Andy33
@Andreia
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What can I do to earn his forgiveness?
There isn't anything you can do apart from wait it out! These guys are so stubborn it's unreal he will come back eventually I'm sure like nothing has happened! Keep us posted.
Posted by AndreiaFrom what I have learned from my 2 Cancer guys and reading everything on this forum ... you need to respect his space. And if he blocked every and all chance for contact well little to no chance for making up. As a Cap, I'll just tell you ... Time tells everything. Just wait it out.
Hello everyone!
I really need your help 😢 I've been dating a cancerian man for a few months now, its a recent thing but i like him very much and I know he likes me too!
We had a fight a few days ago, it was my fault, just a stupid thing, I was being very annoying and he was very angry. He always said to me "I can t stand fights".....
The next day i said i was sorry, but he just said that he wanted to be alone to think and decide some things... Never seen him like that before, i was so afraid!
He didn t talk to me again, he blocked me on facebook and whatsapp, it been 3 or 4 days now... I respected him and left him alone, but what can i do now?? I can't lose him!
Thank you so much for your comments!
I think i will wait a few more days and then send him a card saying how much i miss him and love him, nothing to extent. What you think?
But i dont understand why he blocked me 😢 sooo stupid, its like he doesn't what to see me again.... I didn't cheat on him or lied, this was the first time I ever saw him angry...
I think i will wait a few more days and then send him a card saying how much i miss him and love him, nothing to extent. What you think?
But i dont understand why he blocked me 😢 sooo stupid, its like he doesn't what to see me again.... I didn't cheat on him or lied, this was the first time I ever saw him angry...
So if the Crab didn't block or delete her, then it means they are leaving a space to reunite? I just don't get that about Cancerians. They don't want you, yet they don't fully let go. It's very confusing and misleading. I had this with both Cancers I dated. And in fact the Cancer I dated like 17 years ago still comes around occasionally using emotional and affectionate big words - enough there is like ZERO chance of us getting reunited.
Well, i hope he comes back, theres no reason to go away like this.
When he said he wanted to be alone, I asked:" You wont talk to me?", he answered: "I'll call you". I' m still waiting and hope its gonna be ok.
When he said he wanted to be alone, I asked:" You wont talk to me?", he answered: "I'll call you". I' m still waiting and hope its gonna be ok.
So i wrote and sent him a card. Now I have to wait....
He's a Cancer sun with moon in Aries and venus in Leo. I dont know what this means but it could help me deal with this problem—?
He's a Cancer sun with moon in Aries and venus in Leo. I dont know what this means but it could help me deal with this problem—?
Boy oh boy..I can relate to this story with my Cancer ex lmao..whole thread dedicated to things that's been going on..
Like everyone said.. Space
The cancer I was talking to finally texted me back after a month and said even though she missed me, it was easy for her not to message me, and for that month she was trying to prove to herself that she can move on from me completely.
Space Space Space, all you can do now is hope and pray 🙂 I'm praying for you though, he'll come around.
Like everyone said.. Space
The cancer I was talking to finally texted me back after a month and said even though she missed me, it was easy for her not to message me, and for that month she was trying to prove to herself that she can move on from me completely.
Space Space Space, all you can do now is hope and pray 🙂 I'm praying for you though, he'll come around.
Posted by AquariusJan25I hope he is thinking of me and maybe this is a test, I have to prove I love him and will not make the same mistake 😢
Boy oh boy..I can relate to this story with my Cancer ex lmao..whole thread dedicated to things that's been going on..
Like everyone said.. Space
The cancer I was talking to finally texted me back after a month and said even though she missed me, it was easy for her not to message me, and for that month she was trying to prove to herself that she can move on from me completely.
Space Space Space, all you can do now is hope and pray 🙂 I'm praying for you though, he'll come around.
