@Gemitati
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Just admired my Cap husbands looks
Astrological Traits of Capricorns and Physical Attraction
Capricorn men are often seen as attractive due to their confidence and classic features. Their grounded and dependable nature can make them physically appealing, even if their personality is more reserved or lazy. Physical attraction varies, but Capricorn's loyalty and stability often enhance their overall appeal.
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you're like the elvis presley and priscilla if priscilla had stayed married to him
Posted by lisabethur8
you're like the elvis presley and priscilla if priscilla had stayed married to him
Not even close..,
Posted by lisabethur8
you're like the elvis presley and priscilla if priscilla had stayed married to him
If priscilla was giving Colonal Tom blowies in bathroom stalls while Elvis performs. Sure, yeah exactly alike.
Posted by lisabethur8
you're like the elvis presley and priscilla if priscilla had stayed married to him
If priscilla was giving Colonal Tom blowies in bathroom stalls while Elvis performs. Sure, yeah exactly alike.
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😆
Posted by Gemitati
Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!
How long since your transition? Do you have the phantom limb sensation like amputee's but for your missing dick??
Posted by Gemitati
Being married to him for 24 years...Having an awesome child together.
Him being a lazy af but people have worse..
Looked at him just now seeing that he is such a good looking man!
Just having sex died in him 10 years ago.
I am physically could be attracted to him. Except he is so frigging lazy...
He hate word ‘do’ and he prefer not doing anything.,.
He loves me. I think it more like because I do everything so he doesn’t have to...
He is living in lala land because I let him.
Ok! Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!
When he changed towards you, did you react? Did you fight to make things work or did you just let it all happen?
Men need women to fight for them. Otherwise they feel useless and inferior. I’m not saying Men are not manly or tough. But they have feelings too and have needs. When did everything go wrong for you two and do you think maybe you could bring the relationship back to a point where you could be happy together or is it a lost cause?
Posted by Gemitati
Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!How long since your transition? Do you have the phantom limb sensation like amputee's but for your missing dick??
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Yep! I was born as a dog and my owners paid to make me a human!
Posted by Gemitati
Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!How long since your transition? Do you have the phantom limb sensation like amputee's but for your missing dick??
Yep! I was born as a dog and my owners paid to make me a human!
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Yeah this checks out. Explains why your such a dirty bitch 😉
Posted by Gemitati
Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!How long since your transition? Do you have the phantom limb sensation like amputee's but for your missing dick??
Yep! I was born as a dog and my owners paid to make me a human!
Yeah this checks out. Explains why your such a dirty bitch 😉
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And what explains why are you just a regular bitch IF you are happy?
Posted by Gemitati
Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!How long since your transition? Do you have the phantom limb sensation like amputee's but for your missing dick??
Yep! I was born as a dog and my owners paid to make me a human!
Yeah this checks out. Explains why your such a dirty bitch 😉
And what explains why are you just a regular bitch IF you are happy?
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Your the one admitting to being a female dog, not me. LOL
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Posted by Gemitati
Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!How long since your transition? Do you have the phantom limb sensation like amputee's but for your missing dick??
Yep! I was born as a dog and my owners paid to make me a human!
Men aren't dogs.
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Tell this to @ladyNeptune!
She thinks they are...
Posted by Gemitati
Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!How long since your transition? Do you have the phantom limb sensation like amputee's but for your missing dick??
Yep! I was born as a dog and my owners paid to make me a human!
Yeah this checks out. Explains why your such a dirty bitch 😉
And what explains why are you just a regular bitch IF you are happy?
Your the one admitting to being a female dog, not me. LOL
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Get a life! Don’t ask me how. Ask your cougar mommy...
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Ummm stress & life & raising kids is tough on a marriage. Granted. I can’t imagine no sex though. I thought my ex had a low libido but seriously we still had sex at least once a month or two even in the hardest times. From my experience, (both marriages) when the sex becomes not important and is happening less & less often, it is because there is a problem in the marriage. It is just a symptom.
I’ve known guys who were married a long time had same thing no sex forever, but it was not them. Wife didn’t want it. They cheated, got caught & it ended the marriage. Almost like an excuse.. they didn’t want him anyway.
If you like sex, how in the hell does this happen? I just can’t imagine. You never touch? You don’t sleep in the same bed? Kid is your life?
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Well...all stress mentioned above...I am 10 years younger. So I was active. He participated. Then all stress and I was like it’s ik...it’s not important as much anymore.
Years went by and I’ve looked at the Scorpio...just looked! And something happened...and NOTHING physical happened for frigging 5 years! Except shit hit the fan! Plutonically.
