Capricorns have me confused

Hello all Capricorn's!

When dealing with Merc in Capricorn men or women I noticed that they tend to like having a relationship even if they don't have contact with each other. For example, I got into an disagreement with my male Capricorn friend because I felt he was using me and told him I don't want to be friends anymore. He repeatedly for 2 weeks kept calling me and wanting to be friends. I gave him the satisfaction of telling him reasons he I did not want to be friends to move on and he tries to justify each situation I give him, basically manipulate my feelings. He then deletes me from fb social network (childish). 3 years later low and behold he calls me, expresses to me how he is doing so good and painting a picture like he is bigger then he is when I know the truth because we have actual friends. He is very sensitive. I recently was disrespectful to him hoping he would get the point but he sticks around. After two months, he's back again.

I know a girl with her merc in cap and she informed me that she is always on and off with all her friends and relationships. She comes back around after months of no speaking.

A male friend that I just met acts the exact way as the previous two I just spoke about.

These questions may not pertain to all caps but for the one's that it does please feel free to answer:

My question is why do Capricorns always leave and comeback, and won't let a relationship with someone go?
Why are they allowed to be emotional but when you get emotional with them it's a problem?
Why do some lie and paint a picture of them doing better then they are when that's not the reality?
Why do some come off as users?

Thanks for the responses, I appreciate them all.

Some of my cap friends look out for me and I look out for them. But by "use" I meant the friends that everything is about them. After they get what they needed from you, there's no contact until they need something again, but if you ask them for help, they say no, or are no where to be found.

But I think I have the point and really appreciate what I read.

Posted by scorp1110
Thanks for the responses, I appreciate them all.

Some of my cap friends look out for me and I look out for them. But by "use" I meant the friends that everything is about them. After they get what they needed from you, there's no contact until they need something again, but if you ask them for help, they say no, or are no where to be found.

But I think I have the point and really appreciate what I read.

I make an effort not to be that way. I try to be there for my friends - with caps there is a sense of loyalty that is unbreakable (unless it is a forced break). However, if someone's not there for me, I might have a hard time being there for them (then guilt sets in and I reach out after saying no).

Posted by scorp1110
Thanks for the responses, I appreciate them all.

Some of my cap friends look out for me and I look out for them. But by "use" I meant the friends that everything is about them. After they get what they needed from you, there's no contact until they need something again, but if you ask them for help, they say no, or are no where to be found.

But I think I have the point and really appreciate what I read.

A Cappy saying "no" when you need them? Thats interesting.

Also, what are they using you for? Advice? Money? Childcare?


Me personally, I dont ask for things Im not willing to give.

I've been used for money, and advice.

But the money situation made me force a break between my friend and I, which I refuse to allow to re-open.

I guess other traits play heavy also.

Why do Capricorns always leave and comeback, and won't let a relationship with someone go?

there are a few i've left for good and wont ever go back to. but for the most part i dont see reducing consistent contact with a friend as anything permanent.

Why are they allowed to be emotional but when you get emotional with them it's a problem?

weird... i would think the opposite is the case if a problem at all.

Why do some lie and paint a picture of them doing better then they are when that's not the reality?

dunno about this one. If i have nothing uplifting to say, then i'll be very short with whats going on in my life and optimistic about the effort life requires.

Why do some come off as users?

we are resourceful, but i hope that most are with me on this one... we are very mindful about the favors that we owe and dont ever forget. it's give and take. anyone that has ever given to me... i make a point of trying to help out when i can and without being asked by them.