Everyone on here probably knows about my story with the Cancer Man that I really like well today he got in contact with me after a while but the message was just kisses.... So he's still thinking about me...or it might be bait? Haha
wow
Posted by rampartsWell this time yes...we do have intelligent conversations before so don't judge him by this message like that haha maybe he didn't know how to start
He's 36 years old and that's how he communicates?
Posted by SensitiveBluesReally? I'm sure there are more annoying posters here haha
you're annoying and im trying to be kind.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXWell he's giving me attention...I didn't text him.
When a man wants a woman his intentions will be clear. If you have to ask yourself "is he really into me?" chances are, he's not that into you. Assuming that he's into you at all. This kind of naivety makes my head hurt....
Posted by facerollWell fuck maybe Im ready to have sex with him and have something casual. Nothing wrong with that if he wants it too.
the fact he's not asking to meet up to take you out means he doesn't want you for his girlfriend. you send kissy faces to women you want to string along that you hope you can get sex out of off and on. and they'll disappear again after that and only come back when they have no other options and want sex again.
this isn't complicated stuff.
what you really want is "affection" what you're settling for is attention.
Point is We knew each other 3 months before we got intimate...players move faster
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXWe knew each other 3 months before any kind of intimacy happened. Don't players move faster?Posted by britneybabe26Honey, that does not matter. The kind of "attention" that he's giving you requires VERY little effort on his part. For Christ's sake he sent you a text message of some damn emojis!Posted by xXxAliciaXxXWell he's giving me attention...I didn't text him.
When a man wants a woman his intentions will be clear. If you have to ask yourself "is he really into me?" chances are, he's not that into you. Assuming that he's into you at all. This kind of naivety makes my head hurt....click to expand
Posted by facerollIts long distance btw
if that's all you wanted you wouldn't be making threads about emjos like it's the most amazing thing that's ever happened to you and you're so surprised he went this deep. you wouldn't be on this board at all because you'd be busy banging him without feelings.
i didn't see any of your other threads. but i assume they prove you have feelings for him and you're fronting with me because i called you out on being an idiot.
Posted by rampartsWell its for those that read my other posts :-)Posted by britneybabe26If you have all the answers why are you here asking?
Point is We knew each other 3 months before we got intimate...players move fasterclick to expand
Posted by rampartsYes but no sex.
And you don't even live in the same state so it's not like you had many options to be intimate but you were intimate the second time you met with him right?
Posted by rampartsWell I really like him.and I'm young and I don't have anyone else on my radar..I don't sleep around so yeah
Is that what you want? A casual long distance relationship?
Posted by rampartsOK OK you're right. I hate him then I like him when he makes contact. I can't get over him! Fuck and its not like he was my man. Cancer guys are really dreamy. My vicePosted by britneybabe26I did read them and you soundPosted by rampartsWell its for those that read my other posts :-)Posted by britneybabe26If you have all the answers why are you here asking?
Point is We knew each other 3 months before we got intimate...players move faster
really confused and going back and forth between hating him and being pissed that he's using you for sex and now you're saying you're okay with itclick to expand
Posted by facerollWait hold on...there was no penis to vagina sex.. Only foreplay!
the single easiest way to NEVER get a relationship is to have sex with a man before he makes things official. the type of man who pushes you for sex is not the type of man who would make a good husband. so if he leaves #bitchbye
a man trades love for sex. a woman trades sex for love.
why should he give you what you want when he's already given what he wants and he hasn't made any effort at all?
Posted by rampartsPlease don't make it about that....its not.. I have feelings for him.Posted by britneybabe26You're gonig to lose your virginity because there's no one else on your radar at the moment?Posted by rampartsWell I really like him.and I'm young and I don't have anyone else on my radar..I don't sleep around so yeah
Is that what you want? A casual long distance relationship?click to expand
Posted by rampartsHePosted by britneybabe26How is he dreamy? All he did was give you enough attention to get you in his bed and then he disappeared?Posted by rampartsOK OK you're right. I hatePosted by britneybabe26I did read them and you soundPosted by rampartsWell its for those that read my other posts :-)Posted by britneybabe26If you have all the answers why are you here asking?
