Why is this cancer man hiding stuff and ignoring me?

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I am a Cancer female. My dad was a Cancer man. He was always open and honest with my mother before they divorced. When he started cheating everything became a secret. When a Cancer man loves his woman, she knows it, he knows it, strangers know it. As a Cancer female I have to admit to being secretive and keep things to myself. The men are not like that. If you think he’s slowly pulling awa, that is exactly what he’s doing. Ugh.

What did he do to hurt you that made you pull away?

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Well heck. Does he even like this girl? Cancer men and women will often jump I to something new because we hate being lonely. BTE this girl totally got pregnant to trap him.

But if Cancer men and women want to be free, that’s what they will be. Trust me if he wants to reconnect with you, you will know it!!!! They will not pull any punches because we deal straight from the heart.

Ok well have you ever thought about the fact that his baby momma may not want you around in his life as much? It may not have anything to do with how he feels, but him trying to accommodate his current relationship by limiting his interaction with former almost-flings.

And whats the problem really?

Cause you say you chose to distance yourself from him to heal from your hurt in being strung along/not being chosen by him. So him being distant himself should help fuel your own goal of getting over him.

Your ego aside, the best way to get over someone is to limit contact with them. So take it a step further and mute or block him off your social media.

He's a new father in a relationship, he's gonna be focusing on his family as he should. You should close this chapter and move forward with your life as well.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Ok well have you ever thought about the fact that his baby momma may not want you around in his life as much? It may not have anything to do with how he feels, but him trying to accommodate his current relationship by limiting his interaction with former almost-flings.

And whats the problem really?

Cause you say you chose to distance yourself from him to heal from your hurt in being strung along/not being chosen by him. So him being distant himself should help fuel your own goal of getting over him.

Your ego aside, the best way to get over someone is to limit contact with them. So take it a step further and mute or block him off your social media.

He's a new father in a relationship, he's gonna be focusing on his family as he should. You should close this chapter and move forward with your life as well.

It's possible but knowing him I don't think it has anything to do with her. He blocks me off when he gets upset with me in general. Like if I don't like a post of his, he won't like mine. Petty stuff.

But you're right with everything else you said. I have already been considering on removing him from social media but I didn't want to hurt him if he was only hiding stuff from me because I've been distant.

Posted by Cyncity72

Well heck. Does he even like this girl? Cancer men and women will often jump I to something new because we hate being lonely. BTE this girl totally got pregnant to trap him.

But if Cancer men and women want to be free, that’s what they will be. Trust me if he wants to reconnect with you, you will know it!!!! They will not pull any punches because we deal straight from the heart.

Well It's interesting that you say that because he was in a nasty relationship before this one. He did a lot of petty stuff to get under this girl's skin. He started posting pics with his new girl soon after the break up and then boom they are pregnant. But I actually think he likes his baby's mother. I think he is happy. I hope he is..I haven't talked to him much. Feelings make things messier but I still care about him as a friend and I want him to be happy.

Posted by violetxmoon

Posted by LadyNeptune

Ok well have you ever thought about the fact that his baby momma may not want you around in his life as much? It may not have anything to do with how he feels, but him trying to accommodate his current relationship by limiting his interaction with former almost-flings.

And whats the problem really?

Cause you say you chose to distance yourself from him to heal from your hurt in being strung along/not being chosen by him. So him being distant himself should help fuel your own goal of getting over him.

Your ego aside, the best way to get over someone is to limit contact with them. So take it a step further and mute or block him off your social media.

He's a new father in a relationship, he's gonna be focusing on his family as he should. You should close this chapter and move forward with your life as well.

It's possible but knowing him I don't think it has anything to do with her. He blocks me off when he gets upset with me in general. Like if I don't like a post of his, he won't like mine. Petty stuff.

But you're right with everything else you said. I have already been considering on removing him from social media but I didn't want to hurt him if he was only hiding stuff from me because I've been distant.

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Thats sweet. But also you need to put your own well being over someone who has moved on from the friendship and is focusing on his own personal stuff. So should you.

Send him a message along the lines of, "congrats on your new family. I'll be taking a break from social media so don't be offended if I disappear from these platforms. Good luck on the new babee. I wish only good things for you and yours."

Then mute him at least so you don't have to see him on your feed, but also so you can reconnect in the future once your in a better head space.

Let me make you understand that cancer guys naturally are f***** up.

My mom is a Pisces my dad is a cancer and as much as they're supposed to be compatible ,they're relationship is trash,trust me.

Which means he is going to hurt you a lot,you're gentle ,he's secretive and always pulls away or sometimes dissapear,

Plus I'm in a relationship with a cancer and its manageable.

Dear just get yourself a Virgo,please do