The fight was because I was pushing him to answer and explain to me something i didnt understand about his behaviour. Something we talked before but nothing important really.... I was so annoying he wanted to sleep and just shouted: " Stop!!". That was it... I know his previous relationship was hard because the girl was always fighting with him, and I think it ended because of that, he doesn't like fights or pushing! Well everyone makes mistakes.
I'm still blocked, hope he likes the card and comes out of his shell!
Posted by AndreiaTrust me, he is thinking of you, and yea Cancers (at least the one I was talking to) hate answering certain questions, and will give you the run around..if you keep doing it they'll just disappear afterwards.Posted by AquariusJan25I hope he is thinking of me and maybe this is a test, I have to prove I love him and will not make the same mistake 😢
Boy oh boy..I can relate to this story with my Cancer ex lmao..whole thread dedicated to things that's been going on..
Like everyone said.. Space
The cancer I was talking to finally texted me back after a month and said even though she missed me, it was easy for her not to message me, and for that month she was trying to prove to herself that she can move on from me completely.
Space Space Space, all you can do now is hope and pray 🙂 I'm praying for you though, he'll come around.
The fight was because I was pushing him to answer and explain to me something i didnt understand about his behaviour. Something we talked before but nothing important really.... I was so annoying he wanted to sleep and just shouted: " Stop!!". That was it... I know his previous relationship was hard because the girl was always fighting with him, and I think it ended because of that, he doesn't like fights or pushing! Well everyone makes mistakes.
I'm still blocked, hope he likes the card and comes out of his shell!click to expand
Just wait it out, it may take a couple of days, a week, a month..he'll message back.
Posted by AquariusJan25Thanks for your words!Posted by AndreiaTrust me, he is thinking of you, and yea Cancers (at least the one I was talking to) hate answering certain questions, and will give you the run around..if you keep doing it they'll just disappear afterwards.Posted by AquariusJan25I hope he is thinking of me and maybe this is a test, I have to prove I love him and will not make the same mistake 😢
Boy oh boy..I can relate to this story with my Cancer ex lmao..whole thread dedicated to things that's been going on..
Like everyone said.. Space
The cancer I was talking to finally texted me back after a month and said even though she missed me, it was easy for her not to message me, and for that month she was trying to prove to herself that she can move on from me completely.
Space Space Space, all you can do now is hope and pray 🙂 I'm praying for you though, he'll come around.
The fight was because I was pushing him to answer and explain to me something i didnt understand about his behaviour. Something we talked before but nothing important really.... I was so annoying he wanted to sleep and just shouted: " Stop!!". That was it... I know his previous relationship was hard because the girl was always fighting with him, and I think it ended because of that, he doesn't like fights or pushing! Well everyone makes mistakes.
I'm still blocked, hope he likes the card and comes out of his shell!
Just wait it out, it may take a couple of days, a week, a month..he'll message back.click to expand
You think blocking me and all that is a normal behaviour for them? It's like their not giving you a chance to make peace...
Posted by ForrenI hope that's true! But I read somewhere that they deal with problems right away... It doesn't look like it 😢Posted by AndreiaHis moon is in Aries, so he is not inclined to hold grudges and will be back with you soon. If he ever snaps or rages at you, he is releasing his emotions and will cool down quickly afterwards. Be happy he doesn't have a Scorp moon.
So i wrote and sent him a card. Now I have to wait....
He's a Cancer sun with moon in Aries and venus in Leo. I dont know what this means but it could help me deal with this problem—?click to expand
This happens to me a lot with my cancer. A lot. Keep communication open. Keep it simple..do not pressure him. Or sometimes they do respond to emotionally charged or interesting txts..if yr at yr wits end..like " people are not disposable" or something..but only if it feels right. I'd yr very comfy with him you can lay down the law in some ways, like listen, you said you were gonna do x please do it! Or whatever..sometimes they need a kick in the pants to understand wth is going on. But right now for you id keep it light and SLOWLY coax him outta his shell, with lil niceties etc...eventually he'll open up and tell you what he needed to think about, but sometimes you gotta badger em a lil to get it out of them..trust your gut and intuition..its a game..a frustrating frustrating game really, but the results are worth it usually.
