Break up. How do Caps handle breaking up with someone? (Page 2)

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33
I remember you and I warned you but you were being stubborn regarding my warning.

"If he's communicating with your girl friend then you don't have this wrapped tight.

Be too distant and he'll be gone. You're a young Aqua. I been there too. You could be reading this all wrong. I'm forewarning you.

As for the trip, relax, be observant and see how it all plays out."

"Can you help me figure this out and decide what to do?

I'm an Aqua too and we always do this distant cold approach and then wonder why the guy we really want has moved on. Not all Aquas behave this way but the ones that do are confusing and send come here go away I really don't care kind of signals and men tire of it quickly.

I'm not sure but it seems he's shifting his interest to someone else. If you want him this would be the time to drop the apathy act and open up a lil bit."



But here it is weeks later and as I predicted he would move on from you.

Why you stubbornly chose to stone wall him during the trip I dunno. You're just a little too crazy for Cap.

I still see nothing wrong about him and my friend talking. we all met at the same time and hang out together along with her boyfriend and she has talked to him and me about her issues with her boyfriend.

The girl he mentioned that he likes and was telling me to tell him to stop talking to him. He wants me to aggressively fight for him , like saying if you don't tell me that I'm going away.

This chick lives across the country and he met her a week ago.

I'm not gonna tell him to stop talking to her to be with me, I told him it's his choice and that He'd rather talk to her than me then I had nothing to do there. I respect myself I have no reason to beg someone to be with me. I will work to do fix and work things out but never beg, mostly if there's someone else involved.

Also his story with the girl made no sense, and it was the same way we both met. so idk.

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You are too hard headed for a Cap. Try Leo. I told you he would move on and he did. He even went so far as to let you know he isn't invested in her yet and there is still a chance between you 2 if you want it to be and all you can think of is I don't want him to leave her for me.

Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head.

You're exhausting which is one reason Aqua girls are the least desirable to date in the zodiac.

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33
I remember you and I warned you but you were being stubborn regarding my warning.

"If he's communicating with your girl friend then you don't have this wrapped tight.

Be too distant and he'll be gone. You're a young Aqua. I been there too. You could be reading this all wrong. I'm forewarning you.

As for the trip, relax, be observant and see how it all plays out."

"Can you help me figure this out and decide what to do?

I'm an Aqua too and we always do this distant cold approach and then wonder why the guy we really want has moved on. Not all Aquas behave this way but the ones that do are confusing and send come here go away I really don't care kind of signals and men tire of it quickly.

I'm not sure but it seems he's shifting his interest to someone else. If you want him this would be the time to drop the apathy act and open up a lil bit."



But here it is weeks later and as I predicted he would move on from you.

Why you stubbornly chose to stone wall him during the trip I dunno. You're just a little too crazy for Cap.

I still see nothing wrong about him and my friend talking. we all met at the same time and hang out together along with her boyfriend and she has talked to him and me about her issues with her boyfriend.

The girl he mentioned that he likes and was telling me to tell him to stop talking to him. He wants me to aggressively fight for him , like saying if you don't tell me that I'm going away.

This chick lives across the country and he met her a week ago.

I'm not gonna tell him to stop talking to her to be with me, I told him it's his choice and that He'd rather talk to her than me then I had nothing to do there. I respect myself I have no reason to beg someone to be with me. I will work to do fix and work things out but never beg, mostly if there's someone else involved.

Also his story with the girl made no sense, and it was the same way we both met. so idk.

You are too hard headed for a Cap. Try Leo. I told you he would move on and he did. He even went so far as to let you know he isn't invested in her yet and there is still a chance between you 2 if you want it to be and all you can think of is I don't want him to leave her for me.

Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head.

You're exhausting which is one reason Aqua girls are the least desirable to date in the zodiac.

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omg, Tiki, you are good with Capricorn men.



she IS far too stubborn for them. she won't bend.



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and naww.. it isn't true in my case and i'm sure some other aqua sun females, there's a lot of men that want them.

i'm sure there are SOME , or a lot that a lot of men don't want them either.

don't be downer on the sign, it depends on the woman.

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Posted by Aerazo
I had a recent argument with Cap which led to the break up of our whatever relationship we had.

He was very hurtful and we said a lot of hurtful things to each other. I know we werent very good at communicating and sometimes some things just need to come out.

If a Cap realizes she's not the one he wants. I would have thought that he would be calm and talk nicely about breaking the bond but it went down with a lot of drama on his side.

I've seen another thread where people asked if Caps mean what they say when they are mad and another Cap told me that most of the time the are hurtful is with the person they care about bc if it's something they can't control, it upsets them to the point of trying to hate the other person to push them away or forget about them.

After all, is there a way to fix things? there's no doubt that we like each other a lot.



Maybe I should give up on Cap men lol

what are his placements?

it would give a great idea of what his placements are.



because if a Capricorn man is not with you, staying with you even though he is upset.

he is not into you.

I've seen it with my uncles. they don't want to be with a woman who lets them down a lot.

they forgive but if it's too much, they would rather be alone than be let down all the time.

they love complicated women i notice.

Is not that I'm that complicated lol but we do go head to head sometimes. I know he wants a housewife, we've had some small disagreements when it comes to what he wants in a girl vs me.

He's very laidback even though he doesn't see it and I've been in a relationship like that so I show him that with me he has to be more open minded.

Our placements are:

Him. . / Me

Sun Capricorn. / Aquarius

Moon Aries. / Gemnini

Mercury Capricorn. / Aquarius

Venus Aquarius. / Pisces

Mars Scorpio. / Saggitarius

Jupiter Aries. / Aries

Saturn Saggitarius. / Saggitarius

Uranus Saggitarius. / Saggitarius

Neptune Capricorn. / Capricorn

Pluto Scorpio. / Scorpio



We have similar placements

Thanks for helping out 🙂

sure thing. but if you know he wants a housewife, and you both want that and you love him, why is it a problem??

I'm Not just a housewife. I like the family environment, I have kids, i have already been in a marriage. I have a business, a busy life basically to work for my kids and my family, help other people (if it includes a husband)

I'm not the type of housewife who will simply stay home taking care of the kids and the home. He wants that but at the same time he loves that we share a business interest and we are both in this journey to help others. We are both spiritual driven but is hard for me to open up to him, because I don't want him to think that I'm just trying to catch him because we share the same interests and he's "husband material" I've been trying to show him that I have feelings for him, as a man, as someone who I have been devoted to.

During this time I haven't "cheated" on him, even though it wouldn't be cheating since we aren't together but he just doesn't want to trust me bc he thinks I'm gonna turn my back on him.

He gets desperate when he argues, he walks from one side to another, tries to reason with his feelings and his thoughts so he gets very contradicting. Is not the first time this happens. But is the first time he verbally hurts me.

It's like he pushes me away and I think he just doesn't want me so I do go away. but then he does things to get my attention again and I come back to him as friends but he makes other moves and we are back in the same thing, but doesn't assure a relationship because I know and I understand that right now he wants to focus in school, his business and his job.

Another thing is that we never talked about exes. and he brought that up during the argument. He asked me about the people I've been with and I was honest, the he goes, see— like 3 guys in a year?? But they are all instant connections that I don't get attached to bc they aren't what I want, doesn't mean we can't have a short good time.

That's where we are contradicting, he thinks I'm probably just gonna go and sleep with any guy I find but is not like that.. oh and he brought up the fact that I took him home the first day we met and we slept (had sex, he woke up naked bc he did try, we kissed until he knocked out lol) I was sober, I took him home because I was worried about him, I could have gone to a club with my friends and leave him at the place but he wanted to come with me wherever I went and I said ok, so we are going to your house.

I left before he woke up because we were at his parents home and I'm not the type to just stay over at guys house like that mostly if I just met them.

He asked me if we had sex bc he didn't remember and I just said if you don't remember it didn't happen. (but this whole time I'm sure he has that in his head for him to bring it up during the arguments twice in a week) Now he wants to be victim like if I took him home just to have sex with him, it's stupid. He just can't take the fact that I do like him. At the beginning he told me that girls just leave him bc he's not really interested in women like that but I didn't see a reason to leave him, if I complained about something he would fix it and make sure I knew he did it for me.

Honestly, if it wasnt because I could see that he was into me I would have just stayed as friends and not worry about anything. I'm trying to figure this out because there is something that keeps us together in a different level.

Is not like I'm a newbie with guys, I've met and gone through guys like nothing, I don't get attached easily and if I see the other persons interest is simply Fun (sex) and I want the same then sure why not. But I never had fights or aguments over things like these with this guys, or even worried to ask people for their opinion or even use astrology to see if we are compatible or what the issues are between us.



So, talking about Venus Retrograde. Do you think this has something to do with it?? Someone mentioned this before that it may cause an issue for us.

I just checked an apparently it was gonna affect me in my communication which for me communication and intution are very good traits of mine.

Even when I had my chakras read, I don't know if any of you are into it but I have a high level of communication, intuition and healing.

Some people are skeptical about this.

Again, yes I like him but I don't want to force him into something with me. I'm aloof but I try to show him, I just think he wants me to be crazy about him and fight or ahownhim that I'm obsessed with him for him to know it's real.

He definitely likes when I'm all over him, I get submissive with him, but he doesn't like it when I get dominant in the relationship.

I'm the skeleton of my household, business and my job, so in my head I have no reason to be on someone's ass to be with me.

Sorry for the long message but I guess people here just assume based on a few words and posts.

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whoa!!



tl;dr.



if you're not with him, and making a family right now, and having a home together....

all that wall of text really means naught.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33
I remember you and I warned you but you were being stubborn regarding my warning.

"If he's communicating with your girl friend then you don't have this wrapped tight.

Be too distant and he'll be gone. You're a young Aqua. I been there too. You could be reading this all wrong. I'm forewarning you.

As for the trip, relax, be observant and see how it all plays out."

"Can you help me figure this out and decide what to do?

I'm an Aqua too and we always do this distant cold approach and then wonder why the guy we really want has moved on. Not all Aquas behave this way but the ones that do are confusing and send come here go away I really don't care kind of signals and men tire of it quickly.

I'm not sure but it seems he's shifting his interest to someone else. If you want him this would be the time to drop the apathy act and open up a lil bit."



But here it is weeks later and as I predicted he would move on from you.

Why you stubbornly chose to stone wall him during the trip I dunno. You're just a little too crazy for Cap.

I still see nothing wrong about him and my friend talking. we all met at the same time and hang out together along with her boyfriend and she has talked to him and me about her issues with her boyfriend.

The girl he mentioned that he likes and was telling me to tell him to stop talking to him. He wants me to aggressively fight for him , like saying if you don't tell me that I'm going away.

This chick lives across the country and he met her a week ago.

I'm not gonna tell him to stop talking to her to be with me, I told him it's his choice and that He'd rather talk to her than me then I had nothing to do there. I respect myself I have no reason to beg someone to be with me. I will work to do fix and work things out but never beg, mostly if there's someone else involved.

Also his story with the girl made no sense, and it was the same way we both met. so idk.

You are too hard headed for a Cap. Try Leo. I told you he would move on and he did. He even went so far as to let you know he isn't invested in her yet and there is still a chance between you 2 if you want it to be and all you can think of is I don't want him to leave her for me.

Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head.

You're exhausting which is one reason Aqua girls are the least desirable to date in the zodiac.

omg, Tiki, you are good with Capricorn men.



she IS far too stubborn for them. she won't bend.



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and naww.. it isn't true in my case and i'm sure some other aqua sun females, there's a lot of men that want them.

i'm sure there are SOME , or a lot that a lot of men don't want them either.

don't be downer on the sign, it depends on the woman.

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I love our sign, I wanna be clear about that.

Aqua women are wonderful mates when we are ready to be but it takes a lil bit more time for us to completely get to that relationship other orientated space and meanwhile this behavior has been described as weird, crazy, too slow etc etc so we are in a lot ways misunderstood but we also tend to get in our own way.

I'm saying to the person who posted this thread to get out of her own way. If she wants him then stop Thinking about it and just be with him.

I haven't read the whole thread it's really long lol I was married to a cap for 6 years had 2 kids with him did everything with him we were in a very comfortable with each other relationship he was really laid back but then.......... we split and I got to know him

1, he'd led a double life he'd slept with every girl that looked his way behind my back including almost all my friends while I was with him (would've never of guessed he'd done this while we were together)

2, he got nasty real nasty to the point where he was trying to destroy our kids to get to me

It's our wedding anniversary tomorrow 11 years married I haven't seen him for a long time the kids haven't either he's totally unable to communicate with me at all we're still married cos we can't even get along enough to get a divorce he's so spiteful and passive aggressive the only divorce papers he'll sign are 80 page rants of how I was a bad wife and he's so innocent! My ex best friend gave birth to his daughter shortly after we split she got pregnant while we were together

Don't be surprised if he turns out to be a different person completely by far the most slyest member of the zodiac ever

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Posted by Bubbles328
I haven't read the whole thread it's really long lol I was married to a cap for 6 years had 2 kids with him did everything with him we were in a very comfortable with each other relationship he was really laid back but then.......... we split and I got to know him

1, he'd led a double life he'd slept with every girl that looked his way behind my back including almost all my friends while I was with him (would've never of guessed he'd done this while we were together)

2, he got nasty real nasty to the point where he was trying to destroy our kids to get to me

It's our wedding anniversary tomorrow 11 years married I haven't seen him for a long time the kids haven't either he's totally unable to communicate with me at all we're still married cos we can't even get along enough to get a divorce he's so spiteful and passive aggressive the only divorce papers he'll sign are 80 page rants of how I was a bad wife and he's so innocent! My ex best friend gave birth to his daughter shortly after we split she got pregnant while we were together

Don't be surprised if he turns out to be a different person completely by far the most slyest member of the zodiac ever

Well damn.

What's your mars sign?

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Sag

Posted by Caplove
Telling him you're interested and want to see where this goes isn't begging. He needs some encouragement from you but he's not getting it so he'll most likely back off.

Yes. encouragement I understand, but I'm not gonna talk about our relationship when he's drunk. When I got there he was already tipsy and chugged 3 glasses of wine while I only had 1.

My intention of going to see him was to talk to him about the whole thing but he kind of just wanted to get drunk and argue



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Posted by Deedee86
I was married to a Cap and he used to say some of the meanest things. He would find out my weakness and use it against me in arguments.

After having our son, I was self conscious about the baby weight. Looking back now, it wasn't even much but it bothered me. He got mad once and called me a cow and tortured me until I "mooed". I can't speak of every Cap but he was a mean bastard.

your ex was a SICK sadist who should rot in a filthy cell instead of getting into any relationship

Posted by Bubbles328
I haven't read the whole thread it's really long lol I was married to a cap for 6 years had 2 kids with him did everything with him we were in a very comfortable with each other relationship he was really laid back but then.......... we split and I got to know him

1, he'd led a double life he'd slept with every girl that looked his way behind my back including almost all my friends while I was with him (would've never of guessed he'd done this while we were together)

2, he got nasty real nasty to the point where he was trying to destroy our kids to get to me

It's our wedding anniversary tomorrow 11 years married I haven't seen him for a long time the kids haven't either he's totally unable to communicate with me at all we're still married cos we can't even get along enough to get a divorce he's so spiteful and passive aggressive the only divorce papers he'll sign are 80 page rants of how I was a bad wife and he's so innocent! My ex best friend gave birth to his daughter shortly after we split she got pregnant while we were together

Don't be surprised if he turns out to be a different person completely by far the most slyest member of the zodiac ever

you don't need his consent to divorce him

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Posted by Caplove
Telling him you're interested and want to see where this goes isn't begging. He needs some encouragement from you but he's not getting it so he'll most likely back off.

Yes. encouragement I understand, but I'm not gonna talk about our relationship when he's drunk. When I got there he was already tipsy and chugged 3 glasses of wine while I only had 1.

My intention of going to see him was to talk to him about the whole thing but he kind of just wanted to get drunk and argue



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He got drunk because you are frigid and it can make people feel agitated and uncomfortable. When a man deeply desires to be connected with a woman but can't find an opening to do it he becomes frustrated and drinking can kill off those icky feelings.

Aquas can be emotionally robotic and insist on everything making sense before engaging in a situation but this behavior is not good for love because love and attraction does not make sense.

If you're unavailable for love then admit it to yourself and move on. You must be OPEN for love, your heart has to be open or you'll just drive men away from you.

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Posted by Bubbles328
I haven't read the whole thread it's really long lol I was married to a cap for 6 years had 2 kids with him did everything with him we were in a very comfortable with each other relationship he was really laid back but then.......... we split and I got to know him

1, he'd led a double life he'd slept with every girl that looked his way behind my back including almost all my friends while I was with him (would've never of guessed he'd done this while we were together)

2, he got nasty real nasty to the point where he was trying to destroy our kids to get to me

It's our wedding anniversary tomorrow 11 years married I haven't seen him for a long time the kids haven't either he's totally unable to communicate with me at all we're still married cos we can't even get along enough to get a divorce he's so spiteful and passive aggressive the only divorce papers he'll sign are 80 page rants of how I was a bad wife and he's so innocent! My ex best friend gave birth to his daughter shortly after we split she got pregnant while we were together

Don't be surprised if he turns out to be a different person completely by far the most slyest member of the zodiac ever

you don't need his consent to divorce him

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sounds like a despicable low life who does not have enough brain cells to keep his d in his pants. what kinda low life would destroy his own kids. i highly doubt he would have ability or will to provide for kids so why keep such useless toxic influence around you and your kids. get rid of the garbage asap

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Posted by youngali

Posted by Bubbles328
I haven't read the whole thread it's really long lol I was married to a cap for 6 years had 2 kids with him did everything with him we were in a very comfortable with each other relationship he was really laid back but then.......... we split and I got to know him

1, he'd led a double life he'd slept with every girl that looked his way behind my back including almost all my friends while I was with him (would've never of guessed he'd done this while we were together)

2, he got nasty real nasty to the point where he was trying to destroy our kids to get to me

It's our wedding anniversary tomorrow 11 years married I haven't seen him for a long time the kids haven't either he's totally unable to communicate with me at all we're still married cos we can't even get along enough to get a divorce he's so spiteful and passive aggressive the only divorce papers he'll sign are 80 page rants of how I was a bad wife and he's so innocent! My ex best friend gave birth to his daughter shortly after we split she got pregnant while we were together

Don't be surprised if he turns out to be a different person completely by far the most slyest member of the zodiac ever

Well damn.

