capricorn male likes females who are hard to get?

I'm a cancer female and just met this cap. We are just friends and I went out with him yesterday he was very touchy and it bothered me cuz I'm still hooked on my ex and he's hooked on his ex also .he tried to kiss me twice and I didn't let him and now he thinks I'm playing hard to get and he said he'll seduce me and I said nope , never . So now he's like determined to seduce me and I'm like ughhh great. This cancer needs her space . And I'm not going lie , it seems like he would be very good in bed , but that's not what I want

You gotta stop hanging out with him, especially if he's trying to seduce you while being hung up on his ex smh. He's just redirecting all that energy on seeking a challenge.

Posted by M
With Cap men it isn't wholly about being hard to get.

Take him aside and lay it down serious style . Or invest in an iron skillet.
As a CancerGem your biggest challenge will to make sure goofy doesn't stray into flirty fun, or this issue isn't going to go away.

this is best. lol

Don't blame ya. Sounds like you've become the challenge. Caps like a good challenge and they like to earn what they get.

Stick to your guns and don't let him talk you into anything you don't want to do.

Good for you getting out there and meeting people, though! 🙂

Yeah I felt very uncomfortable , I told him I don't want that. MY EX is an Aqua. And this Cap guy I'm talking to said he still loves his EX too, I think he said that his Ex is a Leo

Lol! CC thanks and yeah I'm Hispanic 🙂 I've never dated a cap haha but my best friend is one

Posted by QueenVictoria22
I'm a cancer female and just met this cap. We are just friends and I went out with him yesterday he was very touchy and it bothered me cuz I'm still hooked on my ex and he's hooked on his ex also .he tried to kiss me twice and I didn't let him and now he thinks I'm playing hard to get and he said he'll seduce me and I said nope , never . So now he's like determined to seduce me and I'm like ughhh great. This cancer needs her space . And I'm not going lie , it seems like he would be very good in bed , but that's not what I want

Just be yourself and don't change the way you act to get a man.. test, not one single relationship is ever the same and there's isn't one correct way to get a Cap.

My cap seems like he'll be good in bed too because he is very attentive and when we sit close the caresses say alot... I'm not in it just for sex either (we've been dating a month and were taking it slowness, haven't even kissed yet haha) but trust me the build up is totally worth it... I just hope he lives up to it hahaha

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Posted by QueenVictoria22
I'm a cancer female and just met this cap. We are just friends and I went out with him yesterday he was very touchy and it bothered me cuz I'm still hooked on my ex and he's hooked on his ex also .he tried to kiss me twice and I didn't let him and now he thinks I'm playing hard to get and he said he'll seduce me and I said nope , never . So now he's like determined to seduce me and I'm like ughhh great. This cancer needs her space . And I'm not going lie , it seems like he would be very good in bed , but that's not what I want

You're not telling the whole story.

Very good in bed? If it's not what you want, why are you even entertaining such thoughts?

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I'm just saying cuz that's what he told me haha but I don't care. I mentioned it to show that obviously he's trying to seduce me when I disagreed to it -_-

Yes, they do like to work hard for one they want. Anything that comes too easy is a turnoff, eventually.

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Yes, they do like to work hard for one they want. Anything that comes too easy is a turnoff, eventually.

And anything that comes too easily is definitely not respected.

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I'm a cancer female and just met this cap. We are just friends and I went out with him yesterday he was very touchy and it bothered me cuz I'm still hooked on my ex and he's hooked on his ex also .he tried to kiss me twice and I didn't let him and now he thinks I'm playing hard to get and he said he'll seduce me and I said nope , never . So now he's like determined to seduce me and I'm like ughhh great. This cancer needs her space . And I'm not going lie , it seems like he would be very good in bed , but that's not what I want

You're not telling the whole story.

Very good in bed? If it's not what you want, why are you even entertaining such thoughts?

I'm just saying cuz that's what he told me haha but I don't care. I mentioned it to show that obviously he's trying to seduce me when I disagreed to it -_-

Yet you are here making a thread. What's up?

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because I'm curious to know how caps are, never encountered a male one. He's very flirtatious and touchy , I think it's best to not be friends with him. He specifically said he wants to be FWB. Do caps usually do that? The FWB things? Just a thread out of curiosity

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I'm a cancer female and just met this cap. We are just friends and I went out with him yesterday he was very touchy and it bothered me cuz I'm still hooked on my ex and he's hooked on his ex also .he tried to kiss me twice and I didn't let him and now he thinks I'm playing hard to get and he said he'll seduce me and I said nope , never . So now he's like determined to seduce me and I'm like ughhh great. This cancer needs her space . And I'm not going lie , it seems like he would be very good in bed , but that's not what I want

You're not telling the whole story.

