Taurus meeting Cancer after 11 months of Separation

He "I love you so much" me as a friend.

I "I love you so much" him as a lover.

After resisting and confused for about 5-6 months that If I should meet him or not, I finally decided to have at least one meal with him.

I don't know how should I behave. Its obvious, it won't be as cute and good as before. We deliberately let differences in.

I am pretty sure he would want to hug me. But somehow, I don't.

When we were extremely close friends (those who talk day & night all the time either on phone, text or hangout) , he always wanted to go to a fine dining expensive and a romantic restaurant with me. I resisted as its a romantic place and I would never want to go there with a friend.

But now, I am going to take him there (he comes to my city to meet me always) when I will meet him - reason? He accused me of being a double standard girl - that I can eat with him in a park or home or a regular restaurant, but not there.

I am so confused what to wear - something sexy or casual or anything, it does not really matter?

Since last few months, my appearance has changed drastically - thanks to workout! My face, haircut, body, ass, breasts, way I dress up - everything got upgraded.

Also, he wants to see my car. I was 25, not knowing how to drive a car. He did everything he can for me to learn driving. When he left, I not only got my DL but I also got a luxury car. Its very obvious he wants to sit in it and I want to go to that restaurant in my car with me driving this time and him on passenger seat.

I don't know how much deep conversation should I have while having the meal. Should I talk about me? Should I talk about us? Should I talk about him?

Please help me here. I told you want I am thinking to do, and asked where I am confused what to do.

I am in still love with him. My only concern is - I don't want to be close to him again. Taurus does not like to touch someone who is not theirs. I cannot touch him at all. I cannot establish a close deep soulful connection to him again because it hurt me to the core when he asked me to stay away and move on till I am done with him. I just want to hide that I still love him - more than it was before.

Also, I am considering that he would might want to talk about if he met any girl or something. I am not interested in knowing whom he thinks as a potential lover when I want to be in that place.

I will not cancel this meet. I have made my mind to meet him. At least once.

Please help this situation. I don't want him to be disappointing with this. Nor I want to be disappointing towards me. I already know that there will be something which would hurt me when we will meet, but I will still do it.

Thanks.

Priya

Posted by taurus575
He "I love you so much" me as a friend.

I "I love you so much" him as a lover.

After resisting and confused for about 5-6 months that If I should meet him or not, I finally decided to have at least one meal with him.

I don't know how should I behave. Its obvious, it won't be as cute and good as before. We deliberately let differences in.

I am pretty sure he would want to hug me. But somehow, I don't.

When we were extremely close friends (those who talk day & night all the time either on phone, text or hangout) , he always wanted to go to a fine dining expensive and a romantic restaurant with me. I resisted as its a romantic place and I would never want to go there with a friend.

But now, I am going to take him there (he comes to my city to meet me always) when I will meet him - reason? He accused me of being a double standard girl - that I can eat with him in a park or home or a regular restaurant, but not there.

I am so confused what to wear - something sexy or casual or anything, it does not really matter?

Since last few months, my appearance has changed drastically - thanks to workout! My face, haircut, body, ass, breasts, way I dress up - everything got upgraded.

Also, he wants to see my car. I was 25, not knowing how to drive a car. He did everything he can for me to learn driving. When he left, I not only got my DL but I also got a luxury car. Its very obvious he wants to sit in it and I want to go to that restaurant in my car with me driving this time and him on passenger seat.

I don't know how much deep conversation should I have while having the meal. Should I talk about me? Should I talk about us? Should I talk about him?

Please help me here. I told you want I am thinking to do, and asked where I am confused what to do.

I am in still love with him. My only concern is - I don't want to be close to him again. Taurus does not like to touch someone who is not theirs. I cannot touch him at all. I cannot establish a close deep soulful connection to him again because it hurt me to the core when he asked me to stay away and move on till I am done with him. I just want to hide that I still love him - more than it was before.

Also, I am considering that he would might want to talk about if he met any girl or something. I am not interested in knowing whom he thinks as a potential lover when I want to be in that place.

I will not cancel this meet. I have made my mind to meet him. At least once.

Please help this situation. I don't want him to be disappointing with this. Nor I want to be disappointing towards me. I already know that there will be something which would hurt me when we will meet, but I will still do it.

Thanks.

Priya

Wear your sexiest black dress, stilettos, perfume behind your ear, etc. PLEASE, don't have sex with that night. Let him continue to pursue you. I too, hit the gym and lost weight. BUT, I am not you. I don't take ANY of my exes back and I will not START today; and my ex Saggy bf knows this.

