@tiki33
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Posted by CluelessCancer
FB is just an entertainment worm hole helping us become even more addicted to being non productive a $ $ holes with mad narcissistic issues.
I don't even change my relationship status on FB. I'm Single until married. PERIOD
@ Pillowhome: A relationship consists of two ppl , any other passengers onboard will cause it to sink.
You really don't need FB to validate what you two have is real, nor do you need to prove anything to anyone. Just because he doesn't "like" or "comment" anything you post,does not mean he likes you any less. FB is a social network to do just that... if you have him all to yourself, That is more than enough.. FB won't make thing anymore real than what they are.
and lastly..the less you post, the less you clean up in the end should things not work out.
Best wishes.
My bf and I are friends on facebook (we were already fb friends before we started dating). We established the relationship status after ten months of dating. We like each other's statuses but only if we truely like them and we joke and comment on statuses along with everyone else, but its rare. It's like just another friend on facebook. I don't write on his wall and he doesn't write on mine. It's weird since we converse every day.
Those couples that write sickenly sweet endearments on each others walls are nauseating. Makes me want to delete them.
I don't put things on facebook that are private and don't post things that are personal and intimate. That's no one's business. I'm sure he is the same. Facebook is not anonymous and your relationship and what goes on in it should stay between you and him and not on facebook. Just the way I feel about it.
Don't take it personally. I see fb as a way of keeping up with family and friends that I hardly ever see.
Think of it this way, why would I write on his wall "have a safe trip. I love you." When I can just send that in a text or call him. It would be weird to write that on FB.
Another point of view is this:
It could be perceived that couples who openly declare their love on FB with all the nauseating, sweet comments addressed to each other must be very insecure in their relationship and feel the need to make a public claim on another person. Or they just want the world to know someone loves them.
I think the relationship status is different. It's just in the bio and someone would have to literally go to your wall to see it. I wanted to do the relationship status so other men would stop trolling and leave me alone on there. I will admit, it did make me feel more secure in how he feels about me. But, we don't have the need to address each other on FB.
Posted by TAURUSbelle
I don't even change my relationship status on FB. I'm Single until married. PERIOD
++1 Loving your vibe Taurusbelle.
My Cap has a FB and she hates it, hardly uses it. Is about to delete it and only got it because she moved from a couple different states in the last yr and has met alot of people...
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FB creates so many issues for women. Seems he's not ready to profess his feelings nor his relationship status publicly, if a man isn't professing then he's not that interested (yet) it's not a big deal but maybe it is to you, definitely should slow down and stop initiating contact on FB if he's not following through, it's not that kind of relationship for him (yet).