Very good in bed? If it's not what you want, why are you even entertaining such thoughts?

I'm just saying cuz that's what he told me haha but I don't care. I mentioned it to show that obviously he's trying to seduce me when I disagreed to it -_-

Why does it matter to you whether or not the Cap will like you?

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it seems like he likes me more than a friend. It matters to me because if he likes me more than a friend then I feel like he's invading my personal space and I do not want that.

Is OP a Virgo?

Nvm you're a cancer... Ok bye

😄

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
Is OP a Virgo?

Why is this even important? Do Virgos get the first dibs on the Cardboards?

two masochists. Poor crabby.

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It's important -- we figure things out based on signs and such 😉

Well your posts were not very inquisitive and were rather just matter of fact. So, I'm not sure what questions you are really asking when all you say is "he wants to have sex with me and I don't".




Hmm... how can I put this nicely.... how can I get rid of him? lol. you know,make him uninterested? I cut off contact and he still calls me

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Is OP a Virgo?

what made you think Virgo? lol
cancer/geminicancer cusp with virgo rising. HI. I come in peace 🙂

Posted by QueenVictoria22

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Is OP a Virgo?

what made you think Virgo? lol
cancer/geminicancer cusp with virgo rising. HI. I come in peace 🙂

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The over analyzing of someone you aren't into made me think Virgo.

Peace to you....

Posted by QueenVictoria22

Well your posts were not very inquisitive and were rather just matter of fact. So, I'm not sure what questions you are really asking when all you say is "he wants to have sex with me and I don't".




Hmm... how can I put this nicely.... how can I get rid of him? lol. you know,make him uninterested? I cut off contact and he still calls me





Completely ignore him...

No, wait, he will think you're challenging him.

Be straight up. Not interested. Call me next year, maybe.

Queen Victoria was a cancer?

Posted by QueenVictoria22
I'm a cancer female and just met this cap. We are just friends and I went out with him yesterday he was very touchy and it bothered me cuz I'm still hooked on my ex and he's hooked on his ex also .he tried to kiss me twice and I didn't let him and now he thinks I'm playing hard to get and he said he'll seduce me and I said nope , never . So now he's like determined to seduce me and I'm like ughhh great. This cancer needs her space . And I'm not going lie , it seems like he would be very good in bed , but that's not what I want

Honestly,i think he is atracted to you phisicaly,because Cap men like exotic looking woman(latina type)-dark hair,sexy women,you have extra bonus,your beautiful eyes.
I have dark hair and green eyes,but iam not as pretty as you and i did attract a lot of Caps(iam a virgo btw).
A cap man likes a innocent looking woman,i think they get a kink to see what is under that innocence.
I knew only a couple Cap man and Cancer woman(didnt work at all,she gave in very shortly and he sadly transformed her in a doormat, he was verbally and phisically abusive to her).They are not together anymore.And i couldnt stand that guy,since then.

Posted by tripleCap
So basically you went out as friends and you felt sexually attracted to him however, he's informed you that he just wants to be FWB and you're offended that he doesn't take you seriously. Now you want to get rid of him, so kudos for you.


You said " I cut off contact and he still calle me."
Have you told him you are not interested and why?

Yeah basically ha. Yes I told him that I'll never do FWB because I'm still in love with my ex.then he told me that he's still in love with his ex and that he's trying to get back with her and that he's only open for FWB and I said I don't want that , we can just be friends , that's it.and he said okay fine,I'm sorry but i don't want to jump in a relationship and i said I don't want a relationship and then i gave him cold silence and gave him a blank look. He said You're thinking about your ex right now aren't you?I can see it in your eyes, you miss him. And I said yeah I do. He said I can tell , you seem like a very faithful person. And then awkward silence.he backed away from me we talked about our exs and then he close to me again and started to get touchy again and I said stop and I moved away from him. It's like he's not respecting me, I made it clear that I don't want a relationship and just want to be friends but if he's gonna keep on acting like that with me then it's best not to talk to him anymore.

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Posted by QueenVictoria22

Well your posts were not very inquisitive and were rather just matter of fact. So, I'm not sure what questions you are really asking when all you say is "he wants to have sex with me and I don't".

Hmm... how can I put this nicely.... how can I get rid of him? lol. you know,make him uninterested? I cut off contact and he still calls me





Completely ignore him...

No, wait, he will think you're challenging him.

Be straight up. Not interested. Call me next year, maybe.



haha yeah the ignoring thing is not working he's blowing up my phone. I have to tell him straight up...Again. /_-

Maybe dont answer when you see his number?he will get the 'not interested' message after few attempts to contact you.

Block his number?

Posted by truecap
Block his number?

BANG