Posted by boxcarmirntaThanks you for your support!
This happens to me a lot with my cancer. A lot. Keep communication open. Keep it simple..do not pressure him. Or sometimes they do respond to emotionally charged or interesting txts..if yr at yr wits end..like " people are not disposable" or something..but only if it feels right. I'd yr very comfy with him you can lay down the law in some ways, like listen, you said you were gonna do x please do it! Or whatever..sometimes they need a kick in the pants to understand wth is going on. But right now for you id keep it light and SLOWLY coax him outta his shell, with lil niceties etc...eventually he'll open up and tell you what he needed to think about, but sometimes you gotta badger em a lil to get it out of them..trust your gut and intuition..its a game..a frustrating frustrating game really, but the results are worth it usually.
When this happened, I left him alone and that was it, no texting or calls, just sent him a card saying I was sorry, 2 days ago, he didnt say anything...
Some people said to me that he felt that he was not in control, because I was being annoying and hes doing this to kinda make me understand that he doesn't like it and to be back in control! You think this makes sense?
When they say space they mean space.. And if keep contacting them when clearly they need the space it's disrespect to them.. Just push them further into their shell
Posted by CappedoffYes I know.. In one week I just sent the card, nothing more! We used to talk every day...
When they say space they mean space.. And if keep contacting them when clearly they need the space it's disrespect to them.. Just push them further into their shell
Give it time ... and in the meantime do something to keep yourself busy.
Posted by CappedoffThanks you! That's what I'm doing 🙂
Give it time ... and in the meantime do something to keep yourself busy.
Yes they do like control, and I would maybe txt something simple and nice in a couple days if you haven't heard anything, just to let him know you're thinking abt him, but yea no pressure!
well, as a Cancer man, I just read your situation and your situation can be very dangerous though, I have done that to my exes before ..well with the cause of another cases. Whenever I decided to delete and block, it usually mean I'm trying to forget the person, and I may block that person for months or years!
But whenever I blocked my exes, deep inside I actually wanted my exes to show up to my door and apologize instead of texting or calling me.
Because most of them did not show up infront of my door, I eventually forgot about them, when they come apologizing to me, it is already too late, my feelings for them was gone, so nothing they could do to get me back.
Hope this helps.
But whenever I blocked my exes, deep inside I actually wanted my exes to show up to my door and apologize instead of texting or calling me.
Because most of them did not show up infront of my door, I eventually forgot about them, when they come apologizing to me, it is already too late, my feelings for them was gone, so nothing they could do to get me back.
Hope this helps.
ah just 1 more thing, my Leo woman won me back everytime after big arguments by showing up front of my door while I had least expected her to show up. She did that everytime and it worked every time .. alright, she would come and just lie down on the bed, there trying to listen what I have to say, I would speak soooo much , then she would listen to all of them, after a bit, we became good again.
Hope this helps.
Hope this helps.
Posted by DaviscrabbyI thought of showing up in his house too, but I wanted to wait a little bit more.. I dont understand this blocking thing because it was just a stupid thing that happened and theres no reason for him to want me out of his life 😢
ah just 1 more thing, my Leo woman won me back everytime after big arguments by showing up front of my door while I had least expected her to show up. She did that everytime and it worked every time .. alright, she would come and just lie down on the bed, there trying to listen what I have to say, I would speak soooo much , then she would listen to all of them, after a bit, we became good again.
Hope this helps.
Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberI understand what you're saying... But when you like someone you just hope things get better, I had a childish behaviour to and I know what I did wrong. If he acts like this for much more time, then I have to decide what to do, forget or not ... Now It's to soon and I can't even believe this is happening. It was all great for a few months and now It's like I dont know this person! It's really hard because I was able to like him in a short time and before I knew him I couldnt like anyone that easily... I was losing hope I would love again 😠. Emotions talk loud now but I know you're right, thanks.Fuck no, are you crazy?