What's your mars sign?

Sag

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I'm Sag Mars too. He's Scorpio Mars.

I'm sorry you went through that.

I had a bad experience with my ex cap. we were together for 12 yrs, he was abusive. Never cheated as far as I know.

He dated a Taurus girl when we broke up in the mid of our relationship and he came back to me a year later asking me if I wanted to try again and I said yes. He left her and we got back together.

He not only locked me in the relationship but also in the home. lol They want to be providers at all costs I don't know if it's a thing of dominating the relationship or if it was bc I was seeing a guy too and he found out.

We had a very good good relationship and friendship.

When we turned 24 or so (we were together since we were 15) he started to become possessive, He started checking my phone, not let me go out with my friends (I'm not a party girl) at least on their bdays, he would make a drama scene for me to not go out or simply make me go back home saying something was happening to the kids.

He never insulted me until I started to take on the relationship and letting him know that's not how this works. I got tired of letting my best friends down on their bday bc of his tantrums. So he began to hit me and that's when I lost it.

I have no doubt that He's a good man, he's a good father but at the end of the relationship I noticed his issue was beyond just jealousy. I offered to go to couple therapy, psychologist or anything that could help us but he was stubborn that he was fine. He started drinking and come home drunk, or get drunk in the home and cry about me. I stayed 3 years trying to help him and our relationship but he was dragging me and the girls with him. He played a victim for me to stay with him but it was too much for me. He didnt want to be helped.

This is the reason why is hard for me to open up to guys, I need to see that they really like me for who I am and to know me as I am because I know there are guys who don't care and I won't begin a relationship since day 1 with someone just because they said they're crazy about me, that's just immature.

you and I know now after what we have been through is hard to trust people, even harder since we have kids. I give all my trust to the person but I make them aware that if they want to be with other people to let me know so I know where we stand.

The ones who say he wanted me from dat 1 they are probably submissive women. A cap wants a woman who can be good in the home but the caps that I know that are with submissive women they cheat on them.

I know a cap with a Leo woman who is a stay at home wife have 3 kids and he cheats on her all the time. I know another Cap with a Cancer woman and same thing, always cheated and they know this. I met a cap with a Libra and they have fun together, they get along very well and he told me (in friendly confession) I've never had the need to cheat on my wife because she's not only my wife, she's my best friend and partner. Same as my cousin Cap with his Aqua wife. they just had a baby and been together for about 7 yrs.

We, dominant, wild women aren't cheaters, our men get all of our attention when we are invested in the relationship.

Are you with someone now?

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Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33
I remember you and I warned you but you were being stubborn regarding my warning.

"If he's communicating with your girl friend then you don't have this wrapped tight.

Be too distant and he'll be gone. You're a young Aqua. I been there too. You could be reading this all wrong. I'm forewarning you.

As for the trip, relax, be observant and see how it all plays out."

"Can you help me figure this out and decide what to do?

I'm an Aqua too and we always do this distant cold approach and then wonder why the guy we really want has moved on. Not all Aquas behave this way but the ones that do are confusing and send come here go away I really don't care kind of signals and men tire of it quickly.

I'm not sure but it seems he's shifting his interest to someone else. If you want him this would be the time to drop the apathy act and open up a lil bit."



But here it is weeks later and as I predicted he would move on from you.

Why you stubbornly chose to stone wall him during the trip I dunno. You're just a little too crazy for Cap.

I still see nothing wrong about him and my friend talking. we all met at the same time and hang out together along with her boyfriend and she has talked to him and me about her issues with her boyfriend.

The girl he mentioned that he likes and was telling me to tell him to stop talking to him. He wants me to aggressively fight for him , like saying if you don't tell me that I'm going away.

This chick lives across the country and he met her a week ago.

I'm not gonna tell him to stop talking to her to be with me, I told him it's his choice and that He'd rather talk to her than me then I had nothing to do there. I respect myself I have no reason to beg someone to be with me. I will work to do fix and work things out but never beg, mostly if there's someone else involved.

Also his story with the girl made no sense, and it was the same way we both met. so idk.

You are too hard headed for a Cap. Try Leo. I told you he would move on and he did. He even went so far as to let you know he isn't invested in her yet and there is still a chance between you 2 if you want it to be and all you can think of is I don't want him to leave her for me.

Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head.

You're exhausting which is one reason Aqua girls are the least desirable to date in the zodiac.

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I dated 2 Leo's and they are both cheaters lol

I never trusted them, so when I found out (couple months later) I just broke up and let go. One of them tried to get back with me but I never take back a cheater. I know that people deserve a second chance but if they aren't willing to be loyal from the beginning then they will keep doing it.

I dated a Libra for 3 months and the guy was too clingy for my taste.

this "Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head."

I'm 100% aware of this, ever since I got into dxp in December I have been noticing that I'm thinking this through too much or don't think of it at all. But dxp helps, either to see other people's experiences, our behaviour, and I've gone to the point of checking how our moons, venus/mars, and other placements to see if they match with how we are and it helps me to find my own issues.

Like I said before, is hard for me to trust someone and I like posting threads because I can see where I'm wrong as well and how other people see it, but of course you have to give a lot of details here bc people just jump into conclusions too quick!

I don't mind answering to help other people in their threads, that's why I ask too.

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Posted by Aerazo

Posted by Caplove
Telling him you're interested and want to see where this goes isn't begging. He needs some encouragement from you but he's not getting it so he'll most likely back off.

Yes. encouragement I understand, but I'm not gonna talk about our relationship when he's drunk. When I got there he was already tipsy and chugged 3 glasses of wine while I only had 1.

My intention of going to see him was to talk to him about the whole thing but he kind of just wanted to get drunk and argue



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He got drunk because you are frigid and it can make people feel agitated and uncomfortable. When a man deeply desires to be connected with a woman but can't find an opening to do it he becomes frustrated and drinking can kill off those icky feelings.

Aquas can be emotionally robotic and insist on everything making sense before engaging in a situation but this behavior is not good for love because love and attraction does not make sense.

If you're unavailable for love then admit it to yourself and move on. You must be OPEN for love, your heart has to be open or you'll just drive men away from you.

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I know, I have a resting bitch face but I'm a sweet nice person haha! He used to tell me that I intimidated him when we met and if it wasnt bc I kept talking to him and making him comfortable in the conversation he would have left without asking for my number or anything. He's very shy, maybe that's the reason he got drunk the first day we met haha then he got more playful.

Bad experiences is what makes people guard their hearts. for at least 2 years I never fell for any guy at all. I could be with a guy and not care but I guess it was also that I wasn't attracted to them romantically. (Aqua, Libra, Taurus, Leo) It would last about 2 months before I got bored and cut them off.

Thanks for the advice and I hope he wants to talk so I can explain why I blocked him and everything.

🙂

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Posted by tiki33

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Posted by tiki33
I remember you and I warned you but you were being stubborn regarding my warning.

"If he's communicating with your girl friend then you don't have this wrapped tight.

Be too distant and he'll be gone. You're a young Aqua. I been there too. You could be reading this all wrong. I'm forewarning you.

As for the trip, relax, be observant and see how it all plays out."

"Can you help me figure this out and decide what to do?

I'm an Aqua too and we always do this distant cold approach and then wonder why the guy we really want has moved on. Not all Aquas behave this way but the ones that do are confusing and send come here go away I really don't care kind of signals and men tire of it quickly.

I'm not sure but it seems he's shifting his interest to someone else. If you want him this would be the time to drop the apathy act and open up a lil bit."



But here it is weeks later and as I predicted he would move on from you.

Why you stubbornly chose to stone wall him during the trip I dunno. You're just a little too crazy for Cap.

I still see nothing wrong about him and my friend talking. we all met at the same time and hang out together along with her boyfriend and she has talked to him and me about her issues with her boyfriend.

The girl he mentioned that he likes and was telling me to tell him to stop talking to him. He wants me to aggressively fight for him , like saying if you don't tell me that I'm going away.

This chick lives across the country and he met her a week ago.

I'm not gonna tell him to stop talking to her to be with me, I told him it's his choice and that He'd rather talk to her than me then I had nothing to do there. I respect myself I have no reason to beg someone to be with me. I will work to do fix and work things out but never beg, mostly if there's someone else involved.

Also his story with the girl made no sense, and it was the same way we both met. so idk.

You are too hard headed for a Cap. Try Leo. I told you he would move on and he did. He even went so far as to let you know he isn't invested in her yet and there is still a chance between you 2 if you want it to be and all you can think of is I don't want him to leave her for me.

Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head.

You're exhausting which is one reason Aqua girls are the least desirable to date in the zodiac.

I dated 2 Leo's and they are both cheaters lol

I never trusted them, so when I found out (couple months later) I just broke up and let go. One of them tried to get back with me but I never take back a cheater. I know that people deserve a second chance but if they aren't willing to be loyal from the beginning then they will keep doing it.

I dated a Libra for 3 months and the guy was too clingy for my taste.

this "Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head."

I'm 100% aware of this, ever since I got into dxp in December I have been noticing that I'm thinking this through too much or don't think of it at all. But dxp helps, either to see other people's experiences, our behaviour, and I've gone to the point of checking how our moons, venus/mars, and other placements to see if they match with how we are and it helps me to find my own issues.

Like I said before, is hard for me to trust someone and I like posting threads because I can see where I'm wrong as well and how other people see it, but of course you have to give a lot of details here bc people just jump into conclusions too quick!

I don't mind answering to help other people in their threads, that's why I ask too.

🙂

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Try Leo again or another Fire sign because a Leo/fire sign will have enough warnth to deal with your cold emotional responses.

The most compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Aries, Gemini, Libra and Sagittarius. The least compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Taurus and Scorpio. Comparing sun signs can give a good general idea of compatibility.

The difference between the water-bearing Aquarius which is air sign and the Capricorn male, which is an earth sign, can be like black and white.

It’s very easy for both partners to basically fail to see eye to eye. However, there’s a lot more to Aquarius woman and Capricorn man love compatibility. You 2 are not compatible and deep down you know it.

Posted by youngali
All these threads of complaints about the same dude is draining for all of us! —

Not complaining, looking for guidance. is cheaper and faster plus I get different opinions.

Am I supposed to post about different guys?? I'm not a slut ?

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33

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Posted by tiki33
I remember you and I warned you but you were being stubborn regarding my warning.

"If he's communicating with your girl friend then you don't have this wrapped tight.

Be too distant and he'll be gone. You're a young Aqua. I been there too. You could be reading this all wrong. I'm forewarning you.

As for the trip, relax, be observant and see how it all plays out."

"Can you help me figure this out and decide what to do?

I'm an Aqua too and we always do this distant cold approach and then wonder why the guy we really want has moved on. Not all Aquas behave this way but the ones that do are confusing and send come here go away I really don't care kind of signals and men tire of it quickly.

I'm not sure but it seems he's shifting his interest to someone else. If you want him this would be the time to drop the apathy act and open up a lil bit."



But here it is weeks later and as I predicted he would move on from you.

Why you stubbornly chose to stone wall him during the trip I dunno. You're just a little too crazy for Cap.

I still see nothing wrong about him and my friend talking. we all met at the same time and hang out together along with her boyfriend and she has talked to him and me about her issues with her boyfriend.

The girl he mentioned that he likes and was telling me to tell him to stop talking to him. He wants me to aggressively fight for him , like saying if you don't tell me that I'm going away.

This chick lives across the country and he met her a week ago.

I'm not gonna tell him to stop talking to her to be with me, I told him it's his choice and that He'd rather talk to her than me then I had nothing to do there. I respect myself I have no reason to beg someone to be with me. I will work to do fix and work things out but never beg, mostly if there's someone else involved.

Also his story with the girl made no sense, and it was the same way we both met. so idk.

You are too hard headed for a Cap. Try Leo. I told you he would move on and he did. He even went so far as to let you know he isn't invested in her yet and there is still a chance between you 2 if you want it to be and all you can think of is I don't want him to leave her for me.

Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head.

You're exhausting which is one reason Aqua girls are the least desirable to date in the zodiac.

I dated 2 Leo's and they are both cheaters lol

I never trusted them, so when I found out (couple months later) I just broke up and let go. One of them tried to get back with me but I never take back a cheater. I know that people deserve a second chance but if they aren't willing to be loyal from the beginning then they will keep doing it.

I dated a Libra for 3 months and the guy was too clingy for my taste.

this "Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head."

I'm 100% aware of this, ever since I got into dxp in December I have been noticing that I'm thinking this through too much or don't think of it at all. But dxp helps, either to see other people's experiences, our behaviour, and I've gone to the point of checking how our moons, venus/mars, and other placements to see if they match with how we are and it helps me to find my own issues.

Like I said before, is hard for me to trust someone and I like posting threads because I can see where I'm wrong as well and how other people see it, but of course you have to give a lot of details here bc people just jump into conclusions too quick!

I don't mind answering to help other people in their threads, that's why I ask too.

🙂

Try Leo again or another Fire sign because a Leo/fire sign will have enough warnth to deal with your cold emotional responses.

The most compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Aries, Gemini, Libra and Sagittarius. The least compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Taurus and Scorpio. Comparing sun signs can give a good general idea of compatibility.

The difference between the water-bearing Aquarius which is air sign and the Capricorn male, which is an earth sign, can be like black and white.

It’s very easy for both partners to basically fail to see eye to eye. However, there’s a lot more to Aquarius woman and Capricorn man love compatibility. You 2 are not compatible and deep down you know it.

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Comparing sun signs, yes, I can see how we are not compatible. But our moons are "perfect" for each other. His is Aries, mine is Gemini.

His Scorpio Mars and my Pisces in Venus are "natural partners". Everything else also seems to fit. We are both Aries Ascendant and I guess that's where we both want to be dominant.

I've met Aries guys but I'm not even sexually attracted to them :/ and they are HOT!! but it seemed like they just wanted to get in my pants, and never got to it so then they got forward and all 3 (different year) have told me exclusively that they want to have sex with me. ?

I had a short relationship with a Gemini but he had to marry a girl bc of religion. "arranged marriage " I never got to be into him romantically that much but he was very sweet with me.

I just don't like to be treated as a princess, doll, or anything like that in the relationship. I'm more like "You're a King, treat me as a Queen, our kids are Prince and princesses.." or we are God and Goddess.

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Taurus are extremely stubborn for me, my best male friend is a Taurus and we get along as friends, relationship wise we know it won't work. I know how he treats his girls and what's in his mind same as my dad who is also a Taurus, my mom is an Aqua. Good relationship but I think they lacked FUN!

I feel a strong sexual connection I know but for long term nope.

They are also sort of beta males and I like alpha males (Caps)

Not Libra! I dated one who was on my butt (literally) all the time. Called, video chat and texted all day and night. I think it was more sexual than anything. After I ended the relationship he threw a tantrum and a week later he was happily in a relationship with another girl. ?

One sign I could date is Cancer. I've met 3 and they are all different, but there's a good connection there.

I've also thought of Virgos but haven't met any yet. Not Sags or Scorps either.

I think that for us Aqua women, we don't focus on the physical appearance that much, is all about the mimd,body,soul connection so it's harder to fall for someone that's why once we do, we are devoted to it.

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Posted by youngali
All these threads of complaints about the same dude is draining for all of us! —

Not complaining, looking for guidance. is cheaper and faster plus I get different opinions.

Am I supposed to post about different guys?? I'm not a slut ?

i'm just confused because sometimes you post like you understand cap men, especially with your history with them... yet you still need all this guidance?. ? it doesn't make sense.

you should know enough to know when it's just not working.

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He's different. All caps I know are different. They all have short temper, jealousy and common things that I can deal with because I have nothing to hide but relationship wise is where I know I also need to work on it. If we get to the boyfriend/girlfriend phase, he would be my 2nd boyfriend ever! all the other guys I've been with have never made it there bc I just don't think they are what I want. But he is..so I'm trying to take it slow so I don't cut him off like the other guys.

🙂

Posted by youngali

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Posted by youngali

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by youngali
All these threads of complaints about the same dude is draining for all of us! —

Not complaining, looking for guidance. is cheaper and faster plus I get different opinions.

Am I supposed to post about different guys?? I'm not a slut ?

i'm just confused because sometimes you post like you understand cap men, especially with your history with them... yet you still need all this guidance?. ? it doesn't make sense.

you should know enough to know when it's just not working.

