Your Top 10 Do's & don'ts with a Cancer

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What E word... Escape? Lol

Do NOT ever betray or back stab a Cancer. Ever.

Do be honest!

Don't be late
Don't bad-mouth their ex-wife

Brilliant infinite8.. That really does sum me up!

Posted by Infinite8
Do:
-reassure them
-give them a massage
-give lots of hugs
-smile
-listen
-laugh at their silliness
-disagree with them
-have your own opinion
-be respectful of their family
-appreciate their goals
-encourage them to take risks
-protect them
-give them pleasure
-have sex every other day & make love on the other days
-put your foot down with them and set them straight
-let them know they can count on you

That's all I could think about for now.

sticky this at the top please!

Do: be independent
Don't say anything bad about them :p

Aqua, I don't see a problem with anyone using social media, married or not. Being on a dating site would be another thing altogether. If a person is going to cheat, not being on the computer isn't going to stop them. They could find someone while at work, and certainly be in a position to do more physically than if they met someone online. My point is, being on a computer, and also connecting to people via social networking online, doesn't define if a person is bored in life, in marriage, etc. It's a tool. People use all sorts of different tools in life, and most aren't better or worse than any others. Most people use more than one tool.

These are the less obvious do's and don'ts based on the zodiac sun sign.

For a Cancer woman...

Do: be traditional-court her, arrive on time, open car doors, be a gentleman; be romantic-thoughtful dates, flowers, love notes. keep the lines of communication open & frequent. We don't mind you calling every day or other day like some sun signs *if we dig you.* Be patient with us. We're not fast movers on the whole and act contradictory in the beginning but we've got tender and loyal hearts. Compliment us on our home cooked meal, even if it's rice and beans and the beans are burnt.

Don't: critique ie criticize) us, our family or our cooking and expect to make it out of the date with your life intact. We're allergic to criticism. Don't stand us up and expect a call let alone another date from us. Don't disappear on us and expect us to act like nothing happen when you contact us again. Consistency is very important. We're not geminis who might not have even noticed you didn't call or aquarians who don't want to plan anything in advance. Don't be too wasteful with money. We worry about our security alot and want to know we can count on you to be responsible. Don't play us for a fool cuz you will learn otherwise and we can be full on Cancer cray-cray if we feel played.

Posted by MoonArtist
Aqua, I don't see a problem with anyone using social media, married or not. Being on a dating site would be another thing altogether. If a person is going to cheat, not being on the computer isn't going to stop them. They could find someone while at work, and certainly be in a position to do more physically than if they met someone online. My point is, being on a computer, and also connecting to people via social networking online, doesn't define if a person is bored in life, in marriage, etc. It's a tool. People use all sorts of different tools in life, and most aren't better or worse than any others. Most people use more than one tool.

i agree with this. Infact, one of the astrology blogs i visit besides this one (but i focus only one at a time, since it takes alot of time and energy) is owned by a happily married woman astrologer who tries to help people of all walks of life, from all over. Some of these astrologers even has facebook to see how people there interact so she understands the social media/people out there. I notice alot of married folks on social media too, for work and for hobby, for learning tools.

People at work could be flirting and doing stuff behind the wife/husband's back, anything could happen out there.

Posted by Este8
These are the less obvious do's and don'ts based on the zodiac sun sign.

For a Cancer woman...

Do: be traditional-court her, arrive on time, open car doors, be a gentleman; be romantic-thoughtful dates, flowers, love notes. keep the lines of communication open & frequent. We don't mind you calling every day or other day like some sun signs *if we dig you.* Be patient with us. We're not fast movers on the whole and act contradictory in the beginning but we've got tender and loyal hearts. Compliment us on our home cooked meal, even if it's rice and beans and the beans are burnt.

Don't: critique ie criticize) us, our family or our cooking and expect to make it out of the date with your life intact. We're allergic to criticism. Don't stand us up and expect a call let alone another date from us. Don't disappear on us and expect us to act like nothing happen when you contact us again. Consistency is very important. We're not geminis who might not have even noticed you didn't call or aquarians who don't want to plan anything in advance. Don't be too wasteful with money. We worry about our security alot and want to know we can count on you to be responsible. Don't play us for a fool cuz you will learn otherwise and we can be full on Cancer cray-cray if we feel played.

um we (my family and I) plan everything in advance. I dont like surprises to be honest. So i believe this is too generalized and really doesn't say much about a person due to their "sign" alone. It's very prejudiced and biased considering that in truth I dont like people showing up at our home, without any plans and we like to plan things in advance, so that it fits into their calender/our family gatherings/birthdays, so we know what to do beforehand.

DO give them a sad face. They give you cookies if you do!

you make it sound like a bunch of "teenagers" coming from that sign alone, who aren't into marriage, and just having a blast in life all the time, (partying 24/7) who don't like planning for events/parties. And living on a whim. Although in truth, my husband and the rest of the family members do most of the planning, i just follow along, unless there is something that is important and unexpected, like someone got sick, ill ect. or someone fell and got a broken leg, ect. These things happen in life.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Este8
These are the less obvious do's and don'ts based on the zodiac sun sign.

For a Cancer woman...

Do: be traditional-court her, arrive on time, open car doors, be a gentleman; be romantic-thoughtful dates, flowers, love notes. keep the lines of communication open & frequent. We don't mind you calling every day or other day like some sun signs *if we dig you.* Be patient with us. We're not fast movers on the whole and act contradictory in the beginning but we've got tender and loyal hearts. Compliment us on our home cooked meal, even if it's rice and beans and the beans are burnt.

Don't: critique ie criticize) us, our family or our cooking and expect to make it out of the date with your life intact. We're allergic to criticism. Don't stand us up and expect a call let alone another date from us. Don't disappear on us and expect us to act like nothing happen when you contact us again. Consistency is very important. We're not geminis who might not have even noticed you didn't call or aquarians who don't want to plan anything in advance. Don't be too wasteful with money. We worry about our security alot and want to know we can count on you to be responsible. Don't play us for a fool cuz you will learn otherwise and we can be full on Cancer cray-cray if we feel played.

um we (my family and I) plan everything in advance. I dont like surprises to be honest. So i believe this is too generalized and really doesn't say much about a person due to their "sign" alone. It's very prejudiced and biased considering that in truth I dont like people showing up at our home, without any plans and we like to plan things in advance, so that it fits into their calender/our family gatherings/birthdays, so we know what to do beforehand.

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Lisaberth, I really wish you wouldn't take every "aquarian" comment to heart. Of course they are just generalizations. There's no way to talk about sun signs without doing that. Doesn't mean I think all of any sign are one way. The aquarians I've know have been super independent & didn't like to plan to far in advance. Obviously that won't be true of all aquarians. And I never meant to suggest it was. No observation is going to fit every person, every circumstance.

oh ok 😄 thanks, este.

Posted by DarkFire
I love your sign all the do's are exactly what I want to do for my lover. Must be my Cancer Venus, which is also the strongest planet in my chart.

Have you dated a Cancer woman?
Is it true, Cancer Venus means you are attracted to Cancer women?

Thats what a guy needs to do, man wish there were more of that type out in California. Lol that's what my Taurus side needs and expects from a man. That's not too hard to ask now is it. See Taurus aren't that different, are we? Apart from Caps and Cancers. We are similar.

Cancers are aloof though. I have cancer rising. They criticize, they manipulate. Trust. I have cancer friends too. Soo we have these characteristics traits. Everyone does it depends. LESS so than others though.