If the question is about you, then yeah, answer his question.

Let us know how it went.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Sorry this short, but it's my b-day and my boss just left; I will do the same.

Posted by ChrisIsKodak
If he's taken, drop him. You can find another cancer. There's plenty of crab in the sea.

I am not the kind of girl who would eye a taken man. It was one of my concerns. I am not trying to woo him.

I am extremely pissed off on him because of lots of his statements and his actions. But I will not say anything bad to him because I am in love with him and I will not hurt him 🙂

When we were really close, we spent the night together. Imagine a crab saying "I see wife in you" in the evening and next day saying "lets just be friends"

When we were just friends before, he told me that he only want to date those women whom he find a potential wife. We became so close to each other that he started liking me. I also did. But no one was saying anything to each other. I did. He did accepted but he rejected next day. He said his thoughts could not find me more than a friend. He also added that I deserve to have an awesome life whereas he can only give me a bad and painful life. He pre-assumed everything. I am a PhD with high salary. He is a college dropout with less income. He did mention that difference.

Why do men think Taurus women seek money from their partners? All I want is loyalty, orgasm and food.

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Posted by taurus575
He "I love you so much" me as a friend.

I "I love you so much" him as a lover.

After resisting and confused for about 5-6 months that If I should meet him or not, I finally decided to have at least one meal with him.

I don't know how should I behave. Its obvious, it won't be as cute and good as before. We deliberately let differences in.

I am pretty sure he would want to hug me. But somehow, I don't.

When we were extremely close friends (those who talk day & night all the time either on phone, text or hangout) , he always wanted to go to a fine dining expensive and a romantic restaurant with me. I resisted as its a romantic place and I would never want to go there with a friend.

But now, I am going to take him there (he comes to my city to meet me always) when I will meet him - reason? He accused me of being a double standard girl - that I can eat with him in a park or home or a regular restaurant, but not there.

I am so confused what to wear - something sexy or casual or anything, it does not really matter?

Since last few months, my appearance has changed drastically - thanks to workout! My face, haircut, body, ass, breasts, way I dress up - everything got upgraded.

Also, he wants to see my car. I was 25, not knowing how to drive a car. He did everything he can for me to learn driving. When he left, I not only got my DL but I also got a luxury car. Its very obvious he wants to sit in it and I want to go to that restaurant in my car with me driving this time and him on passenger seat.

I don't know how much deep conversation should I have while having the meal. Should I talk about me? Should I talk about us? Should I talk about him?

Please help me here. I told you want I am thinking to do, and asked where I am confused what to do.

I am in still love with him. My only concern is - I don't want to be close to him again. Taurus does not like to touch someone who is not theirs. I cannot touch him at all. I cannot establish a close deep soulful connection to him again because it hurt me to the core when he asked me to stay away and move on till I am done with him. I just want to hide that I still love him - more than it was before.

Also, I am considering that he would might want to talk about if he met any girl or something. I am not interested in knowing whom he thinks as a potential lover when I want to be in that place.

I will not cancel this meet. I have made my mind to meet him. At least once.

Please help this situation. I don't want him to be disappointing with this. Nor I want to be disappointing towards me. I already know that there will be something which would hurt me when we will meet, but I will still do it.

Thanks.

Priya

Wear your sexiest black dress, stilettos, perfume behind your ear, etc. PLEASE, don't have sex with that night. Let him continue to pursue you. I too, hit the gym and lost weight. BUT, I am not you. I don't take ANY of my exes back and I will not START today; and my ex Saggy bf knows this.

If the question is about you, then yeah, answer his question.

Let us know how it went.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Sorry this short, but it's my b-day and my boss just left; I will do the same.

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Happy Birthday Eva! May you always live happy ?

I could look completely sexy but when I did in the past, he tried finding ways to touch me. No sex with him - it's only allowed in my dreams and my thoughts. In real life, we cannot have sex lol.

I will tell everyone how it went when it will happen. I hope I am doing it right and I behave right with him. 🙂

I think I don't feel like to go and meet him again. It's not a good idea to be friends with someone with whom you want to have sex day and night.

He broke my heart. I don't know why he still says I love you to me. I feel it could be another disaster if I met him. How would I even behave!?! Its going to be awkward 😢 I so want to kiss him the moment I see him but can I 😢

I can't fake at all, he is very very special for me 🙂 I should be real with him

I am going mad to have sex with him. I feel bad for myself sometimes to be so much deprived. I am being so much stupid and out of focus