Later all that was boiled up for 5 years just spilled over.
Yes! Guilty as charhed,..
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
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Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
Posted by Gemitati
Being married to him for 24 years...Having an awesome child together.
Him being a lazy af but people have worse..
Looked at him just now seeing that he is such a good looking man!
Just having sex died in him 10 years ago.
I am physically could be attracted to him. Except he is so frigging lazy...
He hate word ‘do’ and he prefer not doing anything.,.
He loves me. I think it more like because I do everything so he doesn’t have to...
He is living in lala land because I let him.
Ok! Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!
OMG.. That's gonna be my life if I keep on with the Libra. I wanna throw in a "haha" but it's not even funny.
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So talk to me! Don’t make a mistakes on your own. Learn from others...ask’
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
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Yes
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Ummm stress & life & raising kids is tough on a marriage. Granted. I can’t imagine no sex though. I thought my ex had a low libido but seriously we still had sex at least once a month or two even in the hardest times. From my experience, (both marriages) when the sex becomes not important and is happening less & less often, it is because there is a problem in the marriage. It is just a symptom.
I’ve known guys who were married a long time had same thing no sex forever, but it was not them. Wife didn’t want it. They cheated, got caught & it ended the marriage. Almost like an excuse.. they didn’t want him anyway.
If you like sex, how in the hell does this happen? I just can’t imagine. You never touch? You don’t sleep in the same bed? Kid is your life?
Well...all stress mentioned above...I am 10 years younger. So I was active. He participated. Then all stress and I was like it’s ik...it’s not important as much anymore.
Years went by and I’ve looked at the Scorpio...just looked! And something happened...and NOTHING physical happened for frigging 5 years! Except shit hit the fan! Plutonically.
Later all that was boiled up for 5 years just spilled over.
Yes! Guilty as charhed,..
That’s when the marriage was over. When the sex stopped. Cuz no way in hell would I have said that was okay with me.
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Good for you! I could care less. I was busy putting life togjether and serve everyone!
I forgot about sex...somehow...bit NOW I hear you loud and clear!
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
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He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He is 12/26/55
Just for those who wants to know.
Posted by SpaceBird
I don't judge you on your life. It's yours. Live how you want ...
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I am impressed you got so far together.
The 26 vs 37 was not a good idea admit it.
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
Suppose he wants sex again, would you do him
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NO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
I meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.
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Ask again. I don’t get it.
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
Suppose he wants sex again, would you do him
NO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.
Is he attractive
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That’s the title of the post! Yes!!!
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
I meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.
Ask again. I don’t get it.
I was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.
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No hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
I meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.
Ask again. I don’t get it.
I was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.
No hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!
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And he never got a child before...but with mea.,.
Posted by Gemitati
He is 12/26/55Just for those who wants to know.
So you are in your early 50s
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I 51. 5/26/66
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
I meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.
Ask again. I don’t get it.
I was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.
No hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!
4th marriage at 37 is still a lot in 14 years. I started at 24 & have still only had 2! Are you saying his mother ruined the first 3 marriages?
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Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
I meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.
Ask again. I don’t get it.
I was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.
No hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!
4th marriage at 37 is still a lot in 14 years. I started at 24 & have still only had 2! Are you saying his mother ruined the first 3 marriages?
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No! In-laws did. Plus his good looks and craving for adventures...there is no one to blame for. Really!
Posted by SpaceBird
Makes you think though ..find a mate like ...all the sexy goesWe had it all! But it ended.
So sad 😢
no it's wonderful. Find someone you respect ...a friend ... a kindred spirit..a good person ...that you can share your mind heart and soul with ..shared values ...and most of all you laugh together.
You can have the sexy times for a few yrs....maybe for some it lasts for good but not all ..but the above is most important.
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Posted by Gemitati
He is 12/26/55Just for those who wants to know.
So you are in your early 50s
I 51. 5/26/66
you look fab
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Why! What?
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
I meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.
Ask again. I don’t get it.
I was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.
No hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!
4th marriage at 37 is still a lot in 14 years. I started at 24 & have still only had 2! Are you saying his mother ruined the first 3 marriages?
No! In-laws did. Plus his good looks and craving for adventures...there is no one to blame for. Really!
Okay just trying to understand. What does craving for adventures mean?
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He was a playboy. Until he met me. I said no other women or i am out. He was ready because I think he was tired of shit!
So for 24 years together I had no worries about him cheating. He still adores me but I love another man...
shit!
Posted by Gemitati
He is 12/26/55Just for those who wants to know.
