Why won't he leave me alone?!..

Under what circumstances does a Cancer male want to reach out after you've told him you want nothing to do w/ him? I've blocked him from all contact outside of work. Yet he seems to reach out everytime he sees me...even though I ignore him & have been for MONTHS,smh .

Cancers usually don't get over it too fast. MY bf is a cancerian and I know how tough it is for him to let go off things. It could be something too trivial. He's realistic.He'd say "it's what it is.I have to move on.That's life". You'd think he's so strong but internally he'd still be thinking about it;overthinking,actually. They value relations just as we pisces do so it's not exactly easy to let go off something too easily. As time passes,he'd not be as clingy but he wouldn't want to end up something completely.He might even try again after some period of time to see how you'd respond but if you are too harsh on him,he wouldn't be as clingy but he'd surely never forget you. They cherish people and the memories (unless you guys were just a few days thing)

PISCES here: I know Cancerians are so strong to love someone, and as I can see for you guys, you are OPPOSITE to each other, and i think you complement and complete one another perfectly. But dear
CapricornGirl24, understand that Cancer man is too fragile inside, but strong outside, I THINK HE CLINGS ON TO YOU BECAUSE HE IS AFRAID to be alone without you, and thinks jealousy would depress him! JUST CONTINUE BEING HARD, A BIT HARSH-SERIOUSLY, IF POSSIBLE AVOID SEEING HIM...he will get over it one day, but not SOO EARLY! Just be strong and don't be annoyed by HIS CLINGY-ness!

That makes sense... however, we were never together. He showed interest in me but instead of putting in effort to get to know me, he tried to make me jealous for a reaction. I called him out on it, told him how I felt & that if he wants to continue that behavior, I'm not dealing w/ him. He kept it up & I kept my word. Less than a month later, all of a sudden out of the blue he started speaking to me. He keeps doing it, every single time we see each other. Like he's had a change of heart. I can only think of 2 reasons why he suddenly wants to initiate communication... 3 if he thinks we're gonna be friends, which is not an option...

Yes Secret, it's the same one

I know you never were together, but you had a crush with each other.

Posted by CluelessCancer

Are you a Capricorn pretending to be a CRAB?

The only Capricorn in me is the 11th house.

Posted by CluelessCancer
lol getting over a capricorn is very easy, he's addicted to the chase, believe me, its not you, it's the idea of you.

Getting over us is easy ? Lol doubt it. He's not the first to do this. Others have that I've actually been w/ . That weren't cancers _—_??

I would have just sent you a bag of gummy dicks.

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Posted by CapricornGirl24

Posted by CluelessCancer
lol getting over a capricorn is very easy, he's addicted to the chase, believe me, its not you, it's the idea of you.

Getting over us is easy ? Lol doubt it. He's not the first to do this. Others have that I've actually been w/ . That weren't cancers _—_—

You must be very HOT. He doesn't yet know you're as boring as Cardboard.

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I'm far from boring, but okay _—_— lol

He probably still fucks with you because that's his way of getting over you. All cancers I know don't have trouble cutting people off especially if you told him to beat it. Thinking on it he may just fuck with you till he moves on with something better. One day my cancer was listening to music and left her phone open so I read her text messages between her and all her little flings-yea so what we all get tempted. She would still talk to and go places with her sag ex but she didn't want him.She used to mess around with another aqua dude and he told her to beat it and was rude AS FUCK with her and she was still talking to him but her heart wasn't in it. She talks to loads of guys and she would just stop texting midway through their conversation. The dudes that were nice and not too much she kept the conversation going and talked to them about different stuff. He could still want you but could also be moving on while cutting ties with you. Cancers don't take shit---and if they do then they probably got 10 other things lined up and your on your way out the door. That's why people on her claim there cancer was here one day and fine the next. It's cuz they were planning on cutting them selves off and didn't feel the need to keep reminding you bout it. And that's what my cancer did to me. That's why u should never say shit you don't mean or shit you will have to eat later cuz those bitches will make u eat those words when u least expect it

Posted by CapricornGirl24
That makes sense... however, we were never together. He showed interest in me but instead of putting in effort to get to know me, he tried to make me jealous for a reaction. I called him out on it, told him how I felt & that if he wants to continue that behavior, I'm not dealing w/ him. He kept it up & I kept my word. Less than a month later, all of a sudden out of the blue he started speaking to me. He keeps doing it, every single time we see each other. Like he's had a change of heart. I can only think of 2 reasons why he suddenly wants to initiate communication... 3 if he thinks we're gonna be friends, which is not an option...

No he's just checking to see if you're the same way and if he should stay away for good. Cancers are perfectionist and they don't like making mistakes. So he probably came back to see if you two can work after giving you space. And by the way u talk about him he'll probably fade out and keep perusing his new loves

Posted by CapricornGirl24
That makes sense... however, we were never together. He showed interest in me but instead of putting in effort to get to know me, he tried to make me jealous for a reaction. I called him out on it, told him how I felt & that if he wants to continue that behavior, I'm not dealing w/ him. He kept it up & I kept my word. Less than a month later, all of a sudden out of the blue he started speaking to me. He keeps doing it, every single time we see each other. Like he's had a change of heart. I can only think of 2 reasons why he suddenly wants to initiate communication... 3 if he thinks we're gonna be friends, which is not an option...

