@GeminiSun
9 Years
Dating a Cancer guy
I will pray you don't get the player cancer type. lol
I will pray you don't get the player cancer type. lol
Fingers crossed!
This thread is going to end well.
I thought Tinder was for players
The only way to find the right man is to be yourself and not try to be something you think he wants. That will only end in disaster. You don't need tips girl, just do you. If it was meant to be he will accept all of you, the good, the bad and the quirky. If he isn't jiving with your vibes then he isn't the one for you and that keeps you open to find the one who is 😉
Best advice ever!
I thought Tinder was for players
Depends. My best friend is in a 3 year old relationship with a guy she met through tinder.
I thought Tinder was for players
Depends. My best friend is in a 3 year old relationship with a guy she met through tinder.
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yeah I guess it's like all the other sites - it just depends on the individual - good luck !
I will pray you don't get the player cancer type. lol
Ugh, not ANOTHER one of my favorite signs.
Cute Cancer male players? Gosh. Are a lot of them out there? lmfao!
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LOL, I love Cancers. My two best guy friends are Cancers, my boyfriend is a Cancer.
But I also know that some of them are NUTS. lol
My first date, I asked what should I wear, and he said anything I like.. so I wore PJ pants, bunny slippers and an oversized jumper. We didn't get out of the car and just went for a long drive and got maccas drive through in his fancy ass car because it was late and I wasn't dressed for anything else lol. That was July last year and we're still together. He pisses me off regularly and can be a real asshole but he's mostly sweet and affectionate and very loving.
Anyway, my advice probably sucks or isn't very helpful but just be your weirdo self. The less you try, the more genuine you are and if someone doesn't like that version of you, there's no point being with them. From the sounds of it, I'm very different to his exes, he's usually dated the ones that have nice hair and fake boobs or botox, fake nails and make up and that sort of superficial stuff. I'm the girl who works on trucks and usually has grease and dirt on my face and under my nails. So you don't have to be like everyone else, just be you, whoever that might be. With anyone you date, try to be more concerned with deciding if you like him, rather than trying to make him like you.
My first date, I asked what should I wear, and he said anything I like.. so I wore PJ pants, bunny slippers and an oversized jumper. We didn't get out of the car and just went for a long drive and got maccas drive through in his fancy ass car because it was late and I wasn't dressed for anything else lol. That was July last year and we're still together. He pisses me off regularly and can be a real asshole but he's mostly sweet and affectionate and very loving.
Anyway, my advice probably sucks or isn't very helpful but just be your weirdo self. The less you try, the more genuine you are and if someone doesn't like that version of you, there's no point being with them. From the sounds of it, I'm very different to his exes, he's usually dated the ones that have nice hair and fake boobs or botox, fake nails and make up and that sort of superficial stuff. I'm the girl who works on trucks and usually has grease and dirt on my face and under my nails. So you don't have to be like everyone else, just be you, whoever that might be. With anyone you date, try to be more concerned with deciding if you like him, rather than trying to make him like you.
You nailed it girl! Awesome tips!
The date was awesome & he asked for a second one. However there’s something that caught my attention; while I was at the bathroom, he took a photo of our cocktails and he posted it as a story on both IG and Fb.. Why the need to show it off? Hope there’s no other woman he wants to make jealous..
Alright, so tomorrow night I'm gonna have a date with this Cancer guy I met through Tinder. Any tips on how to make a good impression? What do Cancer guys like when dating?
Tips on dating a Cancer ?
Yep !
Don't.
I will pray you don't get the player cancer type. lol
He's on Tinder ...
I will pray you don't get the player cancer type. lol
Ugh, not ANOTHER one of my favorite signs.
Cute Cancer male players? Gosh. Are a lot of them out there? lmfao!
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A shit ton. And they like to act all innocent.
Quite deceitful.
I will pray you don't get the player cancer type. lol
He's on Tinder ...
I know enough people that got friendships and relationships out of Tinder. One even 5 years together.
Theres hope!
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That's very true but he's a cancer Male....
I will pray you don't get the player cancer type. lol
Ugh, not ANOTHER one of my favorite signs.
Cute Cancer male players? Gosh. Are a lot of them out there? lmfao!
A shit ton. And they like to act all innocent.
Quite deceitful.
Yeah, realized that about all water signs to be honest
Cancer women are my favourite people tho ♥️
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I don't find Scorpios to be that way at all. Pisces maybe. I'm not just saying that because I'm a Scorpio either. I think we're pretty blunt. We don't feel the need to act in any type of way for anyone. Which also can be a problem.
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Just realised that I don't know any cancer women.
I will pray you don't get the player cancer type. lol
He's on Tinder ...
I know enough people that got friendships and relationships out of Tinder. One even 5 years together.
Theres hope!
That's very true but he's a cancer Male....
She needs to go on another date to feel the vibe, and find out.
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Indeed.
I agree.
I will pray you don't get the player cancer type. lol
He's on Tinder ...
I know enough people that got friendships and relationships out of Tinder. One even 5 years together.
Theres hope!
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I agree. As I mentioned, my best friend is in a 3 year relationship with a guy she met through tinder. I’m also on Tinder but I don’t intend to get laid..
I will pray you don't get the player cancer type. lol
He's on Tinder ...
I know enough people that got friendships and relationships out of Tinder. One even 5 years together.
Theres hope!
That's very true but he's a cancer Male....
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Am I doomed? Or all the Cancer males are players and cheaters? 😂
P.S. he has deleted his account on Tinder
P.S. he has deleted his account on Tinder
Be sure to delete yours too. Cancer are insecure and jealous. Better to start it off loyal and try not to give him any reason to doubt your loyalty from the beginning, then you won't have to work at constant reassurance during your relationship.
P.S. he has deleted his account on Tinder
Be sure to delete yours too. Cancer are insecure and jealous. Better to start it off loyal and try not to give him any reason to doubt your loyalty from the beginning, then you won't have to work at constant reassurance during your relationship.
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I’ve already done it
So I guess you’re prejudging him because you believe scorned women on the internet?
And because he’s on tinder, when you’re on tinder as well?
He took pics of your cocktails and u think he’s trying to make someone else jealous?
Do you have baggage from previous dates?
I have nothing with him being on Tinder. It’s totally fine by me. All I asked was tips for making a good impression! But there were people here who assumed he’s a player based on his sign and his presence on Tinder.
Regarding the photo it seems bit irregular to show off from the first date and me being a suspicious kind of person adds to this. I shouldn’t have judged this at the first place.
P.S. he has deleted his account on Tinder
Be sure to delete yours too. Cancer are insecure and jealous. Better to start it off loyal and try not to give him any reason to doubt your loyalty from the beginning, then you won't have to work at constant reassurance during your relationship.
I’ve already done it
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Good luck. I hope it all works out for you.
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Alright, so tomorrow night I'm gonna have a date with this Cancer guy I met through Tinder. Any tips on how to make a good impression? What do Cancer guys like when dating?