vesper
@vesper
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Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?

Posted by vesperHow did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
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Posted by LadyNeptuneHis very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.Posted by vesperHow did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
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Posted by SkyeOh no I didn't said anything hurtful! all i did was sent him an image of 'Lucia Fontana' artwork of how he reminds of the artist he had spoken about that was related to Fontana.Posted by vesper
Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.
You said something to him that possibly hurt his feelings. He's crawling back into his shell.
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Posted by vesperPosted by SkyeOh no I didn't said anything hurtful! all i did was sent him an image of 'Lucia Fontana' artwork of how he reminds of the artist he had spoken about that was related to Fontana.Posted by vesper
Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.
You said something to him that possibly hurt his feelings. He's crawling back into his shell.
We said goodnight to each other that evening, then he said 'BYE' at the same time ?click to expand
Posted by ChrisIsKodakwhat do you know?
Lol BYE.
Posted by LadyNeptuneI don't know, what really happened. I didn't do anything wrong, we were so good that 2 days with each other.Posted by vesperHow did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
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Posted by ChrisIsKodakThen F**** off innit!Posted by vesperI said BYEEEEEEPosted by ChrisIsKodakwhat do you know?
Lol BYE.
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Posted by vesperYou still haven't answered my questions. How can I give you insight if you don't give me the full story. Sigh.Posted by LadyNeptuneI don't know, what really happened. I didn't do anything wrong, we were so good that 2 days with each other.Posted by vesperHow did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
NO idea why his doing that but OK!click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneI did ! you've missed the 1st answer i gave you before this?Posted by vesperYou still haven't answered my questions. How can I give you insight if you don't give me the full story. Sigh.Posted by LadyNeptuneI don't know, what really happened. I didn't do anything wrong, we were so good that 2 days with each other.Posted by vesperHow did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
NO idea why his doing that but OK!
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Posted by vesperTHIS IS THE ANSWER! 😄Posted by LadyNeptuneHis very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.Posted by vesperHow did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
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Posted by SkyeToo bad i don't fall for looks. I'm more into BRAIN. He might not have the looks but he do carry his brain around 😄Posted by vesperI hope he's good looking lolPosted by SkyeOh no I didn't said anything hurtful! all i did was sent him an image of 'Lucia Fontana' artwork of how he reminds of the artist he had spoken about that was related to Fontana.Posted by vesper
Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.
You said something to him that possibly hurt his feelings. He's crawling back into his shell.
We said goodnight to each other that evening, then he said 'BYE' ?
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Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by vesperHow did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
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Posted by SkyeNoooo, I'm comparing the subject we had spoken about an ARTIST. Not Fontana and HIM. It's an artist and another artist figure.Posted by vesperI meant that about the guy who is related to Fontana you were comparing him to. If he's not attractive, wellPosted by SkyeToo bad i don't fall for looks. I'm more into BRAIN. He might not have the looks but he do carry his brain around 😄Posted by vesperI hope he's good looking lolPosted by SkyeOh no I didn't said anything hurtful! all i did was sent him an image of 'Lucia Fontana' artwork of how he reminds of the artist he had spoken about that was related to Fontana.Posted by vesper
Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.
You said something to him that possibly hurt his feelings. He's crawling back into his shell.
We said goodnight to each other that evening, then he said 'BYE' ?
you just indirectly told him he was unattractive.
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Posted by vesperThat's indicative of him being INTERESTED in you. Doesn't mean he has FEELINGS. Any other examples you have that support your theory that he has feelings towards you?Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by vesperHow did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
His very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.
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Posted by LadyNeptuneit's not Theory, its the actions he had showed me, also from last week that he did told me he have feelings for me. He wouldn't come out with a question ''Did you ever like me?'' because he did admit.Posted by vesperThat's indicative of him being INTERESTED in you. Doesn't mean he has FEELINGS. Any other examples you have that support your theory that he has feelings towards you?Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by vesperHow did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
His very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeewhy, we're you that confident that you weren't even trash yourself. If someone did that to you too?
That's what we do to Trash.
