Cancer's and revenge!

Out of curiousity....how do you male cancers like to take revenge on someone you feel has offended or hurt you?

You know what the say the best defense is a good offense?

I grew out of revenge in grade school. I learned very early its easier to forgive than to hold a grudge or swear vengeance. Because really, whos time does it waste? only yours. It's better just to take the hit and move on.

Now, speaking in a defensive term, if the attacker/aggravator is very upfront of about his/her method (such as resorting to violence) than I have a HUGE problem with that. Nobody touches me unless I say that can, if you do anything to violate my personal space, you better believe I'll put you to the ground. I think most cancers have a problem with taking a blow such as, being mocked, cheated, or just cut down by others. I don't care if somebody tries to say something to my face because they're just pointing out their own insecurities, you don't have the power to harm me verbally or mentally, BUT when it comes to the physical nature of things... than I have a problem.

I really hope you don't plan to physically harm him, because if hes anything of the protection sort, it WON'T happen. However he isn't mature enough either, he might resort to vengeance, but most of us guys just don't give a shit whether or not something takes the time to cut us down, they're just wasting their own time.

I have a friend like you....you make sense but you know what they say curiousity killed the cat....or kitten lol

Good to know....trust me confrontation is the last thing from my mind and in no way would physical violence play any part...he isn't worth wasting anymore effort on

Everyone just says well you should never screw with a cancer they are vengeful and hold grudges and I am just wondering what they are capable of doing...

....don't worry leokitten....he is a idiot...its a coincedence that he is a cancer....he truly isn't smart enough and he is socially retarted....just bored and curious....

I think the greatest revenge is knowing this idiot will likely live his life out alone or with someone on his own level which will use and abuse him......my guess is he will enjoy it as they say cancers love misery...I actually should say un-enlightened cancers that is!

Well leokitten....I can admit to showing a lack of judgement....at least I think I have learned something from this experience....

I guess thats something a leo would never admit to as you are always right...it must be hard being so purrfect all the time...

The only question I do have is...if your relationship is so purrfect why are you wasting all your time on this board belittling others....I guess you have to get your thrills somewhere....apparently your perfect cancer is unable to fullfill you in that way...or maybe its the other way around and you can't fullfill his needs

I don't know leokitten....it seems to me that people who lack in self esteem need to knock others down....so if there is someone who is lacking in that department you should take a long hard look in the mirror....

Gee and why do you have to rationalize having nothing better to do just before or after work....I mean really you should get over yourself and do us all a favor

Seems like such a purrfect relationship and so many nights all to yourself....gee I wonder trouble in paradise?

Again you need to rationalize your checking of posts....hmm...ok I believe you....and not that I am counting but you seem to be on here quite a bit tearing everyone down...

I have to say I think you are right on the money with a lot....to you there is no grey area it is all black and white...sometimes that is a good thing and sometimes its not...

Oh and not that I am counting it seems like you have a lot of free time on your hands for someone in a relationship....if you have so much free time why not use your powers for good lol

Hey I admit it.....its a learning curve for me....and I can say I have learned something....

You seem to have all the answers....you must have a lot of experience with men lol

So really what are you getting out of all of this?

Sorry I answered my own question earlier....

Self importance lol

Wow good try....bringing the conversation back to the idiot....thanks for your concern you really are a very caring individual....thankfully because of people like you my wounds are healing....like I said earlier some of your insight has been helpful...and then somethings I have read just seem to be venemous and are directed at what you perceive to be weak individuals....you just want to help...but really you are only stroking your own huge ego.....or again trying to build yourself up by knocking others down....

So now you are amused by the pain others are in....wow just another insight into your sensitive side....wow mother theresa has nothing on you lol

ya ya.....is all about winning with you and one up-man-ship......

I'm rubber your glue....everything you say bounces off of me and sticks to you....yadda yadda yadda

Your right in the end we all have to take care of ourselves.....

One last question....

Can you really be a expert if you have never made the mistakes that people on this board talk about?

and if you have never made that mistake....how can you have learned from it?

Or have the knowledge to dole out advice?

Why would age be a factor in our conversation?

Perhaps you are right....

Oh....not need to quantify it for me....but if it makes you feel better....please feel free to justify it

So now we are moving to taking slashes about immaturity.....thats a very mature thing to do lol

wow again back to the idiot.....let me get the tissues so I can dry my eyes because you are making me thinking of him...

sorry I need a moment to compose myself.........

Ok....I'm good....and yes you aright I think I initially had said it was time to call a spade a spade....

oh....my god epifany....I was right..........thanks leokitten

I am healed.....

You know you really should package what you are giving away for free....you would make a fortune

Your right again it was false expectations.....

Can one person be so right.....

You apparently do as you can't stop yourself from giving out advice.....

We could keep this thread going but really what is the point you keep reverting to the same ole same ole things....idiots etc....low self-esteem....self respect....

Anyway.....I am tired and feeling a bit pussy wiped.....lol....I am traveling tomorrow and need my rest....my eyes are puffy from crying over my lost love....

So I am just going to let you think you have won and beaten me down....or is you are trying to build me up so that when I grow up I can be a better person like yourself

Whatever it is.....its been fun and somewhat mentally stimulating!

Good night and good luck!

Cheeky, Cancer men seek revenge. Yes, it is a fact, they are very revengeful. ALL you can do is stay the hell out of the way, and not let it affect you.


I WILL admit to anyone on these boards. I HAVE had failed relationships with men. When I was young, I cut them out eventually and I just went abstinence. I lived a LONELY world from men because I did not have the life experiences to endure a positive relationship. I am not perfect. We ALL life to learn.

cheeky: at 41 years of age, don't waste anymore time on him.....move on to someone who wants to be with you. as hard as that is to accept, please do it for your own future happiness. there are some battles you just can win.....this seems to be one of them.

oops! can should be *can't*

Leokitten, you cannot be too HONEST, please save it for someone like ME!

leokitten isnt saying anything that u are not already aware of. the reason u are gettin so upset is probably becuase that is how you view urself at times, and to hear sumone point it out only upsets you, therefore u become defensive.

i was in that same boat.