question for cancer guys

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If you had your chioce of a lot of VERY attractive woman who are models,strippers and porn stars,which the guy in question has dated, would you even glance at a brunette average looking female?I like a cancerian who is fairly famous,and i'm a paranoid scorpio so rejection could be taken worse than he may have intended.And I don't really want to even attempt it due to self esteem issues.But at the same time there's the I never tried thing that will most likely plague me.So any suggestions,opinions,experiances will be greatly appreciated
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And no this is not a trick question I honestly want to know.I'm not asking if your superfical but I only know female cancers.Did know of one guy who was one but that was after he killed himself over a girl who cheated on him,his sister was my brothers girlfriend.The guy I'm interested in,our planets line up nearly perfectly the ones that don't I've dealt in other relationships.Chinese western astro. 100% .It's the reality factor thats I'm not sure about.
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Hey Ms. "Average" Brunette.....first things first...nobody is just "average"!!! - and there will always be better looking or worse looking creatures than ourselves....(I hate using that term but you know what I mean.....)
Everybody is second to nobody.....
Therefore you are second to nobody.....
Somebody's sings a song where she's visiting some beautiful city where everybody is blond and beautiful....and she finds them all so boring after a while!!!.......
I think you are saying your cancer guy is among this "jet-set" of people. You feel out of his league.....is that it?
You've got to do an almost copernican twist with that mind of yours.....you can do it Missy.....and think is that cancer guy in your league—?!!!!-)
Next, Ms. Lovely Brunette, you can dolly yourself up a little if you so choose, make the most of your assets....we all have them:-) and you go rendezvous with Mr. Cancer.
Test the waters...is he worth it?
Don't think about it too much or you will lose courage....just do it....
If need be, you can take a glass or wine or two before hand to give you scorpion courage...!!!:-)

So lovely lady.....make it happen....and come back to us with a story....life is too short not to do it....

A x


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Thanks for the encouragement.I sorta kinda didn't read the other post to know that psycho's were harrassing the people on these boards prior to my bluntness.It's not as bad as it sounds i'm not interested in his cash or a groupie type person so thats is the reason it surprises me.But anyways,just saying,I don't think sending them to the scorps will work to well,Parallax,this entire site would be shut down from the profanity editor being overworked.But that also seems like thats the reason thier so obsessive.
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Yes you hit it on the head,the women are the tall,blonde,pop culture type gorgous.I'm only 5'2",110lLs.(which isn't as skinny as these girls)and only a B-cup.I know i'm not horrid or any thing it's just not typical,massly seen as attractive,which he is used to dating at this point.He seems like a nice guy(little twisted sense of humor wise,though)i've only seem him snap at people who make stupid comments.But thats what i'm afraid of I don't know if he'd take it to lightly being as i'm not that type of female.
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Again Tiamat, I understand your fears, esp. about rejection......but remember, she who dares wins:-)!!!
5'2 - b cup.............- Pammie Andersons are so pammie andersons!!!!you are perfect for you......nothing wrong with that....you are who you are....and make no apologies for that:-)
But again, I would say to you, set your mind in a different frame for the moment.
And If he wasn't to be interested in you, what's the worst that can happen to you........are you going to collapse into puddles and and drain away down the drains, never to be seen again!!!....or is the world gonna stop spinning—😉....or is your heart gonna stop beating!!!!......I don't think so......you are a scorpio woman of substance.....you will probably feel that uugh feeling in your heart or stomach for a short while....and then you will smile to yourself and say...hmmmmm, I did it, it didn't work, so bloody what—??....he's not up to MY league:-)

But hey, we are talking defeat here before the battle has started.....!!!! So put on your bullet-proof heart vest.....and rub some scenty lotion into your beautiful skin to make it sligtly thicker!!!!.....and let's get started......

By the way, has he been in any porn movies himself—?? I might know him to see!!!:-)

Good luck T.

A x



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Point taken,it will just have to wait a couple months for him to get stateside again or could take the easy way and use the phone.But,anyways,no not porn,music but if anything were to happen unfaithfullness isn't an issue.He did that when he was younger and got left by someone he loved so he really dislikes one nighters now.Thank you,thank you,thank youXOXOX.-and you don't have to tell me im a cheesy dork with that thank you stuff i'll admit it.
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Tiamat

I'm a Pisces, so can't tell you as personal experience - but, my brother is Cancer and I've paid attention to his - affairs - through 5 decades. He's not famous, but he's quite pleasing to the eye and women are always trying to catch his attention. And, like your dream-man, he always went out with women who were "smokin". But, one thing I've noticed about him that might help you out a little is that he's very sensitive and emotional. He is drawn to women, no matter how they look, who will listen to his concerns and weep with him. Catch him at a vulnerable time and encourage him to spill out his troubles to you and then wrap your arms around him while he suffers and then you will have him for life! What really matters to a Cancer is that you won't sting him with vicious venom while he is weak and that could be your undoing in this scenerio. Anyway, my brother caved and came down off his pedatstool once he encountered a woman who would let him cry without persecution and physically - she's not anywhere near attractive and he's a knock out - just gorgeous!
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Well,in all actuality face wise I look rather similar to Pam only rarely wears makeup.And yes shes awesome except for the losers she dates,everytime I think about her,Tommy slapping her around over jealousy of his own kid comes to mind.I was just always a tomboy so its always been that im okay to hang out with but not to date,in turn I have a low opinion of myself in that department.