He's different. All caps I know are different. They all have short temper, jealousy and common things that I can deal with because I have nothing to hide but relationship wise is where I know I also need to work on it. If we get to the boyfriend/girlfriend phase, he would be my 2nd boyfriend ever! all the other guys I've been with have never made it there bc I just don't think they are what I want. But he is..so I'm trying to take it slow so I don't cut him off like the other guys.

🙂

you either need to stop fronting and tell this dude how you really feel, or just let it go... because from observation, the communication style s are two totally different languages.

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I know, this time I might have to be the drunk one hahaha ?? I'll just get to his house, get drunk on the parking lot and walk inside to tell him I like him. A Lot! ? ?

Posted by Rindaroo
I do agree with @Tiki33 on the "Try a Leo" again. Not all will be cheaters. You know my experience with one was that he had a way of getting the emotions out of me. More than anyone I have ever known. (I am an Aqua moon and have trouble in the expressing emotions area too). Anyway, the Leo would call me on my not talking, and not accept anything but answers lol. My Cap is not talking, and not forcing the issue when I didn't express my emotions. He is just searching my eyes for the answers.. and gets hard to approach. That is much harder.

I'm already overthinking it with him, I can't imagine with a Leo haha I have very strong emotions, either very Hot or very Cold.

My ex Leo became a very good friend. he got me to my feelings a lot while we were together but it was more as my issues with my ex, family stuff etc. not really my feelings for him. I never got any, he called me and played songs for me, one of them being the "over the rainbow" but for me it never clicked.

Yes with caps is easier for me to express, I can just tell them I like them once and they won't ask me to say it all the time. As long as it was natural for me. I show more through actions and Caps they value that more than the other guys I've been with.

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Yes the look in their eyes!!!! fiery!! passionate!! Sensual!! shy!! Hot!! lol

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I haven't read the whole thread it's really long lol I was married to a cap for 6 years had 2 kids with him did everything with him we were in a very comfortable with each other relationship he was really laid back but then.......... we split and I got to know him

1, he'd led a double life he'd slept with every girl that looked his way behind my back including almost all my friends while I was with him (would've never of guessed he'd done this while we were together)

2, he got nasty real nasty to the point where he was trying to destroy our kids to get to me

It's our wedding anniversary tomorrow 11 years married I haven't seen him for a long time the kids haven't either he's totally unable to communicate with me at all we're still married cos we can't even get along enough to get a divorce he's so spiteful and passive aggressive the only divorce papers he'll sign are 80 page rants of how I was a bad wife and he's so innocent! My ex best friend gave birth to his daughter shortly after we split she got pregnant while we were together

Don't be surprised if he turns out to be a different person completely by far the most slyest member of the zodiac ever

Well damn.

What's your mars sign?

Sag

I'm Sag Mars too. He's Scorpio Mars.

I'm sorry you went through that.

I had a bad experience with my ex cap. we were together for 12 yrs, he was abusive. Never cheated as far as I know.

He dated a Taurus girl when we broke up in the mid of our relationship and he came back to me a year later asking me if I wanted to try again and I said yes. He left her and we got back together.

He not only locked me in the relationship but also in the home. lol They want to be providers at all costs I don't know if it's a thing of dominating the relationship or if it was bc I was seeing a guy too and he found out.

We had a very good good relationship and friendship.

When we turned 24 or so (we were together since we were 15) he started to become possessive, He started checking my phone, not let me go out with my friends (I'm not a party girl) at least on their bdays, he would make a drama scene for me to not go out or simply make me go back home saying something was happening to the kids.

He never insulted me until I started to take on the relationship and letting him know that's not how this works. I got tired of letting my best friends down on their bday bc of his tantrums. So he began to hit me and that's when I lost it.

I have no doubt that He's a good man, he's a good father but at the end of the relationship I noticed his issue was beyond just jealousy. I offered to go to couple therapy, psychologist or anything that could help us but he was stubborn that he was fine. He started drinking and come home drunk, or get drunk in the home and cry about me. I stayed 3 years trying to help him and our relationship but he was dragging me and the girls with him. He played a victim for me to stay with him but it was too much for me. He didnt want to be helped.

This is the reason why is hard for me to open up to guys, I need to see that they really like me for who I am and to know me as I am because I know there are guys who don't care and I won't begin a relationship since day 1 with someone just because they said they're crazy about me, that's just immature.

you and I know now after what we have been through is hard to trust people, even harder since we have kids. I give all my trust to the person but I make them aware that if they want to be with other people to let me know so I know where we stand.

The ones who say he wanted me from dat 1 they are probably submissive women. A cap wants a woman who can be good in the home but the caps that I know that are with submissive women they cheat on them.

I know a cap with a Leo woman who is a stay at home wife have 3 kids and he cheats on her all the time. I know another Cap with a Cancer woman and same thing, always cheated and they know this. I met a cap with a Libra and they have fun together, they get along very well and he told me (in friendly confession) I've never had the need to cheat on my wife because she's not only my wife, she's my best friend and partner. Same as my cousin Cap with his Aqua wife. they just had a baby and been together for about 7 yrs.

We, dominant, wild women aren't cheaters, our men get all of our attention when we are invested in the relationship.

Are you with someone now?

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I find caps to be liars more than cheaters they will hold their lie nomatter what! My daughters a cap and she can lie and won't let up it's a lie just like her dad. I find it very frustrating and it causes allot of mother daughter arguments. I think they lie but cheatings included in that if they choose to have an affair they will never reveal it which makes it a bigger more sordid mess in the end. Even now I know my ex friend had his baby and I know for a fact he had atleast 2 affairs other than that and I actually caught him doing the deed once he will never fess up. He's ran away like the injured bunny when I left him. We also managed a pub and he was so 2 faced he'd bitch about me to my mum, the customers anyone that would listen to his sob stories and tales about the evil wife. He'd lie about things that were clearly not true some idiots would believe him, some would listen and know he was lying but never say he was and others would actually call him an outright liar to his face! Those people were passively aggressively attacked in some way later.

Unfortunately another abuse victim here I was with a sag after him and he was horrible and really abusive I'm still suffering his stalking now. Iv also dealt with leos and virgos in brief relationships the virgos are now on my no go list and I think they're not very nice people if you look at their forum it's not friendly like here and the other signs so I now stay away from that. The leo was cool but he was a bit nuts (he spent 1 month straight just decorating his bathroom and absolutely nothing else, even gave up work the majority of the beginning of our relationship was spent in his bathroom with me looking at the disgrace of a crack in the wall he couldn't live with lol) He was funny in his weird ways and made me laugh and he was sweet but a guy that is that crazy is not a keeper lol I'm now working on me. I had PTSD and anxiety from the sag and the abuse so i need some space. I also don't bond with guys anymore (the leo and the virgo I just walked from without a whimper) There was a scorpio too that was fiery and amazing the weird stuff we did in the bedroom and he gave me loads of confidence and I just walked away from him too. I'm pretty independent but want to practice my independence also I want to make sure I don't fall back in with an abuser cos I seem to attract that type of guy. So at the moment i live for the moment.

I don't know much about the other signs and charts other than sun signs I read a full chart reading and even though it contradicted itself a little it was pretty much right! Say's for my future though i'm going to get a toy boy that basically makes my world amazing and together we will be invincible (think that was a thai chart) soooo fingers crossed maybe I havent found the guy yet because he wasn't ever born LMAO

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Posted by youngali

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by youngali
All these threads of complaints about the same dude is draining for all of us! —

Not complaining, looking for guidance. is cheaper and faster plus I get different opinions.

Am I supposed to post about different guys?? I'm not a slut ?

i'm just confused because sometimes you post like you understand cap men, especially with your history with them... yet you still need all this guidance?. ? it doesn't make sense.

you should know enough to know when it's just not working.

He's different. All caps I know are different. They all have short temper, jealousy and common things that I can deal with because I have nothing to hide but relationship wise is where I know I also need to work on it. If we get to the boyfriend/girlfriend phase, he would be my 2nd boyfriend ever! all the other guys I've been with have never made it there bc I just don't think they are what I want. But he is..so I'm trying to take it slow so I don't cut him off like the other guys.

🙂

you either need to stop fronting and tell this dude how you really feel, or just let it go... because from observation, the communication style s are two totally different languages.

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I can't even get into her posts.

it's so long and lengthy.



she should write novels and make money.

unfortunately theyre kind of boring. no offense OP but gosh your stories are kind of boring.

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Posted by youngali

Posted by Bubbles328
I haven't read the whole thread it's really long lol I was married to a cap for 6 years had 2 kids with him did everything with him we were in a very comfortable with each other relationship he was really laid back but then.......... we split and I got to know him

1, he'd led a double life he'd slept with every girl that looked his way behind my back including almost all my friends while I was with him (would've never of guessed he'd done this while we were together)

2, he got nasty real nasty to the point where he was trying to destroy our kids to get to me

It's our wedding anniversary tomorrow 11 years married I haven't seen him for a long time the kids haven't either he's totally unable to communicate with me at all we're still married cos we can't even get along enough to get a divorce he's so spiteful and passive aggressive the only divorce papers he'll sign are 80 page rants of how I was a bad wife and he's so innocent! My ex best friend gave birth to his daughter shortly after we split she got pregnant while we were together

Don't be surprised if he turns out to be a different person completely by far the most slyest member of the zodiac ever

Well damn.

What's your mars sign?

Sag

I'm Sag Mars too. He's Scorpio Mars.

I'm sorry you went through that.

I had a bad experience with my ex cap. we were together for 12 yrs, he was abusive. Never cheated as far as I know.

He dated a Taurus girl when we broke up in the mid of our relationship and he came back to me a year later asking me if I wanted to try again and I said yes. He left her and we got back together.

He not only locked me in the relationship but also in the home. lol They want to be providers at all costs I don't know if it's a thing of dominating the relationship or if it was bc I was seeing a guy too and he found out.

We had a very good good relationship and friendship.

When we turned 24 or so (we were together since we were 15) he started to become possessive, He started checking my phone, not let me go out with my friends (I'm not a party girl) at least on their bdays, he would make a drama scene for me to not go out or simply make me go back home saying something was happening to the kids.

He never insulted me until I started to take on the relationship and letting him know that's not how this works. I got tired of letting my best friends down on their bday bc of his tantrums. So he began to hit me and that's when I lost it.

I have no doubt that He's a good man, he's a good father but at the end of the relationship I noticed his issue was beyond just jealousy. I offered to go to couple therapy, psychologist or anything that could help us but he was stubborn that he was fine. He started drinking and come home drunk, or get drunk in the home and cry about me. I stayed 3 years trying to help him and our relationship but he was dragging me and the girls with him. He played a victim for me to stay with him but it was too much for me. He didnt want to be helped.

This is the reason why is hard for me to open up to guys, I need to see that they really like me for who I am and to know me as I am because I know there are guys who don't care and I won't begin a relationship since day 1 with someone just because they said they're crazy about me, that's just immature.

you and I know now after what we have been through is hard to trust people, even harder since we have kids. I give all my trust to the person but I make them aware that if they want to be with other people to let me know so I know where we stand.

The ones who say he wanted me from dat 1 they are probably submissive women. A cap wants a woman who can be good in the home but the caps that I know that are with submissive women they cheat on them.

I know a cap with a Leo woman who is a stay at home wife have 3 kids and he cheats on her all the time. I know another Cap with a Cancer woman and same thing, always cheated and they know this. I met a cap with a Libra and they have fun together, they get along very well and he told me (in friendly confession) I've never had the need to cheat on my wife because she's not only my wife, she's my best friend and partner. Same as my cousin Cap with his Aqua wife. they just had a baby and been together for about 7 yrs.

We, dominant, wild women aren't cheaters, our men get all of our attention when we are invested in the relationship.

Are you with someone now?

I find caps to be liars more than cheaters they will hold their lie nomatter what! My daughters a cap and she can lie and won't let up it's a lie just like her dad. I find it very frustrating and it causes allot of mother daughter arguments. I think they lie but cheatings included in that if they choose to have an affair they will never reveal it which makes it a bigger more sordid mess in the end. Even now I know my ex friend had his baby and I know for a fact he had atleast 2 affairs other than that and I actually caught him doing the deed once he will never fess up. He's ran away like the injured bunny when I left him. We also managed a pub and he was so 2 faced he'd bitch about me to my mum, the customers anyone that would listen to his sob stories and tales about the evil wife. He'd lie about things that were clearly not true some idiots would believe him, some would listen and know he was lying but never say he was and others would actually call him an outright liar to his face! Those people were passively aggressively attacked in some way later.

Unfortunately another abuse victim here I was with a sag after him and he was horrible and really abusive I'm still suffering his stalking now. Iv also dealt with leos and virgos in brief relationships the virgos are now on my no go list and I think they're not very nice people if you look at their forum it's not friendly like here and the other signs so I now stay away from that. The leo was cool but he was a bit nuts (he spent 1 month straight just decorating his bathroom and absolutely nothing else, even gave up work the majority of the beginning of our relationship was spent in his bathroom with me looking at the disgrace of a crack in the wall he couldn't live with lol) He was funny in his weird ways and made me laugh and he was sweet but a guy that is that crazy is not a keeper lol I'm now working on me. I had PTSD and anxiety from the sag and the abuse so i need some space. I also don't bond with guys anymore (the leo and the virgo I just walked from without a whimper) There was a scorpio too that was fiery and amazing the weird stuff we did in the bedroom and he gave me loads of confidence and I just walked away from him too. I'm pretty independent but want to practice my independence also I want to make sure I don't fall back in with an abuser cos I seem to attract that type of guy. So at the moment i live for the moment.

I don't know much about the other signs and charts other than sun signs I read a full chart reading and even though it contradicted itself a little it was pretty much right! Say's for my future though i'm going to get a toy boy that basically makes my world amazing and together we will be invincible (think that was a thai chart) soooo fingers crossed maybe I havent found the guy yet because he wasn't ever born LMAO

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how is it all you girls on here date so many signs??



I don't attract that many to be honest, maybe cause i'm choosy in the past.

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Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33
I remember you and I warned you but you were being stubborn regarding my warning.

"If he's communicating with your girl friend then you don't have this wrapped tight.

Be too distant and he'll be gone. You're a young Aqua. I been there too. You could be reading this all wrong. I'm forewarning you.

As for the trip, relax, be observant and see how it all plays out."

"Can you help me figure this out and decide what to do?

I'm an Aqua too and we always do this distant cold approach and then wonder why the guy we really want has moved on. Not all Aquas behave this way but the ones that do are confusing and send come here go away I really don't care kind of signals and men tire of it quickly.

I'm not sure but it seems he's shifting his interest to someone else. If you want him this would be the time to drop the apathy act and open up a lil bit."



But here it is weeks later and as I predicted he would move on from you.

Why you stubbornly chose to stone wall him during the trip I dunno. You're just a little too crazy for Cap.

I still see nothing wrong about him and my friend talking. we all met at the same time and hang out together along with her boyfriend and she has talked to him and me about her issues with her boyfriend.

The girl he mentioned that he likes and was telling me to tell him to stop talking to him. He wants me to aggressively fight for him , like saying if you don't tell me that I'm going away.

This chick lives across the country and he met her a week ago.

I'm not gonna tell him to stop talking to her to be with me, I told him it's his choice and that He'd rather talk to her than me then I had nothing to do there. I respect myself I have no reason to beg someone to be with me. I will work to do fix and work things out but never beg, mostly if there's someone else involved.

Also his story with the girl made no sense, and it was the same way we both met. so idk.

You are too hard headed for a Cap. Try Leo. I told you he would move on and he did. He even went so far as to let you know he isn't invested in her yet and there is still a chance between you 2 if you want it to be and all you can think of is I don't want him to leave her for me.

Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head.

You're exhausting which is one reason Aqua girls are the least desirable to date in the zodiac.

I dated 2 Leo's and they are both cheaters lol

I never trusted them, so when I found out (couple months later) I just broke up and let go. One of them tried to get back with me but I never take back a cheater. I know that people deserve a second chance but if they aren't willing to be loyal from the beginning then they will keep doing it.

I dated a Libra for 3 months and the guy was too clingy for my taste.

this "Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head."

I'm 100% aware of this, ever since I got into dxp in December I have been noticing that I'm thinking this through too much or don't think of it at all. But dxp helps, either to see other people's experiences, our behaviour, and I've gone to the point of checking how our moons, venus/mars, and other placements to see if they match with how we are and it helps me to find my own issues.

Like I said before, is hard for me to trust someone and I like posting threads because I can see where I'm wrong as well and how other people see it, but of course you have to give a lot of details here bc people just jump into conclusions too quick!

I don't mind answering to help other people in their threads, that's why I ask too.

🙂

Try Leo again or another Fire sign because a Leo/fire sign will have enough warnth to deal with your cold emotional responses.

The most compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Aries, Gemini, Libra and Sagittarius. The least compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Taurus and Scorpio. Comparing sun signs can give a good general idea of compatibility.

The difference between the water-bearing Aquarius which is air sign and the Capricorn male, which is an earth sign, can be like black and white.

It’s very easy for both partners to basically fail to see eye to eye. However, there’s a lot more to Aquarius woman and Capricorn man love compatibility. You 2 are not compatible and deep down you know it.

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yes!!



tiki's post are pretty damn good and spot on!!



OP, I hope you listen to her, she's a light shining on your lack of compatibility.



water and earth are not good for you.



try Aries, Leo, Sag, and even the other three Air suns. they would be perfect for you.

