Cap doesn't want to have sex

I've been dating this Cap man for a couple of months. He suddlenly told me he doesn't want to have any sexual contact avoiding kisses, sex, etc. -Just hugs-. He told me he wants a long term relationship and doesn't want sex involving at this stage. I always spend the night at his apartment, but we just cuddle and nothing else. Shall I keep my distance and let him approach me? Or shall I break those boundaries? I feel like he's trying to prove me.

Posted by Nataliaaa
I've been dating this Cap man for a couple of months. He suddlenly told me he doesn't want to have any sexual contact avoiding kisses, sex, etc. -Just hugs-. He told me he wants a long term relationship and doesn't want sex involving at this stage. I always spend the night at his apartment, but we just cuddle and nothing else. Shall I keep my distance and let him approach me? Or shall I break those boundaries? I feel like he's trying to prove me.

I think that you need to respect his boundaries but also respect your own. Really consider being in a relationship where there will be no sexual conduct. I honestly couldn't survive in a relationship without having sex.

1. He's become a born again Christian.

2. He has an STD.

3. He's impotent.

4. He's enjoying sex wth someone else.

5. He's closeted.

6. He's a gentleman.

Probe and find out what those reasons are....

Posted by Nataliaaa
I've been dating this Cap man for a couple of months. He suddlenly told me he doesn't want to have any sexual contact avoiding kisses, sex, etc. -Just hugs-. He told me he wants a long term relationship and doesn't want sex involving at this stage. I always spend the night at his apartment, but we just cuddle and nothing else. Shall I keep my distance and let him approach me? Or shall I break those boundaries? I feel like he's trying to prove me.

I was seeing a Cappy guy for four months; after the 121st day I said, "Treetrunk this!" 😡 no sex, no texts, no phone calls, he did say, "Hang in there for me". Cum on ! After the 121st day I said, "Treetrunk this!". He met my family for Thanksgiving (last year) and I met his. We have been FB friends; asked me out for my birthday this year (March); I turned him down; he understood. We were like brother and sister, so he closed that door for me! Opened for another man to go thru. Next!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by Nataliaaa
I've been dating this Cap man for a couple of months. He suddlenly told me he doesn't want to have any sexual contact avoiding kisses, sex, etc. -Just hugs-. He told me he wants a long term relationship and doesn't want sex involving at this stage. I always spend the night at his apartment, but we just cuddle and nothing else. Shall I keep my distance and let him approach me? Or shall I break those boundaries? I feel like he's trying to prove me.

Please run!

(23 y married to one. sex isn't priority now? so...run! )

That would not be ok with me, especially the kissing part ..if you're comfortable with that continue on

Posted by GC01
You should respect his boundaries. I wouldn't like the no kissing rule that's kind weird.

I always put my face next to his and he never looks back, but he doesn't kiss me 😢 it's driving fucking crazy.

Do you want a long-term relationship with him?

Sexual stuff can kind of cloud one's judgement especially if one isn't ready or if they don't how they feel about the relationship . It maybe this or what @TaurusBull1977 mentioned above.

He will move out this stage when the time is right. Caps take their time. I think its good he is being direct with you. Some of the them can decide to run and disappear lol.

Respect his boundaries and figure out what you want out of this first.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
1. He's become a born again Christian.

2. He has an STD.

3. He's impotent.

4. He's enjoying sex wth someone else.

5. He's closeted.

6. He's a gentleman.

7. He's a Duggar

Posted by Impulsv
Things won't get better

I made the mistake of not seeing these red flags at the start of the relationship it never got better through marriage in fact years later truth came out

Horror of a story which now makes perfect sense

I'd be interested in hearing that story. I like horror

I was thinking it was because he has an std outbreak and he's embarrassed. I can't think of any other reason.