Most cancers won't sign up for friendship after a breakup but if you want a fake ass one they'll play along with it but won't really. And watch what you think is trying to make you jealous. I used to think that way but I was wrong. My cancer just had a natural knack for drawing people in and she would be flirty but that's just how she is. I remember someone who she was casually dating thought that and she got so frustrated she showed him her conversations telling him she's not the attention hog person. She was hurt cuz she thought he understood her. He looked possessive and stupid at the end of it all and she cut him off and told him to stop taking himself so serious. I laughed. With cancers u gotta get used to them always having attention or helping people or loving everyone or giving fucking gifts to everyone. It's how it is. They need someone whose secure

Posted by Secret
I know you never were together, but you had a crush with each other.

Women are so fucking stupid sometimes. Sorry. But if you had no commitment then why go on and on bout that shit? You don't go being loyal to someone you are not committed to.

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by CapricornGirl24

Posted by CluelessCancer
lol getting over a capricorn is very easy, he's addicted to the chase, believe me, its not you, it's the idea of you.

Getting over us is easy ? Lol doubt it. He's not the first to do this. Others have that I've actually been w/ . That weren't cancers _—_—

You must be very HOT. He doesn't yet know you're as boring as Cardboard.

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Yea I have no desire for caps. They all are dull and lifeless. They bitch and moan about the little shit and they half step too much. Most caps I know don't even have real jobs and live off of other people. They are stubborn too in a bad way. And very simple minded.

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Posted by CapricornGirl24

Posted by CluelessCancer
lol getting over a capricorn is very easy, he's addicted to the chase, believe me, its not you, it's the idea of you.

Getting over us is easy ? Lol doubt it. He's not the first to do this. Others have that I've actually been w/ . That weren't cancers _—_—

You must be very HOT. He doesn't yet know you're as boring as Cardboard.

Yea I have no desire for caps. They all are dull and lifeless. They bitch and moan about the little shit and they half step too much. Most caps I know don't even have real jobs and live off of other people. They are stubborn too in a bad way. And very simple minded.

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Lmfao, Idk what caps you're referring to but this sounds nothing like me _—_—_—_??

Posted by StarChild63
He probably still fucks with you because that's his way of getting over you. All cancers I know don't have trouble cutting people off especially if you told him to beat it. Thinking on it he may just fuck with you till he moves on with something better. One day my cancer was listening to music and left her phone open so I read her text messages between her and all her little flings-yea so what we all get tempted. She would still talk to and go places with her sag ex but she didn't want him.She used to mess around with another aqua dude and he told her to beat it and was rude AS FUCK with her and she was still talking to him but her heart wasn't in it. She talks to loads of guys and she would just stop texting midway through their conversation. The dudes that were nice and not too much she kept the conversation going and talked to them about different stuff. He could still want you but could also be moving on while cutting ties with you. Cancers don't take shit---and if they do then they probably got 10 other things lined up and your on your way out the door. That's why people on her claim there cancer was here one day and fine the next. It's cuz they were planning on cutting them selves off and didn't feel the need to keep reminding you bout it. And that's what my cancer did to me. That's why u should never say shit you don't mean or shit you will have to eat later cuz those bitches will make u eat those words when u least expect it

Everything I said, I meant. That's why I cut ties...not him lol

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Posted by CapricornGirl24
That makes sense... however, we were never together. He showed interest in me but instead of putting in effort to get to know me, he tried to make me jealous for a reaction. I called him out on it, told him how I felt & that if he wants to continue that behavior, I'm not dealing w/ him. He kept it up & I kept my word. Less than a month later, all of a sudden out of the blue he started speaking to me. He keeps doing it, every single time we see each other. Like he's had a change of heart. I can only think of 2 reasons why he suddenly wants to initiate communication... 3 if he thinks we're gonna be friends, which is not an option...

No he's just checking to see if you're the same way and if he should stay away for good. Cancers are perfectionist and they don't like making mistakes. So he probably came back to see if you two can work after giving you space. And by the way u talk about him he'll probably fade out and keep perusing his new loves

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...so you think he's looking for a sign of hope, possibly ?

Meh!Cappie women are horny for cancer men yup, once u get humourous or show dat flirt. Its game on.

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That makes sense... however, we were never together. He showed interest in me but instead of putting in effort to get to know me, he tried to make me jealous for a reaction. I called him out on it, told him how I felt & that if he wants to continue that behavior, I'm not dealing w/ him. He kept it up & I kept my word. Less than a month later, all of a sudden out of the blue he started speaking to me. He keeps doing it, every single time we see each other. Like he's had a change of heart. I can only think of 2 reasons why he suddenly wants to initiate communication... 3 if he thinks we're gonna be friends, which is not an option...

No he's just checking to see if you're the same way and if he should stay away for good. Cancers are perfectionist and they don't like making mistakes. So he probably came back to see if you two can work after giving you space. And by the way u talk about him he'll probably fade out and keep perusing his new loves

...so you think he's looking for a sign of hope, possibly ?

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U cut ties and he came back? Then he's looking for a sign of hope. Plus the stuff I said.