I notice you have a water venus though despite all your dominant air,

so maybe someone with a singularity water mars.



the "ego" is the sun and your values are not meshing well.

the ego/sun sign is your basic values and life style s.



https://cafeastrology.com/sun.html

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Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33
I remember you and I warned you but you were being stubborn regarding my warning.

"If he's communicating with your girl friend then you don't have this wrapped tight.

Be too distant and he'll be gone. You're a young Aqua. I been there too. You could be reading this all wrong. I'm forewarning you.

As for the trip, relax, be observant and see how it all plays out."

"Can you help me figure this out and decide what to do?

I'm an Aqua too and we always do this distant cold approach and then wonder why the guy we really want has moved on. Not all Aquas behave this way but the ones that do are confusing and send come here go away I really don't care kind of signals and men tire of it quickly.

I'm not sure but it seems he's shifting his interest to someone else. If you want him this would be the time to drop the apathy act and open up a lil bit."



But here it is weeks later and as I predicted he would move on from you.

Why you stubbornly chose to stone wall him during the trip I dunno. You're just a little too crazy for Cap.

I still see nothing wrong about him and my friend talking. we all met at the same time and hang out together along with her boyfriend and she has talked to him and me about her issues with her boyfriend.

The girl he mentioned that he likes and was telling me to tell him to stop talking to him. He wants me to aggressively fight for him , like saying if you don't tell me that I'm going away.

This chick lives across the country and he met her a week ago.

I'm not gonna tell him to stop talking to her to be with me, I told him it's his choice and that He'd rather talk to her than me then I had nothing to do there. I respect myself I have no reason to beg someone to be with me. I will work to do fix and work things out but never beg, mostly if there's someone else involved.

Also his story with the girl made no sense, and it was the same way we both met. so idk.

You are too hard headed for a Cap. Try Leo. I told you he would move on and he did. He even went so far as to let you know he isn't invested in her yet and there is still a chance between you 2 if you want it to be and all you can think of is I don't want him to leave her for me.

Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head.

You're exhausting which is one reason Aqua girls are the least desirable to date in the zodiac.

I dated 2 Leo's and they are both cheaters lol

I never trusted them, so when I found out (couple months later) I just broke up and let go. One of them tried to get back with me but I never take back a cheater. I know that people deserve a second chance but if they aren't willing to be loyal from the beginning then they will keep doing it.

I dated a Libra for 3 months and the guy was too clingy for my taste.

this "Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head."

I'm 100% aware of this, ever since I got into dxp in December I have been noticing that I'm thinking this through too much or don't think of it at all. But dxp helps, either to see other people's experiences, our behaviour, and I've gone to the point of checking how our moons, venus/mars, and other placements to see if they match with how we are and it helps me to find my own issues.

Like I said before, is hard for me to trust someone and I like posting threads because I can see where I'm wrong as well and how other people see it, but of course you have to give a lot of details here bc people just jump into conclusions too quick!

I don't mind answering to help other people in their threads, that's why I ask too.

🙂

Try Leo again or another Fire sign because a Leo/fire sign will have enough warnth to deal with your cold emotional responses.

The most compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Aries, Gemini, Libra and Sagittarius. The least compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Taurus and Scorpio. Comparing sun signs can give a good general idea of compatibility.

The difference between the water-bearing Aquarius which is air sign and the Capricorn male, which is an earth sign, can be like black and white.

It’s very easy for both partners to basically fail to see eye to eye. However, there’s a lot more to Aquarius woman and Capricorn man love compatibility. You 2 are not compatible and deep down you know it.

Comparing sun signs, yes, I can see how we are not compatible. But our moons are "perfect" for each other. His is Aries, mine is Gemini.

His Scorpio Mars and my Pisces in Venus are "natural partners". Everything else also seems to fit. We are both Aries Ascendant and I guess that's where we both want to be dominant.

I've met Aries guys but I'm not even sexually attracted to them :/ and they are HOT!! but it seemed like they just wanted to get in my pants, and never got to it so then they got forward and all 3 (different year) have told me exclusively that they want to have sex with me. ?

I had a short relationship with a Gemini but he had to marry a girl bc of religion. "arranged marriage " I never got to be into him romantically that much but he was very sweet with me.

I just don't like to be treated as a princess, doll, or anything like that in the relationship. I'm more like "You're a King, treat me as a Queen, our kids are Prince and princesses.." or we are God and Goddess.

😉

Taurus are extremely stubborn for me, my best male friend is a Taurus and we get along as friends, relationship wise we know it won't work. I know how he treats his girls and what's in his mind same as my dad who is also a Taurus, my mom is an Aqua. Good relationship but I think they lacked FUN!

I feel a strong sexual connection I know but for long term nope.

They are also sort of beta males and I like alpha males (Caps)

Not Libra! I dated one who was on my butt (literally) all the time. Called, video chat and texted all day and night. I think it was more sexual than anything. After I ended the relationship he threw a tantrum and a week later he was happily in a relationship with another girl. ?

One sign I could date is Cancer. I've met 3 and they are all different, but there's a good connection there.

I've also thought of Virgos but haven't met any yet. Not Sags or Scorps either.

I think that for us Aqua women, we don't focus on the physical appearance that much, is all about the mimd,body,soul connection so it's harder to fall for someone that's why once we do, we are devoted to it.

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lol not really. I like me a hot looking man. haha.

at least to ME.

I had been asked in marriage by men who had high positions, and also wealthier men.

but BARF.



I would throw up if I even tried to have sex. GROSS.

so obviously i'm kind of superficial there. I need some sexual chemistry too. meeooowww.. 😛

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Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33
I remember you and I warned you but you were being stubborn regarding my warning.

"If he's communicating with your girl friend then you don't have this wrapped tight.

Be too distant and he'll be gone. You're a young Aqua. I been there too. You could be reading this all wrong. I'm forewarning you.

As for the trip, relax, be observant and see how it all plays out."

"Can you help me figure this out and decide what to do?

I'm an Aqua too and we always do this distant cold approach and then wonder why the guy we really want has moved on. Not all Aquas behave this way but the ones that do are confusing and send come here go away I really don't care kind of signals and men tire of it quickly.

I'm not sure but it seems he's shifting his interest to someone else. If you want him this would be the time to drop the apathy act and open up a lil bit."



But here it is weeks later and as I predicted he would move on from you.

Why you stubbornly chose to stone wall him during the trip I dunno. You're just a little too crazy for Cap.

I still see nothing wrong about him and my friend talking. we all met at the same time and hang out together along with her boyfriend and she has talked to him and me about her issues with her boyfriend.

The girl he mentioned that he likes and was telling me to tell him to stop talking to him. He wants me to aggressively fight for him , like saying if you don't tell me that I'm going away.

This chick lives across the country and he met her a week ago.

I'm not gonna tell him to stop talking to her to be with me, I told him it's his choice and that He'd rather talk to her than me then I had nothing to do there. I respect myself I have no reason to beg someone to be with me. I will work to do fix and work things out but never beg, mostly if there's someone else involved.

Also his story with the girl made no sense, and it was the same way we both met. so idk.

You are too hard headed for a Cap. Try Leo. I told you he would move on and he did. He even went so far as to let you know he isn't invested in her yet and there is still a chance between you 2 if you want it to be and all you can think of is I don't want him to leave her for me.

Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head.

You're exhausting which is one reason Aqua girls are the least desirable to date in the zodiac.

I dated 2 Leo's and they are both cheaters lol

I never trusted them, so when I found out (couple months later) I just broke up and let go. One of them tried to get back with me but I never take back a cheater. I know that people deserve a second chance but if they aren't willing to be loyal from the beginning then they will keep doing it.

I dated a Libra for 3 months and the guy was too clingy for my taste.

this "Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head."

I'm 100% aware of this, ever since I got into dxp in December I have been noticing that I'm thinking this through too much or don't think of it at all. But dxp helps, either to see other people's experiences, our behaviour, and I've gone to the point of checking how our moons, venus/mars, and other placements to see if they match with how we are and it helps me to find my own issues.

Like I said before, is hard for me to trust someone and I like posting threads because I can see where I'm wrong as well and how other people see it, but of course you have to give a lot of details here bc people just jump into conclusions too quick!

I don't mind answering to help other people in their threads, that's why I ask too.

🙂

Try Leo again or another Fire sign because a Leo/fire sign will have enough warnth to deal with your cold emotional responses.

The most compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Aries, Gemini, Libra and Sagittarius. The least compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Taurus and Scorpio. Comparing sun signs can give a good general idea of compatibility.

The difference between the water-bearing Aquarius which is air sign and the Capricorn male, which is an earth sign, can be like black and white.

It’s very easy for both partners to basically fail to see eye to eye. However, there’s a lot more to Aquarius woman and Capricorn man love compatibility. You 2 are not compatible and deep down you know it.

Comparing sun signs, yes, I can see how we are not compatible. But our moons are "perfect" for each other. His is Aries, mine is Gemini.

His Scorpio Mars and my Pisces in Venus are "natural partners". Everything else also seems to fit. We are both Aries Ascendant and I guess that's where we both want to be dominant.

I've met Aries guys but I'm not even sexually attracted to them :/ and they are HOT!! but it seemed like they just wanted to get in my pants, and never got to it so then they got forward and all 3 (different year) have told me exclusively that they want to have sex with me. ?

I had a short relationship with a Gemini but he had to marry a girl bc of religion. "arranged marriage " I never got to be into him romantically that much but he was very sweet with me.

I just don't like to be treated as a princess, doll, or anything like that in the relationship. I'm more like "You're a King, treat me as a Queen, our kids are Prince and princesses.." or we are God and Goddess.

😉

Taurus are extremely stubborn for me, my best male friend is a Taurus and we get along as friends, relationship wise we know it won't work. I know how he treats his girls and what's in his mind same as my dad who is also a Taurus, my mom is an Aqua. Good relationship but I think they lacked FUN!

I feel a strong sexual connection I know but for long term nope.

They are also sort of beta males and I like alpha males (Caps)

Not Libra! I dated one who was on my butt (literally) all the time. Called, video chat and texted all day and night. I think it was more sexual than anything. After I ended the relationship he threw a tantrum and a week later he was happily in a relationship with another girl. ?

One sign I could date is Cancer. I've met 3 and they are all different, but there's a good connection there.

I've also thought of Virgos but haven't met any yet. Not Sags or Scorps either.

I think that for us Aqua women, we don't focus on the physical appearance that much, is all about the mimd,body,soul connection so it's harder to fall for someone that's why once we do, we are devoted to it.

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lmao@ your analysis of the signs you dated.



OK this post is not boring. haha. it's hilarious ...the other posts....zzzzzzz 😆

heehee.

this is why my husband loves me....I have fun with him a lot.

how is it all you girls on here date so many signs??



I don't attract that many to be honest, maybe cause i'm choosy in the past.



For me I think it's an aqua thing we attract allot of signs even if we are not compatible we can still peak someone interest with our weirdness and energy.

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Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33
I remember you and I warned you but you were being stubborn regarding my warning.

"If he's communicating with your girl friend then you don't have this wrapped tight.

Be too distant and he'll be gone. You're a young Aqua. I been there too. You could be reading this all wrong. I'm forewarning you.

As for the trip, relax, be observant and see how it all plays out."

"Can you help me figure this out and decide what to do?

I'm an Aqua too and we always do this distant cold approach and then wonder why the guy we really want has moved on. Not all Aquas behave this way but the ones that do are confusing and send come here go away I really don't care kind of signals and men tire of it quickly.

I'm not sure but it seems he's shifting his interest to someone else. If you want him this would be the time to drop the apathy act and open up a lil bit."



But here it is weeks later and as I predicted he would move on from you.

Why you stubbornly chose to stone wall him during the trip I dunno. You're just a little too crazy for Cap.

I still see nothing wrong about him and my friend talking. we all met at the same time and hang out together along with her boyfriend and she has talked to him and me about her issues with her boyfriend.

The girl he mentioned that he likes and was telling me to tell him to stop talking to him. He wants me to aggressively fight for him , like saying if you don't tell me that I'm going away.

This chick lives across the country and he met her a week ago.

I'm not gonna tell him to stop talking to her to be with me, I told him it's his choice and that He'd rather talk to her than me then I had nothing to do there. I respect myself I have no reason to beg someone to be with me. I will work to do fix and work things out but never beg, mostly if there's someone else involved.

Also his story with the girl made no sense, and it was the same way we both met. so idk.

You are too hard headed for a Cap. Try Leo. I told you he would move on and he did. He even went so far as to let you know he isn't invested in her yet and there is still a chance between you 2 if you want it to be and all you can think of is I don't want him to leave her for me.

Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head.

You're exhausting which is one reason Aqua girls are the least desirable to date in the zodiac.

I dated 2 Leo's and they are both cheaters lol

I never trusted them, so when I found out (couple months later) I just broke up and let go. One of them tried to get back with me but I never take back a cheater. I know that people deserve a second chance but if they aren't willing to be loyal from the beginning then they will keep doing it.

I dated a Libra for 3 months and the guy was too clingy for my taste.

this "Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head."

I'm 100% aware of this, ever since I got into dxp in December I have been noticing that I'm thinking this through too much or don't think of it at all. But dxp helps, either to see other people's experiences, our behaviour, and I've gone to the point of checking how our moons, venus/mars, and other placements to see if they match with how we are and it helps me to find my own issues.

Like I said before, is hard for me to trust someone and I like posting threads because I can see where I'm wrong as well and how other people see it, but of course you have to give a lot of details here bc people just jump into conclusions too quick!

I don't mind answering to help other people in their threads, that's why I ask too.

🙂

Try Leo again or another Fire sign because a Leo/fire sign will have enough warnth to deal with your cold emotional responses.

The most compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Aries, Gemini, Libra and Sagittarius. The least compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Taurus and Scorpio. Comparing sun signs can give a good general idea of compatibility.

The difference between the water-bearing Aquarius which is air sign and the Capricorn male, which is an earth sign, can be like black and white.

It’s very easy for both partners to basically fail to see eye to eye. However, there’s a lot more to Aquarius woman and Capricorn man love compatibility. You 2 are not compatible and deep down you know it.

Comparing sun signs, yes, I can see how we are not compatible. But our moons are "perfect" for each other. His is Aries, mine is Gemini.

His Scorpio Mars and my Pisces in Venus are "natural partners". Everything else also seems to fit. We are both Aries Ascendant and I guess that's where we both want to be dominant.

I've met Aries guys but I'm not even sexually attracted to them :/ and they are HOT!! but it seemed like they just wanted to get in my pants, and never got to it so then they got forward and all 3 (different year) have told me exclusively that they want to have sex with me. ?

I had a short relationship with a Gemini but he had to marry a girl bc of religion. "arranged marriage " I never got to be into him romantically that much but he was very sweet with me.

I just don't like to be treated as a princess, doll, or anything like that in the relationship. I'm more like "You're a King, treat me as a Queen, our kids are Prince and princesses.." or we are God and Goddess.

😉

Taurus are extremely stubborn for me, my best male friend is a Taurus and we get along as friends, relationship wise we know it won't work. I know how he treats his girls and what's in his mind same as my dad who is also a Taurus, my mom is an Aqua. Good relationship but I think they lacked FUN!

I feel a strong sexual connection I know but for long term nope.

They are also sort of beta males and I like alpha males (Caps)

Not Libra! I dated one who was on my butt (literally) all the time. Called, video chat and texted all day and night. I think it was more sexual than anything. After I ended the relationship he threw a tantrum and a week later he was happily in a relationship with another girl. ?

One sign I could date is Cancer. I've met 3 and they are all different, but there's a good connection there.

I've also thought of Virgos but haven't met any yet. Not Sags or Scorps either.

I think that for us Aqua women, we don't focus on the physical appearance that much, is all about the mimd,body,soul connection so it's harder to fall for someone that's why once we do, we are devoted to it.

lol not really. I like me a hot looking man. haha.

at least to ME.

I had been asked in marriage by men who had high positions, and also wealthier men.

but BARF.



I would throw up if I even tried to have sex. GROSS.

so obviously i'm kind of superficial there. I need some sexual chemistry too. meeooowww.. 😛

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Hahaha I've been there too!

and of course ! definitely Hot!!

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33
I remember you and I warned you but you were being stubborn regarding my warning.

"If he's communicating with your girl friend then you don't have this wrapped tight.

Be too distant and he'll be gone. You're a young Aqua. I been there too. You could be reading this all wrong. I'm forewarning you.

As for the trip, relax, be observant and see how it all plays out."

"Can you help me figure this out and decide what to do?

I'm an Aqua too and we always do this distant cold approach and then wonder why the guy we really want has moved on. Not all Aquas behave this way but the ones that do are confusing and send come here go away I really don't care kind of signals and men tire of it quickly.

I'm not sure but it seems he's shifting his interest to someone else. If you want him this would be the time to drop the apathy act and open up a lil bit."



But here it is weeks later and as I predicted he would move on from you.

Why you stubbornly chose to stone wall him during the trip I dunno. You're just a little too crazy for Cap.

I still see nothing wrong about him and my friend talking. we all met at the same time and hang out together along with her boyfriend and she has talked to him and me about her issues with her boyfriend.

The girl he mentioned that he likes and was telling me to tell him to stop talking to him. He wants me to aggressively fight for him , like saying if you don't tell me that I'm going away.

This chick lives across the country and he met her a week ago.

