I'm Scorpio, why cancer man just dropped me off so quickly?

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We've met 2 years ago in his workplace, I was doing an intern of where he works; yes we did have our normal minimal conversation like the others. But i knew back then that he did have feelings for me, I just don't want to make it obvious for him that i knew.

Last week we bump into each other after 2 years without hearing from one another and we suddenly HIT IT OFF straight away! met him twice last week.

Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.

I didn't do anything wrong yet. wasn't even pushing/obligating him with whatever that is you called between two people. I was just acting NORMAL nothing complicated and then 'BYE' without hearing from him?
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How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
Well, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.


How did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.
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His very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.



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Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.


You said something to him that possibly hurt his feelings. He's crawling back into his shell.

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Oh no I didn't said anything hurtful! all i did was sent him an image of 'Lucia Fontana' artwork of how he reminds of the artist he had spoken about that was related to Fontana.

We said goodnight to each other that evening, then he said 'BYE' ?
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Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.


You said something to him that possibly hurt his feelings. He's crawling back into his shell.


Oh no I didn't said anything hurtful! all i did was sent him an image of 'Lucia Fontana' artwork of how he reminds of the artist he had spoken about that was related to Fontana.

We said goodnight to each other that evening, then he said 'BYE' at the same time ?
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How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
Well, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.


How did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.
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I don't know, what really happened. I didn't do anything wrong, we were so good that 2 days with each other.



NO idea why his doing that but OK!
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How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
Well, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.


How did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.
I don't know, what really happened. I didn't do anything wrong, we were so good that 2 days with each other.



NO idea why his doing that but OK!
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You still haven't answered my questions. How can I give you insight if you don't give me the full story. Sigh.
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How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
Well, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.


How did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.
I don't know, what really happened. I didn't do anything wrong, we were so good that 2 days with each other.



NO idea why his doing that but OK!
You still haven't answered my questions. How can I give you insight if you don't give me the full story. Sigh.

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I did ! you've missed the 1st answer i gave you before this?
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How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
Well, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.


How did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.
His very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.



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THIS IS THE ANSWER! 😄

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Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.


You said something to him that possibly hurt his feelings. He's crawling back into his shell.


Oh no I didn't said anything hurtful! all i did was sent him an image of 'Lucia Fontana' artwork of how he reminds of the artist he had spoken about that was related to Fontana.

We said goodnight to each other that evening, then he said 'BYE' ?
I hope he's good looking lol

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Too bad i don't fall for looks. I'm more into BRAIN. He might not have the looks but he do carry his brain around 😄
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How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
Well, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.


How did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.
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His very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.
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Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.


You said something to him that possibly hurt his feelings. He's crawling back into his shell.


Oh no I didn't said anything hurtful! all i did was sent him an image of 'Lucia Fontana' artwork of how he reminds of the artist he had spoken about that was related to Fontana.

We said goodnight to each other that evening, then he said 'BYE' ?
I hope he's good looking lol


Too bad i don't fall for looks. I'm more into BRAIN. He might not have the looks but he do carry his brain around 😄


I meant that about the guy who is related to Fontana you were comparing him to. If he's not attractive, well

you just indirectly told him he was unattractive.

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Noooo, I'm comparing the subject we had spoken about an ARTIST. Not Fontana and HIM. It's an artist and another artist figure.

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How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
Well, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.


How did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.


His very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.

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That's indicative of him being INTERESTED in you. Doesn't mean he has FEELINGS. Any other examples you have that support your theory that he has feelings towards you?
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How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
Well, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.


How did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.


His very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.


That's indicative of him being INTERESTED in you. Doesn't mean he has FEELINGS. Any other examples you have that support your theory that he has feelings towards you?
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it's not Theory, its the actions he had showed me, also from last week that he did told me he have feelings for me. He wouldn't come out with a question ''Did you ever like me?'' because he did admit.

He admitted himself to me Ok.. hell i know for sure. because you just know.
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Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.


You said something to him that possibly hurt his feelings. He's crawling back into his shell.


Oh no I didn't said anything hurtful! all i did was sent him an image of 'Lucia Fontana' artwork of how he reminds of the artist he had spoken about that was related to Fontana.

We said goodnight to each other that evening, then he said 'BYE' ?
I hope he's good looking lol


Too bad i don't fall for looks. I'm more into BRAIN. He might not have the looks but he do carry his brain around 😄


I meant that about the guy who is related to Fontana you were comparing him to. If he's not attractive, well

you just indirectly told him he was unattractive.


Noooo, I'm comparing the subject we had spoken about an ARTIST. Not Fontana and HIM. It's an artist and another artist figure.


I didn't say Fontana and him. I get what you're saying, but I still think you might have hurt his feelings

somewhere in your convo.

When I capitalize my words, it's for emphasis or because I'm mad lol

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Somewhere in my convo?

Like complementing his surroundings that he had the most comfortable room around?

telling him goodnight and sleep well?

is it that bad?

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That's what we do to Trash.
why, we're you that confident that you weren't even trash yourself. If someone did that to you too?

because I don't think it's a 'TRASH' or did you just came here to discriminate people because you've been there ?
im just hating for the sake of hate.
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well, that's not my problem if you had that strong 'HATE' on someone else or yourself. Do me a favour i do HATE too but not in the way you put up.
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How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
Well, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.