Thanks for your words!
You think blocking me and all that is a normal behaviour for them?
He is acting like a fucking 4 year old who grabbed all of his toys, and ran home.
If you believe you are dating a real man, you are way the fuck off course.
You should probably consult a therapist if you think that you should be putting up with this kind of madness.click to expand
Well Andreia, the blocking thing is really hard to explain, but I quite find myself doing that very often, Heres some example when I did it,
1st case - I did that to forget my ex, because I found out she wasn't faithful and wasn't really worth my time.
2nd case - I had some kind of argument with my current girlfriend ( a year something ago) I got mad, deleted her and blocked her from facebook because she acted as if I am not important to her, and doesn't show me that she would do anything to prove me she loves me. But then of course, she came to my doorstep everytime she notice something went wrong.
3rd case - I blocked 1 girl because I was afraid if I will fall deep inlove with her, because she doesn't really seem to care sometimes.
there are still many more cases though.
well, you could try this, wait 1-2 more days, show up to his doorstep . That would probably do the magic.
or maybe he might even text or call you within 1-2 days because If us cancerian cares about the person, we would reach out to that person no matter what.
but if you waited for too long, there's a chance he might thought you've given up on him, so he would do the same by complete disappearing.
I hate to say but, sometimes us Cancerian are 1 really annoying people to deal with, I even hate my own mood swing sometimes! because it tend to hurt people around me easily.
1st case - I did that to forget my ex, because I found out she wasn't faithful and wasn't really worth my time.
2nd case - I had some kind of argument with my current girlfriend ( a year something ago) I got mad, deleted her and blocked her from facebook because she acted as if I am not important to her, and doesn't show me that she would do anything to prove me she loves me. But then of course, she came to my doorstep everytime she notice something went wrong.
3rd case - I blocked 1 girl because I was afraid if I will fall deep inlove with her, because she doesn't really seem to care sometimes.
there are still many more cases though.
well, you could try this, wait 1-2 more days, show up to his doorstep . That would probably do the magic.
or maybe he might even text or call you within 1-2 days because If us cancerian cares about the person, we would reach out to that person no matter what.
but if you waited for too long, there's a chance he might thought you've given up on him, so he would do the same by complete disappearing.
I hate to say but, sometimes us Cancerian are 1 really annoying people to deal with, I even hate my own mood swing sometimes! because it tend to hurt people around me easily.
Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberI give people one chance, not a second. I do make mistakes to but I learn with them. It's up to him.. if he comes back, I want to make my point clear and make him understand I cant deal with this behaviour.
You are damn right I am right about this POS.
Listen, do you honestly think that, by some miracle, he acts like an adult that he won't pull this kind of shit on you again in the future when he doesn't get his way?
He is treating your emotions like they are some kind of toy he got bored playing with.
Please, please, for the love of God, pay attention to RED FLAGS like this instead of ignoring them.
Posted by DaviscrabbyI' m going to do what your saying! Im going there next week and we will see.
Well Andreia, the blocking thing is really hard to explain, but I quite find myself doing that very often, Heres some example when I did it,
1st case - I did that to forget my ex, because I found out she wasn't faithful and wasn't really worth my time.
2nd case - I had some kind of argument with my current girlfriend ( a year something ago) I got mad, deleted her and blocked her from facebook because she acted as if I am not important to her, and doesn't show me that she would do anything to prove me she loves me. But then of course, she came to my doorstep everytime she notice something went wrong.
3rd case - I blocked 1 girl because I was afraid if I will fall deep inlove with her, because she doesn't really seem to care sometimes.
there are still many more cases though.
well, you could try this, wait 1-2 more days, show up to his doorstep . That would probably do the magic.
or maybe he might even text or call you within 1-2 days because If us cancerian cares about the person, we would reach out to that person no matter what.
but if you waited for too long, there's a chance he might thought you've given up on him, so he would do the same by complete disappearing.
