@Jhene
14 Years
If we're cool, we're cool and there is no need for constant everyday contact and when we talk it'll be like we never lost touch. If we're not cool, you definitely will have to chase me to call you or return your calls.
I agree with what everyone else said. Once I get to know someone's character and know its a long term friendship, I'm in for the long haul. And sometimes after getting to know someone's character, I realize I don't want to be around them and they get switched to the aquaintance category.
This recently happened with an aries friend of mine that I recently put in the acquaintance department...I got to know her, and now I just dont wana be close to her. She's a good person...but for some reason I just am so tired of the constant fire feeling...idk how to say it...but around her I need to be awake like awake and it annoys me...that I need to give so much, and pick up so much more without asking for it!!lol there's so much unsaid, and it rushes in me, guess its my pisces moon, but it is exhausting!! damn.
Its been happening with my boyfriend too. I don't know how to go about telling him I need space, but I put it in the 'we should make time for our friends'department...and things were getting better...BUT on Friday I had another ?_ce cold relapse'...i just switch off. so moody and detached, saying anything and everything thats on my mind...for some reason I wana c real emotion from him...I wana c him freak out, n get passionate about us!! But he just sits there talking n when he realizes I switched off...he says stuff like 'you know what, I'm not even gonna bother'omg i felt like screaming!!!! Guess thats the reason I love him...he's my match...I never get what I want with him...cz he knows exactly what I want, and what I need. buttt yesssss i lose interest with almost everyone.
If I start feeling like im being obligated to see them, to keep in contact and all...imma bounce!
Im perfect with a MUCH older Aries as a friend. Fire signs around my age are beyond draining and exhausting. Maybe Sag not as much and Leos the most imo. I just dont have that much energy but I admire them all for it. The energetic Aries that I know dont even drink coffee, nor do the Sags now that I think about it. The energy is amazing to me.
Yes@ the word obligated. If I start to feel that way in any relationship, im pulling back. My friend would hang under me all the time and Id say things to make sure he didnt feel obligated to be around me. I dont want folks feeling that way towards me either.
As far as the question, yes. I lose interest fast in people and things.
Hmmm, the Cap I was involved with was wayyyy to clingy/smothering. I lost interest in HIM because of it... ijs
Posted by GemStar05
Hmmm, the Cap I was involved with was wayyyy to clingy/smothering. I lost interest in HIM because of it... ijs
Im sure people lose interest in us all the time.
I can definitely see a Cap being clingy with a Gem lol.
i agree with everyone's view. Yes it takes alot to keep us interested im only sentimental if we have a tight bond from an intimate relationship mostly.
but i do get cussed at from time from some friends that i drift away for along time and they miss me alot but it works for some but not all. leo's get snippy and the i got to put them back in there place.
i think this idea plays into our intuitions a lot. i think we can see where things are headed early on which makes us feel like we can make decisions pretty quickly about who we keep and who we dont keep.
lol i guess your right @sanfroid totally agree with you .
aww ninja i was going to say thats so sweet of you then i noticed your a pisces . oh the flattery 🙂
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Im sitting here wonder do us caps loose interest in people fast or it just takes alot to keep us interested.
sometimes i get to so annoyed and bored with people i feel like drifting away. Even someone im dating but this is more in the early stages of dating seeing each other everyday and talking.Guess im calculating how far i can see this person staying in my life. Or maybe is just me not being connected to myself and people.
Something broken? random move swings or just takes awhile to feel connected .
Random but not so random Thought