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I'm dating a Cancer girl :)
How to Impress a Cancer Girl on Your First Official Date
To impress a Cancer girl, show genuine care and thoughtfulness. Cook a comforting meal and create a cozy atmosphere. Be attentive and sincere, as Cancer women value emotional connection and kindness during early stages of dating.
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So far theres quite a lot of stuff I love about her, how sweet she is, how much we like each others company, how she likes receiving and giving physical affection, we can make each other laugh all the time and talk for hours, I love how she loves partyng as much as I do lol we will see how this goes.
For the astro freaks among us..she mas moon in Cap and Venus and Mars in Leo (just like moi) maybe thats why shes not your typical super shy Cancerian.
What happened to the Sag—
And I had dibs!! 😛
It's that Cap moon that is drawing you in.
lol shes in good hands, no worries 🙂
Posted by VirgoHero
It's that Cap moon that is drawing you in.Are you retarded what part of SWEET, FUN, and whatever else he wrote (I'd have to log out to read it, cause he's blocked) reminds you of a Capricorn?
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*laugh*
No no no. Shaks often spoke about his Capricorn girlfriend who he adored for quite some time.
Posted by Layna
Awwwwww 🙂
Right? 😄 😄 😄
So the date went great! 🙂 She loved my food and even though the whole process was a bit chaotic, we just laughed about it and talked a lot, she told me a lot about her family and it was crazy how many similarities we both had in that respect! after a nice makeout session we watched a movie, cuddling and later laying down together on the couch, one thing led to another...she told me she isnt the type to have full sex on the first date, so we did A LOT but not ALL lol, lots of teasing by her, she was torturing me 😛 we played a lot in bed and made each other laugh all the time, lots of kissing, massages, all of a sudden she comes to my ear and tells me "I like you" which was nice to hear, even though I already knew it 😛 Im liking this actually, I respect her a lot for not giving up all the goods on the first date, this looks like it has potential, we will see 🙂
To be continued..
Things are going greattttttt and we are getting closer and closer as time passes, she definitely is a keeper 🙂 In very cancerian fashion, she told me this morning she wanted to spend more time with me today so she wants to cook for me tonight awwww shes getting clingy already 😛 in a good way though
Nicey. Keep it up dude. 🙂
CC, you're so funny. How many guys have you blocked? How about girls? LOL.
Guys, thanks for the positive vibes and encouragement 🙂
RomancingA, I'm actually used to have girls go all the way with me on the first date, or more like the first time we meet, it is the first time in quite a while that I had a proper first date with a girl, usually my serious-ish love affaires start after a one-night stand lol so I do respect and actually encourage girls not to withhold sex the first time if we are *feeling* each other. Thats why this Cancerian not wanting to go all the way on the first date was sort of like a welcome suprise and it communicated only good things about her as far as Im concerned. We had "full" sex last night for the first time btw 🙂 it was hmmmmmm sensual and very intimate
Other than that, I was kind of shocked to hear that the last time she had sex was about 2 years ago, considering she's a very attractive Swedish girl (with an amazing ass 😛) who could get pretty much any guy she would want. There is still some trauma left in her psyche from some weird sexual incident that happened to her with the last guy she was with, Im being understanding and patient cause I feel all she needs is time and reassurance to sexually fully relax and open up completely.
Obviously..Im open to any feedback from you guys 🙂
I wish you good luck with the Cancer Chick.
From what I've seen in R/L: They require more care & feeding than a Scorpio, but the VM's don't seem to mind. Also... Bigger Boobs than the average Pisces or Scorpio, which seems to fascinate us fertility-driven Earth Men. They tend to be great nest-builders, which may be more important to you now than it was years ago.
In one of my novels, the heroine is a Cancer Gal, and she winds up marrying a Taurus Guy --> lots of babies from that union!
I think some Bulls could walk by a woman, and she'd find herself preggers.
Thanks..
The emotional connection is definitely there already! At this point after a good moment of self-introspection (after having spent quite some time with her these past 2 days) Im in the process of adjusting my social behaviour towards females now that Im starting to feel safe enough with the cancerian, Im naturally a very friendly person and very flirty (although mostly just in a harmless manner) so I know I have tone down the flirtiness a bit with the females. We both have a social life with some mutual friends and lots of friends-of-friends and I know shes also kind of flirty and very friendly by nature (we both share Venus and Mars in Leo) but she gives me such a secure feeling unlike some other girls I have dated before, that Im not worried at all about how much she likes partying and socializing (we both are kind of the same in that department anyway)
I know the emotional connection is growing and growing, I would also like to make sure things stay a bit fresh too and we dont fall into some boring routine..in a married couple kind of way 😛 that doesnt mean I wouldnt want for things to become serious with her, its just important for me to keep the sense of fun in things!
Update, breaking news!!