I hate to say but, sometimes us Cancerian are 1 really annoying people to deal with, I even hate my own mood swing sometimes! because it tend to hurt people around me easily.
I'm complicated too... Sometimes is hard to deal with me, so you can imagine the combination! But theres a diferente, big one, I cant be uppset for to long, I have to deal with things right away... So this situation is very hard.
I sent him a card 2 or 3 days ago, you think that was a good idea?No texting or calling.
Sending a card was alright, but we'd just look at it a few times.
alright, can you briefly explain to me right after your arguments, who left the place first? I highly doubt he'd ever tell you to get out of his room or house.
Because from what I know, if he says he need to decide on some things, It is NEVER a good thing! Stop him before he started deciding!
for me, whenever I decided to completely break it off with my current girlfriend, she would always show up to my doorstep , or give me a call making sad voices, asking where am I, and saying she wants to see me, asking me to come over and I did
Don't text him, but give him a call instead, so you can hear how his emotion or mood is. Maybe even ask him where is he, they like it when their loved one is asking where they are, so he will know you care.
alright, can you briefly explain to me right after your arguments, who left the place first? I highly doubt he'd ever tell you to get out of his room or house.
Because from what I know, if he says he need to decide on some things, It is NEVER a good thing! Stop him before he started deciding!
for me, whenever I decided to completely break it off with my current girlfriend, she would always show up to my doorstep , or give me a call making sad voices, asking where am I, and saying she wants to see me, asking me to come over and I did
Don't text him, but give him a call instead, so you can hear how his emotion or mood is. Maybe even ask him where is he, they like it when their loved one is asking where they are, so he will know you care.
Posted by DaviscrabbyHe said he wanted to be alone.. So of course I left, but before that I said I was sorry and that I love him. I didnt want to push him...
Sending a card was alright, but we'd just look at it a few times.
alright, can you briefly explain to me right after your arguments, who left the place first? I highly doubt he'd ever tell you to get out of his room or house.
Because from what I know, if he says he need to decide on some things, It is NEVER a good thing! Stop him before he started deciding!
for me, whenever I decided to completely break it off with my current girlfriend, she would always show up to my doorstep , or give me a call making sad voices, asking where am I, and saying she wants to see me, asking me to come over and I did
Don't text him, but give him a call instead, so you can hear how his emotion or mood is. Maybe even ask him where is he, they like it when their loved one is asking where they are, so he will know you care.
I see .. just hang in there Andreia
May I know your sign? you got me curious now haha
There's something you could try too, make a call to him, asking where he is, and tell him can you come over, but If usually you stay at his place then better just show up at his place.
May I know your sign? you got me curious now haha
There's something you could try too, make a call to him, asking where he is, and tell him can you come over, but If usually you stay at his place then better just show up at his place.
Posted by DaviscrabbyTaurus \_/
I see .. just hang in there Andreia
May I know your sign? you got me curious now haha
There's something you could try too, make a call to him, asking where he is, and tell him can you come over, but If usually you stay at his place then better just show up at his place.
I used to stay at his place and I met some members of his family.
for Libraqueen, people have different views and ways of value of their partners, I believe Andreia value herself as well, but she treasure her man thats why she is so concern about him. She is here to find solution to fix a problem in her relationship and that is admirable, rather than the people who can't fix and face the problem instead they run or hide from the problems.
For Andreia, I see, then better show up at his door step, best would be when he is alone at home. I used to date a Taurus and she was wonderful, but well something came up so we broke it off.. Hope things gets better when you see him. I believe it is going to! Keep me posted! because I know sometimes us cancerian can be a baby and really annoying! we also don't want to be like that, trust me!
For Andreia, I see, then better show up at his door step, best would be when he is alone at home. I used to date a Taurus and she was wonderful, but well something came up so we broke it off.. Hope things gets better when you see him. I believe it is going to! Keep me posted! because I know sometimes us cancerian can be a baby and really annoying! we also don't want to be like that, trust me!
