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ariesheart
@ariesheart
11 Years

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Posted by Pureserenity
I know Cancer men hate losing things. I'm currently seeing a Cancer man. First time dating one. I'm cancer as well. He keeps in touch with his ex as well. It's not a deal breaker but she likes him and wants to still be with him and that's what I don't like. She's crazy actually...always sending me friend requests on IG to be nosey. I'm not sure if I should say something. Just like your situation, you say you try to avoid your Cancer ex's out of respect for your current boo. See I think that's what he should do but I don't want to push him away with my "over thinking". I'm sure he handles her the best way he can but I think it's a little disrespectful ya know!
I hear ya! He does the same, but he's very specific when telling them how much he's in love with me. He even went as far as to tell one ex he never loved her and never would. I thought that was drastic, but he's a blunt person. Do you know how their conversations are?
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Posted by thinktoomuch
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Posted by thinktoomuch
Doesn´t it weird you out, that they say, they still love you? Or is it more in a friendly way? And what about your current cancer? Does he know?
It does weird me out at times. Especially with my first love because he still wants to marry me.

My current knows. But he thinks every man is in love with me lol
Well in this case he´s right though! 😄 It would make me feel so insecure, if I was dating someone, who was still friends and talking with exes, espexially if these exes expressed such a high romantic interest in that person. I would think they kept them on the backburner just in case... Scary stuff right there. Which is why I wish to meet someone, who has no parrents and no earlier really good relationships where they said, they loved each other. No preassure.

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I agree. It does become annoying and I do get insecure. But I think my cancer is so possessive and affectionate, it's like our spirits collide and it allows me to trust him more and trust him. Like I've known him all my life. Scary, but loving!!!!