So you are in your early 50s
I 51. 5/26/66
you look fab
Why! What?
OMG accept a compliment....you so humble!
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I can’t. I don’t except compliments. I have a mirror. I don’t except ‘hi beautiful’ because I know when i look like shit or I look fabulous!
Scorp don’t say it. He stares...silently...
Posted by SpaceBird
Makes you think though ..find a mate like ...all the sexy goesSo sad 😢
no it's wonderful. Find someone you respect ...a friend ... a kindred spirit..a good person ...that you can share your mind heart and soul with ..shared values ...and most of all you laugh together.
You can have the sexy times for a few yrs....maybe for some it lasts for good but not all ..but the above is most important.
Why can’t you have all that & love. I did for a lot of years..
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I love Scorpio! He consumed me and I give no shit about anything anymore!
That’s why...
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
I meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.
Ask again. I don’t get it.
I was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.
No hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!
4th marriage at 37 is still a lot in 14 years. I started at 24 & have still only had 2! Are you saying his mother ruined the first 3 marriages?
No! In-laws did. Plus his good looks and craving for adventures...there is no one to blame for. Really!
Okay just trying to understand. What does craving for adventures mean?
He was a playboy. Until he met me. I said no other women or i am out. He was ready because I think he was tired of shit!
So for 24 years together I had no worries about him cheating. He still adores me but I love another man...
shit!
Playboy? And then the sex dropped?
Hmm so he was getting off on promiscuity and then when it was time to wrap that up it killed the vibe
Sounds karmic
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Idk. He lasted first decade. And there is nothing karmic about it. Women were all over him so he was at service.
Posted by Juliiette
There's no way he doesn't know something. Unless he is insanely stupid. And he is in a way fine with it as long as you are there for him.
I could try and deny it because he does ask me where I am going...but whatever answer I give him - I don’t think he is even listening...
I can’t tell he knows. Suspecting maybe.
I won’t ask. 🤣
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
I meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.
Ask again. I don’t get it.
I was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.
No hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!
4th marriage at 37 is still a lot in 14 years. I started at 24 & have still only had 2! Are you saying his mother ruined the first 3 marriages?
No! In-laws did. Plus his good looks and craving for adventures...there is no one to blame for. Really!
Okay just trying to understand. What does craving for adventures mean?
He was a playboy. Until he met me. I said no other women or i am out. He was ready because I think he was tired of shit!
So for 24 years together I had no worries about him cheating. He still adores me but I love another man...
shit!
Playboy? And then the sex dropped?
Hmm so he was getting off on promiscuity and then when it was time to wrap that up it killed the vibe
Sounds karmic
It doesn’t make sense to me.
Which part
He was a playboy, 14 years with Gem he wants no sex and just settled for being cared for. It’s like he gave up, he wS beaten down & I tell ya my dad was a Cap. This behavior of getting beaten down makes no sense!
My dad was a playboy for 20 years between marriages, second marriage totally in love but he was ALWAYS in charge and sex omg. He was not dead there.. so i understand. It wasn’t until he was dying that he had to accept being cared for & that was still hard.
That is what surprises me.
Unles it's the playboy life style that turned him on.
Gemt did say he wa active for a decade in their marriage.
Maybe it is the age and hitting overdrive.
Well it would’ve been midlife, and perhaps he was facing things he didn’t want to deal with. My dad got married to my stepmom mid 50’s and he was always full of life and on the go until he got sick and had no choice. So it just seems strange to me. My bf is a Cap in that midlife crisis range , but giving up no - he may shut down for a bit, and then he has new ideas & new goals to reach for. So—? Idk
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I said that I had best sex with Cap who isn’t my husband and I was shocked!
My impression of Caps was that they are lazy in bed...boy was I wrong!!!
This is when I said astrology has no idea about signs sexual abilities...
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Thats what I was thinking, 1 week, ok... 2 weeks and bye!! 🤣 right ? "how did she let him go so long without sex".. I mean love is love but sex is part of love. Being with that person completely naked and know that you belong to each other.. 😍
My Sag mars and piscis Venus.
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
I meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.
Ask again. I don’t get it.
I was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.
No hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!
4th marriage at 37 is still a lot in 14 years. I started at 24 & have still only had 2! Are you saying his mother ruined the first 3 marriages?
No! In-laws did. Plus his good looks and craving for adventures...there is no one to blame for. Really!
Okay just trying to understand. What does craving for adventures mean?
He was a playboy. Until he met me. I said no other women or i am out. He was ready because I think he was tired of shit!