How did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.


His very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.


That's indicative of him being INTERESTED in you. Doesn't mean he has FEELINGS. Any other examples you have that support your theory that he has feelings towards you?
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Ok, so if you think is just indicative of him being interested on me (which you might think it's not), what's you theory?

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That's what we do to Trash.
why, we're you that confident that you weren't even trash yourself. If someone did that to you too?

because I don't think it's a 'TRASH' or did you just came here to discriminate people because you've been there ?
im just hating for the sake of hate.
well, that's not my problem if you had that strong 'HATE' on someone else or yourself. Do me a favour i do HATE too but not in the way you put up.
GO CRY A RIVER, CRAB GONE.
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too bad, i wanted too but won't let me cry...there's nothing to cry for-

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From a fellow Scorp, I say don't fret. Two days don't really matter, if someone likes you, they'll be back around. If not, then you wouldn't have wanted to get more caught up in them anyways.

I understand wanting to analyze to the point of breaking down each word and action. It brings comfort. And honestly Scorpios like things that stimulate us on an emotional and intellectual level, so analyzing is fun for us in a way.

If you're comfortable, why not reach out in a way that makes you feel comfortable? You're a water sign, you know how nice it feels to have the reassurance that someone is thinking of you when you're not around. Could be to ask him out or just to say hi. Make sure it's not so much that you get angry if you don't get a response though lol. Us scorpios can be rather expectant.

Best of luck. ?
Agree, I shouldn't fret since it's only for 2 days. Yes, I don't want to get caught up and that's why i'm here for because I do not want to go through that again 😢

hmm, I'd leave it just like that even if it means to him by ending it with just one word. Don't want to over analyze it anymore by saying 'BYE' to me for no reasons.
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How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
Well, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.


How did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.
I don't know, what really happened. I didn't do anything wrong, we were so good that 2 days with each other.



NO idea why his doing that but OK!
You still haven't answered my questions. How can I give you insight if you don't give me the full story. Sigh.



It doesn't matter how. he admitted it two weeks ago that he had feelings for her. And if she was like whatever I said bye I'm not risking getting rejection all over again

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He admitted to being interested in her. He never admitted to having feelings.
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How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
Well, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.


How did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.


His very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.


That's indicative of him being INTERESTED in you. Doesn't mean he has FEELINGS. Any other examples you have that support your theory that he has feelings towards you?
Ok, so if you think is just indicative of him being interested on me (which you might think it's not), what's you theory?

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It's obvious to me that your much more invested than him. Pull back emotionally and let him prove his interest. Don't attribute feelings where there is none.
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How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
Well, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.


How did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.


His very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.


That's indicative of him being INTERESTED in you. Doesn't mean he has FEELINGS. Any other examples you have that support your theory that he has feelings towards you?
Ok, so if you think is just indicative of him being interested on me (which you might think it's not), what's you theory?


It's obvious to me that your much more invested than him. Pull back emotionally and let him prove his interest. Don't attribute feelings where there is none.
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Hmmm, excuse me?

you asked me questions and I answered honestly but that doesn't mean that i was more invested than him;

like seriously! your assuming that his only interested but doesn't have feelings for me. I just don't understand why you ask such questions when you can't in fact understand what topic was all about. sigh-
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How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
Well, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.


How did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.
I don't know, what really happened. I didn't do anything wrong, we were so good that 2 days with each other.



NO idea why his doing that but OK!
You still haven't answered my questions. How can I give you insight if you don't give me the full story. Sigh.



It doesn't matter how. he admitted it two weeks ago that he had feelings for her. And if she was like whatever I said bye I'm not risking getting rejection all over again

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It wasn't two weeks ago, was in fact last week when he admitted it and I knew it all along back then that he does have feelings and interested to get to know me 2 years ago but I wasn't interested back then. So since we bump into each other unexpectedly last week and spend time together for 2 days and that was it!.

To clear the misunderstanding here, I wasn't the one who said 'BYE' he was and then I knew it all along that was it for me and him. So clearly I didn't do anything wrong to make him feel that way.
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How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
Well, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.


How did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.


His very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.


That's indicative of him being INTERESTED in you. Doesn't mean he has FEELINGS. Any other examples you have that support your theory that he has feelings towards you?
Ok, so if you think is just indicative of him being interested on me (which you might think it's not), what's you theory?


It's obvious to me that your much more invested than him. Pull back emotionally and let him prove his interest. Don't attribute feelings where there is none.


Hmmm, excuse me?

you asked me questions and I answered honestly but that doesn't mean that i was more invested than him;

like seriously! your assuming that his only interested but doesn't have feelings for me. I just don't understand why you ask such questions when you can't in fact understand what topic was all about. sigh-
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and to give you more precise answer, He does in fact have feelings for me (not just being interested). But then again I wasn't the one who jeopardize the situation. I did not do anything wrong to make him or say something like that to me.

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Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.


You said something to him that possibly hurt his feelings. He's crawling back into his shell.




