Cap man Pisces woman. Is he serious?

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Roze77
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7 Years

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My cap man and I have known each other for 9 years. We've been together off and on for 7. (The first year i was in a relationship which i told him when we met, the second year I just working on myself) it's like he knew it was going to end, so he stayed around and patiently waited for that relationship to end. We met when I was in the military and he was working overseas. I admit i wasn't smitten at first probably because i was with someone. My cap did the stalking thing (making sure he was in my site a good 4 to 7 times after our initial meet during the week I was in Kuwait where we met... let's be honest, he was stalking me. I find it cute now thinking back but it was weird at the time lol). In the beginning he talked and called me a lot to the point that I would sometimes push the ignore button (literally almost everyday... this is when I wasnt giving him much attention because I didn't meet him since the initial meet and I didn't know him).

After 2 years i finally let him come visit me in Hawaii which is where I was stationed at the time. That's when he got my attention. He didnt talk much, he came off as arrogant the first day and it turned me off. The second day, he was better. We were in the grocery store and he stole a kiss in an empty aisle and told me he was going to wait for me in my car. When I say that kiss sparked something in me that I had never felt before, I mean it was like he breathed life into me, like I was missing something and didn't know it was missing until he gave it to me through that kiss. (I'm a Pisces so I'm already happy and bubbly most of the time).After that we went to my place and watched cartoons. The love making came of course, and that was something out of a love novel. He left Hawaii and I didn't hear from him. I thought he hit it and quit it. I was hurt and began to move on, then two weeks later he contacted me. I was surprised...later telling me im his woman... demanding, but i liked it.

Now He is still overseas which is why we have been off and on. He works a lot, goes days without talking to me. He used to go two weeks at a time with no contact. That pushed me away along with him being selfish and choosing to stay gone because of work. The biggest problem was that he wouldn't call me in the phone or video chat me oon a normal basis which is what I needed. He would say he's busy. He was cold when I cried to him and told him it was hurting me. He used to fly me out to see him every few months and then it became 6 months without seeing each other. I was always up to see him but he wouldn't tell me when the next time we'd see each other. I always felt in the dark. I also felt like he was seeing someone else. He seemed really cold and distant at times, but when I told him I couldn't be with him anymore he would chase me (hard). I broke up with him, had a child with someone else and he was very hurt. He told me he wanted to still be with me after that. That really made me feel like he was in love with me.

K so time goes on we hadn't seen each other for about 2 years (he was still talking to me the whole time via text, email, etc). The problem was he was still overseas and he was still not talking to me much. I went to visit him in 2014 and found a whole bunch of condoms in his bag and other things that screamed (I'm a whore). I confroned him about it and he claimed it wasn't what it looked like. I cursed him out, I broke up with him, he blocked me and it was over. I was so hurt and felt betrayed. Fast forward 3 months later, I was almost over him, he contacts me saying "good morning" i asked who is this, he said "oh, I meant to text my brother" then a couple days later "I'm not trying to get back with you, I just want you to know it wasn't what it looked like. That was an old bag, with old codons... blah blah etc." He sweet talked me and made me feel all gooey until Time passed and we got back together.

Same problems were happening so he broke up. We were off and on because I felt abandoned and unloved so i would often tell him i don't want to be with him anymore and he would chase me and beg for me to be with him. Every time I broke up with him he would come back the next day or a week later begging me not to let us go, telling me he needed me etc. I am so in love with him I just stayed. I really wanted us to work. I want to trust him, I love how he makes me feel when I'm with him. It's like we're made for each other in so many ways. I broke up with him again and we didn't see each other for another 3 years but he kept in contact with me, constantly begging me to come see him... bam then he tells me he has to talk to me about something.... He said had a one night stand thday he didn't remember and now has a baby. Says he was drunk n high and he didn't believe the baby was his until after the dna test. Of course you remember if you had sex with someone, he just didn't want to tell me.

