Out of curiosity, which one best applies for you?

I find that something Cappys and Cancerians have in common is the need for some alone time, although the Length/Frequency/Reason/Exit-Entry style they choose whenever they go about honoring this specific need will vary tremendously. In any case, please be so kind to pick the ONE line that BEST APPLIES to you when it comes to this matter:

A.) "Absence makes the heart grow fonder."

or

B.) "Out of sight, out of mind"


Please state whether you are a Capricorn male/female OR a Cancerian male/female.
I will be posting the same in the Capricorn forum. Thanks You!

BONUS QUESTION: You can also specify your usual or preferred Time Length, Frequency, Reason, and Exit style & Re-entry style for whenever you dabble in some serious Me Time yet have a partner in your life. I think it will be interesting to see the variation in answers.

Posted by M
Wrong board :p

🙂 This is not posted on the wrong board. I purposely posted in both the Cancer and Capricorn boards. Except, for some reason, the Cancerians are not really answering— 😢



As always, thanks for your input Nicrobliz!

Posted by tiltedmoonshadow

Posted by M
Wrong board :p

🙂 This is not posted on the wrong board. I purposely posted in both the Cancer and Capricorn boards. Except, for some reason, the Cancerians are not really answering— 😢 !

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I thought he meant that he posted on the wrong board.

I'm an Aries female (in a relationship with Cancer) who needs alone time. Absence makes my heart grow fonder. I know you wanted only Caps and Cancers to reply, so I'll only answer your bonus question if you want me to. 🙂

I'm an Aries female (in a relationship with Cancer) who needs alone time. Absence makes my heart grow fonder. I know you wanted only Caps and Cancers to reply, so I'll only answer your bonus question if you want me to. 🙂

Hey paries, I am open to learning anything and everything so go ahead and answer for yourself! 🙂 I will remember it for future reference! ...Since you are in a rel with a Cancer guy, what do you think it is for him, or text him real quick and just say Choose one A or B ! ...lol

Posted by tiltedmoonshadow

I'm an Aries female (in a relationship with Cancer) who needs alone time. Absence makes my heart grow fonder. I know you wanted only Caps and Cancers to reply, so I'll only answer your bonus question if you want me to. 🙂

Hey paries, I am open to learning anything and everything so go ahead and answer for yourself! 🙂 I will remember it for future reference! ...Since you are in a rel with a Cancer guy, what do you think it is for him, or text him real quick and just say Choose one A or B ! ...lol

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BONUS QUESTION: You can also specify your usual or preferred Time Length, Frequency, Reason, and Exit style & Re-entry style for whenever you dabble in some serious Me Time yet have a partner in your life.

I need at least a few hours a day. And I like to have at least one full day a week by myself. I'm an introvert and alone time re-energizes me. If I don't get my alone time, I feel smothered and I can get cranky and frustrated. I live alone so I don't usually have difficulty finding time to myself. 🙂 From time to time I have out-of-town visitors. And while they're here, they take away all my alone time. As much as I love them, it gets to a point where I can't wait for them to leave.

It's very helpful that both my bf and I need space. There's no real exit or re-entry style . It just happens naturally. We see each other just a couple of times per week and they're set days that we both agreed upon ages ago (with flexibility in case something else comes up). We have contact almost daily, but no one freaks out if one of us misses a day. I've joked with him that if we moved in together, we'd need a place with lots of rooms so we could always each have our own space as needed.

My Cancer guy would choose A. 🙂

A.
Cancer female

I am a gem with venus in cancer. For people I like, absence makes the heart grow fonder. Actually it makes me go crazy and clingy to be honest. If you are just a whatever person that I never liked romantically, then its more 'out of sight, out of mind,' unless I want something from you. In that case, it doesn't help you to be in contact with me cause if I don't like you that way, being annoying by bothering me all the time isn't going to make me change my mind. Might be better to be out of mind than to get on my nerves.

A - absence makes the heart grow fonder.

My moon is in capricorn and my ascendant, venus and mercury are all in cancer - in addition to this, have my sun in gemini so I really need space. I can become very clingy up to a point but then i need space. I try and remove myself way before I feel too smothered and want to do anything to get away. It used to be so bad that I'd disappear and no-one would know where I am. With time I've learnt to control it and know the signs before the time. I also submerse myself in other activities so that my life does not revolve around him (this is hard as I have a tendency to want to be around him constantly). There's always a tug of war with me I guess.

Posted by SassyGem
With time I've learnt to control it and know the signs before the time.

What are the "signs" to look out for when it's about to happen??

Some guy called me a "dependent ass person" one time. I was kind of offended, but I don't know, maybe there's some truth to that. ugh.

Cancer female out of site out of mind. I always need to be alone. Sometimes I need that think time. My scorp go be alone to watch tv. That when u waould see me in my room crafting or doing my hair ,nail,or feet. I think cancer like to go in there shell every now and then that's y I confuse why people say we are clingy