cap girls

what do they want in a guy? any tips?

devotion. laughter. a deep, lasting bond. the right amount of independence.
If you're a flirt then you aren't going to get anywhere.wel, I'm a cap, and that is one of the things I cannot stand.
No Clingyness...my gosh, if you don't give her room to breath, she'll be a little annoyed.
A guy who is serious about being with them. Who sincerely cares. But who's also that one person that makes them smile.
What I find most attractive is= confidence.nt arrogance btw.
tidyness. a clean look always gets me weak.lol
understanding
a guy with a caring nature
sensitive but strong, whose able to make them feel safe
who has a passion for life
Who isn't intimidated by her success or ambition
A guy she can party with, but still be that man she has a connection with. (these are all my opinion)

Leila summed it up pretty good, I'd add security and stability to the list but don't try to box her in, don't dictate to her and do recognize her independence as a strength! If she's indecisive, make a decision (she'll appreciate it), if she doesn't agree with your choice, she'll speak up. And, know that if you have a difference of opinion, she will always be right!

To sum it up: Respect her!

oh, girl in black, you have Shaks all wrong, we love him and all his glory, he is also in love with a cap which gives him extra points!

haha i was too lazy to read some of ur posts, but thx for the insight. leila thx for the description. im still open for more!!

I want someone to jokes with me. lolxx ... My virgo guy is too serious every time.

Hello,

Personally, im not good at reading between the lines, if ia guy is interested in me he needs to be up front about how he feels or i would have no idea. I would think he just wanted to be friends or is like that with everyone hehe... i have capricorn sun, mercury, venus and rising i just found out 😛

Posted by buttercupSG

hi caprius you have a cute avatar. i thought some virgos can be funny.

Hi buttercupSG 🙂 I am new in this forum ... i found this forum is very interesting huh .. hmm yup i know few virgos are very humorous but i am not into them, i am more into this serious and matured virgo. Maybe I've venus in Sag. Keeps want to be fun always ... lolxx

Posted by Lancer
Virgo07 most cap girls are generally looking for mature , stable and intelligent men . Maturity and loyalty are very big things with cap women . Cap women by their very nature tend to be attracted to "older" men because they sense that maturity and sense of security . Just make sure you hav your stuff together , before you go on a date with a cap women . They also LOVE a great sense of humor! Caps tend to be a bit serious so those who can lighten their mood and laugh at life will impress the cap female .


Now i realize sometimes cap women come across as serious , uptight , and picky . However there is a secret to cap girls . They put up the hard cold exterior but deep inside they have a really golden heart . Patience is the key to unlock their icy doors ! once you open that door ..........you will see the most raunchy , kinky , horny and most passionate woman on the planet ..........and she will all be yours 🙂

But remember patience along with the maturity and sense of humor are the keys you need to have your way with this earth girl .

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Lancer !! you are damn right ...

"leilaxxlovez"

"devotion. laughter. a deep, lasting bond. the right amount of independence.
If you're a flirt then you aren't going to get anywhere.wel, I'm a cap, and that is one of the things I cannot stand.
No Clingyness...my gosh, if you don't give her room to breath, she'll be a little annoyed.
A guy who is serious about being with them. Who sincerely cares. But who's also that one person that makes them smile.
What I find most attractive is= confidence.nt arrogance btw.
tidyness. a clean look always gets me weak.lol
understanding
a guy with a caring nature
sensitive but strong, whose able to make them feel safe
who has a passion for life
Who isn't intimidated by her success or ambition
A guy she can party with, but still be that man she has a connection with. (these are all my opinion)"


Hit it on the nail for me....but I am a sagg/cap cusp.....and I find the party party comes with the sagg side of me! Clingyness....no bueno! And if you check out another girl infront of me you will easily get the boot! See yaaa

Posted by leilaxxlovez
devotion. laughter. a deep, lasting bond. the right amount of independence.
If you're a flirt then you aren't going to get anywhere.wel, I'm a cap, and that is one of the things I cannot stand.
No Clingyness...my gosh, if you don't give her room to breath, she'll be a little annoyed.
A guy who is serious about being with them. Who sincerely cares. But who's also that one person that makes them smile.
What I find most attractive is= confidence.nt arrogance btw.
tidyness. a clean look always gets me weak.lol
understanding
a guy with a caring nature
sensitive but strong, whose able to make them feel safe
who has a passion for life
Who isn't intimidated by her success or ambition
A guy she can party with, but still be that man she has a connection with. (these are all my opinion)

^hit the nail on the head^....

