Mr Aries and i Broke up

He actually LIED to me. I am so pissed!!!!!!!! I Dont think i can forgive him. His ex called tonite and wanted to know why he hasnt called to see how his newborn baby was. That was born when we were together! I am like "Huh"? She rambled and rambled on speaker phone, He kept denying it. He said he was never in a relationship with her, but her name is tattoed on his right forearm! That bugs me as it is, But than the poem he recited to me alot, and once during sex. I Find out was to her, which was why he memorized it so well! Than i find out he called her the day before thanksgiving. Soooooo yea, I Check my phone records, what do you know, its there! He denies it aswell, than he changes the story to "I wanted a relaionship with her, so i tattoed her name on me and it didnt happen" What the hell? Why cant men be HONEST. I Just cant handle LIES! LIES! LIES! You cant cover a lie with a lie, you will get caught.THAN She threatens to beat me up AS IF she could, and tells me she has people watching us. She KNEW my address and she lives 2 hours away! I dont think i can deal with the drama. Whats worse is that poor baby being used as leverage and it sounds to me nobody cares about that baby boy. OMG i am PISSED!!!I am so done with men, It sucks...........

How would you feel? Cancers, give me insight.. I need you!!!

Is it bad that i cant cry? Its like, im so hurt and pissed, i dont feel the need to.

I know its easier said than done but move on.. believe me i've tried to stay with a man who had a baby while we were together and it just didn't work. I was too heartbroken and torn up about it and it just bothered me to a point where we cannot be together. It also sounds like he still has feelings and is just lying so just let him go.

Posted by prettyladii
I know its easier said than done but move on.. believe me i've tried to stay with a man who had a baby while we were together and it just didn't work. I was too heartbroken and torn up about it and it just bothered me to a point where we cannot be together. It also sounds like he still has feelings and is just lying so just let him go.

I've been telling this to people for quite sometime, i know i can always forgive a person but surley not forget, also people have to realize people never change. They will continue being however they were when they came into this world, they always say "i promise i change" but total bullshit. CancerianGoddess, I'm with prettyladii on this, everything happen for a reason, just move on.

Canceriangoddess,

My heart goes out to you. Same thing happened to me and a guy. In the end, I found out the baby wasn't his, and yes at some point they were in the relationship. But, the fact that he lied about the whole thing. Too much drama??_had to let him go.

Believe me when I say I KNOW how much pain your in with this and it isn't going to be easy but when you think of all the negative it may hurt you but it will help you be stronger and move on. It may not seem like it, but when I moved on from that guy.. a lot of guys started coming out of no where and positive things started happening. He will hinder you so much emotionally and you don't wanna become scarred or bitter or let him have enough power to make you hate him and take energy out of you. The sooner you move on the better but it takes a lot of strength and your own force and will to do it. I just look at it like this, he's only a step closer to finding the one and just another learning experience.

what. the. fuck.

i thought this stuff only happened on jerry springer. this sucks though. you're never going to get the truth out of him so you're right to just cut your losses and move on. dont turn around. good luck

C'mere CG, big ol' Bull hugs. Now, let's go make some rocking food and chase those young'uns around. 🙂 Chin up girl.

Posted by Hypnotic—
people will always surprise you..
in a bad way, 90% of the time..

that's why I stay to myself..

That shit is so damn true!

thank the gods you found out now. anyone who would deny his child in the womb or out isn't worth sharing a life with let alone your bed.

stay strong