When to give up on a cancer man...

So, after 5 dates, my cancer told me he wasnt looking for a long term relationship that maybe sometime in a future, and asked me to be friends. But that he wanted to see me.

I asked him if the fact that we intimated "too soon" made him change his mind, and he replied : No, Your Cool..!

The conversation got deep, with some laugh here and there... and it got late for me to go so He ended up telling me I should rather stay home Cuz I had to work early the next day.. to have a Great nite.

Like 3 days after that.. I sent him a picture with a good morning have a great day msg. And He never reply...It has been a week after that.. And I havent heard from him.

I explained everything to 2 other cancers and they both told me I did or said something that turned him off..but I have also heard them say that they do not intimate w a woman if they dont have some type of feelings / connection w her.

I have read cancer man, needs reassurance... But when its time to give up and wait for them to make a move and when to keep being persistent.?!

Some Notes b4 you start hating on me lol :

** He knows since before we even met that I was looking for a relationship, Im aqua sun /Cancer moon... And yes, I did intimate w him since our 2nd date, when I felt comfortable with him...I dont do random dating and I dont date, talk or hangout w more than 1 person at a time. I dont do hookups cuz I do get feelings from having sex. SIIIIKE!!....

** I came out from a bad 5 years LTR with a gemini..3 years relationship / 2 years to get over him ( I didnt date or met no man or got intimate w noone during this time).

** I dont have any problem being friend with him, I enjoy his company and the things we do together...And I really appreciate that he didnt play it around for the sex.

The Notes are for those who like to judge a woman for giving it "too soon" labeling them as slu*s without knowing their stories. ***So, I will ask you to be honest, but if you have nothing good to say, Please dont say it" Theres a lot of rude people In here I dont like dealing with. Reason why I dont post that often.

Posted by notsosure
Having some sort of connection doesn't mean the guy wants a relationship. Most guys are not guys, they are human ? And would rather have sex with a person they like than someone that feels like a nobody to them.

But that doesn't not in any way mean they want a relationship.

Again : there is no too soon to have sex. But you shouldn't have sex and expect a relationship from that. If you expect that, then you need to reevaluate your approach.

Yeah, you right, it cost me time to know everybody dont think like me... we spoke about both wanting the same thing even before we met... I know what Im looking for, reason why Im straightfoward and I say what I want upfront... Im not looking to play games ... and this are the reasons why I didnt see the need to play hard to get... maybe Im still a lil naive... but I wouldnt like to be out there talking to someone who think im lying lol... so, If Im not lying why would I think someone else is?! Idk if u get my point here....

Im not too young... and I've had all type of situations... and I dont see sex as most of the people do, my longest relationships were the ones I hit it off the fastest... most of the relationships I Made them wait failed... so, I think that walking away from someone after the sex is just inmatiure.. cuz If we like the sex and We have fun and We comfortable and we get along... why would I want to leave you?!! Idk maybe im a weirdo!!

Why not just believe him when he says he doesn't see anything serious with you?

If your looking for something serious then keep it moving. If not detach emotionally and just enjoy the sex.