Oh no I didn't said anything hurtful! all i did was sent him an image of 'Lucia Fontana' artwork of how he reminds of the artist he had spoken about that was related to Fontana.

We said goodnight to each other that evening, then he said 'BYE' ?
I hope he's good looking lol


Too bad i don't fall for looks. I'm more into BRAIN. He might not have the looks but he do carry his brain around 😄


I meant that about the guy who is related to Fontana you were comparing him to. If he's not attractive, well

you just indirectly told him he was unattractive.


Noooo, I'm comparing the subject we had spoken about an ARTIST. Not Fontana and HIM. It's an artist and another artist figure.


I didn't say Fontana and him. I get what you're saying, but I still think you might have hurt his feelings

somewhere in your convo.

When I capitalize my words, it's for emphasis or because I'm mad lol


Somewhere in my convo?

Like complementing his surroundings that he had the most comfortable room around?

telling him goodnight and sleep well?

is it that bad?


My apologies, I initially misunderstood the artist comparison. Too many things on my mind 😐

Well, it doesn't sound bad at all. Did you contact him after he said 'BYE'



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No since it's been only 2 days (3days now), but that last message he sent me was in fact just giving me a clear answer that's the end of it, isn't it?
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How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
Well, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.


How did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.
I don't know, what really happened. I didn't do anything wrong, we were so good that 2 days with each other.



NO idea why his doing that but OK!
You still haven't answered my questions. How can I give you insight if you don't give me the full story. Sigh.



It doesn't matter how. he admitted it two weeks ago that he had feelings for her. And if she was like whatever I said bye I'm not risking getting rejection all over again



He admitted to being interested in her. He never admitted to having feelings.

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Funny how you manipulate it. LOOL.



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Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.


You said something to him that possibly hurt his feelings. He's crawling back into his shell.




Oh no I didn't said anything hurtful! all i did was sent him an image of 'Lucia Fontana' artwork of how he reminds of the artist he had spoken about that was related to Fontana.

We said goodnight to each other that evening, then he said 'BYE' ?
I hope he's good looking lol


Too bad i don't fall for looks. I'm more into BRAIN. He might not have the looks but he do carry his brain around 😄


I meant that about the guy who is related to Fontana you were comparing him to. If he's not attractive, well

you just indirectly told him he was unattractive.


Noooo, I'm comparing the subject we had spoken about an ARTIST. Not Fontana and HIM. It's an artist and another artist figure.


I didn't say Fontana and him. I get what you're saying, but I still think you might have hurt his feelings

somewhere in your convo.

When I capitalize my words, it's for emphasis or because I'm mad lol


Somewhere in my convo?

Like complementing his surroundings that he had the most comfortable room around?

telling him goodnight and sleep well?

is it that bad?


My apologies, I initially misunderstood the artist comparison. Too many things on my mind 😐

Well, it doesn't sound bad at all. Did you contact him after he said 'BYE'




No since it's been only 2 days (3days now), but that last message he sent me was in fact just giving me a clear answer that's the end of it, isn't it?


No it's not. I think he's just upset and I'm not sure why. You should contact him.

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it's not, why do you think it isn't?

To be frank with you, there's nothing to get upset with just complements. NO?



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Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.


You said something to him that possibly hurt his feelings. He's crawling back into his shell.




Oh no I didn't said anything hurtful! all i did was sent him an image of 'Lucia Fontana' artwork of how he reminds of the artist he had spoken about that was related to Fontana.

We said goodnight to each other that evening, then he said 'BYE' ?
I hope he's good looking lol


Too bad i don't fall for looks. I'm more into BRAIN. He might not have the looks but he do carry his brain around 😄


I meant that about the guy who is related to Fontana you were comparing him to. If he's not attractive, well

you just indirectly told him he was unattractive.


Noooo, I'm comparing the subject we had spoken about an ARTIST. Not Fontana and HIM. It's an artist and another artist figure.


I didn't say Fontana and him. I get what you're saying, but I still think you might have hurt his feelings

somewhere in your convo.

When I capitalize my words, it's for emphasis or because I'm mad lol


Somewhere in my convo?

Like complementing his surroundings that he had the most comfortable room around?

telling him goodnight and sleep well?

is it that bad?


My apologies, I initially misunderstood the artist comparison. Too many things on my mind 😐

Well, it doesn't sound bad at all. Did you contact him after he said 'BYE'




No since it's been only 2 days (3days now), but that last message he sent me was in fact just giving me a clear answer that's the end of it, isn't it?


No it's not. I think he's just upset and I'm not sure why. You should contact him.


it's not, why do you think it isn't?

To be frank with you, there's nothing to get upset with just complements. NO?



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or probably I said 'BYE' to him too. did he really get upset?
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Posted by Skye
Just contact the guy already and say how are you, and see what his response is.

You said the last thing he said was BYE and hasn't contacted you since 2-3 days, so text him

and find out what's wrong. It's really as simple as that.
Thank you so much but I'm in no place to do that. Im just curious the fact that It's so easy for them to used someone so easily. Didn't expect that to my fellow Water sign.

CRUEL.