Posted by SkyeSomewhere in my convo?Posted by vesperI didn't say Fontana and him. I get what you're saying, but I still think you might have hurt his feelingsPosted by SkyeNoooo, I'm comparing the subject we had spoken about an ARTIST. Not Fontana and HIM. It's an artist and another artist figure.Posted by vesperI meant that about the guy who is related to Fontana you were comparing him to. If he's not attractive, wellPosted by SkyeToo bad i don't fall for looks. I'm more into BRAIN. He might not have the looks but he do carry his brain around 😄Posted by vesperI hope he's good looking lolPosted by SkyeOh no I didn't said anything hurtful! all i did was sent him an image of 'Lucia Fontana' artwork of how he reminds of the artist he had spoken about that was related to Fontana.Posted by vesper
Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.
You said something to him that possibly hurt his feelings. He's crawling back into his shell.
We said goodnight to each other that evening, then he said 'BYE' ?
you just indirectly told him he was unattractive.
somewhere in your convo.
When I capitalize my words, it's for emphasis or because I'm mad lol
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeewell, that's not my problem if you had that strong 'HATE' on someone else or yourself. Do me a favour i do HATE too but not in the way you put up.Posted by vesperim just hating for the sake of hate.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeewhy, we're you that confident that you weren't even trash yourself. If someone did that to you too?
That's what we do to Trash.
because I don't think it's a 'TRASH' or did you just came here to discriminate people because you've been there ?click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneOk, so if you think is just indicative of him being interested on me (which you might think it's not), what's you theory?Posted by vesperThat's indicative of him being INTERESTED in you. Doesn't mean he has FEELINGS. Any other examples you have that support your theory that he has feelings towards you?Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by vesperHow did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
His very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeePosted by vesperGO CRY A RIVER, CRAB GONE.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeewell, that's not my problem if you had that strong 'HATE' on someone else or yourself. Do me a favour i do HATE too but not in the way you put up.Posted by vesperim just hating for the sake of hate.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeewhy, we're you that confident that you weren't even trash yourself. If someone did that to you too?
That's what we do to Trash.
because I don't think it's a 'TRASH' or did you just came here to discriminate people because you've been there ?click to expand

Posted by taurusgoddessAw, OK it's just we're both water signs. Obviously we do have the connection but then again nvm...
That's cancer. Complete nightmare. DON'T date one again. EVER.
Posted by EllygantAgree, I shouldn't fret since it's only for 2 days. Yes, I don't want to get caught up and that's why i'm here for because I do not want to go through that again 😢
From a fellow Scorp, I say don't fret. Two days don't really matter, if someone likes you, they'll be back around. If not, then you wouldn't have wanted to get more caught up in them anyways.
I understand wanting to analyze to the point of breaking down each word and action. It brings comfort. And honestly Scorpios like things that stimulate us on an emotional and intellectual level, so analyzing is fun for us in a way.
If you're comfortable, why not reach out in a way that makes you feel comfortable? You're a water sign, you know how nice it feels to have the reassurance that someone is thinking of you when you're not around. Could be to ask him out or just to say hi. Make sure it's not so much that you get angry if you don't get a response though lol. Us scorpios can be rather expectant.
Best of luck. ?

Posted by ImpulsvPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by vesperYou still haven't answered my questions. How can I give you insight if you don't give me the full story. Sigh.Posted by LadyNeptuneI don't know, what really happened. I didn't do anything wrong, we were so good that 2 days with each other.Posted by vesperHow did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
NO idea why his doing that but OK!
It doesn't matter how. he admitted it two weeks ago that he had feelings for her. And if she was like whatever I said bye I'm not risking getting rejection all over again
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Posted by vesperIt's obvious to me that your much more invested than him. Pull back emotionally and let him prove his interest. Don't attribute feelings where there is none.Posted by LadyNeptuneOk, so if you think is just indicative of him being interested on me (which you might think it's not), what's you theory?Posted by vesperThat's indicative of him being INTERESTED in you. Doesn't mean he has FEELINGS. Any other examples you have that support your theory that he has feelings towards you?Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by vesperHow did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
His very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeNow I get what you're saying.
That's what we do to Trash.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by vesperIt's obvious to me that your much more invested than him. Pull back emotionally and let him prove his interest. Don't attribute feelings where there is none.Posted by LadyNeptuneOk, so if you think is just indicative of him being interested on me (which you might think it's not), what's you theory?Posted by vesperThat's indicative of him being INTERESTED in you. Doesn't mean he has FEELINGS. Any other examples you have that support your theory that he has feelings towards you?Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by vesperHow did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
His very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.
