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Capricorn man refusal
Sounds like he made up his mind if he starts ignoring u......
For me once I decided, I wont go back......my ex cap sun and venus is like that as well.
For me once I decided, I wont go back......my ex cap sun and venus is like that as well.
Caps never like to be the bad guys, we will come up with all excuses to ease a breakup. I have done that a few times, and sometimes the excuse is easier for me to say than that i have a change of heart.....
I read somewhere that Caps are the 2nd sign after pisces who care about how their exs feel about the breakup and want their exs to rem them in good light. Thus we will normally still stay in touch, try to be there when u msg. Cause if we let u down we do feel bad for a while......
I read somewhere that Caps are the 2nd sign after pisces who care about how their exs feel about the breakup and want their exs to rem them in good light. Thus we will normally still stay in touch, try to be there when u msg. Cause if we let u down we do feel bad for a while......
Posted by ForeverlovemeYes, oh and I realise the only exception is if he has fire signs in moon mercury or mars. He might be more direct than diplomatic.Posted by Vixen2Posted by Jalent99I don't really care how an ex sees me...they are an ex for a reason. This is because I don't have a changes of heart....I have razor like vision....if you are true, genuine, kind, caring, we have stuff in common, we laugh, there is chemistry...it's on, I'm never lukewarm, wishy washy...it's all or nothing. Once I decide...then it's on, I don't backtrack. Someone would have to be an all out liar or shield his ulterior motives so well in order for me to "change my mind"....
Caps never like to be the bad guys, we will come up with all excuses to ease a breakup. I have done that a few times, and sometimes the excuse is easier for me to say than that i have a change of heart.....
I read somewhere that Caps are the 2nd sign after pisces who care about how their exs feel about the breakup and want their exs to rem them in good light. Thus we will normally still stay in touch, try to be there when u msg. Cause if we let u down we do feel bad for a while......
So in reality...Caps may be the wishy washy sign, that's essentially what is being said...
Not wishy washy. Just friendly. Then people mistake that for interest or lack of depending on the situation. Just because a relationship doesn't work out, doesn't mean I have to be mean or rude if that's not in my nature or who I am as a person in general.
Caps can have distinct lines with a person & function appropriatelyclick to expand
All of this thought for someone she only knows on line.
Smh
Smh
He's told you very directly that he doesn't want relationship with you. Move on to someone else
Thank you guys for your ideas. I know what you're saying. I thought of all the possibility. But I can;t seem to decide whether I should let go and ruin h beautiful thing we had or keep trying.
but there are things that I remember he said that make me think of giving it another chance.
He visited me once when I was in another state and then booked the ticket to visit me in my country. when he said do something big, he also told me that he was the one all the time making actions. So maybe this time I should do something. I read somewhere that caps are fond of big gestures. Is this right?
Since we parted, we didn't meet at all. We made up plans, but I didn't get the visa. then we broke up. We didnt contact each other for weeks. till he called me and asked me whether I want him to come over. we were together (via skype) for 3 months. then we got that shameful fight and he changed his mind.
He's very stubborn and pessimistic indeed. He thinks that we will never be in the same country. He has his moments dreaming of how we will move to a different country together, or me go to his country and settle there and start our own business and stuff.
He made me believe that he actually loved me. So this is what keeps me thinking about him.
I strongly believe in love and what I felt for him is very precious. Our time together was amazing.
but there are things that I remember he said that make me think of giving it another chance.
He visited me once when I was in another state and then booked the ticket to visit me in my country. when he said do something big, he also told me that he was the one all the time making actions. So maybe this time I should do something. I read somewhere that caps are fond of big gestures. Is this right?
Since we parted, we didn't meet at all. We made up plans, but I didn't get the visa. then we broke up. We didnt contact each other for weeks. till he called me and asked me whether I want him to come over. we were together (via skype) for 3 months. then we got that shameful fight and he changed his mind.
He's very stubborn and pessimistic indeed. He thinks that we will never be in the same country. He has his moments dreaming of how we will move to a different country together, or me go to his country and settle there and start our own business and stuff.
He made me believe that he actually loved me. So this is what keeps me thinking about him.
I strongly believe in love and what I felt for him is very precious. Our time together was amazing.
i think you're right. What we had is gone.
I just don't see the feasibility or practicality of a long distance relationship.