She started calling me baby 😛 😛 lol
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Update, breaking news!!She started calling me baby 😛 😛 lol
Awwwww you are too cute!!!! Congrats and best of luck on this new relationship 🙂
thank you thank you sooo much!! 🙂
hey lets not get ahead of ourselves here, shall we? 🙂 Im chill regardless
For some reason I thought Boom was a Goat. 😛
I wish you guys the best of luck.
This is one of my curious matches. 🙂
Especially if he Virgo has a Scorpio moon.
Hahah no scorpio moon for me please, Im a proud Virgo mooner 😛 it goes pretty well with her Cap moon. Normally I find most Cap moon girls too...cold for my liking, though this cancerian has enough fire which makes her really fun (Venus and Mars in Leo) I always end up with girls loaded with fire planets anyway as more than half of my chart is fire too.
go to "settings" then click on "blocked users"
Well, I'm all fire/air with one planet in water.
Sometimes I feel like a 3 ring circus.
Posted by LunarMaiden
For some reason I thought Boom was a Goat. 😛
I wish you guys the best of luck.
This is one of my curious matches. 🙂
Especially if he Virgo has a Scorpio moon.urfff, trod lightly, but Scorpio moon sounds extremely enticing.
does boomshakalaka have a scorpio moon, hmmmmmm....
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I think you should try another Virgo.
This time one with an Aries moon.
SHAKS! So I read this entire thread and I can't stop smiling for you. This is so adorable 🙂 Wishing you all the best
Any updates you would like to share Boomy?
yeahh we're officially a couple now 🙂 your hearts would melt if you would see us together lol we are THAT adorable 😛
Shes sooooo sweet, dependable and caring, I feel so safe with her!
A Virgo Boss said he felt protected and safe with me.
I thought that was a bit strange at the time.
I'm much more understanding of his feelings toward me now.
Haha Im not surprised, we love loyalty, dependability and the safe and homey feeling only a Cancer girl can provide (Ive never felt as safe with anyone ever, there is literrally no ounce of jealousy in me when shes being friendly to other guys)
Boom do you usually get jealous when your girlfriends talk to other guys?
Not really, a few times a bit uncomfortable if the talking becomes TOO friendly 😛 but in general I do like to "keep a casual eye on my girl" 😛 not in a negative way though.
Boom are you protective with your moon lady?
Posted by CluelessCancer
Warning: Take it SLOW. Seriously. Virgos have a thing with delving in to something,being fascinated, understanding it, than tossing it aside.go slow.
Very True!!!
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Update, breaking news!!She started calling me baby 😛 😛 lol
lol - you are 30 right....
Any new update, Shaka? 🙂
You sound like my dream couple, keep informing, damn! 🙂
Posted by Stares
Any new update, Shaka? 🙂
You sound like my dream couple, keep informing, damn! 🙂
They're planning their wedding by now.
Too early for Virgo guy, no? 😄 Decision like that 😄
The wedding got cancelled 😉
Stares, Im dating a Taurus now 🙂
Damn, what? 🙂)) Cmoooonnn....
Akward
haha not at all, its funny to see this back on top
Posted by Stares
Damn, what? 🙂)) Cmoooonnn....
Love has its mysterious ways
Aw man, I was now gonna ask how you bagged her, then I see the topic starter is Shakalaka.
The extrovert Virgo 😛
Heyy bro! Its been ages! You are after a Crabgal? I can give you some pointers 😛
I would love some pointers, thanks!
Patience seems to be the biggest key from my past experience.
whats her moon sign?
If you've bagged a Taurus before you can bag a Crab as well 😛 They are actually kind of similar, Taurus are like a less emo version of Cancers.
Posted by Cajunspirit
I would love some pointers, thanks!Patience seems to be the biggest key from my past experience.
I think you should ask Cancer women and Men in SUCCESSFUL ongoing, monogamous relationships with Cancer women.
Good luck to you both. 😄
He's not asking how to have a relationship with a Cancerian, he's asking how to BAG a cancerian..jeez, this is exactly why I got so much shit on the other thread, lots of dxp women think once you want to pursue someone it MUST lead to a long-term relationship..*shakes head*
I would'nt say I bagged a Taurus... she turned out to be quite spoiled and self obssessed. Got upset when we were having a family game and I made a joke of not choosing her for my team, she flipped out lmao
Don't have any I am actively pursuing, in fact, giving up pursuing for a while, even though it seems instinctual.
Just reflecting on my experiences with them, who manage to turn a conversation about you or someone else, to a conversation about themselves... which is the only obvious connection I can make to your implication of them being Taurus like.
My mars is in Aries, patience just ain't in me with these kinds of things.
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Still early days so this is going to be pretty much our first real "official date", we hooked up for the first time a few weeks ago, the date is tonight..Im gonna cook for her 😉 Wish me luck!