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Posted by ImpulsvIt wasn't two weeks ago, was in fact last week when he admitted it and I knew it all along back then that he does have feelings and interested to get to know me 2 years ago but I wasn't interested back then. So since we bump into each other unexpectedly last week and spend time together for 2 days and that was it!.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by vesperYou still haven't answered my questions. How can I give you insight if you don't give me the full story. Sigh.Posted by LadyNeptuneI don't know, what really happened. I didn't do anything wrong, we were so good that 2 days with each other.Posted by vesperHow did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
NO idea why his doing that but OK!
It doesn't matter how. he admitted it two weeks ago that he had feelings for her. And if she was like whatever I said bye I'm not risking getting rejection all over again
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Posted by vesperand to give you more precise answer, He does in fact have feelings for me (not just being interested). But then again I wasn't the one who jeopardize the situation. I did not do anything wrong to make him or say something like that to me.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by vesperIt's obvious to me that your much more invested than him. Pull back emotionally and let him prove his interest. Don't attribute feelings where there is none.Posted by LadyNeptuneOk, so if you think is just indicative of him being interested on me (which you might think it's not), what's you theory?Posted by vesperThat's indicative of him being INTERESTED in you. Doesn't mean he has FEELINGS. Any other examples you have that support your theory that he has feelings towards you?Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by vesperHow did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
His very quite, he doesn't talk to anyone not unless its something related to a job. But he comes to me, approached me, asked questions about me etc. I remember he wanted to have a drink or at least hang out but I keep refusing and turning him down- again that was 2 years ago.
Hmmm, excuse me?
you asked me questions and I answered honestly but that doesn't mean that i was more invested than him;
like seriously! your assuming that his only interested but doesn't have feelings for me. I just don't understand why you ask such questions when you can't in fact understand what topic was all about. sigh-click to expand
Posted by SkyeNo since it's been only 2 days (3days now), but that last message he sent me was in fact just giving me a clear answer that's the end of it, isn't it?Posted by vesperMy apologies, I initially misunderstood the artist comparison. Too many things on my mind 😐Posted by SkyeSomewhere in my convo?Posted by vesperI didn't say Fontana and him. I get what you're saying, but I still think you might have hurt his feelingsPosted by SkyeNoooo, I'm comparing the subject we had spoken about an ARTIST. Not Fontana and HIM. It's an artist and another artist figure.Posted by vesperI meant that about the guy who is related to Fontana you were comparing him to. If he's not attractive, wellPosted by SkyeToo bad i don't fall for looks. I'm more into BRAIN. He might not have the looks but he do carry his brain around 😄Posted by vesperI hope he's good looking lolPosted by SkyePosted by vesper
Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.
You said something to him that possibly hurt his feelings. He's crawling back into his shell.
Oh no I didn't said anything hurtful! all i did was sent him an image of 'Lucia Fontana' artwork of how he reminds of the artist he had spoken about that was related to Fontana.
We said goodnight to each other that evening, then he said 'BYE' ?
you just indirectly told him he was unattractive.
somewhere in your convo.
When I capitalize my words, it's for emphasis or because I'm mad lol
Like complementing his surroundings that he had the most comfortable room around?
telling him goodnight and sleep well?
is it that bad?
Well, it doesn't sound bad at all. Did you contact him after he said 'BYE'
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Posted by LadyNeptuneFunny how you manipulate it. LOOL.Posted by ImpulsvPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by vesperYou still haven't answered my questions. How can I give you insight if you don't give me the full story. Sigh.Posted by LadyNeptuneI don't know, what really happened. I didn't do anything wrong, we were so good that 2 days with each other.Posted by vesperHow did he make it obvious. Give me an example or two.Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, He pretty much made it obvious for me back then but I wasn't interested with him 2 years ago and admitted when we bump into each other last week.
How did you know he 'had feelings' for you?
NO idea why his doing that but OK!
It doesn't matter how. he admitted it two weeks ago that he had feelings for her. And if she was like whatever I said bye I'm not risking getting rejection all over again
He admitted to being interested in her. He never admitted to having feelings.
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Posted by SkyeAquarius, why?
Where's his moon?
