Like/dislike cancer ?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by lovelibra on Saturday, July 4, 2009 and has 88 replies.

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@lovelibra
17 Years

Though these 2 are relationship signs i have not seen gemini going well with cancer.while libra and scorpio , aquarius and pisces are found numerous and passionate in love ,gemini and cancer rarely found.even scorpio go well with gemini than cancer do .

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@misslissa
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by GeminiMind
Cancers are.....BORING!!! Like to live in their shells instead of speaking up. I think there are a lot of Gems here that have Cancerian tendencies. You know who you are. πŸ˜‰

i have a cancer moon. πŸ™‚

anyway, i have some friends that are together. cancer man and gemini woman. they seem to get along fine. they deffinately have their differences but the truly love each other. πŸ™‚

i have also dated a cancer man for about a year. not really sure why it ended tho.

i would have to agree, tho, that it's not often seen. i've only met those two, in my whole life.

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@cancergem
17 Years500+ PostsCancer

i've never actually dated a gemini but some of my friends are def gems. i've only seen one cancer/gemini coupling and they dated for 11 years then she dumped him because after he moved in with her because she was scared things were moving too fast... 11 years...

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@misslissa
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Well, the possibilities are endless.... But, I miss him all the same, bcuz if he was here as someone else, I wouldn't even know it was him. Lol. He really is a good guy! πŸ™‚ He was always good to me.

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@misslissa
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Lol@ drivers licsence picture...

I agree. It has not been the same... But, change is good and I'm sure they are living happy lives. πŸ™‚

Hey, it's a good thing we are adaptable, right? πŸ˜›

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@SapphireGem
14 YearsGemini

Was with a cancer woman for 4 years. Biggest regret of my life.

No personality of her own, no drive, no passion... all she did was lie, cheat and manipulate (not just me but even her own family). Couldn't say sorry if her life depended on it. Her Scorpio rising didn't help.

Learnt to hate Cancers with a passion (especially females). When I meet a new woman one of the first things I find out is their starsign or birthdate... if she's either of the two signs beginning with 'C', it continues no further.

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@LunarMaiden
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by lovelibra
Though these 2 are relationship signs i have not seen gemini going well with cancer.while libra and scorpio , aquarius and pisces are found numerous and passionate in love ,gemini and cancer rarely found.even scorpio go well with gemini than cancer do .

Cancer and Aqua is a popular match. Gems are two people, that makes Cancers go cross eyed.

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@DeeG
13 Years500+ Posts

Posted by TepCancer
I'm a cancer woman dating a gemini man and so far it been great

It starts out good. That's all I'm gonna say bout that. They are nice people generally things change though once you get close, then the true colors start to show.

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13 Years500+ Posts

Posted by GeminiMind
Cancers are.....BORING!!! Like to live in their shells instead of speaking up. I think there are a lot of Gems here that have Cancerian tendencies. You know who you are. πŸ˜‰

Are you kidding me? quite the contrary. The ones I have dealt with were/are extremely vocal concerning what they are feeling and thinking.

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@DeeG
13 Years500+ Posts

Posted by SapphireGem
Was with a cancer woman for 4 years. Biggest regret of my life.

No personality of her own, no drive, no passion... all she did was lie, cheat and manipulate (not just me but even her own family). Couldn't say sorry if her life depended on it. Her Scorpio rising didn't help.

Learnt to hate Cancers with a passion (especially females). When I meet a new woman one of the first things I find out is their starsign or birthdate... if she's either of the two signs beginning with 'C', it continues no further.

Interesting. My Niece and Nephew are Cancers. Its funny cus my sister is a Pisces and they are very close, to close, unhealthy close. Her son took the role of husband after the Father passed away and my sister has no problem letting that poor kid support her.

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@geminibunny
13 Years

Consider me absolutely confused by Cancer men. Over on the Cancer board we have two threads going on right now. One telling the girls to be consistent and to be reassuring of the Cancer man's emotions. The other thread is telling these girls not to give up their emotions too readily and to not be direct with the Cancer man. Two opposing viewpoints.

I like Cancer men. I love my Cancer friends. But my head is spinning right now from all the confusion.

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@GemStar05
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Cancer and Gemini a big no-no. Cancers are no match for Gemini. Too much emotion will drive us away. Too much clinging will do it as well... I've never been attracted to a Cancer man and the females are annoying as hell to me.

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@LunarMaiden
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Posted by geminibunny
Consider me absolutely confused by Cancer men. Over on the Cancer board we have two threads going on right now. One telling the girls to be consistent and to be reassuring of the Cancer man's emotions. The other thread is telling these girls not to give up their emotions too readily and to not be direct with the Cancer man. Two opposing viewpoints.

I like Cancer men. I love my Cancer friends. But my head is spinning right now from all the confusion.

Cancers like strong people. You are not strong when you allow opposing ideas to confuse you.

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@geminibunny
13 Years

Let me go bang my head against that brick wall of his that he's put up to prove just how strong I can be....

yea you guys crack me up

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Posted by GemStar05
Cancer and Gemini a big no-no. Cancers are no match for Gemini. Too much emotion will drive us away. Too much clinging will do it as well... I've never been attracted to a Cancer man and the females are annoying as hell to me.

who told you all cancers are clingyβ€” dont believe the stereotyping shit on the internet...

that way gems are literally sluts... who just want someone new every now and then :p

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@geminibunny
13 Years

Posted by krebbsmann
Posted by GemStar05
Cancer and Gemini a big no-no. Cancers are no match for Gemini. Too much emotion will drive us away. Too much clinging will do it as well... I've never been attracted to a Cancer man and the females are annoying as hell to me.

who told you all cancers are clingyβ€” dont believe the stereotyping shit on the internet...

that way gems are literally sluts... who just want someone new every now and then :p

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I wish mine was more clingy.

