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Understanding Cancer Suns and Their Giving Nature
Cancer sun signs are often associated with nurturing and generosity, but their desire to pay for everything may stem from a need to care or feel secure. It can create imbalance if others prefer equality. Recognizing their natural tendency to give helps understand their behavior and maintain healthy relationships.
If he’s not listening to me, I’d find that annoying..
"A man"? Depends on WHO the man is AND his PLACE in my life. Aka, WHAT is our relationship?
It wouldn't make me uncomfortable.
Would it remove the power dynamic? No way. If having the funds to pay your own way, makes you feel "powerful", then I'd imagine being able to keep it in your pocket, puts you at an advantage. Understand? Someone is gifting you with something although they know you're capable on your own. No harm in that UNLESS, this is the kind of dude who "treats" in order to "bed".
My boyfriend is a Cancer. I'm quite independent, but, he gifts me ALL the time and I'm honored. Our RELATIONSHIP is full of love and kindness. That's one of several ways in which he SHOWS his love. I *know* WHAT his love language is, and that helped me to take a step back. All of my power, is STILL intact 😉
"A man"? Depends on WHO the man is AND his PLACE in my life. Aka, WHAT is our relationship?
It wouldn't make me uncomfortable.
Would it remove the power dynamic? No way. If having the funds to pay your own way, makes you feel "powerful", then I'd imagine being able to keep it in your pocket, puts you at an advantage. Understand? Someone is gifting you with something although they know you're capable on your own. No harm in that UNLESS, this is the kind of dude who "treats" in order to "bed".
My boyfriend is a Cancer. I'm quite independent, but, he gifts me ALL the time and I'm honored. Our RELATIONSHIP is full of love and kindness. That's one of several ways in which he SHOWS his love. I *know* WHAT his love language is, and that helped me to take a step back. All of my power, is STILL intact 😉
what's your sign?
"A man"? Depends on WHO the man is AND his PLACE in my life. Aka, WHAT is our relationship?
It wouldn't make me uncomfortable.
Would it remove the power dynamic? No way. If having the funds to pay your own way, makes you feel "powerful", then I'd imagine being able to keep it in your pocket, puts you at an advantage. Understand? Someone is gifting you with something although they know you're capable on your own. No harm in that UNLESS, this is the kind of dude who "treats" in order to "bed".
My boyfriend is a Cancer. I'm quite independent, but, he gifts me ALL the time and I'm honored. Our RELATIONSHIP is full of love and kindness. That's one of several ways in which he SHOWS his love. I *know* WHAT his love language is, and that helped me to take a step back. All of my power, is STILL intact 😉
what's your sign?
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Sag ❤️
Is this the cancer sun virgo moon guy? Both virgo moons i dated were like this. They love to treat and spoil on dates. 😛 Offer to buy some drinks or desserts instead of going halfsies? Find another way to treat them (not just sex tho).
After the third attempt
I'm like
Go spend on meee
Either way, I'm in control
🤣
Why do you need to go halfsies? If he wants to do it, I see no problem with it!
I'm getting a weird sense of deja vu with this thread, I guess I have spend too much time in dxp 😅
a man who insists on paying for everything even when you'd rather go halfsies? not even once are they okay with it. does it make you uncomfortable? do you feel like it takes away some 'power' you have within the dynamic? are cancer suns known for being naturally giving?
What’s the big deal? Let man pay!
I actually find it quite repulsive of those feminist women to lash out and become filled with anger over such gestures. I saw some woman once pissed off that a guy held the door for her ...she goes "What? You think I can't do it myself? Asshole"
Like what a raging cunt. Shut the fuck up and just say thank you and move on🙄🙄 People hold doors for everyone all day, everyday around the world. It isn't an attack on your girl power
that happens?
I have zero problems with it. But he better not break the seal cause as soon as he disappears from the table imma call over the waiter and give em my card. Challenge accepted 😏
I actually find it quite repulsive of those feminist women to lash out and become filled with anger over such gestures. I saw some woman once pissed off that a guy held the door for her ...she goes "What? You think I can't do it myself? Asshole"
Like what a raging cunt. Shut the fuck up and just say thank you and move on🙄🙄 People hold doors for everyone all day, everyday around the world. It isn't an attack on your girl power
that happens?
Yea dude, I live in this crazy fucking liberal town somehow in Arkansas and they are extreme as hell. I have Facebook groups with these people where I'm shooketh by the extreme far left posts every single day. Like how can I be in AR?
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Lol its prolly russian bots 😂
Yes...the cancer guy I know was. So much so...I thought he had an ulterior motive or he thought of me as a charity case of some sort. He tried a lot but I'd hardly ever let him because I also knew he hold it over me when in one of his moods 🙄. I also thought his paying or gift giving was to buy love. This was all before I knew about astrology....now it makes sense...Leo Venus 😂
I was such a paranoid bitch 🙄
I would love it and I wouldn’t want to pay half. I would bask in the glory of spoiledness
I’m cancer sun cancer moon and cancer mars and Scorpio asc
I actually find it quite repulsive of those feminist women to lash out and become filled with anger over such gestures. I saw some woman once pissed off that a guy held the door for her ...she goes "What? You think I can't do it myself? Asshole"
Like what a raging cunt. Shut the fuck up and just say thank you and move on🙄🙄 People hold doors for everyone all day, everyday around the world. It isn't an attack on your girl power
that happens?
Yea dude, I live in this crazy fucking liberal town somehow in Arkansas and they are extreme as hell. I have Facebook groups with these people where I'm shooketh by the extreme far left posts every single day. Like how can I be in AR?
Lol its prolly russian bots 😂
They have like rallies and shit. I've never been to one though, I've just been around here long enough to see it. It's so weird, I grew up in one town where I have groups that's like "Obummer ruined Murica and he tried to steal our dang guns. God bless the USA" and then down the road 40 mins, this uber liberal feminist population where half the people don't know what gender they are and you can't hold the door open for them because it takes away their girl power. Its a very confusing and polarizing time to live in AR
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Have you done any reading lately on cambridge analytica?
Apparently all these rallies are being organized by firms hired by politicians to divide and conquer undecided or persuadable voters... such a trip.
I actually find it quite repulsive of those feminist women to lash out and become filled with anger over such gestures. I saw some woman once pissed off that a guy held the door for her ...she goes "What? You think I can't do it myself? Asshole"
Like what a raging cunt. Shut the fuck up and just say thank you and move on🙄🙄 People hold doors for everyone all day, everyday around the world. It isn't an attack on your girl power
that happens?
Yea dude, I live in this crazy fucking liberal town somehow in Arkansas and they are extreme as hell. I have Facebook groups with these people where I'm shooketh by the extreme far left posts every single day. Like how can I be in AR?
Lol its prolly russian bots 😂
They have like rallies and shit. I've never been to one though, I've just been around here long enough to see it. It's so weird, I grew up in one town where I have groups that's like "Obummer ruined Murica and he tried to steal our dang guns. God bless the USA" and then down the road 40 mins, this uber liberal feminist population where half the people don't know what gender they are and you can't hold the door open for them because it takes away their girl power. Its a very confusing and polarizing time to live in AR
Have you done any reading lately on cambridge analytica?
Apparently all these rallies are being organized by firms hired by politicians to divide and conquer undecided or persuadable voters... such a trip.
This next election season is gonna be lit. Seriously, its gonna be crazy I think
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Its already a lil cookoo
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a man who insists on paying for everything even when you'd rather go halfsies? not even once are they okay with it. does it make you uncomfortable? do you feel like it takes away some 'power' you have within the dynamic? are cancer suns known for being naturally giving?