Posted by Skyeit's not, why do you think it isn't?Posted by vesperNo it's not. I think he's just upset and I'm not sure why. You should contact him.Posted by SkyeNo since it's been only 2 days (3days now), but that last message he sent me was in fact just giving me a clear answer that's the end of it, isn't it?Posted by vesperMy apologies, I initially misunderstood the artist comparison. Too many things on my mind 😐Posted by SkyeSomewhere in my convo?Posted by vesperI didn't say Fontana and him. I get what you're saying, but I still think you might have hurt his feelingsPosted by SkyeNoooo, I'm comparing the subject we had spoken about an ARTIST. Not Fontana and HIM. It's an artist and another artist figure.Posted by vesperI meant that about the guy who is related to Fontana you were comparing him to. If he's not attractive, wellPosted by SkyeToo bad i don't fall for looks. I'm more into BRAIN. He might not have the looks but he do carry his brain around 😄Posted by vesperI hope he's good looking lolPosted by SkyePosted by vesper
Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.
You said something to him that possibly hurt his feelings. He's crawling back into his shell.
Oh no I didn't said anything hurtful! all i did was sent him an image of 'Lucia Fontana' artwork of how he reminds of the artist he had spoken about that was related to Fontana.
We said goodnight to each other that evening, then he said 'BYE' ?
you just indirectly told him he was unattractive.
somewhere in your convo.
When I capitalize my words, it's for emphasis or because I'm mad lol
Like complementing his surroundings that he had the most comfortable room around?
telling him goodnight and sleep well?
is it that bad?
Well, it doesn't sound bad at all. Did you contact him after he said 'BYE'
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Posted by vesperor probably I said 'BYE' to him too. did he really get upset?Posted by Skyeit's not, why do you think it isn't?Posted by vesperNo it's not. I think he's just upset and I'm not sure why. You should contact him.Posted by SkyeNo since it's been only 2 days (3days now), but that last message he sent me was in fact just giving me a clear answer that's the end of it, isn't it?Posted by vesperMy apologies, I initially misunderstood the artist comparison. Too many things on my mind 😐Posted by SkyeSomewhere in my convo?Posted by vesperI didn't say Fontana and him. I get what you're saying, but I still think you might have hurt his feelingsPosted by SkyeNoooo, I'm comparing the subject we had spoken about an ARTIST. Not Fontana and HIM. It's an artist and another artist figure.Posted by vesperI meant that about the guy who is related to Fontana you were comparing him to. If he's not attractive, wellPosted by SkyeToo bad i don't fall for looks. I'm more into BRAIN. He might not have the looks but he do carry his brain around 😄Posted by vesperI hope he's good looking lolPosted by SkyePosted by vesper
Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.
You said something to him that possibly hurt his feelings. He's crawling back into his shell.
Oh no I didn't said anything hurtful! all i did was sent him an image of 'Lucia Fontana' artwork of how he reminds of the artist he had spoken about that was related to Fontana.
We said goodnight to each other that evening, then he said 'BYE' ?
you just indirectly told him he was unattractive.
somewhere in your convo.
When I capitalize my words, it's for emphasis or because I'm mad lol
Like complementing his surroundings that he had the most comfortable room around?
telling him goodnight and sleep well?
is it that bad?
Well, it doesn't sound bad at all. Did you contact him after he said 'BYE'
To be frank with you, there's nothing to get upset with just complements. NO?
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Posted by SkyeTotally agree.
Just contact the guy already and say how are you, and see what his response is.
You said the last thing he said was BYE and hasn't contacted you since 2-3 days, so text him
and find out what's wrong. It's really as simple as that.
Posted by SkyeThank you so much but I'm in no place to do that. Im just curious the fact that It's so easy for them to used someone so easily. Didn't expect that to my fellow Water sign.
Just contact the guy already and say how are you, and see what his response is.
You said the last thing he said was BYE and hasn't contacted you since 2-3 days, so text him
and find out what's wrong. It's really as simple as that.
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Last week we bump into each other after 2 years without hearing from one another and we suddenly HIT IT OFF straight away! met him twice last week.
Was having a normal conversation with him via social media etc then he suddenly replied to my last message 'BYE' like he want to end it, haven't heard from him 2days from now. it's odd.
I didn't do anything wrong yet. wasn't even pushing/obligating him with whatever that is you called between two people. I was just acting NORMAL nothing complicated and then 'BYE' without hearing from him?