I must like this confusion....or else I wouldn't still be in it. That's my little epiphany for the day.

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12 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by lovelibra
Though these 2 are relationship signs i have not seen gemini going well with cancer.while libra and scorpio , aquarius and pisces are found numerous and passionate in love ,gemini and cancer rarely found.even scorpio go well with gemini than cancer do .

It can work.
In an odd twist though, "clingy" Cancer can scuttle off when the Gem gets obsessive.

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@MoonArtist
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Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by geminibunny
Consider me absolutely confused by Cancer men. Over on the Cancer board we have two threads going on right now. One telling the girls to be consistent and to be reassuring of the Cancer man's emotions. The other thread is telling these girls not to give up their emotions too readily and to not be direct with the Cancer man. Two opposing viewpoints.

I like Cancer men. I love my Cancer friends. But my head is spinning right now from all the confusion.

Cancers like strong people. You are not strong when you allow opposing ideas to confuse you.

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We aren't confusing....we're complicated and contradictory. There's a difference. πŸ˜‰

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I've never dated a Gem man. My dearest and oldest friend is Gemini, though. I've known her since I was 4. Separately we're both forces to be reckoned with. When we're together we're pure trouble and the ultimate schemers and plotters. Dear lord but I adore that flighty bit of a whirl wind!

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@xxixxi
13 Years1,000+ Posts

I think cancers are nice people..with a big heart...they're very patient with me...and ah, how impatient I can be at times! lol I imagine myself with myself (lol? does it make sense at all?) and...shudder... lol.. what a nightmare I could be.. if I happened to be with someone exactly like me on one of those days I feel really cranky and obnoxious..then I would shout & yell.. fuck off!

they're gentle..maybe too gentle at times..which drives me nuts at times lol...without their intending to do so at all..lol

but it's true there are massive major differences between them and us...which are reconcilable but it's a hard path on both parties...from my personal experiences

regardless of their biological gender..they have this motherly feeling..which I strongly feel when I am around them..comforting and warm

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@LunarMaiden
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by MoonArtist
Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by geminibunny
Consider me absolutely confused by Cancer men. Over on the Cancer board we have two threads going on right now. One telling the girls to be consistent and to be reassuring of the Cancer man's emotions. The other thread is telling these girls not to give up their emotions too readily and to not be direct with the Cancer man. Two opposing viewpoints.

I like Cancer men. I love my Cancer friends. But my head is spinning right now from all the confusion.

Cancers like strong people. You are not strong when you allow opposing ideas to confuse you.

We aren't confusing....we're complicated and contradictory. There's a difference. πŸ˜‰

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That's confusing to the confused.

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@GemStar05
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by LunarMaiden
Crabs and Gems are like bickering siblings.
I find that if the Gem is 10 years and older there is less of a competition between us.

My not caring for Cancer has nothing to do with any perceived "competition"; most just annoy me. Not the males so much...

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13 Years500+ Posts

Posted by LunarMaiden
Gems don't seem to like any opinion but their own.

Thanks again for stopping byπŸ˜‰

Posted by MoonArtist
I've never dated a Gem man. My dearest and oldest friend is Gemini, though. I've known her since I was 4. Separately we're both forces to be reckoned with. When we're together we're pure trouble and the ultimate schemers and plotters. Dear lord but I adore that flighty bit of a whirl wind!

It's a good thing you two met and got to know each other when you did, otherwise as adults both might have thought the other was the "ultimate schemer and plotter"πŸ˜‰

Posted by Arielle83
Im a cancer female but def do not live in a shell...

All the cancer men I know are adventurous and outdoorsy and well educated...always want to know the deeper meaning in all aspects of life...

Maybe you met someone who was traumatized by a major life event? Or was dealing with some personal problems? When that happens we do like to escape the world and dive deeper into ourselves; however, we always come out of it in full swing and much stronger.

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Some of the cancers (both gender) that I've known buckled under pressure and could not make a move and preferred to remain where they were. While some appeared to be pretty strong and vocal and weren't willing to remain in a situation that they felt was draining. They weren't all nurturing though, opportunistic more like it. LOL, yet all were capable of manipulation. So yes all of that could describe a cancer imo.

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@DeeG
13 Years500+ Posts

Posted by MoonArtist
I've never dated a Gem man. My dearest and oldest friend is Gemini, though. I've known her since I was 4. Separately we're both forces to be reckoned with. When we're together we're pure trouble and the ultimate schemers and plotters. Dear lord but I adore that flighty bit of a whirl wind!

Me too. I dated one Cancer man years ago, for like a week. I wasn't ready for anything serious, he thought we were boyfriend and girlfriend. I felt so bad. Didn't know how to break it to him that I was just having fun. I dodged all his calls etc etc until he said, "hey we gotta talk"...I owed him at least that.

He was great in bed though.πŸ™‚ I'm such a slut! πŸ˜›

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13 Years500+ PostsScorpio

Posted by lovelibra
Though these 2 are relationship signs i have not seen gemini going well with cancer.while libra and scorpio , aquarius and pisces are found numerous and passionate in love ,gemini and cancer rarely found.even scorpio go well with gemini than cancer do .

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