Why do I listen to myself?? CANCER men??

Who else but cancer man..... We had to talk yesterday about a car that was totaled that was in both of our names. I was texting him about it because I was sent a certified letter. He text back & it was resolved. Good. Done. Moving along......... Nope! He called an reiterated everything (not necessary) then as why I broke up with him & why do I break up with him when I get a new boy toy.
Well I didn't bc we weren't official so there was nothing to break up & I AGAIN told him I have no one else and don't need a man to be happy I'm good alone. He price to tell me what he was doing n asked me what k was doing. I told him I was at the store I'll talk to him later & ended the convo. BRAVO ME!!!
I haven't stopped thinking of him and figured before his weekend is filled I'd call and ask him if he wanted to go to a movie with me.
Well he answered immediately told me what he was currently doing and I asked what he was doing tomorrow. He will have his daughter most of the weekend and taking her to a party. I said ok never mind then. He inquired what I was asking for so inexplained.
He proceeds to tell me how he's not a movie person and he will let me borrow this box he has that gets all the newest movies even what's in the theater. I tried to explain it wasn't about the movie it was about seeing it with him. He kept babbling on how he doesn't do movies & that's pretty much true because when we've watched them at his house he passes out (my X and I could never go to the movies for the same reason). He ended the convo saying he couldn't hear me well where he was and he will call me back (I doubt he will).
Anyway the fact that he tells me I can borrow the box made me feel like he doesn't want to do anything with me. I'm totally sad and never want to reach out to him again and ignore him for awhile. I felt after yesterday's convo it would be a good idea.
Input please! Cancers preferred as we are both crabs

Yooooo, wth happened? I've out of the loop but definitely not that long. Is this the same dude?

@truecancermale yes same dude
Even more has happened since this post
I put a lot on my old thread

The funniest thing happened yesterday
I text him IMU & he immediately responded imu (my name)

Few hours later his boy texts me out of the blue & here is the convo… (I knew they were in the studio together at the time of this convo so I knew my guy had told him to start this convo)

Friend: wyd
Me: gym for another hour what's up
Friend: getting right?
Me: yup can't have (my guy) being he only one on point
Friend: how are y'all?
Me: Decent, were both cancers so it's kinda funny yet difficult but always worth it.
What about you & your girl?
Friend: we're good and that's good I guess. I thought you were with (the birthday dude my guy manages)
Me: That's so awesome that you guys are engaged and had a wonderful trip together I must admit I'm a little jelly
Absolutely not! That night at bday dinner I found out that that's why (my guy) was upset and I was so hurt by that. I thought (bday boy) knew me and who I was and that I was with (my guy) and he had sent me an invite to his birthday but I thought it was like (his band) thing I didn't think anything of it.
First of all I would never get involved with anyone that (my guy) knows no matter what happens between us just out of principle. I feel that that is disrespectful to him and myself. I am not the type of girl who wants people to think something like that about me so I've never ever done that. And I would never want anyone to think lesser of him for being with a woman that would be with more than One person and a click.
Second of all I really have genuine feelings for (my guy) and I'm not the type person to frolic around when I care about someone. I've been hurt and I know exactly how it feels. I think for men it's worse because not only do you hurt their feelings and their pride I would never ever do that. And of course last but not least (my guy) is my fillet mignon why do I need ground Chuck?
Friend: got it

Then it carried into music and I ended it. 20min later I text my cancer guy "(friend) hmu I guess it's cancer day idk. Told him I'd talk to all my ppl over he next few weeks & see about marketing strategy ideas for the EP"
Immediate response from him "he's right here" me: oh well Heyyy everyone. Shoot I'm left out

Today I sent him
I feel frustrated n slightly disheartened that I'm upset about something not related to you & I feel you're the last person I could talk to about it.
Never got response •


He's been responding to everything since I had to talk to him about a car that was in both our names but it's totaled and gone. It was just about paperwork I received in the mail for him about it.

Btw @truecancermale glad you popped back in €

  he called me twice in the middle of the night & text me 🙄 emoji....... Bump that I said I was upset & wanted to talk & then u hmu like that?… confusing tho bc he knows I'm not going to his house late bc my kids have school & it's very rare he comes to my house so idk y he was calling. I'm done making excuses for him.
He has 4 businesses but I've been around him way to much & know that he can take 10min to talk, maybe not at the drop of a dime but at some point geez

Posted by SensitiveBlues
Shrugs. You wrote alot of nothing

So did you ˜

It sounds like he's just playing a position. Seems like you're heavily emotionally invested right now. I'm hearing you say you're done talking to him and then you bounce back? So are you done or nah?

@truecancermale I'm done over thinking every single move I make & if it works great if not then someone else will come along at some point. I do care but not going to sweat it anymore.

Did you get my PM?

@truecancermale no :-/