Capricorns Crappy Mood

I use to like my Capricorn friend and he use to like me until i denied him access to my hump. (wink wink) =;] from there he slept with another aries lady and fell in love got his heart broken, and i was like wooooooooooooh glad that wasnt me who broke his heart. Now he's just this sad sad man, nothing like he use to be. I tried to help him reinvent himself by piercing his eyebrow (i knew he would look and feel sexy with it) but now he wants to do way more extreme stuff like jump out of planes and anything to get an adrenalin rush. He's a different person now. He yells at me more. I never once really gotten angry with him, only the time when he was being annoying trying to be like his aries boyfriend making thats what she said jokes. Word of advise dont say that joke to a girl, its really not funny at all. He doesnt seem to understand me anymore, its almost as if hes in his own world. I feel like he puts on this fake happy facade.

It sucks because i understand why she left him but i dont think it will do much good in telling him. He still wants to bed this girl even though she clearly moved on and is treehumping another man. hehe

Is it normal for capricorns to run off with their love?(he went ghost) then come back when he needs us. Then he ran off again with his new aries friend. So im guessing when that falls apart he will run right back to us?

I hate people who just walk in and out of your life when its convenient..

Right now he's not happy. He's stuck in his thoughts. It will take him a while to process, analyze and deal with those thoughts. He will come back to himself when he is done and he is completely over her. He could be kicking himself for his role in the breakup or he could be analyzing a way to justify the breakup so he can feel better about it. It is like regrouping.

The adrenaline rush is a way of feeling alive. Right now he probably feels dead inside and is looking for an escape from that. He wants to come out of it, and is trying, but just doesn't really know how. Once the feelings/thoughts are processed, he will be normal again. Caps feel deeply and we can easily slip into a deep, dark depression. The only thing to do is leave them alone, don't hound them about it and they will work through it. I hope this doesn't sound contradictory, but also just let him know you are there for him, but just don't push him to talk. He knows you're there and that feels good to him, he appreciates it, but whether he talks or not is a hit or miss. We aren't comfortable with sharing vulnerabilities except for very, very few people with whom we have known for years and who have proved their trustworthiness.

Caps tend to come in and out of friends lives. To us, its like no time has passed. Once we are loyal to you, we always will be (unless you do something drastic to make us lose that loyalty). When he's around, just be happy to see him. Don't kiss his ass, just be genuinely happy.

Hope this helps.

Every time I see "Chachacha" I think it looks like "Cucaracha" and this song starts up in my head.

Hahaha...well, pretend I posted this one instead 🙂

WAIT This one, this one!

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Those guys are toasted lololol 😄

HUM
DON'T KNOW WHAT TO TELL YOU I HAVE ONE WOMAN I STILL HELP OUT WHEN SHE NEEDS IT AND I DON'T KNOW WHY. DON'T HAVE AN ANSWER SHE HAS COST ME OTHER RELATIONSHIPS
BUT IT ME COSTING THE RELASTIONSHIPS NOT HER
I HAVE NO ANSWER AND DON'T THINK I EVER WILL.
SORRY

He really hurt me. He yelled at me for something i never did very harshly and it ruined our connection. I'm not one to forgive someone who i have never ever attacked. This was completely offensive and hurtful. He cut me so deep i dont feel like i can ever left him back into my heart for that reason.

Posted by R24
I think truecap gave excellent advice also. But I have to wonder what kind of true friend would make all these "wink wink," "wooooooooh glad," "hehe" remarks in a post describing her friendship with the cap if she was completely empathetic to the cap guy's feeling after he suffered a heartbreak.

Plus she has complained on the scorp board about scorps wanting sex too much (the sexy scorp-thread) when she also talks about a gemini

I think she is just teasing and playing with the guy. Who knows. I mean why try to make him "feel sexy" by piercing his eyebrow, after she KNOWS the guy has been pining for her for a long time, so he picked the aries as option 2, then he got burned. So she is going to make him sexy, but he's still not sexy enough to have the op. No wonder the dude took up skydiving

Yeah i understand. heres why when i explained to him how i got my heart broken 2 weeks before he got his he didnt believe me he didnt want to feel my pain he cared about his friend who broke my heart way more than my broken heart. He wasnt being empathetic to me. I ignored that he obviously didnt care about my pain but i still attended to him now after how bad he treated me through his heart break i dont care about his pain and feelings he just look like a weak little girl. I was in so much pain i thought he was my close friend but he showed how much of an importance other things were. Im such a good friend i find myself getting taken advantage of because i treat friends like family.

Posted by ellessque
I agree with R24.

...and quite honestly, she's done drive by threads all over the boards.

I hardly think she was looking for REAL advice on how to figure out a "crappy cappy mood". Hell, she'll probably forget she even posted this.

I want people to relate to me. If you can relate i can forgive. These threads of my recently past experiences are there for a reason. Just me writing it out helps me. I don't really need to take the advice but just reading it gives me comfort and a sense of support which makes me happier and easier for me to forgive. I want to forgive these people. Because all these experiences i posted haunt me. Either with resentment or guilt. Either anger or hurt and i hate how it feels.

