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Scorpio woman stuck on a cancer man.. he’s running. What do I do
How to Handle a Scorpio Woman with a Cancer Man Who Is Running Away
A Scorpio woman should focus on self-care and emotional clarity. Respect his need for space while maintaining confidence. Communicate honestly if he seeks clarity. Remember that his commitment issues may stem from his Cancer and Leo influences. Prioritize your well-being and recognize when to let go if his actions indicate a lack of genuine interest.
28years old Woman: sun scorpio/moon Aquarius/Venus Libra- abandonment issues. Craves a relationship
45 year Man: sun cancer/ moon Scorpio/ Venus Leo- commitment issues , bachelor life, Peter Pan syndrome
We met a year ago through my my moms
Boyfriend. Instant connection and has been that way every single time we run into each other at events with friends. We finally slept together after a year had passed. Hooked up for about 3 months and now is backing off completely. He has a rep for not being in relationships, typical douche bag bachelor... he hasn’t been disrespectful and has been completely honest with me. In the begging he seemed more open with his emotions and open minded to settling down in the next 4 years.. now he’s completely not about it. He wants variety. Wants to travel. Wants to be done with us bc he said he’s a dead end road and doesn’t want everyone knowing we are sleeping together... he’s trying to talk to other woman to get away and they have been bailing on him.. my feelings are hurt bc our connection was so effortless and now he’s not letting things just flow and go where they go. He’s deciding that things will end and constantly tell me that they will.
He's had 45 years on this earth figuring himself and what he wants out. Believe him when he says he 'doesn't want to settle down' and 'wants variety' and 'doesn't want people to know you are fucking each other'.
He sounds ashamed of you. What a boner kill.
If a guy, regardless of his sign, tells you he doesn’t want you , then why still pursue?
Let him go. Give yourself to someone who is willing to put the effort in
No. You are still young, get out now.
Idk if he did, but I was definitely falling for him. For me it was a love at first sight kind of things.
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
You're Libra Venus and he is Leo Venus. Did you ever fall in love?
Is our Venus very compatible?
Can you relate to this guy at in your own behavior?
Eeeeeerrm sis...wtf are you doing?
🤔🧐
Don't you want a guy to cherish and love you ?
This guy ain't it.
Oh and as he's a cancer douche bag, he'll try to hit it when you finally leave him alone and stop persuing him. DON'T FALL FOR IT. ISSA TRAP.
THIS POST is one of the reasons I hate Cancer men. The most bs'ing men EVER. They all do this.
Well. I have a cancer friend/ex fwb who did this to OTHER women and I used to call him out on his bs.
Now he's married and STILL up to his bs.
Clearly because one day I randomly messaged him after months and months of no contact and he immediately blocked me. 😂😂 I texted him saying "still a f**kboy I see 👀".
What a douche. Ugh. Cringe
Posted by peaceandtranquility_96
Eeeeeerrm sis...wtf are you doing?
🤔🧐
Don't you want a guy to cherish and love you ?
This guy ain't it.
Oh and as he's a cancer douche bag, he'll try to hit it when you finally leave him alone and stop persuing him. DON'T FALL FOR IT. ISSA TRAP.
THIS POST is one of the reasons I hate Cancer men. The most bs'ing men EVER. They all do this.
Well. I have a cancer friend/ex fwb who did this to OTHER women and I used to call him out on his bs.
Now he's married and STILL up to his bs.
Clearly because one day I randomly messaged him after months and months of no contact and he immediately blocked me. 😂😂 I texted him saying "still a f**kboy I see 👀".
What a douche. Ugh. Cringe
exactly... I used to believe they were emotional, sentimental, and loyal lovers. NAHHH! By the way, this is a generalization! i am pretty sure there are AMAZING cancer men out there. But, from what I've seen and my experience, the cancer men I've known tend to stray. It just must be all of those emotions. I find that they hate being vulnerable and tend to run instead of face it.
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I agree, it is a generalization but yeah whatyoure saying is so true.
I dunno about the emotional part. They are emotionally manipulating.
Yep
Yep
I agree
Force him, tie him down, convince him, entice him. Men need to learn to commit...at45— Ffs. Lasso him. And if it reeeeally doesnt work out, if he reeeallly keeps running, at least you tried, you will be proud of yourself, you will become more attractive to other men because you will radiate an energy of fearlessness. And he will be better off because it gave him life experience and he might begin to settle down because of it.
Question
Let’s say you own a business and you invested in this businesses to make it successful.
