Is getting back together with him a lost cause?

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TheBlackMamaba
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8 Years

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So I'm a leo and I was dating a cancer guy for about 2-3 months after we met on tinder. Everything was going fine until I ended up becoming stressed with my own work life and grew neglectful towards our relationship (ie. he'd want to go on dates or just go out but I'd only have energy to stay in, cuddle, and have sex). We ended up getting into a terrible argument because he still had the app on his phone and he'd told me many times that he wanted to be exclusive. He said he wasn't using the app and that I was "too much" (understandable because my reaction was dramatic though the argument was valid).

Then, me being the fiery leo I am, I told him that if I was "too much" then maybe we shouldn't see each other anymore. He insisted on taking a break instead.

Long story short, he ended up going on a date with another woman a week later and when I questioned him about it he "that's what a break is for" and "I met someone new and I want to focus on her now, I don't have time for this." Pretty much leaving me in the dust.

After some time of me not talking to him at all he came back and we ended up sleeping with each other and right when I thought I'd moved on I realized that I missed how comfortable and happy I felt with him before things went to shit...I told him that I wanted to start over and he said he wasn't sure because he wasn't sure if we had a "connection" or not but on the other hand he was open enough with me after coming back to tell me about what's been going on in his life lately..

Idk, I feel like it's dumb but what do you guys think?