Point is We knew each other 3 months
before we got intimate...players move faster
really confused and going back and forth between hating him and being pissed that he's using you for sex and now you're saying you're okay with it
him then I like him when he makes contact. I can't get over him! Fuck and its not like he was my man. Cancer guys are really dreamy. My viceclick to expand
didn't completely disappear..he kept tabs on my on Facebook and Instagram.
Posted by rampartsSorry
In my next life, I swear to god I'm coming back as a Cancer man
Posted by facerollOK thumbs up :-)
that's good then. don't sleep with him until he starts acting right. if he doesn't do more than send you emojis stop responding to him and find someone else who actually seems to want to make the effort.
not every man you meet is a keeper. even if he's hot. even if he seems sweet.
Posted by rampartsNo I think I should stop posting about this hahaha
lol you're going to do whatever you want to do anyway and we'll all hear about it every step of the way.
Posted by britneybabe26He's texting you because he's probably bored and lonely. The mere fact that he's not consistent shows he's not interested. Please have some self respect and cut him lose.Posted by xXxAliciaXxXWell he's giving me attention...I didn't text him.
When a man wants a woman his intentions will be clear. If you have to ask yourself "is he really into me?" chances are, he's not that into you. Assuming that he's into you at all. This kind of naivety makes my head hurt....click to expand
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXOh come on...don't hate me. Its the simple things that make me smile. 😉Posted by britneybabe26Posted by rampartsNo I think I should stop posting about this hahaha
lol you're going to do whatever you want to do anyway and we'll all hear about it every step of the way.
britneybabe26 two weeks later: "Ok so remember that Cancer guy I've talked about plenty of times before? Well he actually told me he loved me last night! He sent me THREE heart emojis!"click to expand
Posted by aquarius09You know what..whatever is meant to be will be...its not like im waiting for him...So if he's texting then OK. Wow.he'snot asking for nudes...some people need to lighten upPosted by britneybabe26He's texting you because he's probably bored and lonely. The mere fact that he's not consistent shows he's not interested. Please have some self respect and cut him lose.Posted by xXxAliciaXxXWell he's giving me attention...I didn't text him.
When a man wants a woman his intentions will be clear. If you have to ask yourself "is he really into me?" chances are, he's not that into you. Assuming that he's into you at all. This kind of naivety makes my head hurt....click to expand
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXAnd yet he didn't actually fuck me! So I'm not that naive huhPosted by britneybabe26Girl, I don't hate you. You're just so naive it's frustrating.Posted by xXxAliciaXxXOh come on...don't hate me. Its the simple things that make me smile. 😉Posted by britneybabe26Posted by rampartsNo I think I should stop posting about this hahaha
lol you're going to do whatever you want to do anyway and we'll all hear about it every step of the way.
britneybabe26 two weeks later: "Ok so remember that Cancer guy I've talked about plenty of times
before? Well he actually told me he loved me last night! He sent me THREE heart emojis!"click to expand
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXOh man now you're getting philosophical on me? I'm not waiting around him..its nice to get attention. He reached out cool...he didn't ask for nudes or said anything vulgur. Anyway that's thatPosted by britneybabe26The fact that he's so heavy on your mind that you're posting about him online shows that he's penetrated your mind. Penetration isn't just physical and to be honest, you probably would let him penetrate you physicallyPosted by xXxAliciaXxXAnd yet he didn't actually fuck me! So I'm not that naive huhPosted by britneybabe26Girl, I don't hate you. You're just so naive it's frustrating.Posted by xXxAliciaXxXOh come on...don't hate me. Its the simple thingsPosted by britneybabe26Posted by rampartsNo I think I should stop posting about this hahaha
lol you're going to do whatever you want to do anyway and we'll all hear about it
every step of the way.
britneybabe26 two weeks later: "Ok so remember that Cancer guy I've talked about plenty of times
before? Well he actually told me he loved me last night! He sent me THREE heart emojis!"
