IS THERE HOPE WINNING MY CANCER BACK?

Okay, Me and a Cancer girl have been dating for almost two months and she suddenly ends it.
When we first met, before I even knew she was a Cancer, there was an instant connection, sparks flying everywhere.
It was the most comfortable I've felt around any girl in a long time and I thought she was the cutest and most charming thing on the planet. On our second encounter we spent hours hanging out and talking, shooting the shit and just having a blast. Whenever I would visit her we were basically attached at the hip. We did everything together, cook, study, read, etc and the sex.. do I even need to say it was jsad;fljaowefadfjsod;a OMG AMAZING!!!! :p

Then the turn around...

She says she is tired of being my mom (a well known Cancer trait) and she is I don't stick by my word and get my life prioritized like I should(a well known Pisces trait). She said usually in her relationships she loves the person gradually over time but suddenly with me it just came to a complete stand still. I am severely confused in this endeavor because I felt that we were reaching a turning point in our relationship and things would only get better but man was I wrong.

I checked her chart once and she has her Venus in Leo, but she was never dramatic throughout our relationship..
Maybe there is something I over looked.

I'm so lost, I just want her back. But I fear she has retreated to her shell and my entry is strictly prohibited... 😢

BTW... Inquiry away

Posted by Claire
Sorry to hear about this Fishey. 😢 We're notoriously a great match.

What does she mean when she speaks of prioritization, is it with work or studies, or are you just partying too hard or something??

No no no. I left the party scene long a go. She means like getting my drivers license etc. Saving money and blah which Cancers do religiously 😄 She also told me she just doesn't feel anything anymore. It was so sudden it weirded me out.
She is busy a lot with school and may find it hard to make time for me. But it's finals week and I think she may be exagerating a bit.

Thanks a ton Claire 😄
She is in college and finals week is the week that the final exams are going to be taking place.
I hope you are right because I think her emotions/view of our relationship may have been skewn due to high stress levels during test.

and if you're wrong so be it...

Time heals all wounds.

Please don't think I am personally directing this at you, this is for general purposes only!!!

I can tell you as a cancer female myself, I have taken care of one too many guys that didn't have their stuff together. This is a terrible thing for us to fall into, and leads to a lot of hate later on.

If you want this girl back, the most effective way is to start getting things on track, yes I'm talking about saving money, getting a license and all that jazz. Show her!

No cancer woman wants to worry about losing her house, driving her man around town, or wondering when will he ever catch up with her on other things like school, job, etc.

No matter how attractive the guy is, sense always wins in the end...

***Most other cancer girls I know are attracted to powerful, established men (picture the most interesting man in the world)***

Me, myself tends to fall towards the earth boys for this reason...

BTW...a venus in leo suggests to me that indeed powerful men are a major turn on. It doesn't really seem like drama would be presented here, although that cannot be ruled out...

FYI:
In charts, for a woman, mars symbolizes what kind of man she is attracted to, but it doesn't mean one she will settle with. In fact, you must look to her sun sign (that represents what kind of man she desires for marriage.)

she might........... like another person?

I am a cancerian myself, for what you have described, you guys were going at it, but maybe you didn't give her enough security (like flirting with others), or you haven't told her some of your inner feelings?

Security to most Cancerians (to me definitely) is most important