And you have this A1 employee they are your number 1 star you promoted him gave him weekends off and paid holidays. Your business was thriving way before he came along but him being there is just nice to know you got some 1 who Is that committed to your business too.
But 1 day this employee decides he wants to quite he turns in his notice and starts the process of leaving.
Would you shut down you business and close the doors or would you reach out to HR to hire you a new employee with better quality.
You choose
28years old Woman: sun scorpio/moon Aquarius/Venus Libra- abandonment issues. Craves a relationship
45 year Man: sun cancer/ moon Scorpio/ Venus Leo- commitment issues , bachelor life, Peter Pan syndrome
We met a year ago through my my moms
Boyfriend. Instant connection and has been that way every single time we run into each other at events with friends. We finally slept together after a year had passed. Hooked up for about 3 months and now is backing off completely. He has a rep for not being in relationships, typical douche bag bachelor... he hasn’t been disrespectful and has been completely honest with me. In the begging he seemed more open with his emotions and open minded to settling down in the next 4 years.. now he’s completely not about it. He wants variety. Wants to travel. Wants to be done with us bc he said he’s a dead end road and doesn’t want everyone knowing we are sleeping together... he’s trying to talk to other woman to get away and they have been bailing on him.. my feelings are hurt bc our connection was so effortless and now he’s not letting things just flow and go where they go. He’s deciding that things will end and constantly tell me that they will.
wave goodbye - and good riddance as it will never work - sorry
Force him, tie him down, convince him, entice him. Men need to learn to commit...at45— Ffs. Lasso him. And if it reeeeally doesnt work out, if he reeeallly keeps running, at least you tried, you will be proud of yourself, you will become more attractive to other men because you will radiate an energy of fearlessness. And he will be better off because it gave him life experience and he might begin to settle down because of it.
Wrong you won’t radiant energy of fearlessness ! Men don’t see that shit n yeah you don’t want to be a stepping stone for the bitch the he marries next. Remember when you piece a broken mirror you will get cut. He’s 45 n still hasn’t figured it out!! Not your job to fix anyone let alone stay for potential
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Really have you tried pursuing a desperate cause and felt rejected by men after?
Be a stepping stone! Make humanity better ! Why you only thinking about yourself ? Is that how you go through life??
Force him, tie him down, convince him, entice him. Men need to learn to commit...at45— Ffs. Lasso him. And if it reeeeally doesnt work out, if he reeeallly keeps running, at least you tried, you will be proud of yourself, you will become more attractive to other men because you will radiate an energy of fearlessness. And he will be better off because it gave him life experience and he might begin to settle down because of it.
Wrong you won’t radiant energy of fearlessness ! Men don’t see that shit n yeah you don’t want to be a stepping stone for the bitch the he marries next. Remember when you piece a broken mirror you will get cut. He’s 45 n still hasn’t figured it out!! Not your job to fix anyone let alone stay for potential
Really have you tried pursuing a desperate cause and felt rejected by men after?
Be a stepping stone! Make humanity better ! Why you only thinking about yourself ? Is that how you go through life??
Yeah it made no difference to men after, she’s Was not born to be a savior and a sacrificial lamb. he’s got to save himself he’s 45 not a child!! She should not sacrifice herself to her detriment ever!!
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That's the american way of thinking, and they're 330 million selfish morons going nowhere.
And when l started pursuing women, even when they didnlt want me, l started radiating confident energy and other women really wanted me.
dont know about the men...but as cancer woman....when i run. i am not at all planning on coming back or wanting you to chase me
little general info on cancer:
its very easy and simple with us. scorps are the same. you can test it very easily
even if we retreat to recharge...when you stop communication.....so you dont send anything at all and you drop of the face of the earth....it wont last long before we reach out
if we dont....we are gone honey.
and most of the time...there is a reason somewhere there
if we are devoted you will have to push us away and say out loud: i am done
otherwise we are the types that will keep fighting for a realionship
if it wasnt a relationship yet...meaning there were no promises made..............and i mean really no promises
then.....he is not in love if he just leaves
and even though we give full attention
if someone is not our one...and that person chases us.......weeeee hate that!!! hate itttt
if you did have a relationship ....and trust me when we date you.....and its a REAL date.....you are in a relationship with a crab hahahahaha you may not think you are
but yeah....for us....we are
so if you did anything during that time ...that gave away that you were not sure about him yet....
