Update with my Cancer

Hey guys,
We broke it off. 😢 I really liked him he was the most affectionate guy I've ever met but also sooo selfish and moody and so after all the fights and crazy nights and days we ended up nowhere. But I'm surprisingly ok and not depressed, I don't know.. now I'm happier and more secure with myself. I do miss him a lot still it's been only 3 weeks but just the constant proving myself to him and constant arguments the past 6 months kind of wore me down and him also. Well I don't know If I'll ever go with a cancer again after this. lol He drove me crazy.

I think its best you moved on. Who knows what the future holds...no one, but it can be much better than the past as long as YOU make it. Good luck & keep your head up.

Yea thanks SF.. how are you and your cancer?

We're pretty good, making progress.

Sorry to hear that summer. Us Cancer's require alot and not everyone can supply us with what we need and want. We're never too sure or secure with the person we are with so the person will always have to prove their love for us and if you're not a person who's up for the challenge then it can take a toll on you. I'm glad you are not bitter about this and decided not to date a Cancer again if fine because more than likely its going to be the same road ahead if you did.

Some people really want things to happen and hold on waiting for them to happen and not want to except what they want to happen is not going to ever be. You have to focus on whats going on at the present time not how you want things to be in the future. If you're taking steps back instead of moving forward then thats a problem and you should move on.

People get comfortable with how things are and tend to stay in their comfort zones and keep you at a certain level within their comfort zone. If their not willing to allow you to move them outside their comfort zone then you're not ever going to get anywhere with them and you'll just be around when they want you around. Summer you'll find someone who's into putting just as much effort into a relationship as you are. Sorry it didn't happen to be a Cancer. Best Wishes!!

Not really. As with any sign some things may come across different because of difference in a male and female point of views. The same sex of the same sign are different at times so it really don't matter about male or female. It depends on how true to the sign they are.

I have a female Cancer friend and her birthday is very close to my cancer's birthday and they seem to have a lot of the same traits.

I'm not going to discriminate against cancers if there is an opportunity again for me. I'm not going to stop dating anybody cuz he is a cancer. I'm drawn to cancers i don't even know why. =)

I just didn't understand how he acted with me. I felt like why did I have to always proved myself how much i care for him, I didn't have to do that, i didn't do anything wrong for him to doubt me(if he did) and he sure wasn't proving himself to me. I also know when he was mad or upset about something, He was the type of person who is mad without telling you anything he just becomes emotionally withdrawn. I cannot communicate with someone like that. I'm faithful and caring person and very patient but he was just too much. Either he was poor in communicating Or he just maybe never really cared for me(and my dumba** stayed with him for that long) because why was i wondering about how he felt about me? I was always telling him how i was feeling, it be mad, happy, sad, i tell him but he was the opposite. well there was something missing and it just wasn't going to get any better. I've put myself out there too much for him and i felt like it was just a one way street.