Cheating, lying Capricorn may have fooled me once, but it won't happen again!

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TrulyTaurusWoman
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If you are dating a Capricorn man, read through so many of the posts on this site, because it is scary how accurate other people's observations can be. I dated a Capricorn man for over a year. We talked everyday, messaged throughout the day, and had an amazing sex life. He was very moody and when things were good, they were really good. When he was in a bad mood, he would accuse me of cheating, talking to another guy, or not loving him anymore. Well after a bad mood episode that went really bad, we broke things off. Four months later, another woman contacted me to say that she left him, they were together for 2 years (while I thought I was dating him exclusively - overlap) and that he would probably be calling me now for a booty call. I called her immediately, we met, I actually liked this poor woman, and we compared notes. We were both victims of this guy and it wasn't either of our faults. She found some of our messages 6 months into my relationship, confronted him, but never told me unfortunately. He told her he broke things off with me and I was clueless. Meanwhile, toward the end of their relationship she discovered he was sleeping with additional women while he was sleeping with us. I hadn't heard from him since last July when we broke up but last month, I get a friend request on Snapchat using his name. I didn't respond and 4 weeks later, I get a message from him on Kik asking how I've been, etc. I sent him a response that pretty much said IDFWU. Just this week now I get another request on Snapchat from a name I don't recognize. I sent it to this other woman and she sent me back a screenshot of her contacts on Snapchat and it is a 2nd account he has on Snapchat. The guy is a DOG! After our meeting, this woman confronted him with the lies we figured out, etc... I find it so insulting that he knows that I know he cheated on me, yet he thinks that I am stupid enough to go back to that party with him. I am angry but open to any great ideas on how to respond. 🙂 Help! I want to have fun with this.
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I am sorry for everything that happened to you and the other woman,but...damn, this is not cap behavior, this is a sick man with a self esteem so low that you better forget his existence totally, it seems his live is already miserable.

I actually feel pity for him, cause you two girls are strong and you have learned your lesson, but he might remain like this forever, a lost miserable man 😢

Just go on with your life, don't respond, you are way better than this.
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TrulyTaurusWoman
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Posted by justlikeheaven
I am sorry for everything that happened to you and the other woman,but...damn, this is not cap behavior, this is a sick man with a self esteem so low that you better forget his existence totally, it seems his live is already miserable.

I actually feel pity for him, cause you two girls are strong and you have learned your lesson, but he might remain like this forever, a lost miserable man 😢

Just go on with your life, don't respond, you are way better than this.
You are right. Thank you. That is solid advice.
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Posted by kitten_
There is nothing to do with astrology, and Capricorn are more suitable to be victim of cheating. Not the other way around.

By the way, what is the sign of the 2nd woman?
The other woman is a Leo. She has caught him cheating over 10 times and continually goes back to him. She would catch him, he would tell her he only loves her, that he never tells any of these other women that he loves them, blah blah blah. One day she came across a letter that he wrote me and realized that he was lying to her. She pulled my phone number off of his phone and started texting me. At first, I thought she was crazy, but she is sadly in love with this guy who needs the attention from multiple women all the time. It was over for me but it did hurt to know that nothing that I thought was special really was. One thing that did help was comparing notes. It slammed that chapter of my life shut.

There were things that I thought were misunderstandings that were actually just be lies he told me and mental breakdowns to divert my attention from what was really going on. I hate drama so this love triangle isn't my style . He is trying to pull me into something by contacting me but I am just going to block him and move on. Thanks.