Cancer......as a player!

Just wondering what you feel are the characteristics of a male cancer who may be considered a player.....just curious as I don't have that much experience and I am wondering what kind of flags he might throw up...

I am sure the signs are apparently for all signs, but what sticks out for everyone....

Any help or knowledge would be appreciated 🙂

OMG why did you post this question?

1). He will act lovey dovey with you and then leave and go off and flirt with another woman in YOUR FACE.
2). He will walk past you and not speak to you but speak to EVERYBODY else who is with you.
3). He will tell you he is going to do something for you and then you NEVER hear from him again until he thinks he has "lost" you.
4). He will tell you he is going to call you and you will NOT get a call back. You will have to call him first.
5). If you text him, he will NOT answer your texts, leaving you wondering and guessing.
6). If you are at the club, he will come up to you and then leave and leave you wondering where the hell did he go.
7). He will call you about 11:45 AND ONLY AFTER to try to work up some butt.
8). He will tell you to meet him someone, or go out to a social gathering with him and ignore you.
9). He will stare you down like he can see through the bottom of your soul, only to start talking to someone else.
10). He will give you emotional depth to keep you coming back to his sensitive side, only to turn into Dr. Jeckyll on you after the next couple of times you talk.'
11). He will THROW ONE OF HIS PITY ARSE sob stories on you (the worst one you will ever hear) only so he can see what the hell he can get out of you and his sob story.
12). He will EXCITE the HELL out of your fears( childish girl fears) only to abandon YOU until he is ready to come back.
13) THIS MAN IS A MESS!

wow.....sounds like him to a T.....

Just wondering, like I said I haven't that much experience....but I did know something was up at the beginning and thankfully I might have been nice but no push over, if anything it kept him wondering.....have been to honest and forthright, but thats about it.....

.....just preparing for another battle if it comes.....lol

If hes not calling you or texting you every five minutes then you know he has someone on the side the clingy part of us are the most common mannerism we have and if you dont show you...will you know hes clingy to someone else lol

Could be, think he is still hung up on his ex, but do know he is looking on the internet, so perhaps he is thinking I am too hard to get or not worth the work or could be he is not interested....

Just trying to learn....

I do believe for some odd reason that we will encounter each other again but it won't be my doing.....

We are emotional train wrecks.....LOL and will crawl into our shell the minute, I mean minute we feel our hearts are going to be crushed by someone, anyone, as we cant take critisism well, nor dissapointment in love especially. Dont EVER tell us you have been unfaithful, hell will hath no fury and we will be hurt for life, our relationship will be over, there is no gray areas. We will never accept infidelity, but we can surely do it ourselves - yes, and we think its ok. Are we players? I would say yes if we are not emotionally involved, who isnt regardless of sun sign. But we WANT to be emotionally involved and see fireworks go off, and dream of long lasting love. Once we are committed to someone we will REALLY be there for you 110% . You will be smothered in love and gifts and poems, unless that is, you let us down... HINT: Infidelity. Most cancers, to answer your question are NOT players we cannot be involed with too many people at once our hearts cant handle it....

Also, cheek14u you're a Fire sign, Cancer is Water, water dampens fire.... he may always be in contorl. He may love you and cherish you.. but if you are always in tender hooks with each other, perhaps its a sign to see how compatible you are really, or find the root or the route (no pun) of the animosity...good luck :/

I cannot speak for all cancer women but I fit that list, its not just the men!!!!

I guess that ruins it for any cancer male who has learned to keep control over his need to "know where you are/how you're doing" when I'm not around my partner. I figure if you're going to be faithful, I don't have to keep tabs on you. If you're going to be unfaithful... it will come out on its on eventually. The truth is always simple, and when things get super complicated... I will know something is going on. At this point in my life, I will walk away before I hurt myself or my partner anymore than we have done to each other. As far as the 'how you are doing,' that's why "how was your day" is still such a good question. In a relationship, I demand honesty. Not to be controlling... but what's the point of being serious with someone if you have to lie to each other to keep each other happy? I'd rather hear the truth (whatever it is), deal with it, move on, and find something else to focus my energy on.

So either you're fine, and I don't have to worry if you're alright. Or something is wrong, and you'll let me know.

That doesn't mean I won't blow your phone up all day telling you "I miss you" or "I can't wait to see you again" 😉

And as for the flirtatious thing... when I was married, my piscean wife told me that I flirted too much... to the degree that she was jealous because I was apparently (in her insecure eyes) "flirting" with the check-out girl @ the supermarket. What was frustrating about that is, I always joked around with anyone who was the check-out person @ the store. I know what its like to be bored at work all day, @ $ $ hole boss breathing down your neck, hours slowing down the closer you get to clocking out. I've been there, so I always like helping that person feel more relaxed in an environment where they're usually stressed out or under pressure.
So being friendly can be mistaken for flirting in some instances. But if you're invited out somewhere, and ignored... I wouldn't consider it being friendly. In that case it most likely is flirting. But if a guy does this to you (regardless of his sign) play along and show your 'disinterest' in him (and his behavior). Because if I really do like you that way, I wouldn't treat you like that. And you shouldn't tolerate that from someone who would. Because that just opens the door for a guy to try more ignorant $ #!t after you show him that you'll let him get away with that kind of behavior.