I'm not gonna tell him to stop talking to her to be with me, I told him it's his choice and that He'd rather talk to her than me then I had nothing to do there. I respect myself I have no reason to beg someone to be with me. I will work to do fix and work things out but never beg, mostly if there's someone else involved.

Also his story with the girl made no sense, and it was the same way we both met. so idk.

You are too hard headed for a Cap. Try Leo. I told you he would move on and he did. He even went so far as to let you know he isn't invested in her yet and there is still a chance between you 2 if you want it to be and all you can think of is I don't want him to leave her for me.

Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head.

You're exhausting which is one reason Aqua girls are the least desirable to date in the zodiac.

I dated 2 Leo's and they are both cheaters lol

I never trusted them, so when I found out (couple months later) I just broke up and let go. One of them tried to get back with me but I never take back a cheater. I know that people deserve a second chance but if they aren't willing to be loyal from the beginning then they will keep doing it.

I dated a Libra for 3 months and the guy was too clingy for my taste.

this "Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head."

I'm 100% aware of this, ever since I got into dxp in December I have been noticing that I'm thinking this through too much or don't think of it at all. But dxp helps, either to see other people's experiences, our behaviour, and I've gone to the point of checking how our moons, venus/mars, and other placements to see if they match with how we are and it helps me to find my own issues.

Like I said before, is hard for me to trust someone and I like posting threads because I can see where I'm wrong as well and how other people see it, but of course you have to give a lot of details here bc people just jump into conclusions too quick!

I don't mind answering to help other people in their threads, that's why I ask too.

🙂

Try Leo again or another Fire sign because a Leo/fire sign will have enough warnth to deal with your cold emotional responses.

The most compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Aries, Gemini, Libra and Sagittarius. The least compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Taurus and Scorpio. Comparing sun signs can give a good general idea of compatibility.

The difference between the water-bearing Aquarius which is air sign and the Capricorn male, which is an earth sign, can be like black and white.

It’s very easy for both partners to basically fail to see eye to eye. However, there’s a lot more to Aquarius woman and Capricorn man love compatibility. You 2 are not compatible and deep down you know it.

Comparing sun signs, yes, I can see how we are not compatible. But our moons are "perfect" for each other. His is Aries, mine is Gemini.

His Scorpio Mars and my Pisces in Venus are "natural partners". Everything else also seems to fit. We are both Aries Ascendant and I guess that's where we both want to be dominant.

I've met Aries guys but I'm not even sexually attracted to them :/ and they are HOT!! but it seemed like they just wanted to get in my pants, and never got to it so then they got forward and all 3 (different year) have told me exclusively that they want to have sex with me. ?

I had a short relationship with a Gemini but he had to marry a girl bc of religion. "arranged marriage " I never got to be into him romantically that much but he was very sweet with me.

I just don't like to be treated as a princess, doll, or anything like that in the relationship. I'm more like "You're a King, treat me as a Queen, our kids are Prince and princesses.." or we are God and Goddess.

😉

Taurus are extremely stubborn for me, my best male friend is a Taurus and we get along as friends, relationship wise we know it won't work. I know how he treats his girls and what's in his mind same as my dad who is also a Taurus, my mom is an Aqua. Good relationship but I think they lacked FUN!

I feel a strong sexual connection I know but for long term nope.

They are also sort of beta males and I like alpha males (Caps)

Not Libra! I dated one who was on my butt (literally) all the time. Called, video chat and texted all day and night. I think it was more sexual than anything. After I ended the relationship he threw a tantrum and a week later he was happily in a relationship with another girl. ?

One sign I could date is Cancer. I've met 3 and they are all different, but there's a good connection there.

I've also thought of Virgos but haven't met any yet. Not Sags or Scorps either.

I think that for us Aqua women, we don't focus on the physical appearance that much, is all about the mimd,body,soul connection so it's harder to fall for someone that's why once we do, we are devoted to it.

lol not really. I like me a hot looking man. haha.

at least to ME.

I had been asked in marriage by men who had high positions, and also wealthier men.

but BARF.



I would throw up if I even tried to have sex. GROSS.

so obviously i'm kind of superficial there. I need some sexual chemistry too. meeooowww.. 😛

Hahaha I've been there too!

and of course ! definitely Hot!!

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what the hell girl...?



don't you have any consistency to you??



you are all over the place with your dating style .

it's really...off -putting.

if i were a man i would not like you. i wouldn't trust you to settle down.



but that's just me.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33
I remember you and I warned you but you were being stubborn regarding my warning.

"If he's communicating with your girl friend then you don't have this wrapped tight.

Be too distant and he'll be gone. You're a young Aqua. I been there too. You could be reading this all wrong. I'm forewarning you.

As for the trip, relax, be observant and see how it all plays out."

"Can you help me figure this out and decide what to do?

I'm an Aqua too and we always do this distant cold approach and then wonder why the guy we really want has moved on. Not all Aquas behave this way but the ones that do are confusing and send come here go away I really don't care kind of signals and men tire of it quickly.

I'm not sure but it seems he's shifting his interest to someone else. If you want him this would be the time to drop the apathy act and open up a lil bit."



But here it is weeks later and as I predicted he would move on from you.

Why you stubbornly chose to stone wall him during the trip I dunno. You're just a little too crazy for Cap.

I still see nothing wrong about him and my friend talking. we all met at the same time and hang out together along with her boyfriend and she has talked to him and me about her issues with her boyfriend.

The girl he mentioned that he likes and was telling me to tell him to stop talking to him. He wants me to aggressively fight for him , like saying if you don't tell me that I'm going away.

This chick lives across the country and he met her a week ago.

I'm not gonna tell him to stop talking to her to be with me, I told him it's his choice and that He'd rather talk to her than me then I had nothing to do there. I respect myself I have no reason to beg someone to be with me. I will work to do fix and work things out but never beg, mostly if there's someone else involved.

Also his story with the girl made no sense, and it was the same way we both met. so idk.

You are too hard headed for a Cap. Try Leo. I told you he would move on and he did. He even went so far as to let you know he isn't invested in her yet and there is still a chance between you 2 if you want it to be and all you can think of is I don't want him to leave her for me.

Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head.

You're exhausting which is one reason Aqua girls are the least desirable to date in the zodiac.

I dated 2 Leo's and they are both cheaters lol

I never trusted them, so when I found out (couple months later) I just broke up and let go. One of them tried to get back with me but I never take back a cheater. I know that people deserve a second chance but if they aren't willing to be loyal from the beginning then they will keep doing it.

I dated a Libra for 3 months and the guy was too clingy for my taste.

this "Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head."

I'm 100% aware of this, ever since I got into dxp in December I have been noticing that I'm thinking this through too much or don't think of it at all. But dxp helps, either to see other people's experiences, our behaviour, and I've gone to the point of checking how our moons, venus/mars, and other placements to see if they match with how we are and it helps me to find my own issues.

Like I said before, is hard for me to trust someone and I like posting threads because I can see where I'm wrong as well and how other people see it, but of course you have to give a lot of details here bc people just jump into conclusions too quick!

I don't mind answering to help other people in their threads, that's why I ask too.

🙂

Try Leo again or another Fire sign because a Leo/fire sign will have enough warnth to deal with your cold emotional responses.

The most compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Aries, Gemini, Libra and Sagittarius. The least compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Taurus and Scorpio. Comparing sun signs can give a good general idea of compatibility.

The difference between the water-bearing Aquarius which is air sign and the Capricorn male, which is an earth sign, can be like black and white.

It’s very easy for both partners to basically fail to see eye to eye. However, there’s a lot more to Aquarius woman and Capricorn man love compatibility. You 2 are not compatible and deep down you know it.

Comparing sun signs, yes, I can see how we are not compatible. But our moons are "perfect" for each other. His is Aries, mine is Gemini.

His Scorpio Mars and my Pisces in Venus are "natural partners". Everything else also seems to fit. We are both Aries Ascendant and I guess that's where we both want to be dominant.

I've met Aries guys but I'm not even sexually attracted to them :/ and they are HOT!! but it seemed like they just wanted to get in my pants, and never got to it so then they got forward and all 3 (different year) have told me exclusively that they want to have sex with me. ?

I had a short relationship with a Gemini but he had to marry a girl bc of religion. "arranged marriage " I never got to be into him romantically that much but he was very sweet with me.

I just don't like to be treated as a princess, doll, or anything like that in the relationship. I'm more like "You're a King, treat me as a Queen, our kids are Prince and princesses.." or we are God and Goddess.

😉

Taurus are extremely stubborn for me, my best male friend is a Taurus and we get along as friends, relationship wise we know it won't work. I know how he treats his girls and what's in his mind same as my dad who is also a Taurus, my mom is an Aqua. Good relationship but I think they lacked FUN!

I feel a strong sexual connection I know but for long term nope.

They are also sort of beta males and I like alpha males (Caps)

Not Libra! I dated one who was on my butt (literally) all the time. Called, video chat and texted all day and night. I think it was more sexual than anything. After I ended the relationship he threw a tantrum and a week later he was happily in a relationship with another girl. ?

One sign I could date is Cancer. I've met 3 and they are all different, but there's a good connection there.

I've also thought of Virgos but haven't met any yet. Not Sags or Scorps either.

I think that for us Aqua women, we don't focus on the physical appearance that much, is all about the mimd,body,soul connection so it's harder to fall for someone that's why once we do, we are devoted to it.

lmao@ your analysis of the signs you dated.



OK this post is not boring. haha. it's hilarious ...the other posts....zzzzzzz 😆

heehee.

this is why my husband loves me....I have fun with him a lot.

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Haha I'm sure they all wanna have sex but at least some make you believe that's not the only reason!

Yes!! for me relationships have to be Fun!! if not then what's the whole purpose !

Posted by Bubbles328

how is it all you girls on here date so many signs??



I don't attract that many to be honest, maybe cause i'm choosy in the past.



For me I think it's an aqua thing we attract allot of signs even if we are not compatible we can still peak someone interest with our weirdness and energy.



lol



seriously?

"we" attract a lot of signs?

haha



i hope not.



i would rather attract the ones i am attracted to.



ya'll are funny. ^__^

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33
I remember you and I warned you but you were being stubborn regarding my warning.

"If he's communicating with your girl friend then you don't have this wrapped tight.

Be too distant and he'll be gone. You're a young Aqua. I been there too. You could be reading this all wrong. I'm forewarning you.

As for the trip, relax, be observant and see how it all plays out."

"Can you help me figure this out and decide what to do?

I'm an Aqua too and we always do this distant cold approach and then wonder why the guy we really want has moved on. Not all Aquas behave this way but the ones that do are confusing and send come here go away I really don't care kind of signals and men tire of it quickly.

I'm not sure but it seems he's shifting his interest to someone else. If you want him this would be the time to drop the apathy act and open up a lil bit."



But here it is weeks later and as I predicted he would move on from you.

Why you stubbornly chose to stone wall him during the trip I dunno. You're just a little too crazy for Cap.

I still see nothing wrong about him and my friend talking. we all met at the same time and hang out together along with her boyfriend and she has talked to him and me about her issues with her boyfriend.

The girl he mentioned that he likes and was telling me to tell him to stop talking to him. He wants me to aggressively fight for him , like saying if you don't tell me that I'm going away.

This chick lives across the country and he met her a week ago.

I'm not gonna tell him to stop talking to her to be with me, I told him it's his choice and that He'd rather talk to her than me then I had nothing to do there. I respect myself I have no reason to beg someone to be with me. I will work to do fix and work things out but never beg, mostly if there's someone else involved.

Also his story with the girl made no sense, and it was the same way we both met. so idk.

You are too hard headed for a Cap. Try Leo. I told you he would move on and he did. He even went so far as to let you know he isn't invested in her yet and there is still a chance between you 2 if you want it to be and all you can think of is I don't want him to leave her for me.

Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head.

You're exhausting which is one reason Aqua girls are the least desirable to date in the zodiac.

I dated 2 Leo's and they are both cheaters lol

I never trusted them, so when I found out (couple months later) I just broke up and let go. One of them tried to get back with me but I never take back a cheater. I know that people deserve a second chance but if they aren't willing to be loyal from the beginning then they will keep doing it.

I dated a Libra for 3 months and the guy was too clingy for my taste.

this "Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head."

I'm 100% aware of this, ever since I got into dxp in December I have been noticing that I'm thinking this through too much or don't think of it at all. But dxp helps, either to see other people's experiences, our behaviour, and I've gone to the point of checking how our moons, venus/mars, and other placements to see if they match with how we are and it helps me to find my own issues.

Like I said before, is hard for me to trust someone and I like posting threads because I can see where I'm wrong as well and how other people see it, but of course you have to give a lot of details here bc people just jump into conclusions too quick!

I don't mind answering to help other people in their threads, that's why I ask too.

🙂

Try Leo again or another Fire sign because a Leo/fire sign will have enough warnth to deal with your cold emotional responses.

The most compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Aries, Gemini, Libra and Sagittarius. The least compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Taurus and Scorpio. Comparing sun signs can give a good general idea of compatibility.

The difference between the water-bearing Aquarius which is air sign and the Capricorn male, which is an earth sign, can be like black and white.

It’s very easy for both partners to basically fail to see eye to eye. However, there’s a lot more to Aquarius woman and Capricorn man love compatibility. You 2 are not compatible and deep down you know it.

Comparing sun signs, yes, I can see how we are not compatible. But our moons are "perfect" for each other. His is Aries, mine is Gemini.

His Scorpio Mars and my Pisces in Venus are "natural partners". Everything else also seems to fit. We are both Aries Ascendant and I guess that's where we both want to be dominant.

I've met Aries guys but I'm not even sexually attracted to them :/ and they are HOT!! but it seemed like they just wanted to get in my pants, and never got to it so then they got forward and all 3 (different year) have told me exclusively that they want to have sex with me. ?

I had a short relationship with a Gemini but he had to marry a girl bc of religion. "arranged marriage " I never got to be into him romantically that much but he was very sweet with me.

I just don't like to be treated as a princess, doll, or anything like that in the relationship. I'm more like "You're a King, treat me as a Queen, our kids are Prince and princesses.." or we are God and Goddess.

😉

Taurus are extremely stubborn for me, my best male friend is a Taurus and we get along as friends, relationship wise we know it won't work. I know how he treats his girls and what's in his mind same as my dad who is also a Taurus, my mom is an Aqua. Good relationship but I think they lacked FUN!

I feel a strong sexual connection I know but for long term nope.

They are also sort of beta males and I like alpha males (Caps)

Not Libra! I dated one who was on my butt (literally) all the time. Called, video chat and texted all day and night. I think it was more sexual than anything. After I ended the relationship he threw a tantrum and a week later he was happily in a relationship with another girl. ?

One sign I could date is Cancer. I've met 3 and they are all different, but there's a good connection there.

I've also thought of Virgos but haven't met any yet. Not Sags or Scorps either.

I think that for us Aqua women, we don't focus on the physical appearance that much, is all about the mimd,body,soul connection so it's harder to fall for someone that's why once we do, we are devoted to it.

lmao@ your analysis of the signs you dated.



OK this post is not boring. haha. it's hilarious ...the other posts....zzzzzzz 😆

heehee.

this is why my husband loves me....I have fun with him a lot.

Haha I'm sure they all wanna have sex but at least some make you believe that's not the only reason!

Yes!! for me relationships have to be Fun!! if not then what's the whole purpose !

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well you better get a Capricorn guy with lots of air/fire then.

like this guy....this is the only couple i know that is consistent and steady, no public scandals...and they are into family!!!

he's super airy/fiery.





his juno is in libra

and her juno is in Taurus? i forget but something earth.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33
I remember you and I warned you but you were being stubborn regarding my warning.

"If he's communicating with your girl friend then you don't have this wrapped tight.

Be too distant and he'll be gone. You're a young Aqua. I been there too. You could be reading this all wrong. I'm forewarning you.

As for the trip, relax, be observant and see how it all plays out."

"Can you help me figure this out and decide what to do?

I'm an Aqua too and we always do this distant cold approach and then wonder why the guy we really want has moved on. Not all Aquas behave this way but the ones that do are confusing and send come here go away I really don't care kind of signals and men tire of it quickly.

I'm not sure but it seems he's shifting his interest to someone else. If you want him this would be the time to drop the apathy act and open up a lil bit."



But here it is weeks later and as I predicted he would move on from you.

Why you stubbornly chose to stone wall him during the trip I dunno. You're just a little too crazy for Cap.

I still see nothing wrong about him and my friend talking. we all met at the same time and hang out together along with her boyfriend and she has talked to him and me about her issues with her boyfriend.

The girl he mentioned that he likes and was telling me to tell him to stop talking to him. He wants me to aggressively fight for him , like saying if you don't tell me that I'm going away.

This chick lives across the country and he met her a week ago.

I'm not gonna tell him to stop talking to her to be with me, I told him it's his choice and that He'd rather talk to her than me then I had nothing to do there. I respect myself I have no reason to beg someone to be with me. I will work to do fix and work things out but never beg, mostly if there's someone else involved.

Also his story with the girl made no sense, and it was the same way we both met. so idk.

You are too hard headed for a Cap. Try Leo. I told you he would move on and he did. He even went so far as to let you know he isn't invested in her yet and there is still a chance between you 2 if you want it to be and all you can think of is I don't want him to leave her for me.

Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head.

You're exhausting which is one reason Aqua girls are the least desirable to date in the zodiac.

I dated 2 Leo's and they are both cheaters lol

I never trusted them, so when I found out (couple months later) I just broke up and let go. One of them tried to get back with me but I never take back a cheater. I know that people deserve a second chance but if they aren't willing to be loyal from the beginning then they will keep doing it.

