Three Types of Cancerians: Need Your Opinion

Okay, Cancer used to be a sign I rarely would run into till I started becoming more sociable at this university club I've been frequenting for over 5 years. I've gotten to know a few personally for a few years now and have seen the traits whether they were acquaintences, friends, lovers....It seems to me there are 3 types, and maybe you can help elaborate for me.

1) The Goofy Ones: For lack of a better word, these are the kind that are the center of a party and people just seem to gather around them, gravitating towards their charm. On the surface, they don't seem to take anything seriously; always cracking jokes. On a deeper level however, they are abit jaded and impersonal once removed from "the partay". I knew a girl like this who was great fun in the social gatherings, but also a great friend and down to earth in private. However, we stayed in the friend zone partly because of her jaded attitude towards dating. She seemed much more interested in burying herself in her book collection than finding romance.

2) The Busy-Bodies: My LEAST FAVORITE Cancers BY FAR. These are the bitches/pricks that can be loud, condescending, and obnoxious. They get into everyone's business and are gossip kings/queens. These fuckers really know how to talk down to people. They always get wrapped up in shit that just has nothing to do with them, and if there isn't drama, they will damn well create it. They also like to make tempests out of teapots and exaggerate. THE BIGGEST THING that pisses me off about them is their God-damn UN-solicited advice!!

3) The Moon People: These are my absolute favorite Cancers! I am a male Leo, so I can't really speak for the male Cancers. These women are the kind that absolutely melt my lion heart. They just seem to get me and understand me in ways no one else can. You just feel like you've known them forever. They have a classic, timeless elegance about them. Maybe in another life they could have been a queen or princess of some kind. They are mysterious and at times, elusive. They are guarded, but once they decide to let you into their lives, they will give unto you the world. They seem to have no shortage of friends, though like all Cancers, or water signs for that matter, they like to keep their "inner circle" of people. Often they will champion what they view as noble causes, trying to rally as many people as they can to the ideas they feel passionate about.

This is for all the cancers. There moods change alot.

.............

You're describing decans.

I had a feeling these could also possibly be moods, and I never said "limited to" or anything.

Someone mentioned "decans" which is what I was going for. Could someone explain this concept?

However, the people in question I was thinking of when I wrote the types did seem to *lean* heavily toward each respective demeanor.

^^^Yes Ur right these things does not describe just 1 type of Cancer as u should know our moods shift like the wind.

each sign of the zodiac is parceled into three "decans"; members of each decan will "lean" heavily, as you say, towards those particular traits - that is NOT to say that all cancers don't share these traits, only that depending on your decan they will be more pronounced.

Posted by xangelfishx
each sign of the zodiac is parceled into three "decans"; members of each decan will "lean" heavily, as you say, towards those particular traits - that is NOT to say that all cancers don't share these traits, only that depending on your decan they will be more pronounced.

I'm a second decan what does that mean??

Posted by Summer Bear

Posted by *Tasha
once again: 2nd decan is the best

Negative.


1st Decans share Gemini Qualities. 3rd Decans share Leo Qualities.


That makes us a little more aggressive and extroverted. And also not so attached emotionally.


-Summer B. 😉

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I guess I share the Leo Qualities *raises the roof* HAHA 😄

actually, the decans coincide with the other signs in your element. For example the first decan of any sign is concsidered double that sign - I am a first decan taurus so I am a taurus-taurus; a first decan cancer is a cancer-cancer; a second decan cancer would be a cancer-scorpio, and then cancer-pisces.

Tasha don't even respond back to that stuff, you just feeding the troll (ppl in general) its not worth your time.

Posted by Ike
Its not tasha's fault . Thing is she has a lot of leo in her chart , which means sensitivity combined with strong /easily hurt ego . Why don't you assholes try living under that combination ? Its like hell on earth , she gets really hurt but then she fights because of pride , then people think she is arrogant (but really she is hurt) . This is why as a leo i am extremely blessed not to have any cancer in my chart (no offense to the crabs) but its a bad mix you see .

No trying to be rude but why do you visit this board?? I always see you and that lady virgotome over here all the time.

Posted by Ike
wtf? I visit this board occasionally when i am bored .

No need to get bitchy.

Posted by virgogotme
"No trying to be rude but why do you visit this board?? I always see you and that lady virgotome over here all the time."


...because the DXP police say I can ? Is that legit? no?
ok...because I can - or......the current of the waves pulls me in...or...😉

You not even worth my time. Thirsty chic...

Posted by Summer Bear

Posted by Ike
The coolest cancers ? well the best cancers in my opnion are cancers with gemini infulence (yes i know gems are flaky markers who cheat) BUT when it combines with a cancer sun it balances out , since cancer are loyal loving etc . The gem adds a nice fun loving , intellectual flair plus you don't get hurt easily . See its just a sexy mix . waters need air infulence to counterbalance emotion and Fire needs earth to counterbalance impulsiveness and excessive pride .

agreed.

Glad 2 be me 😉

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I guess....

Posted by eden 3
hey dream & bear do u guys have gem moons?

if so details pretty pls with suga on top..... 🙂

I have a virgo moon and summerbear is a cusp cancer/gemini.

Posted by virgogotme
Venus in Gemini is the worst IMO. They get bored of the person they are with much
easier.

ahhh 😢 I'm a venusian gem....

