Cap men,what do u think...

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I think a light touch on the arm would be much better.

I know you're looking for the male opinion on this, but as a female, in things were reversed, I would be freaked out by it. I mean - who might see? What would people think? Would people think I was with him? What if he has an ulterior motive? What if my current crush or boyfriend saw it? What would he think? What if he has feelings still and I don't, yikes!? How do I respond? What if I don't want him to touch me? Do I go along or shove him off? What if I get kooties? What if it is a sign of true friendship? and it would hurt his feelings if I over-react. Basically, very uncomfortable.

I think Tate's right, he might think you'd still be up for some R&R on the side.

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Posted by CluelessCancer
it's cute dumbass, you're lucky someone was that sweet to you to come approach you, you know how hard it is to be that friendly these days.

it's utterly difficult, people have to overthink, analyze, basic human touch!



See, that's the cancer perspective. A cap would stiffen up instantly and be uncomfortable. Especially if I don't know what it means.

A hug okay, but a stiff, distant one until I get my bearings.