So for 24 years together I had no worries about him cheating. He still adores me but I love another man...
shit!
Playboy? And then the sex dropped?
Hmm so he was getting off on promiscuity and then when it was time to wrap that up it killed the vibe
Sounds karmic
It doesn’t make sense to me.
Which part
He was a playboy, 14 years with Gem he wants no sex and just settled for being cared for. It’s like he gave up, he wS beaten down & I tell ya my dad was a Cap. This behavior of getting beaten down makes no sense!
My dad was a playboy for 20 years between marriages, second marriage totally in love but he was ALWAYS in charge and sex omg. He was not dead there.. so i understand. It wasn’t until he was dying that he had to accept being cared for & that was still hard.
That is what surprises me.
Unles it's the playboy life style that turned him on.
Gemt did say he wa active for a decade in their marriage.
Maybe it is the age and hitting overdrive.
Well it would’ve been midlife, and perhaps he was facing things he didn’t want to deal with. My dad got married to my stepmom mid 50’s and he was always full of life and on the go until he got sick and had no choice. So it just seems strange to me. My bf is a Cap in that midlife crisis range , but giving up no - he may shut down for a bit, and then he has new ideas & new goals to reach for. So—? Idk
I said that I had best sex with Cap who isn’t my husband and I was shocked!
My impression of Caps was that they are lazy in bed...boy was I wrong!!!
This is when I said astrology has no idea about signs sexual abilities...
Lol. Hmmmm sex with my Cap is 😍😍😍
I thought that’s why @xysaturn wanted to see his chart to figure out why he would react this way because it doesn’t make sense. Ah but it is what it is. Life goes on ya know?
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It doesn’t make ANY sense does it?
And life is a bitch...that’s why.
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
I meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.
Ask again. I don’t get it.
I was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.
No hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!
4th marriage at 37 is still a lot in 14 years. I started at 24 & have still only had 2! Are you saying his mother ruined the first 3 marriages?
No! In-laws did. Plus his good looks and craving for adventures...there is no one to blame for. Really!
Okay just trying to understand. What does craving for adventures mean?
He was a playboy. Until he met me. I said no other women or i am out. He was ready because I think he was tired of shit!
So for 24 years together I had no worries about him cheating. He still adores me but I love another man...
shit!
Playboy? And then the sex dropped?
Hmm so he was getting off on promiscuity and then when it was time to wrap that up it killed the vibe
Sounds karmic
It doesn’t make sense to me.
Which part
He was a playboy, 14 years with Gem he wants no sex and just settled for being cared for. It’s like he gave up, he wS beaten down & I tell ya my dad was a Cap. This behavior of getting beaten down makes no sense!
My dad was a playboy for 20 years between marriages, second marriage totally in love but he was ALWAYS in charge and sex omg. He was not dead there.. so i understand. It wasn’t until he was dying that he had to accept being cared for & that was still hard.
That is what surprises me.
Unles it's the playboy life style that turned him on.
Gemt did say he wa active for a decade in their marriage.
Maybe it is the age and hitting overdrive.
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Actually I don’t recall now. I was young, crazy and in love. So I haven’t been noticing who starts it!
It’s all so blurry now.
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
Suppose he wants sex again, would you do him
NO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.
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Are you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
Suppose he wants sex again, would you do him
NO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.
Are you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?
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Million percent! I wish he did...
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
Suppose he wants sex again, would you do him
NO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.
Are you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?
Million percent! I wish he did...
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Why did you marry him?
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
Suppose he wants sex again, would you do him
NO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.
Are you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?
Million percent! I wish he did...
Why did you marry him?
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I’ve loved him to pieces! Like...fun and generose man who acted like a man!
He grabbed my ass and moved me with himself and it felt right!
It lasted 17 years! Well...even in sexless marriage we were in tune. Too much stress, I was ok with that until...you know the rest...
Apparently we grew older and became different people and that’s that!
Posted by UnicornSag
I told you before, this reminds me of my parents lol they different with age tho and not so big gap between...my mom is 2 years younger than your husband...my dad is the one as well who did nothing when it comes to sex life. And they had no sex life for as long as I can remember, that means very long time ago from childhood. And my mom snapped out of it in her 50's finally?! He's also perfectly fine with just laying around and doing absolutely nothing! He doesn't care either that she finds someone else. In fact I told him she did once, no reaction! Why I got involved was cause she faked up my life at that time and I couldn't stand that guy being around 24h! I'm glad she got life on her own finally and been telling her much earlier to do so but for whatever reason she wasn't doing it. So I can understand this kind of man completely cause I have one in my house and I never ever want to be with man who's like that! So in the end it has nothing to do with sign, it has only thing to do with personality of those people. I don't know how do people stay with those who completely reject sex or don't even bother doing it...I know I couldn't. It's not base for good life for sure but it's a mandatory part of life for me at least! I couldn't stand a guy for just few months who was like this, can't imagine being with one for years!