K,I was hurt but I'm over it. He says he's returning and wants us to move in together this year. I'm trying to not let this go because I love him and he loves me. I sometimes question his love for me but Idk if it's my insecurities. Right now I haven't heard from him in 4 days but he said he was going to Iraq. Do you guys think he's serious about being in love with me and wanting us to move in together? He spends thousands of dollars a year to see me for a few days at a time. He says the sweetest things sometimes and doesn't seem to be leaving after all we've been through.
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Roze77
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7 Years

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My cap man and I have known each other for 9 years. We've been together off and on for 7. (The first year i was in a relationship which i told him when we met, the second year I just working on myself) it's like he knew it was going to end, so he stayed around and patiently waited for that relationship to end. We met when I was in the military and he was working overseas. I admit i wasn't smitten at first probably because i was with someone. My cap did the stalking thing (making sure he was in my site a good 4 to 7 times after our initial meet during the week I was in Kuwait where we met... let's be honest, he was stalking me. I find it cute now thinking back but it was weird at the time lol). In the beginning he talked and called me a lot to the point that I would sometimes push the ignore button (literally almost everyday... this is when I wasnt giving him much attention because I didn't meet him since the initial meet and I didn't know him).

After 2 years i finally let him come visit me in Hawaii which is where I was stationed at the time. That's when he got my attention. He didnt talk much, he came off as arrogant the first day and it turned me off. The second day, he was better. We were in the grocery store and he stole a kiss in an empty aisle and told me he was going to wait for me in my car. When I say that kiss sparked something in me that I had never felt before, I mean it was like he breathed life into me, like I was missing something and didn't know it was missing until he gave it to me through that kiss. (I'm a Pisces so I'm already happy and bubbly most of the time).After that we went to my place and watched cartoons. The love making came of course, and that was something out of a love novel. He left Hawaii and I didn't hear from him. I thought he hit it and quit it. I was hurt and began to move on, then two weeks later he contacted me. I was surprised...later telling me im his woman... demanding, but i liked it.

Now He is still overseas which is why we have been off and on. He works a lot, goes days without talking to me. He used to go two weeks at a time with no contact. That pushed me away along with him being selfish and choosing to stay gone because of work. The biggest problem was that he wouldn't call me in the phone or video chat me oon a normal basis which is what I needed. He would say he's busy. He was cold when I cried to him and told him it was hurting me. He used to fly me out to see him every few months and then it became 6 months without seeing each other. I was always up to see him but he wouldn't tell me when the next time we'd see each other. I always felt in the dark. I also felt like he was seeing someone else. He seemed really cold and distant at times, but when I told him I couldn't be with him anymore he would chase me (hard). I broke up with him, had a child with someone else and he was very hurt. He told me he wanted to still be with me after that. That really made me feel like he was in love with me.

K so time goes on we hadn't seen each other for about 2 years (he was still talking to me the whole time via text, email, etc). The problem was he was still overseas and he was still not talking to me much. I went to visit him in 2014 and found a whole bunch of condoms in his bag and other things that screamed (I'm a whore). I confroned him about it and he claimed it wasn't what it looked like. I cursed him out, I broke up with him, he blocked me and it was over. I was so hurt and felt betrayed. Fast forward 3 months later, I was almost over him, he contacts me saying "good morning" i asked who is this, he said "oh, I meant to text my brother" then a couple days later "I'm not trying to get back with you, I just want you to know it wasn't what it looked like. That was an old bag, with old codons... blah blah etc." He sweet talked me and made me feel all gooey until Time passed and we got back together.

Same problems were happening so he broke up. We were off and on because I felt abandoned and unloved so i would often tell him i don't want to be with him anymore and he would chase me and beg for me to be with him. Every time I broke up with him he would come back the next day or a week later begging me not to let us go, telling me he needed me etc. I am so in love with him I just stayed. I really wanted us to work. I want to trust him, I love how he makes me feel when I'm with him. It's like we're made for each other in so many ways. I broke up with him again and we didn't see each other for another 3 years but he kept in contact with me, constantly begging me to come see him... bam then he tells me he has to talk to me about something.... He said had a one night stand thday he didn't remember and now has a baby. Says he was drunk n high and he didn't believe the baby was his until after the dna test. Of course you remember if you had sex with someone, he just didn't want to tell me.