that make me smile. 😉
. Just by the way you gush about him.click to expand
Posted by britneybabe26Right, it could always be worse. However, when you enlist our help or advice on your situation you will get heartfelt pleas to just stop being another victim. It's frustrating to see a young lady ask for advice, then shoo it away and say "whatever." It's frustrating that yet again another guy has used a naive young girl and she bats her eyes helplessly. You sit at your computer with your LOLs and contradicting yourself with every breath. Yeah, so if nothing else THIS is frustrating. Go ahead and be used, reduced and recycled by this guy and it probably won't be the last.Posted by aquarius09You know what..whatever is meant to be will be...its not like im waiting for him...So if he's texting then OK. Wow.he'snot asking for nudes...some people need to lighten upPosted by britneybabe26He's texting you because he's probably bored and lonely. The mere fact that he's not consistent shows he's not interested. Please have some self respect and cut him lose.Posted by xXxAliciaXxXWell he's giving me attention...I didn't text him.
When a man wants a woman his intentions will be clear. If you have to ask yourself "is he really into me?" chances are, he's not that into you. Assuming that he's into you at all. This kind of naivety makes my head hurt....click to expand
as the strong, independent women (who cry themselves to sleep at night) often say:
your yoni is more than a jar of honey
that he can open with just a few emojis
make him earn what's concealed by your bra
if he hurts you, have him beat up by your bro
be strong, your intuition is what matters
remember to boycott marshall matters
your yoni is more than a jar of honey
that he can open with just a few emojis
make him earn what's concealed by your bra
if he hurts you, have him beat up by your bro
be strong, your intuition is what matters
remember to boycott marshall matters
Okay, here's my advice: Don't respond to him.
You are so sure you want to give up your V card to this guy... the guy who just "likes" your stuff on FB. Do nothing. Let him chase you. Ignore the emojis. If Cancer folklore is correct, he will step up his game, be perplexed you didn't answer, and try with something else. Do NOTHING until he asks an actual question. Even then, give it a half a day before you respond.
If that happens, entice him; start a dialogue. Make sure he texts last - you don't answer, so you have something to say the next day to keep buoying the conversation.
When a few weeks of consistent contact has passed, ask him out. You want this guy, BB26, go get him. Drive or do whatever to get where he is; make up a reason you'll be nearby. Ask him to meet.
Have sex with him this time.
Then, please do not ask why he never contacts you again. Do not become a Stage 5 Clinger. Just remind yourself that you got what you wanted.
You are so sure you want to give up your V card to this guy... the guy who just "likes" your stuff on FB. Do nothing. Let him chase you. Ignore the emojis. If Cancer folklore is correct, he will step up his game, be perplexed you didn't answer, and try with something else. Do NOTHING until he asks an actual question. Even then, give it a half a day before you respond.
If that happens, entice him; start a dialogue. Make sure he texts last - you don't answer, so you have something to say the next day to keep buoying the conversation.
When a few weeks of consistent contact has passed, ask him out. You want this guy, BB26, go get him. Drive or do whatever to get where he is; make up a reason you'll be nearby. Ask him to meet.
Have sex with him this time.
Then, please do not ask why he never contacts you again. Do not become a Stage 5 Clinger. Just remind yourself that you got what you wanted.
Posted by GalOnTheCuspThanks..I've been thinking about this and you know what I've come to the conclusion I don't care that he wants something casual anymore. If we will meet again so be it .if I have sex with him why the fuck not? I will just not expect anything from him after. I will have a good time. He's a successful guy who wasn't overly sexual..he did t touch me, grope me, he didn't promise me anything. We just had nice convos and great time on the time he took me out. So what not? Case closed. I'm not going to be writing about this anymore.
Okay, here's my advice: Don't respond to him.
You are so sure you want to give up your V card to this guy... the guy who just "likes" your stuff on FB. Do nothing. Let him chase you. Ignore the emojis. If Cancer folklore is correct, he will step up his game, be perplexed you didn't answer, and try with something else. Do NOTHING until he asks an actual question. Even then, give it a half a day before you respond.
If that happens, entice him; start a dialogue. Make sure he texts last - you don't answer, so you have something to say the next day to keep buoying the conversation.
