Cappy moon man

I have a taurus sun cappy moon. he said he wanted to work on a relationship towards the end of last year. he has asked me to stay "some" weeks at my house I said ok not getting the full story. He never mentioned it again so i figured he asked just to see where my head was. Well I have found out his lease was about to be up and since I said ok he didn't renew. manipulated!! He moved his clothes in my bedroom not the spare bedroom closet. does he really plan on staying some weeks or does he think this will be a permanent situation. I've noticed even though he has a cappy moon he moves sideways like a cancer. Any opinions, insight or similar stories are greatly appreciated

Nip it in the bud now!!!!!!

I would be pissed off if I were you. Ask him point blank his intentions and give him a time frame. Is he helping with the bills? I would charge him half of the bills as well. Perhaps this was his way of asking you to live together?

I have a cappy moon and I wouldn't dream of taking advantage of some one like that. We are usually pretty honest, responsible and direct. Possibly its another placement of his.


Moon in Cappy:
per cafeastrology.com
Being useful and productive are basic needs for Lunar Capricorns. Because they generally keep their emotions under check, Moon in Capricorn people come across as competent people.
However turbulent their emotions may be under the surface, Lunar Capricorns keep cool-headed—and they come across as steady and reliable people.

This position of the Moon suggests a desire for clear boundaries and realistic goals. Not much for taking risks in life, Lunar Capricorns look for safety and security in most everything they do. Most of them respect authority and tradition, and many are planning well ahead of the rest of us. You likely won't have to remind them to protect their interests, plan for old age, or keep fall-back money in their bank accounts. These things come naturally to them.

Calm, cool, and collected—these words sum up Moon in Capricorn natives well. Messy emotions and "leaky" souls are a bit frightening for most with this position of the Moon. Truth is, they can have plenty of mood swings and some dark emotions now and again. Lunar Capricorns are often quite hard on themselves, and would benefit from letting their guard down once in a while. They quickly garner reputations of being mountains of strength, and they easily hide their sensitivity behind a sarcastic manner.

You may have read that Moon in Capricorn natives are a bit cold and calculating. The fact is, they are unlikely to be any less emotional than the other 11 sign positions of the Moon—they simply aren't comfortable "letting go" when it comes to emotions. They keep their emotions under control. Wherever Capricorn is found in the chart, there is a desire for structure and control. Capricorn is the sign of organization and efficient management; so, when the Moon is found in the sign, the world of emotions are well-managed and handled in an efficient and practical manner.

At the heart of Lunar Capricorns is a powerful need to feel worthwhile in the real world. There's a basic need for respecta

respectability and a big attachment to the world of the senses. Lunar Capricorns put a lot of value in all things tangible and real. And, perhaps more than anything, they need to be respected by others in order to feel secure.

@ true cap pist is not the half of it!! I have never lived with anyone so I think I'm shell shocked. Spending nights is way different from moving in. He works a few jobs and is independent that's something that attracted me to him in the first place. I don't think it's his taurus sun bc I too am a taurus an wouldn't dream of pulling this. But I also know we fear rejection. He offered to pay half the rent and the light bill when he first asked me.

@r24 I agreed to a few weeks because I wouldn't wan someone to not welcome me in if I needed it which I thought he did but obviously he didn't. He does work a few jobs and is very independent. We both have venus in Gemini i don't know if that could have anything to do with it.

Posted by mspink
I have a taurus sun cappy moon. he said he wanted to work on a relationship towards the end of last year. he has asked me to stay "some" weeks at my house I said ok not getting the full story. He never mentioned it again so i figured he asked just to see where my head was. Well I have found out his lease was about to be up and since I said ok he didn't renew. manipulated!! He moved his clothes in my bedroom not the spare bedroom closet. does he really plan on staying some weeks or does he think this will be a permanent situation. I've noticed even though he has a cappy moon he moves sideways like a cancer. Any opinions, insight or similar stories are greatly appreciated

My first husband was an Aries sun/Cap moon and he was ready to move ME in to his place pretty quick after dating since my lease was up. He thought it was a good idea not only for us to get to know each other better, but also save money at same time.

Maybe that's his angle...

@caplove how was he wierd about the home?? It could be the taurus in him, even though I'm a taurus I've never dated another taurus. They say the men and women differ some. Also hard to get him out?? Why not just ask me if you want to take it to the next level so my Virgo moon can over analyze it for days lol. I will def have a talk with him to see what his motives are and why he went about things in such a around the bush way

My first husband was an Aries sun/Cap moon and he was ready to move ME in to his place pretty quick after dating since my lease was up. He thought it was a good idea not only for us to get to know each other better, but also save money at same time.

Maybe that's his angle...




He was a Aries, do you think that's why he moved fast? Although it sounds cappy to want to save money. Also do you remember how long you were together when he suggested this move?

We had been dating for 4 or 5 months. I was crazy about him, so I moved in.

Posted by CanceritaBonita
We had been dating for 4 or 5 months. I was crazy about him, so I moved in.

Wow it's been about 4 months for us. Obviously he had thought about this ahead of time without consulting me. I do like him but love, no. Makes me feel like he feels he needs to trick or can trick me into certain things relationship wise

I said "weird" but maybe I should have said sneaky. After we broke up, it took him forever to move out. He always had an excuse as to why he couldn't move. And..he was always trying to find a way to move back in even after we were broken up! I'm not kidding you. This was just him though, I didn't mean to scare you. Sorry about that.

If I were you I would definitely ask him how long he plans on staying because you should have a choice as to whether you want this to be permanent because it's a huge step.



Now that u say sneaky it does seem to fit this situation perfectly. How long were you two together?

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Posted by CanceritaBonita
We had been dating for 4 or 5 months. I was crazy about him, so I moved in.

Wow it's been about 4 months for us. Obviously he had thought about this ahead of time without consulting me. I do like him but love, no. Makes me feel like he feels he needs to trick or can trick me into certain things relationship wise

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Yep, I don't know if either of us were in love, but we were really in like 🙂

BUT I never felt like he was manipulating the situation, so if you are getting this vibe, then maybe it's not as innocent as my situation was, I just thought I'd tell you about my experience.

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Posted by mspink


Now that u say sneaky it does seem to fit this situation perfectly. How long were you two together?

After 6 months he was ready to move in together. When we finally did we had been dating for about 2 years and I was really wishy washy about it too. We lived together for 6 years after that.

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Wow no wonder he was so hesitant to move out!! He was invested

Girly, me thinks thats the Taurus in him. My friend has a Taurus brother who have two women he lives between to avoid rent lol.

My Taurus friend said if his dad ever kicked him out he'd sleep in his car before getting an apartment and paying bills.

I guess your friend got tired of paying all the bills solo. I find some Scorpio guys(maybe the younger ones) are like this two.

My mom recently started dating an Aries/Taurus cusp(April 23rd) and he's basically pulling this on her.

@ canceritabonita thanks for your input. Your story def gives me another pov of how to take this situation _??

Posted by lnana04
Girly, me thinks thats the Taurus in him. My friend has a Taurus brother who have two women he lives between to avoid rent lol.

My Taurus friend said if his dad ever kicked him out he'd sleep in his car before getting an apartment and paying bills.

I guess your friend got tired of paying all the bills solo. I find some Scorpio guys(maybe the younger ones) are like this two.

My mom recently started dating an Aries/Taurus cusp(April 23rd) and he's basically pulling this on her.

Oh wow so you think it's a financial thing? Never thought of it that way. I will def get to the bottom of it when I get off today. I still haven't gave him a key so he can't be there when I am not all my friends say this is wrong