sad aries

My cancer man moving to another state this weekend. He asked me to move there, but live in separate homes. I don't understand that. If you love someone and want them to pack up and follow you, why live separately? I'm not going tho. We've been together 2yrs and I love him. To me, it just sounds stupid to move to a different state for a man, but not live together. Am I wrong? He's angry at me right now because I wont go. And keeps pushing it.

Posted by thinktoomuch
The more I learn, seems like some people (and in this case it´s cancer men) have a lot of weird rules and ways that things just has to be. They really make things so much harder for everyone and gets their partner thinking WTH?! Then blame her for overthinking things and making things complicated😄

Talk more with him about it and ask why seperate homes maybe?

Yessss, that's exactly what he says "I'm over thinking and worrying about nothing."

I have sat down and talked to him. He says me moving there is already a big enough step for us, and thinking moving in together would be pushing it

I'm so confused. I really love this man and want to marry him. This is painful. Even his family thinks I should go

I'm so depressed its not even funny. I feel like I'm losing him, even tho he says he wants me there, and even if I decide not to move there, he wants me to visit every chance I get. I hate long distance relationships. But I'm so in love with this man. He is definitely one of a kind.

Oh no! 😢

I'm sorry dear 😢

Why can't you live together? Long distance killed the relationship with the ram I was dating. That sucks. Did he say why?

Posted by Goldigold
It is weird, but I'm in a long distance with my cancer..and moving in together is a big deal to him. And it's because I have a daughter. Do you have children? It's his way to protect her..when he first moved away I thought I really wanted the goal to be us moving in together, but honestly I love my space and he loves his too. I'm considering my own place now. And to move to be near him and hopefully find a better job. Silicone Valley is really thriving.

Anyway, keep an open mind...why not get your own place to at least be close. It's totally rational. Long distance is so hard...

I have 2 boys and he has one. I think I'm gonna give it a year. See where we are then if I do decide to move

Posted by kissmygrits
Why can't you live together? Long distance killed the relationship with the ram I was dating. That sucks. Did he say why?

He says he wanna be sure that I'm ready to commit. We had a rough beginning, but I thought I've proven myself.

Just dropped my baby off at the airport. I'm sick already!!!