Good things about Aries?

I only see people sayin bad things about aries... what about the good stuff?

Being the first sign i think the good things are left out on purpose. 😛

Posted by Gentle Storm
Being the first sign i think the good things are left out on purpose. 😛

haha

You know I've read the bad traits about Aries before and most of it doesn't even seem that bad (compared to other signs) and some not even true. For instant, our tempers? I haven't met many anger Aries, I mean I use to have a bad temper when I was a kid but kind of out grew it and now it's very difficult for me to become angry. Only my Leo ex was very successful at that.

As for our good qualities, it's true what Ovi said, Aries are listed next to Scorpio as very good in bed 😉. We are also champions for underdogs, I read that somewhere. Also, since we are the symbol of the infant, though we can be very selfish and self-centered (that I believe is true), our love is very pure and innocent. Which brings up that we are very honest beings and uphold that as a standard for ourself and others that we love.

We are suppose to be very optimistic too, which I believe is true and which I believe to be a good trait. We will also fight for those we love the most, hence we are very loyal companions.

I'm sure there is more, but that's all that I can think of at the moment 🙂.

Posted by xtina
You know I've read the bad traits about Aries before and most of it doesn't even seem that bad (compared to other signs) and some not even true. For instant, our tempers? I haven't met many anger Aries, I mean I use to have a bad temper when I was a kid but kind of out grew it and now it's very difficult for me to become angry. Only my Leo ex was very successful at that.

so true! i was like a little fire ball when i was younger now i wouldnt hurt a fly i find it so hard to lash out at people its pathetic!
I actully wrote a song called damaged optimist about myself but i think it can relate to aries as well. even if your falling down always look up.

I like your post 🙂

I think because alot of aries are independent it can cause them to become neglected. and being strong alot of people see that as being cold hearted how can aries be cold hearted when there the ones always helping people with not so much as a thank you... idk. But, what i love is if a women or man is independent and doesnt need anyone when they love someone you know its for real and not because they need it or that person its not for money or comfort its just love.

The things I love about myself as an Aries are:

Independant
Caring/generous
Leader
Honest
Loving
Assertive
Friendly

See...we aren't all that bad!! 🙂
I think it takes a special person to really get us though. We are definitely not everyone's cup of tea. But, for the ones who can truly appreciate an Aries, you will be rewarded hansomly!

"I think because alot of aries are independent it can cause them to become neglected. "

Agreed! Just because we are strong and independent minded, doesn't mean we don't need love and attention. I think people take us for granted cause they think, well, they will just do it, they will just get it done. Yes, we will, but we also like to be pampered an made to feel special just like everyone else.

I really believe that people take our aggression as being negative. But it comes from a very passionate source!!! I always get confused when people get upset with me becuase they have mis-interpreted my assertive aggression. The only time that I am negative, and that I can channel my triats to use as a combined force is when I am pissed and I need to stand up for myself and protect myself.

I've been told that I'm a very scarey person when I am like this, because I'm silent with murder in my eyes, and I become very unpredictable. It's like I become another person....

Agreed! Just because we are strong and independent minded, doesn't mean we don't need love and attention. I think people take us for granted cause they think, well, they will just do it, they will just get it done. Yes, we will, but we also like to be pampered an made to feel special just like everyone else.

I completely agree with this statement, and it's been an argument of mine for a while!!! Sometimes it's really hard for me to express my emotions, not because I'm emotionally retarded, but because I know that my worries will fall on deaf ears. The people who have known me for years have said that it's because I am so strong and independent that they always thought that I never had a worry in the world!!!

One of my close scorp friends, who is like a little sister to me, always comes to me for advice and always talks to me about her problems. I love it, because I know that I am able to give her sound advice and steer her away from making mistakes that I made. But when I went to her about a problem that I was having, she had told one of our mutual friends that she didn't know how to give me advice because she was so shocked that I actually talked about something that was affecting me....