Dream, I never do the initial texting or calling of girls; and if I do, it's normally in response and usually a hour after the text or called as been recieved..

But to be completely honest, I'm no player. I just don't find the need to respond majority of the time, too lazy hahaha.

-SMiLES

^^ or too busy!

-SMiLES

Ima player....I suppose...but I have Venus in Gemini. I hink that has alot to do with it.

I too have a venus in gemini, Maybe that's why sometimes it gives off the appearance to the opposite sex that I am.

-SMiLES

I don't necessarily see what's wrong with my venus having a gem sign. And not all cancers are the "clingy" type. That right there is a bunch of junk. So automatically cuz I'm a cancer, I'm a clingy person..

Maybe that's just how it is for some and for other cancers it could be different. I just don't like using my phone, most of the time it's never on me. And if a girl is not going to trust me cuz I don't answer my phone or text back is a bunch of shit.

I prefer talking face to face, never on the phone. Always have and always will.

-SMiLES

Yes Cancer men are a mess. I just got back from a week Cruise in the Bahamas wit a cancer male. I have only been talking with him for about 3 months now but i do not, i repeat do not want a relationship with these men. They r to hard to deal with and can be really sneaky, which i hate. Althou the trip was a amazing, i found out that he is still seeing his ex and she found out i was with him on this cruise. n whats so fucked up about it is that she heard us when she tryed calling him. dont ask me how. Anyway, she started crying and shit n he was trying to calm her down. To make a long story short i know the game i don't want him and i keep him on his toes. We have lots of fun together but i peep da game of the Cancer men it's all good thou, luv u guys😉

Posted by krobe03
OMG why did you post this question?

1). He will act lovey dovey with you and then leave and go off and flirt with another woman in YOUR FACE.
2). He will walk past you and not speak to you but speak to EVERYBODY else who is with you.
3). He will tell you he is going to do something for you and then you NEVER hear from him again until he thinks he has "lost" you.
4). He will tell you he is going to call you and you will NOT get a call back. You will have to call him first.
5). If you text him, he will NOT answer your texts, leaving you wondering and guessing.
6). If you are at the club, he will come up to you and then leave and leave you wondering where the hell did he go.
7). He will call you about 11:45 AND ONLY AFTER to try to work up some butt.
8). He will tell you to meet him someone, or go out to a social gathering with him and ignore you.
9). He will stare you down like he can see through the bottom of your soul, only to start talking to someone else.
10). He will give you emotional depth to keep you coming back to his sensitive side, only to turn into Dr. Jeckyll on you after the next couple of times you talk.'
11). He will THROW ONE OF HIS PITY ARSE sob stories on you (the worst one you will ever hear) only so he can see what the hell he can get out of you and his sob story.
12). He will EXCITE the HELL out of your fears( childish girl fears) only to abandon YOU until he is ready to come back.
13) THIS MAN IS A MESS!

Nailed it! That garbage only works on water signs though. But, it is funny to see them execute it. Women that are attracted to Cancer men are pretty unintelligent. Still funny though. 😉

GM

Posted by moon_eyes
I as a cancer find it damn agravating when it takes a person man woman whoever to answer a text day or 3 Later. how can you forget? Gem influence prob...such airhead thing.

I rest my case. ((Snickering))

GM

Yeah moon is right, but it's not just cancerian males who are oblivious to it, but all males in general.

Posted by moon_eyes
Dream we really do need to talk... lol and lmao @ clinging to someone else.
Cacner men when they are into you they are all up in your business. I think that when its hot and cold he has some chick on the side. Half of the cancer men need a lot of attention from multiple directions.

Huh?? What you mean by i need to talk to someone??

How do you beat a player at their own game?

Posted by moon_eyes
press the power off button and call it GAME OVER

LOL!!!

That's probbaly his twin talking

I actually think it's the Gems, Libs, and Virgs who are the cheaters; try looking at those signs first before considering the cancer to be a player.

Well maybe it's just me than cuz I've been cheated on by 3 Virgo gals :S

If you like a the down-to-earth girls than taurus is more you, but if you're more traditional, than the obvious choice would be cappy. Good hunting! 🙂

Posted by moon_eyes
Ha smiles, i gotta agree with you virgos are slippery big flirts and will flirt and hit on almost anyone and try and get in their pants doesnt matter if they are in a relationship.

My brother is a Virgo, he get's around...i mean AROUND alot.