I sent you a private msg Daviscrabby.
okay wait
Yourfavoritedxpmember I always love your advice but no ones perfect and relationships are complicated no matter what..everyone brings their own baggage to the table. Always. Daviscrabby yr awesome you should float some insight my way....🙂
He just climbed back in his crabby shell. We cancers get like this at times (well at least the immature ones). It's also a form of emotionally manipulation, which we are masters of. He may be checking just to see how much you care or he's reading your emotions to gain control over you. Be careful because depending on how he truly feels about you, you can set yourself up for years of wasted time.
^^ so how does one avoid it then? How do you know if the cancer is sincere? Everyone says this, but no one explains how the hell to know if they're just messing with you..i mean what's with the manipulation and why? Odd.
Posted by boxcarmirntaPay attention to his actions. Cancers are stable creatures. We think for the long-term and we do, at times, live in the past. So if he makes moves that show commitment, it's the real deal because if it wasn't he wouldn't want you to get the wrong idea.
^^ so how does one avoid it then? How do you know if the cancer is sincere? Everyone says this, but no one explains how the hell to know if they're just messing with you..i mean what's with the manipulation and why? Odd.
Some of these moves would be:
1. Bring you around his Family (huge), especially his Mother ......or close friends.
2. Tries to spend more time with you (not booty call sit on the couch time either). Go to major events, go on group outings, or places like church (if you're religious)
3. Of course talk about future intentions, wants to move in or buy a house together etc.
Posted by TrueCancerMaleThanks for your advice!
He just climbed back in his crabby shell. We cancers get like this at times (well at least the immature ones). It's also a form of emotionally manipulation, which we are masters of. He may be checking just to see how much you care or he's reading your emotions to gain control over you. Be careful because depending on how he truly feels about you, you can set yourself up for years of wasted time.
I left him alone in his shell but he doesn't seem to care. In one week I called him once and sent a card. When he answered the phone it was like he didnt know it was me so maybe he deleted my number, he quickly said he was busy, and couldnt talk, yeah he's on vacation... Thats it. He blocked me right after the fight and maybe deleted my number... Whatever.
Im going to his house to really see how he reacts and then make a decision.
Posted by TrueCancerMaleMy guy did that to me:Posted by boxcarmirntaPay attention to his actions. Cancers are stable creatures. We think for the long-term and we do, at times, live in the past. So if he makes moves that show commitment, it's the real deal because if it wasn't he wouldn't want you to get the wrong idea.
^^ so how does one avoid it then? How do you know if the cancer is sincere? Everyone says this, but no one explains how the hell to know if they're just messing with you..i mean what's with the manipulation and why? Odd.
Some of these moves would be:
1. Bring you around his Family (huge), especially his Mother ......or close friends.
2. Tries to spend more time with you (not booty call sit on the couch time either). Go to major events, go on group outings, or places like church (if you're religious)
3. Of course talk about future intentions, wants to move in or buy a house together etc.click to expand
1- introduced me to his grandmother, wanted to bring me to his house and said to his parents he was dating.
2 - we used to talk every day and go out, see new things, discover together new places
3- we used to talk about the future to, like live together one day, etc..
So with all this, we had a fight and you all know the rest...
This means he really likes me and he's just hiding now but eventually he'll come back?
Yea mine did that too..that went into hiding. Told me he loved me, backtracked and disappeared...no effin clue why..i just let him have his weirdness...
Posted by AndreiaIt sounds like he does really like you but he's unsure of himself and may think that you're too good for him. So seeing you running back to him gives him emotional comfort or reassurance. It confirms how you really feel about him.Posted by TrueCancerMaleMy guy did that to me:Posted by boxcarmirntaPay attention to his actions. Cancers are stable creatures. We think for the long-term and we do, at times, live in the past. So if he makes moves that show commitment, it's the real deal because if it wasn't he wouldn't want you to get the wrong idea.