....i would also place emphasis on not flirting with other women... ...and i appreciate when men (or people in general) really take the time to get to know me, and ask me questions, because i tend to always be the one interested in others...

xoj

Posted by leilaxxlovez
devotion. laughter. a deep, lasting bond. the right amount of independence.
If you're a flirt then you aren't going to get anywhere.wel, I'm a cap, and that is one of the things I cannot stand.
No Clingyness...my gosh, if you don't give her room to breath, she'll be a little annoyed.
A guy who is serious about being with them. Who sincerely cares. But who's also that one person that makes them smile.
What I find most attractive is= confidence.nt arrogance btw.
tidyness. a clean look always gets me weak.lol
understanding
a guy with a caring nature
sensitive but strong, whose able to make them feel safe
who has a passion for life
Who isn't intimidated by her success or ambition
A guy she can party with, but still be that man she has a connection with. (these are all my opinion)

Im a cap and that is EXACTLY what I want and need to a T!!!

i think i fit most of the criteria^^ 🙂

Posted by Virgo07
what do they want in a guy? any tips?

Oh brother, you asked a good question there lol.

Basically, I can't speak for all cap women but ...

I need someone strong in my life because I'm such a butterfly lol, there's no telling where I'm going to go but I need someone to keep me stable. I mean, he doesn't have to be a stick-in-the-mud and boring and lazy but he can be a bit more structured than I am.

I LOVE the arts -- if I had more confidence, I so would've taken up drama -- hahahaha, I made a funny ;P But yeah, I love broadway and things like that. Men who are of the artsy type are very attractive to me -- whether its music (I LOVE MUSIC), painting, etc.

I like communication, I'm a sports girl, so I guy that can talk sports to me is okay. However, if he can talk sports to me when we are alone then he can talk sports to me around his friends too 😉


Along with being faithful to me like I am to him, thats pretty much it

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Im too happy right now to get into pointless arguments

lol, this is why I love you Shaka 🙂

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom

The man who is strong enough to deal with her everchanging moods..

The man who helps her overcome her lack of self-confidence..

Thats the man who has the heart of a cappy girl.

OOOOooppps, I forgot about the ever changing moods and such. YES! I need someone who can help me with that, so far, they have all failed -- I don't need guys to change me, just help me lol

And the confidence thing can be an issues ... even when we have ourselves convinced that we are the all-mighty-capgirls 😉

Good job Shaka, your girlfriend/My_Twin is teaching you many things and thats wonderful that you are paying attention 😄

Posted by crazydiamond63
Ditto Shaka/Cappy

Are you capricorn too? If so, you are new 🙂

well here's what i want in a guy...

i like a man who shows he cares. doesnt try to... just does because he's happy to.
the best way to show me you care is by taking a real interest in the things i love. not so much an interest in it for yourself so that I look at you and say to myself 'cool he likes it too', but for me. I like art... take me to an art opening. you dont have to become an expert in the things i like, just support my interest in it. that speaks VOLUMES to me about your feelings for me. I cannot stress this enough.
i dont understand guys who have a hard time with this and the chic they like... WHAT woman on this planet doesnt like a guy who shows he cares? Where is this fraud because she's ruined a few guys out there. My point is... dont be afraid of showing feeling by caring because it's an easy win. it show's strength and security in your own feelings.


aside from those pointers, it's the usual for females... listen to me, treat me... blah blah blah... the little things... they matter.