Posted by R24
Chachacha, it sounds like this cap fell in love with you. And he felt rejected. Maybe he felt teased since you said you liked him too before he made sexual advances. So rejected, he falls for the aries chick. She dumps him. He reconnects with you. You decide to help him be sexy. But he finds that you don't think he's sexy even with an eyebrow ring. So maybe he takes up extreme sports to get your attention or to deal with his heartache, but youre still not impressed. So he lashes out. Maybe that isn't fair, but it appears that he wants you, but realized nothing he does will ever get you to return the feelings, so he lashes out because of unrequited love. Its probably easier for him to sever ties than watch you with hungry eyes the rest of his life, and come so close, yet so far repeatedly.

^^^^Of course its pure speculation.

Wanting sex before a commitment isn't love. After he fell in love with that girl. It gave me a sense of confusion where as guys will fall out of love with you if you dont give them what they want and go and fall in love with a girl who did. I know were i went from i should've never fell for these type of guys. These guys who think their hard body. Now i know when you fall for a guy you cant fall for anyone of his friends cause their all the same. They flock together. Like attracts like. And i should've stopped the friendship the moment they disrespect me. I moved to this area 3 to 4 years ago and my life has been chaotic since. This area is just full of bad people.

Posted by R24

Posted by JTG1984BETA
Wtf are you talking about r24? I can't even follow because what you've said is a pile of shit.

You want to sling some shit JTG? Bring it.

Can;t help it that when I sling mine it goes over your head

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No, he's right. What you said is really fucking stupid. Are you sure you're 44??

And Chacha, your posts all over the boards are just asking for trolling. I wouldn't advise using a message board for journal like posts, as you've described. Go get a free journaling page and use that to vent your stories if that's what your goal is. You're just gonna hear a lot of bs from the troll brigade here.

Like we told you on the scorp board: Throw that kitty girl!!!
He wanted to be more than friends, but you kept the kitty, so he gets him some ram-kat, and gets burned.
To "help" him You pierce a needle through his eyebrow-- he probably didn't want to, but thought maybe he might have a shot at the kitty if he complied. But hell, naw, he's stuck with a hole in his eyebrow and still no kitty. Might as well jump out of a plane, make passive-aggressive jokes to annoy you, and put on a happy facade to save his pride.

Are you playing with him? Maybe not, but it seems that you love to use your kitty-power. You think its funny he wanted you sexually ("wink wink"), maybe you got a little joy that he got burned by the ram girl ("wooooooooh glad"), then when hes "just a sad man," you want to reinvent him your way so he can "feel sexy" but you still don't give him sex. So he reinvents himself and becomes an adrenalin junkie, and you



This is bullshit. I like you R24, but I think you're wrong in this case. She should NEVER regret not putting up the kitty and shouldn't have to just to get a guy.

Posted by R24
Chachacha, it sounds like this cap fell in love with you. And he felt rejected. Maybe he felt teased since you said you liked him too before he made sexual advances. So rejected, he falls for the aries chick. She dumps him. He reconnects with you. You decide to help him be sexy. But he finds that you don't think he's sexy even with an eyebrow ring. So maybe he takes up extreme sports to get your attention or to deal with his heartache, but youre still not impressed. So he lashes out. Maybe that isn't fair, but it appears that he wants you, but realized nothing he does will ever get you to return the feelings, so he lashes out because of unrequited love. Its probably easier for him to sever ties than watch you with hungry eyes the rest of his life, and come so close, yet so far repeatedly.

^^^^Of course its pure speculation.

Of course, this is plausible too. But I still don't think putting up the kitty is the answer.

Then again, maybe I should have read all the posts before I commented. 😄

Ahhhhh! I didn't know all that!!!!

Thanks R24! See, I knew I liked you! 🙂

Posted by capricornmoon
chachacha is a troll, it's so obvious. your gemini thread and this thread doesn't add up. trolls need to get a life, and stop stalking others, or get laid or something.

I was wondering that too. I almost mentioned that her posts are kinda weird. Mostly because they really are all over the place. Some of the things she brings up in the Aries forum make me wonder why the hell she's posting them to begin with. :/ I dunno, something's just weird.

Posted by R24
The remarks were not for her to take literally. Chachacha is the one who first used the "throw the kitty" phrase. She did it on a thread in the scorp board. Now she came over to the cap board saying how she "denied" the cap "access" to her "humps" in the first sentence or two in her 1st post. Taken in context with her other threads, it seems that she tries to use sex as power/manipulation. I'm sure she has reasons and issues that she will need to work through. However, her initial post was made under the pretense of being concerned about her cap friend's heartbreak. That was bullshit.

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Well if that's the case, then have a look see at this-

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/aries-are-too-much-3452465/
She and another bitch admit to playing around with men's emotions.

Pfft, whatev. Ain't taking this nutter seriously from here on out...