Loyal
Loving
Considerate
Patient to others needs
Respectable
Honest
Straight Forward,Blunt (honest)
Passionate,Sexual,Intense!
Puts others needs first
Protective of the little guy "lol"
Born 1st in the wheel means (They take the lead)
Responsible
Romantic
Caring

and yes, like Ovi said, they can go all night!!!

I am a cancer girl, i am dating an aries man, and i must say, i finally found my cup of tea! 😉

Posted by CancerianGoddess
Loyal
Loving
Considerate
Patient to others needs
Respectable
Honest
Straight Forward,Blunt (honest)
Passionate,Sexual,Intense!
Puts others needs first
Protective of the little guy "lol"
Born 1st in the wheel means (They take the lead)
Responsible
Romantic
Caring

and yes, like Ovi said, they can go all night!!!

I am a cancer girl, i am dating an aries man, and i must say, i finally found my cup of tea! 😉

great! some good stuff

Posted by Mars.In.Aries

I've been told that I'm a very scarey person when I am like this, because I'm silent with murder in my eyes, and I become very unpredictable. It's like I become another person....

lol, i get this my virgo friend said when i'm mad my eyes are manic and change color shes like stop LOOKING AT ME!!! lol

ah, who cares if people don't see the good in aries as long as we know we're good thats all that matters its just like gemini's people bash the poo out of them daily, i find them interesting but my venus in gemini and taurus moon..makes me have like 100 different personalitys! lol 🙂 I don't think a person will ever get close enough to understanding an aries because there's so much more but the people that do come close are suprised and there the ones that matter. 🙂

Posted by Mars.In.Aries
I really believe that people take our aggression as being negative. But it comes from a very passionate source!!! I always get confused when people get upset with me becuase they have mis-interpreted my assertive aggression. The only time that I am negative, and that I can channel my triats to use as a combined force is when I am pissed and I need to stand up for myself and protect myself.

I've been told that I'm a very scarey person when I am like this, because I'm silent with murder in my eyes, and I become very unpredictable. It's like I become another person....

I've talked about this before, but you will know I'm really pissed when I go completely silent on you. Watch the fuck out then!

I agree with you about the aggression part, although I like to think it's more assertion than aggression.

Posted by ramfishtwins

... but you will know I'm really pissed when I go completely silent on you. Watch the fuck out then!

I agree with you about the aggression part, although I like to think it's more assertion than aggression.

This is soooo true!
Some people make such a big deal when I'm on fire. But they should have worried more about my ice than my fire. When someone made me completely freezed, the person is history.

I'm new here, by the way. Greetings to all.

PS: I had to hide my previous message because I've messed the html code 😢

Posted by FreeFall

Posted by ramfishtwins

... but you will know I'm really pissed when I go completely silent on you. Watch the fuck out then!

I agree with you about the aggression part, although I like to think it's more assertion than aggression.

This is soooo true!
Some people make such a big deal when I'm on fire. But they should have worried more about my ice than my fire. When someone made me completely freezed, the person is history.

I'm new here, by the way. Greetings to all.

PS: I had to hide my previous message because I've messed the html code 😢

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Welcome Freefall...good to have another Ram here!
You should read the post on the Aries board about our Ice being worse than our fire...think you could relate!

Posted by CancerianGoddess
Loyal
Loving
Considerate
Patient to others needs
Respectable
Honest
Straight Forward,Blunt (honest)
Passionate,Sexual,Intense!
Puts others needs first
Protective of the little guy "lol"
Born 1st in the wheel means (They take the lead)
Responsible
Romantic
Caring

and yes, like Ovi said, they can go all night!!!

I am a cancer girl, i am dating an aries man, and i must say, i finally found my cup of tea! 😉

well hunny cancers and aries are a coupl that was ent to be befoe the stars were formed

Posted by ramfishtwins

Welcome Freefall...good to have another Ram here!
You should read the post on the Aries board about our Ice being worse than our fire...think you could relate!

Hi Ramfishtwins, thanks for the welcome greeting 🙂. I'll check the Aries board about ice and fire 🙂.

loving
independent
competative
strong
great friends
heart of gold