question for the taurus women

Now one of my homies said he with dis taurus woman. He qa cancer as well. Now they together for about a year and a half. Now they have plans to get married but out of da blue she said she wants space and wanna see other people.Explain that. He also told me she still wants to be married to him despite her looking.He is EXTremely confused. And i cannot give advice i'm lost as well.

you're probably better off going to the taurus board where some of the taurus women have benn married - those of us that hang out on this board haven't.... it sounds like cold feet [well duh...] but never having been married or even engaged I don't know that I could tell you if this was a taurus thing.... or a woman thing in general.... I can't imagine I would react that way though.....

she probably just wants to make sure she's confidant in her decision....?

thanks much miss angel and merry christmas

merry christmas to you too 🙂

I've been engaged and it came after a couple of years. I was pretty confident in my decision, but Im hugely grateful that I did not marry the guy. Before that engagement I did have a knack for running from relationships and in essence sabotaging them because I was really really scared that they wouldnt work anyway and I wanted to let it go without the disappointment of it being a surprise. After a year and a half with my cancer guy I could see saying yes to a proposal, but I would want to be engaged for atleast a year after. It just seems like even after a year of knowing one another and being together for 6 months there is still so much about him I dont know because ya'll have a tendency to come out of the shell so much more slowly after you've been invited closer. He's probably not given her all the security that Taurus women need to be absolutely sure in love. Sometimes I run into bouts with insecurity when my guy disappears for shell time with no warning. She might be doubting that she can handle that or if they could find some middle ground. Or it might just be that she is young (or inexperienced) and wants to check out more options before coming off the circuit like you stated. I remember when I first got to college and I was in a semiserious relationship and one day I told the guy "I've never been with a guy with locs, or a bald guy...I wonder what it would be like" and no I didnt mean sexually, I just realized that there were a lot of options I hadnt explored. lol Of course he broke up with me, but since him I've chilled with the bald guy and the guy with locs as well as other different people and Im no longer attracted to novelty as I am intelligence and a sense of humor.

Hey, BK and Merry Christmas to you 🙂

One of my dear friends of more than 40 years is a Taurus and she's been married twice, also several very serious boyfriends over the years .. and I've seen her do to her men what your hommie says he is experiencing.

With her, the issue wasn't really whether she was confident in herself, or her decisions .. rather, confident in the mans decision in wanting to marry her. She knew what she wanted, and what she was doing .. however, if she felt like the guy wasn't unsure, then she pulled back and waited him out.

With her second marriage, once they got serious .. she told him to start dating other women and this throw him off because he couldn't understand why she would want him to date others. From her perspective, it was because he seemed unsure and was only going through the motions .. so, she wanted him to make sure that being with her was the right choice for him.

So, I guess what this all boils down to .... she is more concerned that her partner be confident and sure of his decisions before she takes that leap.

Hope that helped 🙂

Thanks alot yall but he gonna be nore confused,cause seen them together for a while and he always states he has a girl when a girl approaches and u know he head over heels with the taurus girl. One question off the topic ,now i myslef have a taurus girl but i kinda did a lil tincy wincy boo boo. NOw she was supposed to surprise me today but she said earlier she was not coming and decided come back another time and i gave her the gift to my mums and she did not had interest in the gift , now she mad as hell but i told her i would get her another one. Now she does not want to see me. Kinda sad now but i have suffer the consequences

:: slaps men upside the head ::


You can't give a girls gift away to another woman .. ANY WOMAN .. especially the mother.

Oh well .. men never learn. 🙂🙂


Don't worry .. she'll get over it .. we always do 🙂

yeah need a slap,lol. she done give away my gift but i do not care what i get i just wanted her,lol. Well gonna spend a blue christmas,lol. Hmmm maybe some blue cheese with crackers and ham.

lol@ BK and his food. If you were going to give it away then get her something else you shouldnt have told her you have the other one away you shoulda just said you hadnt gotten it because you're a butthole. It sounds bad but it would have went over better. I wouldnt too much mind if my Cancer guy gave my gift to his Mom so much as I would be livid if he gave it to a homegirl or coworker. I know he adores his mommy. He was still trying to give her a grandchild for Christmas smh. Cancer men are crazy.

That's so funny that you say that, SF .. my husband does it all the time. He'll do something .. I give him "The Look", and he says ..

.. "I'm a guy, I'm stupid" .. then this sweet smile .. how can you be mad at that?

wow.....i think pushing your guy onto someone else or telling him to see other people sounds uuumm....whats the word...crazy. are earth signs that non-emotional that they could handle that? not me.....cancers dont like rejection. knowing me i would take it that she had someone else on her mind and wasnt sure how she felt about me....

Well as they say ..taurus women do not give up on relationships and they willing to work things out. Well my babes blew me away. We went out,and she still got me gifts now ummm dat was seriously embarassing but she just find that i did it the wrong way but made up for it by going out and having a ball. Yeah we wanna get u taurus women preggie sweet fatale. hey earth and water makeeeeeeesss MUUDDDDDDDDD, and fertility,lol. I love food damnit i always think of food and comfort and sleeeep. I sound taurish but hey i understand you all come from . And for the record taurus women are EXTREEEEEMELY loyal but when they find u a bit shaky they will support but you have to b as rock solid so u can definitely be that one person they want to spend their entire life with.

I'm glad your christmas turned out good 🙂

good thing you corrected yourself 😛

just kidding 😉
HI !

you mean in this thread? one of our dear cancer friends wanted advice on why his cancer friend's bull is acting strange, apparently they are engaged and she has now decided she wants to see other people....but still wants to get married....no idea on that one
the other thing is our dear friend blackknoxx screwed up, but lucky him his bull loves him and it's okay now 🙂

Paul is...around 🙂

it is the famed dance of the cancer/taurus...or is it ballad......

yes angel....kim knows nothing about astrology except that she is a leo.

I'm still here

what don't you get?

wow my pic got hairy......i need to shave....😉

ah, I see....well apparently there is this "dance" and a ballad to go along with it - which pertains to cancer/taurus relationships

now I don't get it.....

huh? there was a pic of tyler up now its me again.....its like the shaggy dog.

it's the same pic - I know you have the one of tyler in your profile but your main pic hasn't changed... I'm confused...?

wilbur?

lol - you know it gets confusing when we're typing at the same time....

wilbur?

now where did Kim go?

i swear it did on my screen for a sec.... i loaded it yesterday and tagged it as primary but it hadnt changed yet....it looked like it did but then it was just me....oh well

dammit.... that's what happens when people post at the same time.....

i think i did a chart for her a long time ago.....she cant find it........

u know your time of birth kim?

I saw it for a minute yesterday but then it changed back, I didn't see it tonight

angels leaving me kim........😢

lol Kim it's never quite together here 🙂

ohh.......don't be like that....it's only for a week 😢

your computer ate the birth chart? u use that one in school too?lol

lmao

I'm going to be in Utah for a week

i forgot the day and year and we can do a quick free one.......

see im a dog again......i wasnt making it up

now im me ....this is comfusing

nope - still not tyler
my friend's family - they're mormon too

well...talk amongst yourselves whilst i look this up......

can't believe you forgot the day....when you told me she was a leo I figured out that part of the name was her birthday.....

pure genius 🙂

ive killed too many brain cells......😢

well there will be no more of that now will there? 😛