I dated a Libra for 3 months and the guy was too clingy for my taste.

this "Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head."

I'm 100% aware of this, ever since I got into dxp in December I have been noticing that I'm thinking this through too much or don't think of it at all. But dxp helps, either to see other people's experiences, our behaviour, and I've gone to the point of checking how our moons, venus/mars, and other placements to see if they match with how we are and it helps me to find my own issues.

Like I said before, is hard for me to trust someone and I like posting threads because I can see where I'm wrong as well and how other people see it, but of course you have to give a lot of details here bc people just jump into conclusions too quick!

I don't mind answering to help other people in their threads, that's why I ask too.

🙂

Try Leo again or another Fire sign because a Leo/fire sign will have enough warnth to deal with your cold emotional responses.

The most compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Aries, Gemini, Libra and Sagittarius. The least compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Taurus and Scorpio. Comparing sun signs can give a good general idea of compatibility.

The difference between the water-bearing Aquarius which is air sign and the Capricorn male, which is an earth sign, can be like black and white.

It’s very easy for both partners to basically fail to see eye to eye. However, there’s a lot more to Aquarius woman and Capricorn man love compatibility. You 2 are not compatible and deep down you know it.

Comparing sun signs, yes, I can see how we are not compatible. But our moons are "perfect" for each other. His is Aries, mine is Gemini.

His Scorpio Mars and my Pisces in Venus are "natural partners". Everything else also seems to fit. We are both Aries Ascendant and I guess that's where we both want to be dominant.

I've met Aries guys but I'm not even sexually attracted to them :/ and they are HOT!! but it seemed like they just wanted to get in my pants, and never got to it so then they got forward and all 3 (different year) have told me exclusively that they want to have sex with me. ?

I had a short relationship with a Gemini but he had to marry a girl bc of religion. "arranged marriage " I never got to be into him romantically that much but he was very sweet with me.

I just don't like to be treated as a princess, doll, or anything like that in the relationship. I'm more like "You're a King, treat me as a Queen, our kids are Prince and princesses.." or we are God and Goddess.

😉

Taurus are extremely stubborn for me, my best male friend is a Taurus and we get along as friends, relationship wise we know it won't work. I know how he treats his girls and what's in his mind same as my dad who is also a Taurus, my mom is an Aqua. Good relationship but I think they lacked FUN!

I feel a strong sexual connection I know but for long term nope.

They are also sort of beta males and I like alpha males (Caps)

Not Libra! I dated one who was on my butt (literally) all the time. Called, video chat and texted all day and night. I think it was more sexual than anything. After I ended the relationship he threw a tantrum and a week later he was happily in a relationship with another girl. ?

One sign I could date is Cancer. I've met 3 and they are all different, but there's a good connection there.

I've also thought of Virgos but haven't met any yet. Not Sags or Scorps either.

I think that for us Aqua women, we don't focus on the physical appearance that much, is all about the mimd,body,soul connection so it's harder to fall for someone that's why once we do, we are devoted to it.

lmao@ your analysis of the signs you dated.



OK this post is not boring. haha. it's hilarious ...the other posts....zzzzzzz 😆

heehee.

this is why my husband loves me....I have fun with him a lot.

Haha I'm sure they all wanna have sex but at least some make you believe that's not the only reason!

Yes!! for me relationships have to be Fun!! if not then what's the whole purpose !

well you better get a Capricorn guy with lots of air/fire then.

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This Cap is! ? he has a lot of fire ?

Posted by Bubbles328

how is it all you girls on here date so many signs??



I don't attract that many to be honest, maybe cause i'm choosy in the past.



For me I think it's an aqua thing we attract allot of signs even if we are not compatible we can still peak someone interest with our weirdness and energy.



Is not like I "Date date" them. I meet guys and talk to them for a while to see how I feel. if I'm not into them then I just move on, many times we stay as friends. I rarely ever have a instant connection like I did with Cap

🙂

Yes I can see how we attract different people, but I think that most are just physically attracted or attracted to our personality and our energy but we don't open up to many people.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Bubbles328

how is it all you girls on here date so many signs??



I don't attract that many to be honest, maybe cause i'm choosy in the past.

For me I think it's an aqua thing we attract allot of signs even if we are not compatible we can still peak someone interest with our weirdness and energy.



lol



seriously?

"we" attract a lot of signs?

haha



i hope not.



i would rather attract the ones i am attracted to.



ya'll are funny. ^__^



Well i'm attracted to idiots and I get idiots I don't tend to notice the "nice guys" that like me they aren't even on my radar until they are gone and i'm left kicking myself. Also it's all good attracting them but I get bored too easy being tied up in a marriage pretending all is good and happy when it's not isn't for me and no relationship is perfect they all have their issues.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by tiki33
I remember you and I warned you but you were being stubborn regarding my warning.

"If he's communicating with your girl friend then you don't have this wrapped tight.

Be too distant and he'll be gone. You're a young Aqua. I been there too. You could be reading this all wrong. I'm forewarning you.

As for the trip, relax, be observant and see how it all plays out."

"Can you help me figure this out and decide what to do?

I'm an Aqua too and we always do this distant cold approach and then wonder why the guy we really want has moved on. Not all Aquas behave this way but the ones that do are confusing and send come here go away I really don't care kind of signals and men tire of it quickly.

I'm not sure but it seems he's shifting his interest to someone else. If you want him this would be the time to drop the apathy act and open up a lil bit."



But here it is weeks later and as I predicted he would move on from you.

Why you stubbornly chose to stone wall him during the trip I dunno. You're just a little too crazy for Cap.

I still see nothing wrong about him and my friend talking. we all met at the same time and hang out together along with her boyfriend and she has talked to him and me about her issues with her boyfriend.

The girl he mentioned that he likes and was telling me to tell him to stop talking to him. He wants me to aggressively fight for him , like saying if you don't tell me that I'm going away.

This chick lives across the country and he met her a week ago.

I'm not gonna tell him to stop talking to her to be with me, I told him it's his choice and that He'd rather talk to her than me then I had nothing to do there. I respect myself I have no reason to beg someone to be with me. I will work to do fix and work things out but never beg, mostly if there's someone else involved.

Also his story with the girl made no sense, and it was the same way we both met. so idk.

You are too hard headed for a Cap. Try Leo. I told you he would move on and he did. He even went so far as to let you know he isn't invested in her yet and there is still a chance between you 2 if you want it to be and all you can think of is I don't want him to leave her for me.

Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head.

You're exhausting which is one reason Aqua girls are the least desirable to date in the zodiac.

I dated 2 Leo's and they are both cheaters lol

I never trusted them, so when I found out (couple months later) I just broke up and let go. One of them tried to get back with me but I never take back a cheater. I know that people deserve a second chance but if they aren't willing to be loyal from the beginning then they will keep doing it.

I dated a Libra for 3 months and the guy was too clingy for my taste.

this "Typical Aqua behavior, you would rather complicate this matter by being stuck on details rather than admit you want him for yourself and then doing just that be with him. Too busy living in your head, mulling over the details and suffering in your feelings because you deeply want him all the while he's making it possible to be with him but that goes completely over your head."

I'm 100% aware of this, ever since I got into dxp in December I have been noticing that I'm thinking this through too much or don't think of it at all. But dxp helps, either to see other people's experiences, our behaviour, and I've gone to the point of checking how our moons, venus/mars, and other placements to see if they match with how we are and it helps me to find my own issues.

Like I said before, is hard for me to trust someone and I like posting threads because I can see where I'm wrong as well and how other people see it, but of course you have to give a lot of details here bc people just jump into conclusions too quick!

I don't mind answering to help other people in their threads, that's why I ask too.

🙂

Try Leo again or another Fire sign because a Leo/fire sign will have enough warnth to deal with your cold emotional responses.

The most compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Aries, Gemini, Libra and Sagittarius. The least compatible signs with Aquarius are generally considered to be Taurus and Scorpio. Comparing sun signs can give a good general idea of compatibility.

The difference between the water-bearing Aquarius which is air sign and the Capricorn male, which is an earth sign, can be like black and white.

It’s very easy for both partners to basically fail to see eye to eye. However, there’s a lot more to Aquarius woman and Capricorn man love compatibility. You 2 are not compatible and deep down you know it.

Comparing sun signs, yes, I can see how we are not compatible. But our moons are "perfect" for each other. His is Aries, mine is Gemini.

His Scorpio Mars and my Pisces in Venus are "natural partners". Everything else also seems to fit. We are both Aries Ascendant and I guess that's where we both want to be dominant.

I've met Aries guys but I'm not even sexually attracted to them :/ and they are HOT!! but it seemed like they just wanted to get in my pants, and never got to it so then they got forward and all 3 (different year) have told me exclusively that they want to have sex with me. ?

I had a short relationship with a Gemini but he had to marry a girl bc of religion. "arranged marriage " I never got to be into him romantically that much but he was very sweet with me.

I just don't like to be treated as a princess, doll, or anything like that in the relationship. I'm more like "You're a King, treat me as a Queen, our kids are Prince and princesses.." or we are God and Goddess.

😉

Taurus are extremely stubborn for me, my best male friend is a Taurus and we get along as friends, relationship wise we know it won't work. I know how he treats his girls and what's in his mind same as my dad who is also a Taurus, my mom is an Aqua. Good relationship but I think they lacked FUN!

I feel a strong sexual connection I know but for long term nope.

They are also sort of beta males and I like alpha males (Caps)

Not Libra! I dated one who was on my butt (literally) all the time. Called, video chat and texted all day and night. I think it was more sexual than anything. After I ended the relationship he threw a tantrum and a week later he was happily in a relationship with another girl. ?

One sign I could date is Cancer. I've met 3 and they are all different, but there's a good connection there.

I've also thought of Virgos but haven't met any yet. Not Sags or Scorps either.

I think that for us Aqua women, we don't focus on the physical appearance that much, is all about the mimd,body,soul connection so it's harder to fall for someone that's why once we do, we are devoted to it.

lol not really. I like me a hot looking man. haha.

at least to ME.

I had been asked in marriage by men who had high positions, and also wealthier men.

but BARF.



I would throw up if I even tried to have sex. GROSS.

so obviously i'm kind of superficial there. I need some sexual chemistry too. meeooowww.. 😛

Hahaha I've been there too!

and of course ! definitely Hot!!

what the hell girl...?



don't you have any consistency to you??



you are all over the place with your dating style .

it's really...off -putting.

if i were a man i would not like you. i wouldn't trust you to settle down.



but that's just me.

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Lol what do you mean? I dont date many people but because of my job I meet MANY people.

Some guys straight up approach you, mostly if they have money they just expect to open their mouth to say I wanna date you and think you will just because they have money.

I'm very social and charismatic with everyone I meet (again mostly bc of my job) so they think I'm flirting I guess (Gem moon).

Many of the wealthy guys just want a girl to show off, they don't wanna take the time to get to know them. They don't need to and I don't have time to waste just being someone's trophy.

I don't really have any dating style , I'm never on dating mode, unless I meet someone that I feel a connection with.

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Posted by @youngali

with venus in aqua... if we feel we have met the right fit, we want to lock them down asap. no matter what.

So true..

My cap has Venus in Aqua and he made me his on our first date.. Never gotta guess with them..

I locked my cap down straight away ?, everything @youngali is saying about aqua Venus is spot on in my opinion, I can relate.

Right!! It took him NO time.. Even before our first date he would ALWAYS say, "You're mine.." Wasted NO time.. 😉

Yup which is why it's been like this for 6 months.



How old are you?

only in high school I took relationships like that. you never know if he's tge one until you actually get to know the person. otherwise is just dating not a relationship.

He was taking things too fast at the beginning and I've been through a fast relationship that ended too quick too and we agreed on taking things slow and go with the flow.

Just because we werent official since day q doesn't mean what we have isn't real.

As an Aqua, being friends with my lover is a #1 rule, being able to be ourselves when we are together and that's something he says he loves about us.



Now, I do get what you say. Since day 1 we hang out together most of the time. if he goes with his friends he tells me to go and if I'm with my friends I do the same.

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I'm 27, my cap is 32.

I get what you are saying. & I agree.. My relationships in the past went way to fast, were rushed and ended badly..

I think what myself and youngali and WonderWoman are trying to say is that with their aqua venus signs, they make it known right away that no one else can have you but them. Which is what my cap did. He's an aqua venus also.. He's still very slow paced.. not rushing.. But we are together right now. We have an obligation and commitment to each other but still getting to know each other as friends and eventually turn to lovers & friends.One day, hopefully, marriage..

IMO, I think you make it hard for your cap to know what you want sometimes. If my cap and I were just "dating".. or talking.. & he asked me if he should stop talking to the "new girl", I would say YES.. Because I want him and we already started something that I'd like to take further.. eventually.. I know you like this guy a lot.. & obviously he's not ready for a commitment, as he's told you, but there's nothing wrong w/ making it clear as to what you want for your future..

In the beginning, I would tell my cap that I really liked him.. Told him I was dating others and they wanted to take me out etc. but that I only had eyes for him.. He asked me if I wanted to go on dates with these guys and I told him that if he was dating others, I would go out but it wouldn't be fair to those other guys because I would be on those dates thinking about him.. He told me, honestly, that women give him attention but its easy to ignore them.. that we both got each others attention and it's clear as day.. We weren't in a relationship then, but we were both clear on what it is we wanted from each other.. & that was to eventually be together.. So often he would say I was his.. "You're mine mami?" & our first date, I officially became his. We're still building and my situation is quite different from yours being that I'm in a LDR.. but don't be afraid to put yourself "out there".. It's clear to others that he likes you as well.

Honestly, I don't think relationship have time limits.. but make it clear to him that although he doesn't want anything at the moment, you eventually do.

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Posted by Bubbles328

how is it all you girls on here date so many signs??



I don't attract that many to be honest, maybe cause i'm choosy in the past.

For me I think it's an aqua thing we attract allot of signs even if we are not compatible we can still peak someone interest with our weirdness and energy.

lol



seriously?

"we" attract a lot of signs?

haha



i hope not.



i would rather attract the ones i am attracted to.



ya'll are funny. ^__^



Well i'm attracted to idiots and I get idiots I don't tend to notice the "nice guys" that like me they aren't even on my radar until they are gone and i'm left kicking myself. Also it's all good attracting them but I get bored too easy being tied up in a marriage pretending all is good and happy when it's not isn't for me and no relationship is perfect they all have their issues.





There are idiots everywhere so is hard to find the nice guys. I'm naturally attracted to nerdy guys, and they are generally nice but since I've been separated I've only met one (Cap).

Of course, and is not that a relationship shouldn't have any issues, its how they handle these issues. and I understand you may just not be ready to date anyone yet.

Get divorced first, this is the first thing you should do, you need to feel completely free from this guy. you don't need his consent.

I'm not gonna ask you this but in some cases I know caps like to manipulate women with money, they all have their dark side. If you depend on Caps financially, that's their way to say that they control you.

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Posted by @youngali

with venus in aqua... if we feel we have met the right fit, we want to lock them down asap. no matter what.

So true..

My cap has Venus in Aqua and he made me his on our first date.. Never gotta guess with them..

I locked my cap down straight away ?, everything @youngali is saying about aqua Venus is spot on in my opinion, I can relate.

Right!! It took him NO time.. Even before our first date he would ALWAYS say, "You're mine.." Wasted NO time.. 😉

Yup which is why it's been like this for 6 months.



How old are you?

only in high school I took relationships like that. you never know if he's tge one until you actually get to know the person. otherwise is just dating not a relationship.

He was taking things too fast at the beginning and I've been through a fast relationship that ended too quick too and we agreed on taking things slow and go with the flow.

Just because we werent official since day q doesn't mean what we have isn't real.

As an Aqua, being friends with my lover is a #1 rule, being able to be ourselves when we are together and that's something he says he loves about us.



Now, I do get what you say. Since day 1 we hang out together most of the time. if he goes with his friends he tells me to go and if I'm with my friends I do the same.

I'm 27, my cap is 32.

I get what you are saying. & I agree.. My relationships in the past went way to fast, were rushed and ended badly..

I think what myself and youngali and WonderWoman are trying to say is that with their aqua venus signs, they make it known right away that no one else can have you but them. Which is what my cap did. He's an aqua venus also.. He's still very slow paced.. not rushing.. But we are together right now. We have an obligation and commitment to each other but still getting to know each other as friends and eventually turn to lovers & friends.One day, hopefully, marriage..

IMO, I think you make it hard for your cap to know what you want sometimes. If my cap and I were just "dating".. or talking.. & he asked me if he should stop talking to the "new girl", I would say YES.. Because I want him and we already started something that I'd like to take further.. eventually.. I know you like this guy a lot.. & obviously he's not ready for a commitment, as he's told you, but there's nothing wrong w/ making it clear as to what you want for your future..

In the beginning, I would tell my cap that I really liked him.. Told him I was dating others and they wanted to take me out etc. but that I only had eyes for him.. He asked me if I wanted to go on dates with these guys and I told him that if he was dating others, I would go out but it wouldn't be fair to those other guys because I would be on those dates thinking about him.. He told me, honestly, that women give him attention but its easy to ignore them.. that we both got each others attention and it's clear as day.. We weren't in a relationship then, but we were both clear on what it is we wanted from each other.. & that was to eventually be together.. So often he would say I was his.. "You're mine mami?" & our first date, I officially became his. We're still building and my situation is quite different from yours being that I'm in a LDR.. but don't be afraid to put yourself "out there".. It's clear to others that he likes you as well.