^^ so how does one avoid it then? How do you know if the cancer is sincere? Everyone says this, but no one explains how the hell to know if they're just messing with you..i mean what's with the manipulation and why? Odd.
Some of these moves would be:
1. Bring you around his Family (huge), especially his Mother ......or close friends.
2. Tries to spend more time with you (not booty call sit on the couch time either). Go to major events, go on group outings, or places like church (if you're religious)
3. Of course talk about future intentions, wants to move in or buy a house together etc.
1- introduced me to his grandmother, wanted to bring me to his house and said to his parents he was dating.
2 - we used to talk every day and go out, see new things, discover together new places
3- we used to talk about the future to, like live together one day, etc..
So with all this, we had a fight and you all know the rest...
This means he really likes me and he's just hiding now but eventually he'll come back?click to expand
Posted by TrueCancerMaleI want to believe that, but he doesn't seem to care... Answered the phone like he didnt know me, deleted the number I think, quickly hung up and wasnt even worried, really cold....Posted by AndreiaIt sounds like he does really like you but he's unsure of himself and may think that you're too good for him. So seeing you running back to him gives him emotional comfort or reassurance. It confirms how you really feel about him.Posted by TrueCancerMaleMy guy did that to me:Posted by boxcarmirntaPay attention to his actions. Cancers are stable creatures. We think for the long-term and we do, at times, live in the past. So if he makes moves that show commitment, it's the real deal because if it wasn't he wouldn't want you to get the wrong idea.
^^ so how does one avoid it then? How do you know if the cancer is sincere? Everyone says this, but no one explains how the hell to know if they're just messing with you..i mean what's with the manipulation and why? Odd.
Some of these moves would be:
1. Bring you around his Family (huge), especially his Mother ......or close friends.
2. Tries to spend more time with you (not booty call sit on the couch time either). Go to major events, go on group outings, or places like church (if you're religious)
3. Of course talk about future intentions, wants to move in or buy a house together etc.
1- introduced me to his grandmother, wanted to bring me to his house and said to his parents he was dating.
2 - we used to talk every day and go out, see new things, discover together new places
3- we used to talk about the future to, like live together one day, etc..
So with all this, we had a fight and you all know the rest...
This means he really likes me and he's just hiding now but eventually he'll come back?click to expand
He doesn't want to talk, blocked me on faceb etc., how the hell should I behave? All of this because of a stupid fight.
Posted by AndreiaPosted by TrueCancerMaleI want to believe that, but he doesn't seem to care... Answered the phone like he didnt know me, deleted the number I think, quickly hung up and wasnt even worried, really cold....Posted by AndreiaIt sounds like he does really like you but he's unsure of himself and may think that you're too good for him. So seeing you running back to him gives him emotional comfort or reassurance. It confirms how you really feel about him.Posted by TrueCancerMaleMy guy did that to me:Posted by boxcarmirntaPay attention to his actions. Cancers are stable creatures. We think for the long-term and we do, at times, live in the past. So if he makes moves that show commitment, it's the real deal because if it wasn't he wouldn't want you to get the wrong idea.
^^ so how does one avoid it then? How do you know if the cancer is sincere? Everyone says this, but no one explains how the hell to know if they're just messing with you..i mean what's with the manipulation and why? Odd.
Some of these moves would be:
1. Bring you around his Family (huge), especially his Mother ......or close friends.
2. Tries to spend more time with you (not booty call sit on the couch time either). Go to major events, go on group outings, or places like church (if you're religious)
3. Of course talk about future intentions, wants to move in or buy a house together etc.
1- introduced me to his grandmother, wanted to bring me to his house and said to his parents he was dating.
2 - we used to talk every day and go out, see new things, discover together new places
3- we used to talk about the future to, like live together one day, etc..
So with all this, we had a fight and you all know the rest...
This means he really likes me and he's just hiding now but eventually he'll come back?click to expand
He doesn't want to talk, blocked me on faceb etc., how the hell should I behave? All of this because
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