PLEASE HELP Cancer Boyfriend what IS his problem

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Andrea2308
@Andrea2308
8 Years

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This is confusing. Be patient. Met December through online dating app. He's been separated from wife just 4 months. She left for another man. He romanced me, chased me, said all this loving stuff to me, won my heart. All the time explaining how the wife had broken him, how he hated her, his self asteem was shattered. I had fixed him, mended his heart and soul. After several weeks we slept together, one night of passion and love. Two days later pulls the rug from under me. Ex is messsging. Nice things, his heads a mess she wants to meet to talk things over. Two weeks I'm up in the air not knowing where I stand, giving him the space he needed. Eventually I pleaded and begged him to tel me where I stood. He met her on a Saturday. Dumped me by text on the Sunday saying he still loved her. Shattered and broken I accepted this. BUT.....

He has not blocked me on Facebook. Has not blocked my number. His ex is still living with this guy she left my Cancer baby for. And tonight I get s notification about my subscription to this dating site so I go online to cancel and BANG!!! He viewed my profile the morning he dumped me, and since then has been online several times.

What's his game. He's ghosted me, won't answer my texts when I messaged asking for answers if this was a game.

My hearts broken. I'd have him back in a flash. I fell hard for this sweet man but was he genuine?

I'm 23/8/1965 Leo Virgo cusp

He's 13/7/1964
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@nikkistar
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First, I don't know how people fall in love in a matter of weeks. That's ridiculous to me, personally.

However, here's a hint, if a guy/girl ends up talking about an ex more often than not, they aren't over their exes.

On a side note, Cancer men imo, tend to want the ever-after type of relationship once they get married. If there is a chance at reconciliation with someone they loved very deeply, they will. Even if that person has done a multitude of crappy things, and even if the new person is amazing, they will go back.

Does he care about you? Yes. Does he miss you? Yes. But to him, she holds more value because he has history with her. There's nothing you can do or say to persuade him to leave her, he's going to have to learn things the hard way.

And chances are, she only reached out to him because she probably knew about you. And she doesn't want him to move on from her.