Honestly, I don't think relationship have time limits.. but make it clear to him that although he doesn't want anything at the moment, you eventually do.

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I take things very literal! lol when you said first date I was like what??!! seriously!! it takes ME more than that to date someone. Also, yes I'm stubborn, in my mind is not just If the guy wants to date me, I primarily have to see for myself if he's the guy I want. but yes I get your point.

We will see what happens.

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Posted by @youngali

with venus in aqua... if we feel we have met the right fit, we want to lock them down asap. no matter what.

So true..

My cap has Venus in Aqua and he made me his on our first date.. Never gotta guess with them..

I locked my cap down straight away ?, everything @youngali is saying about aqua Venus is spot on in my opinion, I can relate.

Right!! It took him NO time.. Even before our first date he would ALWAYS say, "You're mine.." Wasted NO time.. 😉

Yup which is why it's been like this for 6 months.



How old are you?

only in high school I took relationships like that. you never know if he's tge one until you actually get to know the person. otherwise is just dating not a relationship.

He was taking things too fast at the beginning and I've been through a fast relationship that ended too quick too and we agreed on taking things slow and go with the flow.

Just because we werent official since day q doesn't mean what we have isn't real.

As an Aqua, being friends with my lover is a #1 rule, being able to be ourselves when we are together and that's something he says he loves about us.



Now, I do get what you say. Since day 1 we hang out together most of the time. if he goes with his friends he tells me to go and if I'm with my friends I do the same.

I'm 27, my cap is 32.

I get what you are saying. & I agree.. My relationships in the past went way to fast, were rushed and ended badly..

I think what myself and youngali and WonderWoman are trying to say is that with their aqua venus signs, they make it known right away that no one else can have you but them. Which is what my cap did. He's an aqua venus also.. He's still very slow paced.. not rushing.. But we are together right now. We have an obligation and commitment to each other but still getting to know each other as friends and eventually turn to lovers & friends.One day, hopefully, marriage..

IMO, I think you make it hard for your cap to know what you want sometimes. If my cap and I were just "dating".. or talking.. & he asked me if he should stop talking to the "new girl", I would say YES.. Because I want him and we already started something that I'd like to take further.. eventually.. I know you like this guy a lot.. & obviously he's not ready for a commitment, as he's told you, but there's nothing wrong w/ making it clear as to what you want for your future..

In the beginning, I would tell my cap that I really liked him.. Told him I was dating others and they wanted to take me out etc. but that I only had eyes for him.. He asked me if I wanted to go on dates with these guys and I told him that if he was dating others, I would go out but it wouldn't be fair to those other guys because I would be on those dates thinking about him.. He told me, honestly, that women give him attention but its easy to ignore them.. that we both got each others attention and it's clear as day.. We weren't in a relationship then, but we were both clear on what it is we wanted from each other.. & that was to eventually be together.. So often he would say I was his.. "You're mine mami?" & our first date, I officially became his. We're still building and my situation is quite different from yours being that I'm in a LDR.. but don't be afraid to put yourself "out there".. It's clear to others that he likes you as well.

Honestly, I don't think relationship have time limits.. but make it clear to him that although he doesn't want anything at the moment, you eventually do.

I take things very literal! lol when you said first date I was like what??!! seriously!! it takes ME more than that to date someone. Also, yes I'm stubborn, in my mind is not just If the guy wants to date me, I primarily have to see for myself if he's the guy I want. but yes I get your point.

We will see what happens.

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LOL! Yea I get you!

Nooo.. It takes me time too.. But we talked so much (Morning til Night) in the beginning.. being in a LDR, we had to talk often.. & our connection was real.. So by the first date I felt like I knew enough.. he asked for things to be committed and I said yes..

Yes girl don't be nervous.. Relationships are tough.. but at least you can say, "he know's exactly what I want and if he wants the same, the ball will be in his court.."

Honestly I been "laying low" during this retrograde bs.. I've been hearing about way too many issues between my friends and their S/O.. They obviously don't know what a VR is... but it's odd that things were so good now most of my friends are going through break up, arguing, issues.. etc. There are some high tensions between me and my cap at the moment and I don't wanna have one of my ":intense" moments. 🙂

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Bubbles328

how is it all you girls on here date so many signs??



I don't attract that many to be honest, maybe cause i'm choosy in the past.

For me I think it's an aqua thing we attract allot of signs even if we are not compatible we can still peak someone interest with our weirdness and energy.

lol



seriously?

"we" attract a lot of signs?

haha



i hope not.



i would rather attract the ones i am attracted to.



ya'll are funny. ^__^

Well i'm attracted to idiots and I get idiots I don't tend to notice the "nice guys" that like me they aren't even on my radar until they are gone and i'm left kicking myself. Also it's all good attracting them but I get bored too easy being tied up in a marriage pretending all is good and happy when it's not isn't for me and no relationship is perfect they all have their issues.



There are idiots everywhere so is hard to find the nice guys. I'm naturally attracted to nerdy guys, and they are generally nice but since I've been separated I've only met one (Cap).

Of course, and is not that a relationship shouldn't have any issues, its how they handle these issues. and I understand you may just not be ready to date anyone yet.

Get divorced first, this is the first thing you should do, you need to feel completely free from this guy. you don't need his consent.

I'm not gonna ask you this but in some cases I know caps like to manipulate women with money, they all have their dark side. If you depend on Caps financially, that's their way to say that they control you.











the quote system is getting strange here...



anyway, i'm gonna be honest with you...

Earth and Water men.....they prefer to be the breadwinner, and the woman work at home and take care of children and family...but then I come from a family of that type.

I like it a lot and it soothes me, and makes me happy. but we have choices in our lives what we want

from what you sound like, tiki has been correct all along..

and youre not listening.

all you are doing is pointing mistakes and blames how manipulative and these guys try to keep these women under wraps by financial and homekeeping..

well if you don't want that. and it's not in your nature...

I would say bye bye.

you need a different family style than what you're saying.

because from your words you are calling them manipulative and it's a bad thing.



when from many women it's a wonderful thing.

this is called different strokes for different folks.

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Posted by @youngali

with venus in aqua... if we feel we have met the right fit, we want to lock them down asap. no matter what.

So true..

My cap has Venus in Aqua and he made me his on our first date.. Never gotta guess with them..

I locked my cap down straight away ?, everything @youngali is saying about aqua Venus is spot on in my opinion, I can relate.

Right!! It took him NO time.. Even before our first date he would ALWAYS say, "You're mine.." Wasted NO time.. 😉

Yup which is why it's been like this for 6 months.



How old are you?

only in high school I took relationships like that. you never know if he's tge one until you actually get to know the person. otherwise is just dating not a relationship.

He was taking things too fast at the beginning and I've been through a fast relationship that ended too quick too and we agreed on taking things slow and go with the flow.

Just because we werent official since day q doesn't mean what we have isn't real.

As an Aqua, being friends with my lover is a #1 rule, being able to be ourselves when we are together and that's something he says he loves about us.



Now, I do get what you say. Since day 1 we hang out together most of the time. if he goes with his friends he tells me to go and if I'm with my friends I do the same.

I'm 27, my cap is 32.

I get what you are saying. & I agree.. My relationships in the past went way to fast, were rushed and ended badly..

I think what myself and youngali and WonderWoman are trying to say is that with their aqua venus signs, they make it known right away that no one else can have you but them. Which is what my cap did. He's an aqua venus also.. He's still very slow paced.. not rushing.. But we are together right now. We have an obligation and commitment to each other but still getting to know each other as friends and eventually turn to lovers & friends.One day, hopefully, marriage..

IMO, I think you make it hard for your cap to know what you want sometimes. If my cap and I were just "dating".. or talking.. & he asked me if he should stop talking to the "new girl", I would say YES.. Because I want him and we already started something that I'd like to take further.. eventually.. I know you like this guy a lot.. & obviously he's not ready for a commitment, as he's told you, but there's nothing wrong w/ making it clear as to what you want for your future..

In the beginning, I would tell my cap that I really liked him.. Told him I was dating others and they wanted to take me out etc. but that I only had eyes for him.. He asked me if I wanted to go on dates with these guys and I told him that if he was dating others, I would go out but it wouldn't be fair to those other guys because I would be on those dates thinking about him.. He told me, honestly, that women give him attention but its easy to ignore them.. that we both got each others attention and it's clear as day.. We weren't in a relationship then, but we were both clear on what it is we wanted from each other.. & that was to eventually be together.. So often he would say I was his.. "You're mine mami?" & our first date, I officially became his. We're still building and my situation is quite different from yours being that I'm in a LDR.. but don't be afraid to put yourself "out there".. It's clear to others that he likes you as well.

Honestly, I don't think relationship have time limits.. but make it clear to him that although he doesn't want anything at the moment, you eventually do.

I take things very literal! lol when you said first date I was like what??!! seriously!! it takes ME more than that to date someone. Also, yes I'm stubborn, in my mind is not just If the guy wants to date me, I primarily have to see for myself if he's the guy I want. but yes I get your point.

We will see what happens.

LOL! Yea I get you!

Nooo.. It takes me time too.. But we talked so much (Morning til Night) in the beginning.. being in a LDR, we had to talk often.. & our connection was real.. So by the first date I felt like I knew enough.. he asked for things to be committed and I said yes..

Yes girl don't be nervous.. Relationships are tough.. but at least you can say, "he know's exactly what I want and if he wants the same, the ball will be in his court.."

Honestly I been "laying low" during this retrograde bs.. I've been hearing about way too many issues between my friends and their S/O.. They obviously don't know what a VR is... but it's odd that things were so good now most of my friends are going through break up, arguing, issues.. etc. There are some high tensions between me and my cap at the moment and I don't wanna have one of my ":intense" moments. 🙂

Oh you're not kidding on VR! I'm trying to lay low but my Cap seems to be suffering. I just hope this goes well.. I don't think I can wait much longer.

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Me either... I don't know what to do..

My friends are saying exes are popping back up.. My ex popped back up and is trying to be "around"..

I'm laying low.. I think we both are mentally suffering.. I get a vibe.. & I don't wanna mess up a good thing.. We have till April 15 to May for things to get better..

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Posted by @youngali

with venus in aqua... if we feel we have met the right fit, we want to lock them down asap. no matter what.

So true..

My cap has Venus in Aqua and he made me his on our first date.. Never gotta guess with them..

I locked my cap down straight away ?, everything @youngali is saying about aqua Venus is spot on in my opinion, I can relate.

Right!! It took him NO time.. Even before our first date he would ALWAYS say, "You're mine.." Wasted NO time.. 😉

Yup which is why it's been like this for 6 months.



How old are you?

only in high school I took relationships like that. you never know if he's tge one until you actually get to know the person. otherwise is just dating not a relationship.

He was taking things too fast at the beginning and I've been through a fast relationship that ended too quick too and we agreed on taking things slow and go with the flow.

Just because we werent official since day q doesn't mean what we have isn't real.

As an Aqua, being friends with my lover is a #1 rule, being able to be ourselves when we are together and that's something he says he loves about us.



Now, I do get what you say. Since day 1 we hang out together most of the time. if he goes with his friends he tells me to go and if I'm with my friends I do the same.

I'm 27, my cap is 32.

I get what you are saying. & I agree.. My relationships in the past went way to fast, were rushed and ended badly..

I think what myself and youngali and WonderWoman are trying to say is that with their aqua venus signs, they make it known right away that no one else can have you but them. Which is what my cap did. He's an aqua venus also.. He's still very slow paced.. not rushing.. But we are together right now. We have an obligation and commitment to each other but still getting to know each other as friends and eventually turn to lovers & friends.One day, hopefully, marriage..

IMO, I think you make it hard for your cap to know what you want sometimes. If my cap and I were just "dating".. or talking.. & he asked me if he should stop talking to the "new girl", I would say YES.. Because I want him and we already started something that I'd like to take further.. eventually.. I know you like this guy a lot.. & obviously he's not ready for a commitment, as he's told you, but there's nothing wrong w/ making it clear as to what you want for your future..

In the beginning, I would tell my cap that I really liked him.. Told him I was dating others and they wanted to take me out etc. but that I only had eyes for him.. He asked me if I wanted to go on dates with these guys and I told him that if he was dating others, I would go out but it wouldn't be fair to those other guys because I would be on those dates thinking about him.. He told me, honestly, that women give him attention but its easy to ignore them.. that we both got each others attention and it's clear as day.. We weren't in a relationship then, but we were both clear on what it is we wanted from each other.. & that was to eventually be together.. So often he would say I was his.. "You're mine mami?" & our first date, I officially became his. We're still building and my situation is quite different from yours being that I'm in a LDR.. but don't be afraid to put yourself "out there".. It's clear to others that he likes you as well.

Honestly, I don't think relationship have time limits.. but make it clear to him that although he doesn't want anything at the moment, you eventually do.

I take things very literal! lol when you said first date I was like what??!! seriously!! it takes ME more than that to date someone. Also, yes I'm stubborn, in my mind is not just If the guy wants to date me, I primarily have to see for myself if he's the guy I want. but yes I get your point.

We will see what happens.

LOL! Yea I get you!

Nooo.. It takes me time too.. But we talked so much (Morning til Night) in the beginning.. being in a LDR, we had to talk often.. & our connection was real.. So by the first date I felt like I knew enough.. he asked for things to be committed and I said yes..

Yes girl don't be nervous.. Relationships are tough.. but at least you can say, "he know's exactly what I want and if he wants the same, the ball will be in his court.."

Honestly I been "laying low" during this retrograde bs.. I've been hearing about way too many issues between my friends and their S/O.. They obviously don't know what a VR is... but it's odd that things were so good now most of my friends are going through break up, arguing, issues.. etc. There are some high tensions between me and my cap at the moment and I don't wanna have one of my ":intense" moments. 🙂

from my observation, it seems like majority of the capricorn, taurus and libra males are going through it with this VR. i recommend that anyone in a relationship with any of these guys lay low.

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I agree.. He just seems so "out of it" ... Stressed out.. & I don't wanna add to it.. It seems like all earth sign men are going through.. Because 1 they aren't used to emotions and during this time is when emotions come up often.. They are trynna stay grounded, as usual, but are on an emotional roller-coaster..

I read about my cap during the retrograde.. Emotions with family and relationships arise and its a time for them to consider or even reconsider some fine details.. Scares the shit outta me.. lol. Me being an intense Scorpio, I've been an emotional wreck too.. SMH. I have to look it up and post it.. It may help some.

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LOL! SAME here! I was just telling @WonderWoman14 this.

I've been hiding out.. MIA on SM.

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with venus in aqua... if we feel we have met the right fit, we want to lock them down asap. no matter what.

So true..

My cap has Venus in Aqua and he made me his on our first date.. Never gotta guess with them..

I locked my cap down straight away ?, everything @youngali is saying about aqua Venus is spot on in my opinion, I can relate.

Right!! It took him NO time.. Even before our first date he would ALWAYS say, "You're mine.." Wasted NO time.. 😉

Yup which is why it's been like this for 6 months.



How old are you?

only in high school I took relationships like that. you never know if he's tge one until you actually get to know the person. otherwise is just dating not a relationship.

He was taking things too fast at the beginning and I've been through a fast relationship that ended too quick too and we agreed on taking things slow and go with the flow.

Just because we werent official since day q doesn't mean what we have isn't real.

As an Aqua, being friends with my lover is a #1 rule, being able to be ourselves when we are together and that's something he says he loves about us.



Now, I do get what you say. Since day 1 we hang out together most of the time. if he goes with his friends he tells me to go and if I'm with my friends I do the same.

I'm 27, my cap is 32.

I get what you are saying. & I agree.. My relationships in the past went way to fast, were rushed and ended badly..

I think what myself and youngali and WonderWoman are trying to say is that with their aqua venus signs, they make it known right away that no one else can have you but them. Which is what my cap did. He's an aqua venus also.. He's still very slow paced.. not rushing.. But we are together right now. We have an obligation and commitment to each other but still getting to know each other as friends and eventually turn to lovers & friends.One day, hopefully, marriage..

IMO, I think you make it hard for your cap to know what you want sometimes. If my cap and I were just "dating".. or talking.. & he asked me if he should stop talking to the "new girl", I would say YES.. Because I want him and we already started something that I'd like to take further.. eventually.. I know you like this guy a lot.. & obviously he's not ready for a commitment, as he's told you, but there's nothing wrong w/ making it clear as to what you want for your future..

In the beginning, I would tell my cap that I really liked him.. Told him I was dating others and they wanted to take me out etc. but that I only had eyes for him.. He asked me if I wanted to go on dates with these guys and I told him that if he was dating others, I would go out but it wouldn't be fair to those other guys because I would be on those dates thinking about him.. He told me, honestly, that women give him attention but its easy to ignore them.. that we both got each others attention and it's clear as day.. We weren't in a relationship then, but we were both clear on what it is we wanted from each other.. & that was to eventually be together.. So often he would say I was his.. "You're mine mami?" & our first date, I officially became his. We're still building and my situation is quite different from yours being that I'm in a LDR.. but don't be afraid to put yourself "out there".. It's clear to others that he likes you as well.

Honestly, I don't think relationship have time limits.. but make it clear to him that although he doesn't want anything at the moment, you eventually do.