When a few weeks of consistent contact has passed, ask him out. You want this
guy, BB26, go get him. Drive or do whatever to get where he is; make up a reason you'll be nearby. Ask him to meet.
Have sex with him this time.
Then, please do not ask why he never contacts you again. Do not become a Stage 5 Clinger. Just remind yourself that you got what you wanted.
Posted by PV&JellaySome of you talk like never met anyone who you were attracted to on another level and never had a heat of the moment with! This is the first to me. Guys come on to me all the time but I don't want them. I met someone I like after a long time and I got intimate but I didn't give it up yet to him...Posted by faceroll**Lightbulb moment**
what you really want is "affection" what you're settling for is attention.
Patent this advice and put it into every thread.
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He's horny.
How long had it been since you spoke? Did you respond?
Posted by facerollExactly!!
the fact he's not asking to meet up to take you out means he doesn't want you for his girlfriend. you send kissy faces to women you want to string along that you hope you can get sex out of off and on. and they'll disappear again after that and only come back when they have no other options and want sex again.
this isn't complicated stuff.
what you really want is "affection" what you're settling for is attention.
Any kind of texting as a form of communication is such a cop out. He could be texting you while also watching porn at the same time, or taking a shit, or getting a bj from his main chick. Texting is the laziest form of communication.
Don't think that your special cause he sends you some kissie faces. He probably is sending them to every chick in his contacts list + the females on tinder he's sweating.
Posted by britneybabe26That's not how the game works.
Point is We knew each other 3 months before we got intimate...players move faster
Players move at the exact right speed to get what they want and get away cleanly.
If your a wait-until-I've-known-the-guy-for-a-year kinda girl he will put in the ground work in order to get the pussy all while sexing other chicks during that time.
Don't think that just because you make a dude call you his gf that your his only girl. A guy can just as easily fuck you over if you fuck him on the first date or if you wait until the 20th date.
It's up to YOU to qualify him as the type of guy you want to be with. And from your earlier threads the answer would be a big fat NO.
Posted by Arielle83Lmbo!!!
True, I always text while watching porn.
And I'm a wo-man!
Posted by britneybabe26Posted by SensitiveBluesReally? I'm sure there are more annoying posters here haha
you're annoying and im trying to be kind.
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not really
What's really funny here is that you made sure to counsel a woman about ldr's in saying that they work wonderfully ... when the reality is = you can't even handle your own.
How ridiculous of you ..... and it doesn't get much more annoying then a douche telling another something they cannot even handle themselves.
Oh wait ... that was someone else.
My bad .... sorry ...
Posted by Arielle83Totally! I'm eating stove top popcorn so that's a lot of background noise.
True, I always text while watching porn.
And I'm a wo-man!
Posted by Arielle83Your a woman after my own heart
True, I always text while watching porn.
And I'm a wo-man!
Who gives a shit if she txt's and watches porn? A man would take pride in it and give zero fucks while being commended..she can do whatever she wants. No "slut" shaming!!
Posted by FinbuffI appreciate you and this...thank you!i
Leave Britney to her own decisions. So far all this guy has done is get with her naked, with no penetration. He was a perfect gentlemen. They do not live in close proximity, so meeting is problematic. She likes him, so she's giving him every chance to impress her. Saying "heh" in a text is manipulating her? Don't think so.
After the kisses yes he asked how am I and was flirty.
I was talking about Arielle...and yea stop judging this poor girl. Help her or let her be!
Not you donnaelvira..everyone else.
Posted by Arielle83Hide your daughters, hide your wife..heck even hide your dog 😛Posted by DonnaElvira77Ya guard your daughters!Posted by Arielle83He is pretty unpleasant. It's obvious.
He'll sacrifice my posts*
Finbuff is coming to perv with his rigid conservative outlook on life, but pedophilia is ok cuz he's an old fat bastard.click to expand
Posted by DonnaElvira77God bless xxPosted by britneybabe26Do what you feel is best for you then. :-) Good luck. I still think he is an ass :-P
After the kisses yes he asked how am I and was flirty.click to expand
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