Issue with my boyfriend

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frenchie
@frenchie
8 Years

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Hello dxpnet 🙂

I’ve been with my cancer boyfriend since September now and we want to move in with each other. I love him and am super attracted to him, he’s really kind and I like that he’s attached to me.

Two things annoy me a little bit and would like some perspective.

One is that he is a bit passive. He lives with his mum who does everything from him including laundry and cooking. He says he will change when we live together. I usually buy the groceries and cook for him when we meet up, but he will do the dishes. He also relies on me to ask him to call me, make plans to see him, etc.

The second issue is that he is so vain. When we walk past a reflection he has to stop and look at himself. He loves looking at himself in the mirror. He’s cut off his hair which is what I was really attracted to, and wants to get an earring and jewellery. He’s admitted to Being vain and I can’t help but lose attraction when he does this, even though as a whole im utterly attracted to him and find him to be really sweet and thoughtful. Any suggestions on how to surpass this?

Just wondering if these two things are normal for a cancer man.

He is 25 almost 26 and I just turned 27. I’m a Taurus and our readings are:

Conjunction:

sun-Venus

Mercury-Jupiter

Trine:

Mars-Pluto

Opposition:

Sun-Pluto

Venus-Uranus

Venus-lunar mode

Square:

Saturn-Pluto
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HeavyEntertainmentShow
@HeavyEntertainmentShow
9 Years5,000+ Posts

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- Cancers are mommy's boys, there's no two ways about it. They're family-oriented. Can't change that unless they're dead. What would make him man up is being isolated from the person who does most stuff for him (his mom), which would force him to get his candy bum up and get doing it himself. As long as he's still living with her, there's little chance of that changing.

- You're just gonna have to get over that. My boyfriend or ex boyfriend (not sure which yet) is not a snob, but he's constantly showing off. He's proud of his whole package. And yes, he photobombs by flexing into the shot. It's just part of his persona.

Unless you wanna date a fugly guy lol, you'll just have to deal with it.