Posted by aulgaYou've only spent time (physically) once with eachother in all this time?.. seems to me this is a relationship that is difficult to sustain, and he's come to terms with that. The distance, time, and money that he probably doesn't have to help bridge the gap. It's all been wishful thinking upto this point. Plans and actions should've developed to bring you two closer together, long distance relationships like this is a waste of time imo.
Thank you guys for your ideas. I know what you're saying. I thought of all the possibility. But I can;t seem to decide whether I should let go and ruin h beautiful thing we had or keep trying.
but there are things that I remember he said that make me think of giving it another chance.
He visited me once when I was in another state and then booked the ticket to visit me in my country. when he said do something big, he also told me that he was the one all the time making actions. So maybe this time I should do something. I read somewhere that caps are fond of big gestures. Is this right?
Since we parted, we didn't meet at all. We made up plans, but I didn't get the visa. then we broke up. We didnt contact each other for weeks. till he called me and asked me whether I want him to come over. we were together (via skype) for 3 months. then we got that shameful fight and he changed his mind.
He's very stubborn and pessimistic indeed. He thinks that we will never be in the same country. He has his moments dreaming of how we will move to a different country together, or me go to his country and settle there and start our own business and stuff.
He made me believe that he actually loved me. So this is what keeps me thinking about him.
I strongly believe in love and what I felt for him is very precious. Our time together was amazing.
Posted by Greentea
You've only spent time (physically) once with eachother in all this time?.. seems to me this is a relationship that is difficult to sustain, and he's come to terms with that. The distance, time, and money that he probably doesn't have to help bridge the gap. It's all been wishful thinking upto this point. Plans and actions should've developed to bring you two closer together, long distance relationships like this is a waste of time imo.
We were together in the US. We spent couple of months together as friends. We developed liking for each other. We got physical for some days.
Then, I moved to another state. He came visit me before I leave the country and go home. We stayed couple of days together there. and it was fantastic. the rest was all through skype. We got to know each other really well.
We want to be close together. All we need is just time. He's pessimistic and I'm hopeful. That's it.
Another thing guys. He told me that he doesn't want to lose me totally. He wants that friend to stay there. He said that he doesn't want to know with whom I hang out/ date or see me with someone else. We can convert this into a friendship only in the future.
But as he now doesn't repond, does this mean that we can't be even friends?
Are capricron extremely jealous or is it just him?
But as he now doesn't repond, does this mean that we can't be even friends?
Are capricron extremely jealous or is it just him?
Posted by aulga
Another thing guys. He told me that he doesn't want to lose me totally. He wants that friend to stay there. He said that he doesn't want to know with whom I hang out/ date or see me with someone else. We can convert this into a friendship only in the future.
But as he now doesn't repond, does this mean that we can't be even friends?
Are capricron extremely jealous or is it just him?
He might be fading out.
Vixen gave you some very good advice.
Posted by truecapwhat is fading out? Like forgetting about me?Posted by aulga
Another thing guys. He told me that he doesn't want to lose me totally. He wants that friend to stay there. He said that he doesn't want to know with whom I hang out/ date or see me with someone else. We can convert this into a friendship only in the future.
But as he now doesn't repond, does this mean that we can't be even friends?
Are capricron extremely jealous or is it just him?
He might be fading out.
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My brain tells me that I should forget everything and I'm convinced. But some times I feel like maybe things can work out. I read the caps never change their minds. They're stubborn. I'm a libra so I'm very conscious of all the possibilities available.
Posted by Foreverlovemethis.
1. Don't travel there
2. He said he has no room in his life for you, any woman, a relationship
3. Typically a cap doesn't like asking for help, wouldn't accept your help even if you offered, and he would feel less than if you were supporting him. Yes occasionally you can find 1 that wants someone to take care of them, it's rare.
4. Move on please. I know it's hard. He's being direct with you
5. Realistically it you aren't moving or he's not moving a real relationship just isn't sustainable. There has to be some end date to the distance & that isn't mentioned.
Even if you were to make the trip as some grand gesture it is very possible that he won't see you while you are there. Then you'd be even more hurt/angry
Capricorn likes status. if you don't have it. well....it's INSTINCTUAL.
the rest of the planets/placements matter too. but the sign itself....status!!!
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