationship; neither should you shoulder all the blame. There's nothing wrong with the way you love, you just need someone who can handle your all consuming type of love and return the same to you.

Dear Cancer, your aqua is going to drive you NUTS!
If you want find all my threads from day 1 about my Aqua and you will see many similarities.
Although mine was a female, the intensity that most cancers spoke of was there. I loved her dearly but she drove me nuts!
Good luck!

IMO, Cancers can get an Aquarius to drop their guard rather quickly. There is just something about you wonderful people. 🙂 But, the emotional connection for us air people can be very overwhelming and I think we tend to shy away when confronted with these strong emotions.

Posted by AquaCancerMoon
IMO, Cancers can get an Aquarius to drop their guard rather quickly. There is just something about you wonderful people. 🙂 But, the emotional connection for us air people can be very overwhelming and I think we tend to shy away when confronted with these strong emotions.

My Aqua and I broke up, well she left. And it was all about trust, I did get her to drop her guard but she has incredible trust issues and insecure issues and always questioned my intentions, we have both moved on, I was the first for her for alot of thngs shell always be 1 of the happier places in my lfe, but its the past now...I will always wish her well, I believe she will prob look back 1day and realize she made a mistake.

& realize I was truly a good person.