Is Cancer testing or playing me?

Im not going to tell the whole story because it’s pretty long. Basically I’ve lost trust in this Cancer. We were never officially together but it FELT like it. I’ve met his son, been invited into his home, he was invited into my home, I’ve hung out with him and his friends, I’ve ran into his mom before, I’ve spoken to his bm (2 kids). When he got out of jail in December he called me to come pick him up. I told him no, so he had to walk home. We still met up eventually and had sex and stuff.

Long story short, I want somebody to take me seriously. We are FWB and I expressed to him that I’m moving on because, sleeping around for fun is pointless. I’m evolving and im not the same girl I was when he went away! I want to BUILD and MOVE TOWARD something. He wasn’t getting it.. I ignored him for the first week of 2020 and he would not stop texting me. Basically we came to the agreement that we are still FWB but we are only sleeping with eachother. We agreed to leave all the stuff that happened in 2019, in 2019.

Besides I haven’t seen or heard from him in 5 months, he’s been in jail. It’s time for a fresh start. The other day I dropped him off and asked him if it was another girl house. He told me no. The apartments LOOKED the same but we drove around toward the back and thru some weird routes. I was high and assumed it was a girl house. I felt bad and told him I would make it up to him. And now he is asking That I buy him something in PARTICULAR. I would buy it, but I’m not sure if I’m getting played or not. Is this a test to see how much I wanna be with him?

Also, if we are FWB and only seeing eachother, doesn’t that make us together?

I am hot and cold toward him due to my bipolar disorder. I will curse him out and go off Because I don’t trust him and the feeling is times 10.. but he still sticks around?

-Virgo