I take things very literal! lol when you said first date I was like what??!! seriously!! it takes ME more than that to date someone. Also, yes I'm stubborn, in my mind is not just If the guy wants to date me, I primarily have to see for myself if he's the guy I want. but yes I get your point.

We will see what happens.

LOL! Yea I get you!

Nooo.. It takes me time too.. But we talked so much (Morning til Night) in the beginning.. being in a LDR, we had to talk often.. & our connection was real.. So by the first date I felt like I knew enough.. he asked for things to be committed and I said yes..

Yes girl don't be nervous.. Relationships are tough.. but at least you can say, "he know's exactly what I want and if he wants the same, the ball will be in his court.."

Honestly I been "laying low" during this retrograde bs.. I've been hearing about way too many issues between my friends and their S/O.. They obviously don't know what a VR is... but it's odd that things were so good now most of my friends are going through break up, arguing, issues.. etc. There are some high tensions between me and my cap at the moment and I don't wanna have one of my ":intense" moments. 🙂

from my observation, it seems like majority of the capricorn, taurus and libra males are going through it with this VR. i recommend that anyone in a relationship with any of these guys lay low.

Aarghhh! I'm trying! He seems like he needs to know what's going on with me though. He has been acting weird for a month now like deciding whether to go forward, if I'm going to hurt him like his ex did, not wanting to let go of me.. and I have been the one not talking most of the relationship, more actions. But he needs to hear it? Don't Caps go off actions? Omg. And he's the one with the mixed signals!! Why I've been quiet. Ugh. I would love to just do the ostrich thing.

the stress is at an all time high right now. it's best to avoid any major interactions as it could easily lead to arguments due to them being on edge. i'd recommend giving them some space, but checking in by sending funny memes or something light hearted to make them laugh every now and then... even if they don't respond. but KEEP YOUR DISTANCE! avoid doing things to add to their stress. patience is key.

best of luck boo! push through! ?

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I haven't been reaching out at all.. After our last "visit" about 2 weeks ago, we have had NoContact at all.. It's not like us.. But like I said, before my outburst post, we already had some high tension between the both of us.. & On every level.. Mentally, physically, sexually, emotionally.. I'm trying to avoid it at all cause...

My "stress" is too much at the moment.. & I feel if I send something "cute" or "funny.. like a meme etc and I don't get a response.. I'd feel a certain way.. I know where we stand.. He wants me to move closer to him.. I'm not even thinking about moving at the moment with everything I've got going on at my end..

I just don't know what to do.

Sorry OP for us posting on your topic about our own issues..

But I really think you and your caps issues stem a little from the VR also.. Just my opinion tho. @Aerazo

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how is it all you girls on here date so many signs??



I don't attract that many to be honest, maybe cause i'm choosy in the past.

For me I think it's an aqua thing we attract allot of signs even if we are not compatible we can still peak someone interest with our weirdness and energy.

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seriously?

"we" attract a lot of signs?

haha



i hope not.



i would rather attract the ones i am attracted to.



ya'll are funny. ^__^

Well i'm attracted to idiots and I get idiots I don't tend to notice the "nice guys" that like me they aren't even on my radar until they are gone and i'm left kicking myself. Also it's all good attracting them but I get bored too easy being tied up in a marriage pretending all is good and happy when it's not isn't for me and no relationship is perfect they all have their issues.

There are idiots everywhere so is hard to find the nice guys. I'm naturally attracted to nerdy guys, and they are generally nice but since I've been separated I've only met one (Cap).

Of course, and is not that a relationship shouldn't have any issues, its how they handle these issues. and I understand you may just not be ready to date anyone yet.

Get divorced first, this is the first thing you should do, you need to feel completely free from this guy. you don't need his consent.

I'm not gonna ask you this but in some cases I know caps like to manipulate women with money, they all have their dark side. If you depend on Caps financially, that's their way to say that they control you.











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anyway, i'm gonna be honest with you...

Earth and Water men.....they prefer to be the breadwinner, and the woman work at home and take care of children and family...but then I come from a family of that type.

I like it a lot and it soothes me, and makes me happy. but we have choices in our lives what we want

from what you sound like, tiki has been correct all along..

and youre not listening.

all you are doing is pointing mistakes and blames how manipulative and these guys try to keep these women under wraps by financial and homekeeping..

well if you don't want that. and it's not in your nature...

I would say bye bye.

you need a different family style than what you're saying.

because from your words you are calling them manipulative and it's a bad thing.



when from many women it's a wonderful thing.

this is called different strokes for different folks.



Yeah, but I'm not generalizing. I said specifically that I know a few who think that way because they do tell me that's how they see it and other Caps who are very laidback, it just depends on the person.

Which is why I said some caps. Yes. some women prefer that way and I'm not saying is wrong. This is where I say one thing and people take it differently. I was referring to Bubbles situation with her ex and how he is using the kids as well, this is not a Cap behavior, this is a Machista behavior regardless of his sign.

I like Caps bc we like both things, a family/ homekeeping and a joint venture.

I mean in the way they see me, not just as a wife but as a friend, a partner in life and crime. That's my ultimate relationship goal. 🙂 and he knows that of course.

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with venus in aqua... if we feel we have met the right fit, we want to lock them down asap. no matter what.

So true..

My cap has Venus in Aqua and he made me his on our first date.. Never gotta guess with them..

I locked my cap down straight away ?, everything @youngali is saying about aqua Venus is spot on in my opinion, I can relate.

Right!! It took him NO time.. Even before our first date he would ALWAYS say, "You're mine.." Wasted NO time.. 😉

Yup which is why it's been like this for 6 months.



How old are you?

only in high school I took relationships like that. you never know if he's tge one until you actually get to know the person. otherwise is just dating not a relationship.

He was taking things too fast at the beginning and I've been through a fast relationship that ended too quick too and we agreed on taking things slow and go with the flow.

Just because we werent official since day q doesn't mean what we have isn't real.

As an Aqua, being friends with my lover is a #1 rule, being able to be ourselves when we are together and that's something he says he loves about us.



Now, I do get what you say. Since day 1 we hang out together most of the time. if he goes with his friends he tells me to go and if I'm with my friends I do the same.

I'm 27, my cap is 32.

I get what you are saying. & I agree.. My relationships in the past went way to fast, were rushed and ended badly..

I think what myself and youngali and WonderWoman are trying to say is that with their aqua venus signs, they make it known right away that no one else can have you but them. Which is what my cap did. He's an aqua venus also.. He's still very slow paced.. not rushing.. But we are together right now. We have an obligation and commitment to each other but still getting to know each other as friends and eventually turn to lovers & friends.One day, hopefully, marriage..

IMO, I think you make it hard for your cap to know what you want sometimes. If my cap and I were just "dating".. or talking.. & he asked me if he should stop talking to the "new girl", I would say YES.. Because I want him and we already started something that I'd like to take further.. eventually.. I know you like this guy a lot.. & obviously he's not ready for a commitment, as he's told you, but there's nothing wrong w/ making it clear as to what you want for your future..

In the beginning, I would tell my cap that I really liked him.. Told him I was dating others and they wanted to take me out etc. but that I only had eyes for him.. He asked me if I wanted to go on dates with these guys and I told him that if he was dating others, I would go out but it wouldn't be fair to those other guys because I would be on those dates thinking about him.. He told me, honestly, that women give him attention but its easy to ignore them.. that we both got each others attention and it's clear as day.. We weren't in a relationship then, but we were both clear on what it is we wanted from each other.. & that was to eventually be together.. So often he would say I was his.. "You're mine mami?" & our first date, I officially became his. We're still building and my situation is quite different from yours being that I'm in a LDR.. but don't be afraid to put yourself "out there".. It's clear to others that he likes you as well.

Honestly, I don't think relationship have time limits.. but make it clear to him that although he doesn't want anything at the moment, you eventually do.

I take things very literal! lol when you said first date I was like what??!! seriously!! it takes ME more than that to date someone. Also, yes I'm stubborn, in my mind is not just If the guy wants to date me, I primarily have to see for myself if he's the guy I want. but yes I get your point.

We will see what happens.

LOL! Yea I get you!

Nooo.. It takes me time too.. But we talked so much (Morning til Night) in the beginning.. being in a LDR, we had to talk often.. & our connection was real.. So by the first date I felt like I knew enough.. he asked for things to be committed and I said yes..

Yes girl don't be nervous.. Relationships are tough.. but at least you can say, "he know's exactly what I want and if he wants the same, the ball will be in his court.."

Honestly I been "laying low" during this retrograde bs.. I've been hearing about way too many issues between my friends and their S/O.. They obviously don't know what a VR is... but it's odd that things were so good now most of my friends are going through break up, arguing, issues.. etc. There are some high tensions between me and my cap at the moment and I don't wanna have one of my ":intense" moments. 🙂

Oh you're not kidding on VR! I'm trying to lay low but my Cap seems to be suffering. I just hope this goes well.. I don't think I can wait much longer.

Me either... I don't know what to do..

My friends are saying exes are popping back up.. My ex popped back up and is trying be "around"..

I'm laying low.. I think we both are mentally suffering.. I get a vibe.. & I don't wanna mess up a good thing.. We have till April 15 to May for things to get better..

Well mine was acting like he was protecting himself from me. Then I sent him a text explaining that I was finally ready to talk, that I'd decided not to move if our relationship had a good future in two years ( which was my plan). And that I loved him & a couple other things. He stopped the distant/cold protecting himself in my presence behavior. But he's still not affectionate like he was & looks at me like he's searching for some answer. So that was last week & he did get better.i also had given him a little space. But he's still acting like he's not going anywhere either. So wouldn't it follow that if i address it more and explain a little more about where I'm coming from that it would get better? Or I take the chance if it blowing up? I don't want him to doubt what I said in the text either....

He is still texting me everyday after work to talk about our days & say goodnight, asks to see me too. Talks about major things going on in his life. Doesn't really sound like someone who is trying to leave me. So hard do I lay low & let him work through stuff or do I explain more?

Oh an ex of mine has been all over me too. Luckily he's far away. But he says he just wants me to be happy & he doesn't want to interfere, but why did you go & get serious with someone— Lol

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I think with your situation, he's trying to figure you out. I don't think he has any intentions on leaving you. I say this VR has a cause to his cold, distant behavior because the Venus (love) retrograde is causing emotions. They aren't emotional men. AT ALL! & we know that. So all of that emotion on top of whatever plans you have is certainly a thought in his mind.. I would leave it alone for now.

What I've learned is that when we tell them things they make a mental note of it and even tho they don't speak on it often, they take heed to what's being said and will do what they need to do to bring what you need to life.. Older, more mature caps need time to process things because every move they make or decision they take has a cause and affect.. so he's being careful..

He knows you love him. I think caps in general get scared when things get "deep"..

Keep things lite.. Continue to text him day and night.. Let him see you.. Don't worry about his distant behavior when you're together.. My cap gets that way when we see each other in the beginning.. quiet.. reading my eyes.. He just stares at me.. Then he loosens a bit and is his loving self but I honestly think they are trying to figure us out.. I've said it before & I still believe that after a cap man has been hurt in the past.. a new interest that they are so intrigued by (falling in love with) is a hard pill to swallow for them.. They have a certain confidence about them.. But we (love interest) are like aliens to them and they wanna make sure every move they make is the right move so they don't get hurt and lose you.. Silent over thinkers! IMO..

It'll all manifest in the end.

My text is all over the place above so I hope you get my drift.. lol

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LOL! SAME here! I was just telling @WonderWoman14 this.

I've been hiding out.. MIA on SM.

Man, we're so much alike. lol we definitely think the same. ?

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LOL! We are.. My Sag Venus ... I get nervous and "runnnnnn!!" lol

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with venus in aqua... if we feel we have met the right fit, we want to lock them down asap. no matter what.

So true..

My cap has Venus in Aqua and he made me his on our first date.. Never gotta guess with them..

I locked my cap down straight away ?, everything @youngali is saying about aqua Venus is spot on in my opinion, I can relate.

Right!! It took him NO time.. Even before our first date he would ALWAYS say, "You're mine.." Wasted NO time.. 😉

Yup which is why it's been like this for 6 months.



How old are you?

only in high school I took relationships like that. you never know if he's tge one until you actually get to know the person. otherwise is just dating not a relationship.

He was taking things too fast at the beginning and I've been through a fast relationship that ended too quick too and we agreed on taking things slow and go with the flow.

Just because we werent official since day q doesn't mean what we have isn't real.

As an Aqua, being friends with my lover is a #1 rule, being able to be ourselves when we are together and that's something he says he loves about us.



Now, I do get what you say. Since day 1 we hang out together most of the time. if he goes with his friends he tells me to go and if I'm with my friends I do the same.

I'm 27, my cap is 32.

I get what you are saying. & I agree.. My relationships in the past went way to fast, were rushed and ended badly..

I think what myself and youngali and WonderWoman are trying to say is that with their aqua venus signs, they make it known right away that no one else can have you but them. Which is what my cap did. He's an aqua venus also.. He's still very slow paced.. not rushing.. But we are together right now. We have an obligation and commitment to each other but still getting to know each other as friends and eventually turn to lovers & friends.One day, hopefully, marriage..

IMO, I think you make it hard for your cap to know what you want sometimes. If my cap and I were just "dating".. or talking.. & he asked me if he should stop talking to the "new girl", I would say YES.. Because I want him and we already started something that I'd like to take further.. eventually.. I know you like this guy a lot.. & obviously he's not ready for a commitment, as he's told you, but there's nothing wrong w/ making it clear as to what you want for your future..

In the beginning, I would tell my cap that I really liked him.. Told him I was dating others and they wanted to take me out etc. but that I only had eyes for him.. He asked me if I wanted to go on dates with these guys and I told him that if he was dating others, I would go out but it wouldn't be fair to those other guys because I would be on those dates thinking about him.. He told me, honestly, that women give him attention but its easy to ignore them.. that we both got each others attention and it's clear as day.. We weren't in a relationship then, but we were both clear on what it is we wanted from each other.. & that was to eventually be together.. So often he would say I was his.. "You're mine mami?" & our first date, I officially became his. We're still building and my situation is quite different from yours being that I'm in a LDR.. but don't be afraid to put yourself "out there".. It's clear to others that he likes you as well.

Honestly, I don't think relationship have time limits.. but make it clear to him that although he doesn't want anything at the moment, you eventually do.

I take things very literal! lol when you said first date I was like what??!! seriously!! it takes ME more than that to date someone. Also, yes I'm stubborn, in my mind is not just If the guy wants to date me, I primarily have to see for myself if he's the guy I want. but yes I get your point.

We will see what happens.

LOL! Yea I get you!

Nooo.. It takes me time too.. But we talked so much (Morning til Night) in the beginning.. being in a LDR, we had to talk often.. & our connection was real.. So by the first date I felt like I knew enough.. he asked for things to be committed and I said yes..

Yes girl don't be nervous.. Relationships are tough.. but at least you can say, "he know's exactly what I want and if he wants the same, the ball will be in his court.."

Honestly I been "laying low" during this retrograde bs.. I've been hearing about way too many issues between my friends and their S/O.. They obviously don't know what a VR is... but it's odd that things were so good now most of my friends are going through break up, arguing, issues.. etc. There are some high tensions between me and my cap at the moment and I don't wanna have one of my ":intense" moments. 🙂

from my observation, it seems like majority of the capricorn, taurus and libra males are going through it with this VR. i recommend that anyone in a relationship with any of these guys lay low.

Aarghhh! I'm trying! He seems like he needs to know what's going on with me though. He has been acting weird for a month now like deciding whether to go forward, if I'm going to hurt him like his ex did, not wanting to let go of me.. and I have been the one not talking most of the relationship, more actions. But he needs to hear it? Don't Caps go off actions? Omg. And he's the one with the mixed signals!! Why I've been quiet. Ugh. I would love to just do the ostrich thing.

the stress is at an all time high right now. it's best to avoid any major interactions as it could easily lead to arguments due to them being on edge. i'd recommend giving them some space, but checking in by sending funny memes or something light hearted to make them laugh every now and then... even if they don't respond. but KEEP YOUR DISTANCE! avoid doing things to add to their stress. patience is key.

best of luck boo! push through! ?

I haven't been reaching out at all.. After our last "visit" about 2 weeks ago, we have had NoContact at all.. It's not like us.. But like I said, before my outburst post, we already had some high tension between the both of us.. & On every level.. Mentally, physically, sexually, emotionally.. I'm trying to avoid it at all cause...

My "stress" is too much at the moment.. & I feel if I send something "cute" or "funny.. like a meme etc and I don't get a response.. I'd feel a certain way.. I know where we stand.. He wants me to move closer to him.. I'm not even thinking about moving at the moment with everything I've got going on at my end..

I just don't know what to do.

Sorry OP for us posting on your topic about our own issues..

But I really think you and your caps issues stem a little from the VR also.. Just my opinion tho. @Aerazo

lol i definitely feel you on that. i know if i was to send something and get no response i start tripping. ?!

and if i get to thinking too hard about it, i activate the "petty" and can take things too far by pressing the block button. (that fucking aqua venus i tell ya). ?? it's outta control.

we all gotta just push through this one.

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LMAO! That's what I'm saying.. he's probably thinking the same with his aqua venus ass.. lol.. & me with my sag venus, I can get the same way.. ON TOP of me already being a freakin Scorpio smh.. I don't want the "petty" disputes for nothing.. LMAO! Cause I can def be a "petty Betty" If needed.. SMH