then it could be he felt you were not gonna put in what he would do
sounds maybe cruel but the crab is the all or nothing among the signs
we dont do half half and we expect that too in a partner
we can also sense anything you dont tell us.....and if that has to do with the relationship......we get carefull and if then too many things pop up and become fishy......if we have had that multiple times in our lives we can see the warning signs from miles away and wont stay to see it crash
if a crab walks out...........you need to ask: "is it really all of a sudden? or were there signs? "
meaning convos...............events that happened
we remember everyyything
things most people will forget
we remember
smells sounds.....the way someone looked
the tone of someones voice
we are the lie detector of the signssss just like pisces and scorpio
even when you dont know you are not being honest
we know
harsh. but the truth
and its not easy for us either
sometimes it would be nice to be oblivious
if a cancer man says he doesnt want to settle
trust me
he DOESNT
if he was in love
you would know
we crabs dont put it under tables
shy in the beginning ...yes
but once its answered even a little bit
we jump in
then this guy:
honey, respect yourself
he is actually being very honest
thats the scorpio
because the cancer tells him to not wanna hurt your feelings and just goes away
so this is actually a very upfront reaction
there is no question here?
he even insulted you?
a cancer that tells you he doesnt want people to know?
uhhhhhhhhhhhhh...............runnn you should be running
and i think that if he would read this post he would problably say the same
whatever sign................he should adoreeee you
and flaunt you to everyone
and he is 45 and still like this
thats a charlie sheen syndrome honey not peter pan...even he was open about Wendy
He's a flake and too old for you....there's nothing worse than a middle aged man trying to live a younger man's life
Like everyone else said. He said he doesnt want you. Move on. You're to young to be crying over some 45 yo man child.
That being said... if a Cancer man really wants you he will grab onto you with those crabby claws of his and cling on to you forever never letting you go.
He doesn't want you. He just wants to fuck you. Leave it alone ffs. Dick isnt worth it. Probably cant even keep it up with out Viagra half the time anyway.
Run after him..he will like that for sure..if he ignores you don't get discouraged, continue😁
hahahahahahahahahahahaahahhahahahhaahaa
Like everyone else said. He said he doesnt want you. Move on. You're to young to be crying over some 45 yo man child.
That being said... if a Cancer man really wants you he will grab onto you with those crabby claws of his and cling on to you forever never letting you go.
He doesn't want you. He just wants to fuck you. Leave it alone ffs. Dick isnt worth it. Probably cant even keep it up with out Viagra half the time anyway.
hhahahahahahahahahhahahhahha
and
yep!
There's nothing to do. You don't even have grounds to be mad at him because he was honest about what he was after. Sometimes we hear and see what we want to instead of what is clearly being said and done, and it bites us.
In agreement.
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
Can you relate to this guy at in your own behavior?
Totally. They say Venus in Leo has extremely good taste in women, so naturally he wants only those.
In the last 3 years I was single, I met only 2 (Scorpio with Libra Moon, and Libra) I would totally and forever commit to. Every other I would not date or do exactly what he did to you, even though I would like them.
When I was 18 I would be notorious for it as I did not want to be single, so I would "date" someone even though I knew from the first second I will never be with her. I would date her for like 2 months, and then pull away. I would still like them and let them get a bit deeper, but she would be on an emotional range (very cruel) from day 1. I would kind of "love her", but not really, as I would always know I'm "better".
Now, for the once I would commit to, it was totally opposite. I knew from the first second I would commit to you, forever. If it takes more than 1 second to commit, then I already don't want you. I met a Sag woman that told me that's how women work biologically also.
What an arrogant little prick you are.
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He actually gave a very honest insight into the thought process of an insecure toxic Cancer man. Some toxic ones I know operate just like him. They purposely date women they deem “below them” so they have a better hold on their feelings. This way they never fall for that woman no matter how much time they spend with them.
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28years old Woman: sun scorpio/moon Aquarius/Venus Libra- abandonment issues. Craves a relationship
45 year Man: sun cancer/ moon Scorpio/ Venus Leo- commitment issues , bachelor life, Peter Pan syndrome
We met a year ago through my my moms
Boyfriend. Instant connection and has been that way every single time we run into each other at events with friends. We finally slept together after a year had passed. Hooked up for about 3 months and now is backing off completely. He has a rep for not being in relationships, typical douche bag bachelor... he hasn’t been disrespectful and has been completely honest with me. In the begging he seemed more open with his emotions and open minded to settling down in the next 4 years.. now he’s completely not about it. He wants variety. Wants to travel. Wants to be done with us bc he said he’s a dead end road and doesn’t want everyone knowing we are sleeping together... he’s trying to talk to other woman to get away and they have been bailing on him.. my feelings are hurt bc our connection was so effortless and now he’s not letting things just flow and go where they go. He’s deciding that things will end and constantly tell me that they will.