I'm a Scorpio woman and had a cancer boyfriend. we broke up 3 weeks ago. It was the best relationship and the easiest I had as I felt how loves me so much. We'd been together for 1 year and 4 months and we lived together for over a year. he introduced me to his family and friends that I even met the father in law of his sister and we always in his dad's house every weekend. it was great living together with our dog. I felt like we are a family. He's super sweet, like sending me flowers at my work. always kiss me goodbye before going to work and kiss me when I arrive home from work. at the beginning of our relationship, he wanted to have a kid and start of a family, which he knows I really love to have someday but during our 6th months, I had a delayed period and he almost lost his job. we got scared and since then he doesn't want a kid. he has a very toxic life style . drinking and partying on the weekend and he loves when I'm being around anywhere he is. He's only 31 and I'm 32. so I understand his constant partying and enjoying life. but I felt exhausted especially that I only have 1 day off. That's when I started nagging him because he always forced me to go out with him even I have work the next day. The nagging becomes bad and we fight like almost every weekend, and also when I started taking bc pills regularly my mood swing becomes worst that he gets irritated on it. although we always settle our fights before we go to bed, so I thought we're doing good in our relationship until 1 day after I arrived from traveling to my home country. I felt that he wasn't excited to see me, I quickly get emotional and challenged him for a breakup. to my shock he accepted it. It was the worst night of my life. He said he wanted space and he wants me to move on. we both cried a lot when I was leaving the house. the break up was very hard for him too. He tried to get back to me after 3 days, but I blocked him in WhatsApp and didn't answer his call, and because of that he thought that I was with another man then he becomes rude to me since then. then after a week, it came to my realization that I'm alone and started to chase him. he already drinking a lot and meeting people and doesn't want to stay home. every time I go to him he pushes me away, but whenever I do not contact him he just texts me and asks for sex. since I love him so much, I always agree with him to have sex. In my heart, he's just confused about what he wants, but sometimes it looks like he doesn't care for me and i need to move on. He always threatens to block me but he never does. Can we still fix the relationship? can we still get back together? what should I do to fix this and to convince him to give our relationship a second chance?