But sadly virgogotme has a point..here check it

Venus in Gemini

Venus in Gemini people will try to win over the object of their affection with witty conversation, displaying just how much they "know", and demonstrating their diverse interests. These lovers are playful -- some might even call them a tease. They are hard to pin down, and they resist relationships that promise to become too "comfortable". Even those with their Sun in Taurus or Cancer, whose outward demeanor may suggest some reserve and caution, will want their relationships to be stimulating and full of conversation with Venus in Gemini. Venus in Gemini men and women don't want to be tied or bogged down in their relationships. They appreciate lightheartedness in love. Although they are willing to talk (perhaps endlessly) about the relationship, you may get the feeling that they gloss over some of the deeper issues. In love, their tastes change often, and it can be hard to know what to expect from one day to the next (or, sometimes, from one hour to the next!).

Pleasing Venus in Gemini involves supporting their need for fun and variety, showing interest in their brainpower and knowledge, and giving them space for friends and activities outside of the relationship. Let them know just how much fun you have with them. Try not to get overly miffed by Venus in Gemini's changeable, fickle ways. Remember that time spent with your lover will be exciting and invigorating...

Posted by *Tasha
lol. my venus is in Cancer like 1 degree. meaning i was alllmost a venus in Gem

gee, i guess that explains where all the teasing comes from huh smiles 😉

just kidding. nothing wrong with wanting excitement

LOL probably is where all the teasing comes from haha. I know right! I firmly believe that relationships need a fair share of excitement to keep things fun and interesting. Doesn't need excitement everyday but something fun every now and than atleast you know? 😄

Posted by eden 3

Posted by virgogotme
Venus in Gemini is the worst IMO. They get bored of the person they are with much
easier.

omg I was wrong it's not his moon it's venus that is in gem. and he wonders why he is always in relationship hell....

thx for the moon info vgm

and thx for the venus info smiles :O
and now spill it! pllllzz cuz ur the one i'm looking for....haha. he doesn't believe in astrology and i want to prove him wrong...ya i know that's my thing *shrugs*

so do u get bored easy ? whats ur thing smiles—

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Like what do you mean Eden?

Well eden..lets see... what is smiles like when he's in love..

How I feel when I'm with "her" (the one I love of course 😉 )
1. Even though she's already with me, I'll still be a flirt
2. It's always just her and I in the room
3. Always some form of physical contact such as hand on the waist, arms around her and vice versa, her head resting on me, etc.
4. Trying everything within my capabilities to have her feel comfortable and happy
5. When I talk to her, it's always direct easy eye contact.
6. And of course, I'll say "I Love You" only if I mean it though (usually takes me a LONG time before I say it)

When I'm without "her"
1. I think about her
2. Find things to keep myself busy, So I'll get her off my mind
3. Always looking forward to seeing her again

ME specifically
1. I'm a more happy go lucky guy, cuz "my" girl brings out the best in me
2. I'm a harder worker, because my girl brings out the best in me
3. I give a new meaning to smiles
4. More motivated to take care of myself (physically of course, don't want her to stop holding onto me)
5. My artistic creative self has renewed inspiration
6. An overall improvement in my habits, personality, and looks

Eden, I'm a firm believer in a relationship needs a firm foundation first before the big question comes up. And I'm not talking about a 6month -12month fondation; I'm talking about atleast 2yrs before I'll consider it.

Sadly, I also wouldn't be able to do a long distance relationship; not being able to see my "loved one" at all for a long period of time would kill me.

I hope this helps out some little way Eden 😄 😉

LoL you seem to bring that out in the crabs huh?! Haha..

My Bday is July 20th. 😄

Posted by virgogotme
"They are hard to pin down, and they resist relationships that promise to become too "comfortable". Even those with their Sun in Taurus"


Yep...my ex of 14 years....Taurus Sun/Venus in Gemini. We make better friends and have
never gotten bitter with one another. People around us cannot believe it. We have
a child and made a committment that we will NEVER do what he & his ex did to his children,
and haven't. I still have a great relationship with his children I helped raise, as well
as my ex-inlaws. Ironically, his Taurus Sun my Scorp Sun (opposites) is exactly what we
are, and we both respect that.

This whole time i thought you were a Virgo by your name, By you being a Scorpio was too intense for him?? Taurus usually don't planned stuff as much, they rather see other people do it HAHAHA! They can be lazy at times.

Posted by virgogotme
I mean really you have virgos here, taurus' here, pisces here...what was the motivation
to pick my screen name out of all them other than to instigate bullshit just like the
other children in these forums do? Can you answer that? Can you? There's a choice
in DXP land, it's called the ignore button use it instead of being a jackass.

Yeah that was rude what i have said to you, i apologize about that but that he/she person IKE kinda insulted me even though he/she said something about a zodiac sign it still had me like "huh", anyway i gotten confused scanning throughout in the thread and thought he had said the same thing.

hey Angel, Virgogotme...it's good to see you guys on here...after long i mean very very long hiatus...
hey smiles...i'm not that new on here anyway but i think we share the same venus....omg...should i be scared now?

gezz people being stop picking on your own...that i say to some cancers on here that you know who..after long gone and just watching and observing from far.. things hasn't changed so much on here huh?

darn!

Lostsoul I guess you should be scared if you're afraid of the personality traits that come along with being a venusian gem.

But yeah I've notice people to observe from afar and than just decide to drop their two cents only when they feel the time is right of course.

But its good to actually meet yah. 😄