What does it mean when...

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LadyAnon
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He asks for my input? I kept thinking it was a phase when the majority of suiters around me were cancerian. That was years ago and I am dating another cancer. What does it mean when he asks for my input on tiny things (seeming to me) like whether he should wear a particular article/accessory, which style furniture to choose between to furnish a new place. You guys are great at planning other things like dates, meals to cook, gifts, and etc. Everything is thoroughly planned so my impression is that you already know what you want. I sense that this is how you guys show vulnerability, so I want to get it right. Perhaps cancers ( both guys and gals) enjoy my '"je ne sais quoi" because of my some major placements in scorpio, but I also have plenty of aries in my chart and this is a praticular area I cannot naturally 'get'. Believe me, it's a constant internal conflict.
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LadyAnon
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Posted by WarAngel1
They want you to agree with them, lol.
haha so simple, yet so complex. Is there a way to express this outside of having to be asked? Like, can you give examples of what to say in regular conversation. It seems like if I can show this, he wouldn't feel the need to ask me questions like these. This puts me in the predicament that is the equivalent of men being asked ' does my butt look fat in this dress?' question.

You are in TX, me, too. You might get a kick out of this and understand better where I am coming from. This guy just move here from Los Angeles. He has this Cowboy hat (and boots of course) that he likes wearing ( or would like to wear more often) and keeps asking me about. For me though, just because I was born and reared in TX does not mean I ride horses and grew up bailing hay. So my confusion is, is he asking ME for my opinion or like you said, 'to agree with him' when I am not in full agreement.