Capricorn little boys

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snowball543
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16 Years

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My daughter is a cap, I am as well and so is her dad. Caps all over!!! : )

I was my mom??s (aquarius) favorite we were always close and still are, my dad (libra) I am not as close to, but we have grown closer as both he and I have aged. My mom gave me unconditional love and the freedom to be me while still providing the structure and routine I needed.

My most memorable events were always things we did together, places we went. Camping, picnics, catching fire flies at night in a field. Yes they bought me and my siblings things, but it's the simple things that I remember the most. Emotionally, because of the inherent insecurity a lot of caps (not all) seem to have in the early years; I needed unconditional love, the freedom to be silly, acceptance, lots of nurturing, alone time when possible just you and him (I actually have mommy daughter day with my daughter now and she loves it and I know she will remember them for years to come) and a steady, predictable, and stable environment.

I think the reason I never really felt close to my dad is because he was always so critical and I never felt totally able to open up to him. I always felt as if nothing was ever good enough. It bothered me in my younger years and now that I am so successful he all I'm so proud of you, but I feel like whatever and no longer care lol. I??ve only ever met one poorly behaved cap child and her mother has a very unstructured, just kinda goes with the flow life style so that may have something to do with it.
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GeorgiaPeach
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Thanks Snowball. I do spend alone time with him since I also have a daughter. So I try to spend alone time with each. I have noticed with him that he can be insecure and somewhat of a people pleaser. It is ok to certain point, but I hope he will grow up and have a mind of his own and not care what other people think especially people in the family. I try to be encouraging as much as I can.
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leilaxxlovez
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I'm capricorn with pisces moon. One thing you have to understand is that he knows more than you can imagine. I mean about growing up, about life, it's just something he knows. Do not try and shield him from things that you feel are not for a child yet. I was growing up, and it really annoyed me that the adults around me treated me like I didn't knw anything. whether it's divorce, someone's death, explain to him why it's so and so.
Another thing is just pure love. We are 3 girls and I'm the second child. I always felt amazingly alone. Tell him you love him nomatter what. I'm sure you already do though. Be gentle with him emotionally. he is super sensitive. Anything that you say can have this long-term effect on u. I take forever to trust someone, and relax, im constantly on guard with my emotions, so that when they strike,im protected.
Be close to him and have deep meanigful talks. About life or spongebob squarepants.lol!! My parents and I were never really close. We never talked about things that mattered.
If he has a problem, if something is bothering him, you can usually tell. Be there for him. Let him know he's not alone. That you've got him under your wing. even if it's the smallest things.
When there was tension in the house that morning, I would carry that all the way to school and back. Keep your home serene, a childs haven. Make time to talk about his concerns, help him learn about personal emotional boundaries.what he feels,and needs, and what others are feeling.
pisces moon=creativity. my parents never read me bedtime stories!!!😢 involve him in creative activities. let him choose which instrument he wants to learn how to play. I wish my parents could've taught me about shakespeare then!!😢 i knw it sounds weird, but I really would've loved it.
Cap=traditional.cultural.
Teach him how to say no.that saying no,when he doesn't want to, is not wrong, and that it doesn't hurt the other person.

I used to hold little plays by myself in my bedroom. all dressd up in moms fav dress and big shoes.l0l!!!I mean for him it will be different.lol but yeah.
I used to love it when my dad would come home,pick me up n kiss my cheeks. that,to me,ws like he came home for me!!!typa thing.lol.

And the most important thing, remeber that at the end of a busy day or so, he needs some time alone. to settle back into himself again. to get himself accustomed to who he is alone. and thats the time his imagination truly hits an optimum point.
hope I helped :
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GeorgiaPeach
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Thanks Leila for your post. It meant a lot to me. It was a confirmation for me for what I have been doing. I do talk to both of my children about life. I have talked to them about me and their dad divorcing. I bought a book called Dinosaurs Divorce. But when I talk to my children about things, my son is the one I seem to get less feedback from. Now I wonder if it is because he just understands more.

I am gentle with him, because of his sensitivity. He soaks up other people's feelings, while my daughter is oblivious to the rest of the world and let's stuff roll off her back. And I do encourage him alot because he gets discouraged easily. Thanks again for your post.
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P-Angel
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Posted by venusianbull
Your boy sounds like a complete sweetheart GeorgiaPeach.





How did you get that ^^^^^^ out of the below?



Posted by GeorgiaPeach
My son is a Capricorn with Pisces moon. He is a very good child. I am a Virgo with Scorp moon.
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You're such a suck up, seriously ... brown-nosing is so superficial.

It's nice to be nice .. however, when someone starts off handing out compliments, it's a sure sign that they are shallow and have to resort to ass-kissing from jump .. like eden

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cappysweetie
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Well, lets see, I remember when my Scorpio father was trying to teach me fighting skills when I was like 7 or 8 😄 He used a pillow and kept telling me to hit it harder. He even wanted me to throw in a few kicks ahahaha, that was alot of fun. I didn't want to accidentally hit him so he would call me a wimp because I tried not to hit the pillow too hard 🙂


I remember one day my mom and I just randomly took off and went shopping for like a day. It was so much fun because she loves clothes and although I was like 8, I love them too. We didn't buy too much, we did a lot of observant-shopping. However, we each had at least 3 new outfits at the end of the day.

Yep ^_^.
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SassyClassy
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Posted by leilaxxlovez
I'm capricorn with pisces moon. One thing you have to understand is that he knows more than you can imagine. I mean about growing up, about life, it's just something he knows. Do not try and shield him from things that you feel are not for a child yet. I was growing up, and it really annoyed me that the adults around me treated me like I didn't knw anything. whether it's divorce, someone's death, explain to him why it's so and so.
Another thing is just pure love. We are 3 girls and I'm the second child. I always felt amazingly alone. Tell him you love him nomatter what. I'm sure you already do though. Be gentle with him emotionally. he is super sensitive. Anything that you say can have this long-term effect on u. I take forever to trust someone, and relax, im constantly on guard with my emotions, so that when they strike,im protected.
Be close to him and have deep meanigful talks. About life or spongebob squarepants.lol!! My parents and I were never really close. We never talked about things that mattered.
If he has a problem, if something is bothering him, you can usually tell. Be there for him. Let him know he's not alone. That you've got him under your wing. even if it's the smallest things.
When there was tension in the house that morning, I would carry that all the way to school and back. Keep your home serene, a childs haven. Make time to talk about his concerns, help him learn about personal emotional boundaries.what he feels,and needs, and what others are feeling.
pisces moon=creativity. my parents never read me bedtime stories!!!😢 involve him in creative activities. let him choose which instrument he wants to learn how to play. I wish my parents could've taught me about shakespeare then!!😢 i knw it sounds weird, but I really would've loved it.
Cap=traditional.cultural.
Teach him how to say no.that saying no,when he doesn't want to, is not wrong, and that it doesn't hurt the other person.

I used to hold little plays by myself in my bedroom. all dressd up in moms fav dress and big shoes.l0l!!!I mean for him it will be different.lol but yeah.
I used to love it when my dad would come home,pick me up n kiss my cheeks. that,to me,ws like he came home for me!!!typa thing.lol.

And the most important thing, remeber that at the end of a busy day or so, he needs some time alone. to settle back into himself again. to get himself accustomed to who h