Posted by bumboklatt
Being honest helps but not looking weak either
These moons are like st bernards theyll find out
Posted by Cg2016 I want to handle disagreements with my love better. We’re good now, but I can be better about how I approach conflict resolution 😬
Posted by Basorexia
Tell him that :Posted by Cg2016 I want to handle disagreements with my love better. We’re good now, but I can be better about how I approach conflict resolution 😬
Avoid.. The I know you're sensitive talk.
We know you know, you know?click to expand
Posted by bumboklattPosted by Cg2016Posted by bumboklatt
Being honest helps but not looking weak either
These moons are like st bernards theyll find out
The thing is I’m honest, very honest, painfully honest? Not like cursing or anything, but blunt & it makes him withdraw. I want to get to a point where we can resolve conflict without him withdrawing but I need advice on what it looks like to be successful in doing that.
Yeah i am the same i am super direct. I am also a water moon so it helps i like to get to the bottom of things. Its cause your air moon is squared his moon which causes misunderstandings. They are very sensitive as well. Maybe back off a little and hold back what you think will be offensive. Its tough tho with squared moonsclick to expand
Posted by enfant_terrible
Depends on what the conflict is
Posted by Cg2016Posted by enfant_terrible
Depends on what the conflict is
Nothing huge but miscommunication makes it bigger than it is sometimesclick to expand
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by Cg2016Posted by enfant_terrible
Depends on what the conflict is
Nothing huge but miscommunication makes it bigger than it is sometimes
What's your moon sign?click to expand
Posted by bumboklattPosted by Cg2016Posted by bumboklattPosted by Cg2016Posted by bumboklatt
Being honest helps but not looking weak either
These moons are like st bernards theyll find out
The thing is I’m honest, very honest, painfully honest? Not like cursing or anything, but blunt & it makes him withdraw. I want to get to a point where we can resolve conflict without him withdrawing but I need advice on what it looks like to be successful in doing that.
Yeah i am the same i am super direct. I am also a water moon so it helps i like to get to the bottom of things. Its cause your air moon is squared his moon which causes misunderstandings. They are very sensitive as well. Maybe back off a little and hold back what you think will be offensive. Its tough tho with squared moons
Chiiillleee tell me about it! Because when I feel slighted I am a passionate and impulsive speaker. I was just telling him today I have to learn how to be silent and wait it out then maybe I’ll figure out how to communicate better when I’m cooled off. It’s just hard to allow myself to wait 😩
Lol yeah takes discipline. But also if you fully conform that goes back to not being honestclick to expand
Posted by emeraldgem
I am a Cancer moon and also a history with Scorp partners. I actually think that's what makes me get along with them. Cancer moons are highly intuitive and key into their partners - lots of unspoken communication.
It helps if you really try to understand where we are coming from. We ARE sensitive and it's not necessary to come at us aggressively. Tame that Scorp temper down a little before you try to work it out.
Posted by pixie13
Jesus people, buy a synonyms dictionary and find the best, nicest words so you'll be open but not blunt of "painfully honest". Advice works for every aspect of life. If this is the same guy whose mother is ill, I'd tell him I'm there for him when he needs someone. Don't push it. He has more difficult, larger than life issues right now than a gf being blunt with him.
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