K,I was hurt but I'm over it. He says he's returning and wants us to move in together this year. I'm trying to not let this go because I love him and he loves me. I sometimes question his love for me but Idk if it's my insecurities. Right now I haven't heard from him in 4 days but he said he was going to Iraq. Do you guys think he's serious about being in love with me and wanting us to move in together? He spends thousands of dollars a year to see me for a few days at a time. He says the sweetest things sometimes and doesn't seem to be leaving after all we've been through.
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Rose777
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7 Years

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My cap man and I have known each other for 9 years. We've been together off and on for 7. (The first year i was in a relationship which i told him when we met, the second year I just working on myself) it's like he knew it was going to end, so he stayed around and patiently waited for that relationship to end. We met when I was in the military and he was working overseas. I admit i wasn't smitten at first probably because i was with someone. My cap did the stalking thing (making sure he was in my site a good 4 to 7 times after our initial meet during the week I was in Kuwait where we met... let's be honest, he was stalking me. I find it cute now thinking back but it was weird at the time lol). In the beginning he talked and called me a lot to the point that I would sometimes push the ignore button (literally almost everyday... this is when I wasnt giving him much attention because I didn't meet him since the initial meet and I didn't know him).

After 2 years i finally let him come visit me in Hawaii which is where I was stationed at the time. That's when he got my attention. He didnt talk much, he came off as arrogant the first day and it turned me off. The second day, he was better. We were in the grocery store and he stole a kiss in an empty aisle and told me he was going to wait for me in my car. When I say that kiss sparked something in me that I had never felt before, I mean it was like he breathed life into me, like I was missing something and didn't know it was missing until he gave it to me through that kiss. (I'm a Pisces so I'm already happy and bubbly most of the time).After that we went to my place and watched cartoons. The love making came of course, and that was something out of a love novel. He left Hawaii and I didn't hear from him. I thought he hit it and quit it. I was hurt and began to move on, then two weeks later he contacted me. I was surprised...later telling me im his woman... demanding, but i liked it.

Now He is still overseas which is why we have been off and on. He works a lot, goes days without talking to me. He used to go two weeks at a time with no contact. That pushed me away along with him being selfish and choosing to stay gone because of work. The biggest problem was that he wouldn't call me in the phone or video chat me oon a normal basis which is what I needed. He would say he's busy. He was cold when I cried to him and told him it was hurting me. He used to fly me out to see him every few months and then it became 6 months without seeing each other. I was always up to see him but he wouldn't tell me when the next time we'd see each other. I always felt in the dark. I also felt like he was seeing someone else. He seemed really cold and distant at times, but when I told him I couldn't be with him anymore he would chase me (hard). I broke up with him, had a child with someone else and he was very hurt. He told me he wanted to still be with me after that. That really made me feel like he was in love with me.

K so time goes on we hadn't seen each other for about 2 years (he was still talking to me the whole time via text, email, etc). The problem was he was still overseas and he was still not talking to me much. I went to visit him in 2014 and found a whole bunch of condoms in his bag and other things that screamed (I'm a whore). I confroned him about it and he claimed it wasn't what it looked like. I cursed him out, I broke up with him, he blocked me and it was over. I was so hurt and felt betrayed. Fast forward 3 months later, I was almost over him, he contacts me saying "good morning" i asked who is this, he said "oh, I meant to text my brother" then a couple days later "I'm not trying to get back with you, I just want you to know it wasn't what it looked like. That was an old bag, with old codons... blah blah etc." He sweet talked me and made me feel all gooey until Time passed and we got back together.

Same problems were happening so he broke up. We were off and on because I felt abandoned and unloved so i would often tell him i don't want to be with him anymore and he would chase me and beg for me to be with him. Every time I broke up with him he would come back the next day or a week later begging me not to let us go, telling me he needed me etc. I am so in love with him I just stayed. I really wanted us to work. I want to trust him, I love how he makes me feel when I'm with him. It's like we're made for each other in so many ways. I broke up with him again and we didn't see each other for another 3 years but he kept in contact with me, constantly begging me to come see him... bam then he tells me he has to talk to me about something.... He said had a one night stand thday he didn't remember and now has a baby. Says he was drunk n high and he didn't believe the baby was his until after the dna test. Of course you remember if you had sex with someone, he just didn't want to tell me.

K,I was hurt but I'm over it. He says he's returning and wants us to move in together this year. I'm trying to not let this go because I love him and he loves me. I sometimes question his love for me but Idk if it's my insecurities. Right now I haven't heard from him in 4 days but he said he was going to Iraq. Do you guys think he's serious about being in love with me and wanting us to move in together? He spends thousands of dollars a year to see me for a few days at a time. He says the sweetest things sometimes and doesn't seem to be leaving after all we've been through.