I am glad you ‘get’ it! Because most people don’t!
Is your mom alone now or with a partner?
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
Suppose he wants sex again, would you do him
NO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.
Are you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?
Million percent! I wish he did...
Why did you marry him?
I’ve loved him to pieces! Like...fun and generose man who acted like a man!
He grabbed my ass and moved me with himself and it felt right!
It lasted 17 years! Well...even in sexless marriage we were in tune. Too much stress, I was ok with that until...you know the rest...
Apparently we grew older and became different people and that’s that!
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That's sad to hear. You say you were okay with the way your marriage was going until the Scorp came along? So you had no complaints before?
I think the moment you got attracted to the Scorp, should have been a wake up call for you. That there was something missing in your marriage. Did you ever attempt to fix the problems there?
Posted by RooSagicorn
He stopped having sex & you said ok?For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Ok. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Was it an arranged marriage
Not at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
And he is a cap....
No kidding! Crazy!
4th at 37 and a cap
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
That’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.
I wonder why
He is still happy/go/lucky man!
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
Suppose he wants sex again, would you do him
NO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.
Are you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?
Million percent! I wish he did...
Why did you marry him?
I’ve loved him to pieces! Like...fun and generose man who acted like a man!
He grabbed my ass and moved me with himself and it felt right!
It lasted 17 years! Well...even in sexless marriage we were in tune. Too much stress, I was ok with that until...you know the rest...
Apparently we grew older and became different people and that’s that!
That's sad to hear. You say you were okay with the way your marriage was going until the Scorp came along? So you had no complaints before?
I think the moment you got attracted to the Scorp, should have been a wake up call for you. That there was something missing in your marriage. Did you ever attempt to fix the problems there?
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No. The problem was so old and established and I didn’t know it can change! I wasn’t looking for a change.
It came totally unexpectedly!
And blood boiled over the brain.
Don’t forget 5 years of friendship and just nothing else...
Posted by UnicornSag
I told you before, this reminds me of my parents lol they different with age tho and not so big gap between...my mom is 2 years younger than your husband...my dad is the one as well who did nothing when it comes to sex life. And they had no sex life for as long as I can remember, that means very long time ago from childhood. And my mom snapped out of it in her 50's finally?! He's also perfectly fine with just laying around and doing absolutely nothing! He doesn't care either that she finds someone else. In fact I told him she did once, no reaction! Why I got involved was cause she faked up my life at that time and I couldn't stand that guy being around 24h! I'm glad she got life on her own finally and been telling her much earlier to do so but for whatever reason she wasn't doing it. So I can understand this kind of man completely cause I have one in my house and I never ever want to be with man who's like that! So in the end it has nothing to do with sign, it has only thing to do with personality of those people. I don't know how do people stay with those who completely reject sex or don't even bother doing it...I know I couldn't. It's not base for good life for sure but it's a mandatory part of life for me at least! I couldn't stand a guy for just few months who was like this, can't imagine being with one for years!I am glad you ‘get’ it! Because most people don’t!
Is your mom alone now or with a partner?
I'm not really sure what she's doing cause she's very closed about everything but I think she's seeing one man now, she mentions him a lot and sees him quite often as well. And I mean seeing only cause my parents as divorced still live together like I wrote before. Weird shit...but it's basically cause of the apartment only,neither one can afford to buy another right now.
Oh yeah I get it...it's easy to be judgmental and not look for reasons behind it, but when you do look and even more when you know real life examples of such things...I can't really judge
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I don't judge her either. Her situation is pitiable actually and I feel for both the parties involved. I do think that a lot of marriages can be saved if the parties make it a priority to focus on each other's needs and to remain interested in each other.
I don't know what I would do in a similar situation, but I would try to not complicate it any further.
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Being married to him for 24 years...
Having an awesome child together.
Him being a lazy af but people have worse..
Looked at him just now seeing that he is such a good looking man!
Just having sex died in him 10 years ago.
I am physically could be attracted to him. Except he is so frigging lazy...
He hate word ‘do’ and he prefer not doing anything.,.
He loves me. I think it more like because I do everything so he doesn’t have to...
He is living in lala land because I let him.
Ok! Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!